Mixed signals from Pisces man

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by aquaLOVE88 on Monday, April 18, 2016 and has 44 replies.
Ok so i have been checking this website for over a year now and i finally registered
i met this Pisces man at a friends gathering and he was so sweet to me showing me the place and looking at me the whole time and trying to open a conversation with me it was nice and the next week the same thing happened being sweet to me and everything
so i decided to text him thanking him for the tour and he was SO HAPPY that i texted him... we kept texted for a couple of days then i texted me (I am happy that there is a good man out there like u. i think i like u)
AND HE DISAPPEARED

What should i do?
Thank u so much i really really like this guy
What sort of things were you texting him about before you told him you liked him, was it all smooth and friendly, free flowing conversation? How old is he? Do you know for sure he is single? I know I am a woman, but I'm friendly to everyone and have sometimes given off the wrong impression in the past ..just saying. Have you talked to him since ?
@piscespoppy thank you for the reply
Texting was really smooth we talked about his job and what he likes to do for fun and he told me that he is single right now he said (right now i am single Winking ) with a wink!! Since the last text that i told him i like him he did not respond and i did not do anything that was 4 days ago and he is 28

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Oh well that seems odd then, maybe he has been chatting to other ladies too ? Or may be he is just busy with something, although I would just leave it that he has your number..yes? Just do your own thing, hes a man, if he likes you he will chat to you again ok, don't worry yourself over it, just give him some 'space' youl see x
@piscespoppy thank u again
He is not chatting to anyone i know that he is not so social and he likes to be alone all the time
I will not text him or say anything I will just wait
But do u think he will respond?
Ive chatted to other Pisces male friends before and I found that they tend to be all friendly and then disappeared now and again, don't worry they usually come around again normally, if he does, just keep it light, your an Aquarius I'm an Aquarius moon, makes me quite aloof sometimes, perhaps he found it hard to feel a connection with you on a deeper level, were very perceptive, I don't know hun, just leave it a couple more days, do your own thing for now, ok x
@piscespoppy thank u so much for helping i hope he will reply i really like him
Posted by aquaLOVE88

But do u think he will respond?




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Posted by aquaLOVE88

i hope he will reply




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He's probably waiting for you to beg, and plead with him
@p-angel
thank you
it has been 6 days now and i did not text him nor he
what should i do? i could really use some help here
If he isn't chasing, id mark it up to experience hun and move on, if you bump into him at all, just be friendly and leave it at that, he probably is interested in other women, if he is single, and dosnt want anything serious at the moment, believe me Pisces know how much you like us when were getting to know someone and he could probably feel you jumping the gun a little with your "I like you" revelation, it scared him, he felt you were way ahead of him.
Men need to feel they are chasing and doing all the moving foreword in a relationship. I think he just wanted a casual thing personally and wants to enjoy being Free to do what he likes, hence "I'm single right now" 😉 (to do exactly that) ok x hope this helps hun 😊
If your concerned about him just send him a "hi, how have you been" text today and leave it at that, no kisses! And see what happens 😊 then you will at least have closure if he doesn't respond .
@piscespoppy
thank u for being kind
i will try that text thing today
Your welcome, let us know what happens 😊
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Posted by aquaLOVE88

But do u think he will respond?




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oh OP, it should be like THIS:




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i couldn't do it
i really want to text him but i did not do it ;/
@piscespoppy

i couldn't do it
i really want to text him but i did not do it ;/
@Aqualove88 you told him too soon. What exactly did you think he was supposed to say in response? He was backed into a lose lose situation, pressure to say the same thing in return and then act accordingly, or hurt your feelings and say he didn't feel the same. Just step back and think of what he was supposed to say that would keep the flow of communication going and getting to know each other?



Me, personally, I would text him and say "did I scare you off saying that?" LOL with a smiley face, I would make light of it and break the ice, then move on with the conversation away from that topic.
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oh OP, it should be like THIS:




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LOL Adam Levine with that Pisces Sun and Scorpio Moon!!
I always feel like i get mixed messages from my Pisces. We spend every day together! And yet he refuses to tell me how he feels about me and I know most would say well you spend every day that should tell you. But it doesnt we spend time together in silence. Our conversations are mostly about what he likes. It is rarw we talk about anything I would like to talk about. I like him lots we have been hanging out for the last four years and i just dont understand why he wont tell me how he feels!!!
I agree with waterygem, just text him something lighthearted.
You've got nothing to lose, if nothing comes back, move on hun.
Posted by MrsWilliams
I always feel like i get mixed messages from my Pisces. We spend every day together! And yet he refuses to tell me how he feels about me and I know most would say well you spend every day that should tell you. But it doesnt we spend time together in silence. Our conversations are mostly about what he likes. It is rarw we talk about anything I would like to talk about. I like him lots we have been hanging out for the last four years and i just dont understand why he wont tell me how he feels!!!

