Posted by UndineWait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?
Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him.
You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!
Ah well, wait a few more days....
Posted by Mamita91Oh...was it just loneliness?Posted by Undine
Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him.
You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!
Ah well, wait a few more days....
Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?click to expand
Posted by Mamita91You must ask yourself on the deepest, truest, of levels one very important question:
I miss him. It's been just over 2 weeks since he broke up with me and it hurts. Everything reminds me of him, like roast potatoes that we used to make together. I am hurt that he gave no warning that he doesn't love me, and came out of nowhere.
I've got to work from home now for at least a month because of coronavirus, and my housemates have all moved to their home but I have no home to go to. It feels terribly lonely here. I'm guessing he has not been able too find a job because of coronavorus, and will probably have to move to his parents in his hometown if he hasn't done so already. He is also depressed and with anxiety.. Should I reach out and see how he is?
Previous post here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-boyfriend-left-me--13653541/
Posted by UndineI am in love with him :/Posted by Mamita91Posted by Undine
Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him.
You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!
Ah well, wait a few more days....
Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?
Oh...was it just loneliness?![]()
I thought you were in love with him. If it's just loneliness, go ahead, write him....click to expand
Posted by TheApparitionIt was the feeling of having someone there by my side, someone who could confide in, how I felt around him, listening to him talk about his passions and nerding out together, and our dream and talks of living together elsewhere...Posted by Mamita91
I miss him. It's been just over 2 weeks since he broke up with me and it hurts. Everything reminds me of him, like roast potatoes that we used to make together. I am hurt that he gave no warning that he doesn't love me, and came out of nowhere.
I've got to work from home now for at least a month because of coronavirus, and my housemates have all moved to their home but I have no home to go to. It feels terribly lonely here. I'm guessing he has not been able too find a job because of coronavorus, and will probably have to move to his parents in his hometown if he hasn't done so already. He is also depressed and with anxiety.. Should I reach out and see how he is?
Previous post here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-boyfriend-left-me--13653541/
You must ask yourself on the deepest, truest, of levels one very important question:
Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?
Many times the answer to that question is, in fact, not the person specifically.
Only you, and you alone, can find that answer. And, only once you find said answer will you be able to understand what needs to be done in order for you to move beyond your current situation.
You owe it to yourself to find the answer... whenever you're ready.click to expand
Posted by Mamita91I know :-). Then you have to write him less, because every time you do, the way he responds will remind you that your love is unrequited!Posted by UndinePosted by Mamita91Posted by Undine
Nah...go and roast some potatoes that won't remind you of him.
You are not his nanny or his therapist. Don't pretend you are doing it for him!
Ah well, wait a few more days....
Wait a few more days to message him, or until this loneliness subsides?
Oh...was it just loneliness?![]()
I thought you were in love with him. If it's just loneliness, go ahead, write him....
I am in love with him :/click to expand
Posted by UndineI think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.
Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?
One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.
They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine
Posted by Mamita91I know, it's heartbreaking. Make sure you look after yourself, and get some sleep too. Only time will heal it. Have you tried doing more things with your friends ? Was about to suggest a holiday, but reality caught up with me :-).Posted by Undine
Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?
One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.
They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine
I think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.click to expand
Posted by EvilhunterHe's a pisces with aqua moon and venus in aries. I'm taurus with aries moon, cancer venus and Mercury. Any insight?
What’s his zodiac sign?
Posted by UndineThank you Undine, this helped me sleep better despite my tearsPosted by Mamita91Posted by Undine
Is it him, the memories created with him, the feelings had with him, or the imaginings of what could be with him that are genuinely being missed?
One cannot miss memories or imaginary things.
They are in your brain for as long as you remember or imagine
I think it's all of the above, it's evertime I'm doing something I picture him by my side doing It with me. I go to bed as if I'm still in his arms and then realise he's gone and never had feelings for me. It's realising that our talks of traveling together and even living together are never going to happen. And also how I felt so happy and we were so silly together, and would stay up talking låte into the night.
I know, it's heartbreaking. Make sure you look after yourself, and get some sleep too. Only time will heal it. Have you tried doing more things with your friends ? Was about to suggest a holiday, but reality caught up with me :-).
Imagine he is infected with Covid19 and lies in a hospital. His lungs are filling with pus. He's drowning! And some entity gives you the power to decide: 1) you'll never see him again, but he will recover and find love eventually; Or 2) he will love you till the day he dies...which is happen be tomorrow...What would you choose?click to expand
Posted by Mamita91Try being cold hearted with him.Posted by Evilhunter
What’s his zodiac sign?
He's a pisces with aqua moon and venus in aries. I'm taurus with aries moon, cancer venus and Mercury. Any insight?click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraMoving on can be so hard at times.
Hang in there, you'll get over him. It takes time.
Posted by EvilhunterCold hearted because of his aqua moon?Posted by Mamita91Posted by Evilhunter
What’s his zodiac sign?
He's a pisces with aqua moon and venus in aries. I'm taurus with aries moon, cancer venus and Mercury. Any insight?
Try being cold hearted with him.click to expand
Posted by Mamita91Yes, exactly. Be a lady and go cold hearted. When the piscis in him kicks in he’s gonna run towards your arms.Posted by EvilhunterPosted by Mamita91Posted by Evilhunter
What’s his zodiac sign?
He's a pisces with aqua moon and venus in aries. I'm taurus with aries moon, cancer venus and Mercury. Any insight?
Try being cold hearted with him.
Cold hearted because of his aqua moon?click to expand
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