My little Pisces babe..

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She told me someone made fun of her today.. She could barely get the words out of her mouth when telling me how much it hurt her feelings. She just kept saying "Mommy they've never done that, I've always had such nice kids in my class". I about lost it seeing her hurt and cry.. She told me her friend came over later talked to her and gave her comfort.. Guess what the Sun sign is of the little girl?

A sweet little Virgo said to her " don't listen to them, always believe in yourself". My little Pisces said she almost cried from her friend saying that b/c it made her so happy to have someone reach out and lift her spirit...
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Awww...poor cutie. I share three placements with her. I remember how deeply hurt I was by seemingly harmless remarks and how long I hold onto them, blaming myself. For example, a teacher at primary school talked about modesty and asked us to give an example of a modest person. One of my friends raised her hand and named me. She was serious. In fact, she was a Virgo. The teacher simply said "This is not a good example. Anyone else?"

My heart stopped. I was in pieces, long afterwards. I have no idea why it hurt so much. To hell with modesty! Who on the right mind wants to be considered modest?

My fire Rising and Mars started to kick much later in, during my late teenage years. Till then, I was a doormat.

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If you can teach her self confidence at an early age and protect her mindset in her youth she will grow up to be much stronger then the adversity that she will face. When I was young I have much older siblings they were like little mothers so I grew up with a lot of happy and strong women in the house. Some how my mother made me very independent at a young at and I never really has self doubt. I was always able to express my feelings and my mother was into church when I came along but all of these things help me to love myself and be own best friend and to not be a follower so I never looked to other people to make me happy. Now in my adults years I have learned so much from the peace of mind that I was able to have as a child and face adversity so differently. Just work on her inner side and she will be able to weather the outside.
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Posted by WateryGem
She told me someone made fun of her today.. She could barely get the words out of her mouth when telling me how much it hurt her feelings. She just kept saying "Mommy they've never done that, I've always had such nice kids in my class". I about lost it seeing her hurt and cry.. She told me her friend came over later talked to her and gave her comfort.. Guess what the Sun sign is of the little girl?

A sweet little Virgo said to her " don't listen to them, always believe in yourself". My little Pisces said she almost cried from her friend saying that b/c it made her so happy to have someone reach out and lift her spirit...
I just thought how special that was to have a sweet little Virgo come help my sweet little Pisces girl out. I'm so grateful she has a little friend like that.

Cancer rising
Pisces Sun
Leo Moon
Aqua Mer
Aqua Venus
Gem Mars
Cap Jupiter
Awww! I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon, and Gem in mars too. My heart just about broke when I read your post. Sensitive little soul, highly compassionate and empathetic...probably can't even fathom how another person can even hurt another soul. No doubt it wounded her deeply. The best thing my parents ever did for me was to teach me that it's ok to stand up for myself and that in doing so, made me a much better person. That Gem in Mars will come in handy for her...

My daughter is a Pisces on the cusp tho of Aries...she will not stand up for herself at all and then comes home and rages silently in room. She keeps it all in and writes it all down in a journal. She is 16 though. Ugh.. I don't know what or how to help her. She's at that age where she doesn't want my help.
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Really it is just a learning experience people are just mean something I think in a way being silent for now will help her to hear her inner voice louder then the outside voice. You are argue and curse someone out but that mostly of the time don't solve the problem. I am sure when high school is over with she will gain some more self expression.
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Yeah we are sensitive and things hurt us, but no need for condescension, she is to young to know but with life she will be able to learn... that sometimes we have to put people in their right place because they are too broken and we cannot fix them and if we try they are going to break us... that's funny I don't know many Virgos, and the ones that I know they have my back but someway they are just too much and I love them but indeed we are to opposite.