4 years? Jesus
I know long time. We have had relationships between. As a matter of fact I am in one now and we still hang together daily. I dnk of he is one know. He is very secretive about that.
@WateryGem great advise i will sure try this hope it works

@MrsWilliams yes pisces are so sweet but always give mixed signals
Do Pisces chase?
What did you say to him@Op to a guy that you hardly know?
Posted by MrsWilliams
I always feel like i get mixed messages from my Pisces. We spend every day together! And yet he refuses to tell me how he feels about me and I know most would say well you spend every day that should tell you. But it doesnt we spend time together in silence. Our conversations are mostly about what he likes. It is rarw we talk about anything I would like to talk about. I like him lots we have been hanging out for the last four years and i just dont understand why he wont tell me how he feels!!!

if you've been hanging out for the last 4 years.. either he has hella commitment issues or he sees you strictly as a close friend... Girl just ask him!! psychoanalyzing begat insanity. wouldn't you rather know for sure than to be in this continuous cycle of wondering?

As for you aqua. DO NOT FIXATE! as an aqua moon, I cannot stress it enough, do not over think it, do not obsess. dont stress about what you said because as a pisces he could probably already read you... solidifying that reality by speaking it into words is a whole nother ball game tho.. lol. stay cool, stay light hearted and positive. give him some space to process. he'll come around. DO NOT let him dick you around either tho.. live your life hunty.
@goutte Well said.
i texted him asking about his day and replied normally and thats it i will leave it till here and i will not do anything more. if he cant see how good i am then i dont want to work this out.
Posted by piscespoppy
Oh well that seems odd then, maybe he has been chatting to other ladies too ? Or may be he is just busy with something, although I would just leave it that he has your number..yes? Just do your own thing, hes a man, if he likes you he will chat to you again ok, don't worry yourself over it, just give him some 'space' youl see x

Couldn't have said it better myself!
Posted by WateryGem
@Aqualove88 you told him too soon. What exactly did you think he was supposed to say in response? He was backed into a lose lose situation, pressure to say the same thing in return and then act accordingly, or hurt your feelings and say he didn't feel the same. Just step back and think of what he was supposed to say that would keep the flow of communication going and getting to know each other?



Me, personally, I would text him and say "did I scare you off saying that?" LOL with a smiley face, I would make light of it and break the ice, then move on with the conversation away from that topic.

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@P-Angel any menopausal symptoms for you yet??




@aquaLOVE88 don't listen to this mouse dear. Just keep in mind no drama, we don't like it.
@goutte terrified to ask directly-- but I have given up and ended the friendship. It was too confusing. How we interacted with each other in my opinion was far from solely platonic and because he refused to give me clarity in regards to how he felt i ended friendship/relationship
Girl I'm an Aquarius in the same boat.

Same thing happened yesterday but I was drunk blabbering to one of his friends that I liked him. Couldn't help myself.

Now he's being mean so im gonna give him space. One of my Aqua friend who's a youtuber/astrologer told me GOOD LUCK when I told her I was interested in this Pisces......she was right lmao
My ex-boyfriend in college was a Pisces.
Their approach is quite similar to Virgos in my opinion.
They quietly observe and actively listen, quite shy, but they're feeling you out without making it obvious.
You may not even know he's interested in the beginning.

However this is where Pisces differ,
Once you have hooked the fishes in, and he's interested, no slow movements here.
He will state his intentions and insist on spending a lot of time with you.
My ex required a great deal of attention and soft sentiments.

My guess, your Pisces man is not interested.
I am a pisces but a woman.

I tend to give off the wrong vibe. I even enjoy flirting. When i disappear its usually on purpose. I am not rude to my crush and i always want to make them feel wanted.

It does sound a little weird. My first thought is he is not interested. Maybe between the meet up and texting, he came to the conclusion he only wants to be friends.

I would write him again. friendly. See if he comes back. If he doesnt, hes not interested.
If he does, it still may just be a friendly hello. Someone needs to be blunt. I like you. do you like me? if not, id still love to be friends.
I chase...but chased less in my youth...was more shy then too.

Text him again...all you have to do is ask him how he is ... ...or...find a good knock, knock joke and just say "Knock, knock." ...or find a light-hearted joke

Knock Knock Who's there? Opportunity. Don't be silly - opportunity doesn't knock twice!

Knock Knock Who's there? Daisy Daisy who? Daisy me rollin, they hatin

Knock Knock. Who's there? The guy who finished second. The guy who finished second who? Exactly.
i texted him saying that i feel bad coming off so strong and i apologized then he replied saying dont worry everything is fine then i thanked him for how kind and gentle he is THEN HE IGNORED AGAIN! that`s it i will never text again! pisces are so hard!
Sounds like he was just getting friendly and you jumped the gun hun, perhaps he just wanted to be friendly and was surprised by your text, Pisces arnt hard at all to be friends with, we dont judge anyone, but relationships are a different thing if you don't instantly connect in some way with us, so he probably couldn't work out why you felt like that, when he felt there was no connection, ie, why does she like me so much when I don't even feel she is compatible with me emotionally???
Either that, he was just not looking for a relationship at the moment.😊
Don't worry about it, I'm glad you took the trouble to put it straight, but I wouldn't contact him again.
Hes probably interested in someone else x
@piscespoppy i will not text anymore. too bad i really liked him