MY PisCeS BF left me for his pisces ex

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by cancir -rising on Monday, August 18, 2008 and has 17 replies.
his ex pisces gf left him 6 years ago....now she just came back.he wants to be with her.before that they were dating for 3 years...left him because he got somebody else pregnant...i was like.... ok then why is she coming back to him.that doesn't make any sense to me.the whole time during our relationship together,he did'nt tell me he hasn't gotten over his pisces ex.i was like we have been together for almost three years,now he wakes up out of no where and he wants to be with her...i tell you seriously he was trying to put the blame on me that i'm too much of a good person....that doesn't make any sense to me either.he even came up asking me on if it's ok if he dates the both of us at thesame time.i was like HELLO what are you thinking...i'm been his present girlfriend for almost three years...he knows very well that we are commited to each other ...we were plaining on getting married,having kids and so on....we both want the same things in life....For some reason i feel like i don't know who made the decision to be with each other it's just weird he got me all twisted,i feel like i was taken for granted for almost 3 years...seriously i'm really hurting right know.i'm a cancer and you know how cancers have a hard time letting go of something so precious...i don't know what to do...i feel deeply hurting....so do you think that he had the right to go back to his pisces ex?
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"so do you think that he had the right to go back to his pisces ex?"
I am so sorry to hear about your situation...we usually do find ourselves hurting when something happens in our world that we just do not seem to have any understanding about nor can we explain it. You may not ever understand why he did what he did - what you do know is he did go back to her. This action may not seem "right" or understandable to you but for some reason it was for him.
For all of us here....we are all to follow our hearts, whatever that is to be true for us. Maybe he is doing this?
I suppose in this case you do have choices to keep yourself from hurting so much -
*you cannot change what has happened however, you can accept that it is for the best.
*be grateful that you now know the truth - this is one of those gifts in disguise.
*trust that what happens is always for your best - things do not happen to you but FOR you.
*know that the BEST is yet to come - be hopeful.
hugs to you ((((((( cancir - rising )))))))
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The right? No. He doesn't deserve you. Why would you want a man who cheated on his ex and got another girl pregnant anyway? She accepting him back after that isn't going to change him and give him the green light to do something that bad again or worse.
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freebird thanks for showing you care.you know i've good five other best friends that are pisces.they are all great people,i love them cause we both understand where we all coming from....for what i can see is that the pisces women are different from pisces men.cancer and pisces make a great couple.i guess this fish boy wasn't the one for me....i loved the way he loved me and we had great times together.omg can't belive i'm CRYING .....i'm just really hurting....i don't think i'll ever forget him...there's another fish boy out there for me.
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queenscorpio.... i know i can't believe she still took him back after all that rubbish....the guy really killed it 4 me....
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Oh Cancir - rising I do know how you are feeling as I too have been in a situation very close to yours. I can share with you that at this moment it does hurt - let it hurt, cry, feel the pain, be where you are, accept where you are in this moment and please....trust that everything IS working our for your best. It is always so hard to see when you are in the picture...it is much clearer where I am, standing back from the picture and looking at it from many other perspectives.
What I do know forsure is....you WILL experience another great relationship and you will look back and be grateful for this experience.
If I may, I'd like to make a suggestion here for your healing. Be grateful for all the good times that you shared with him and for the good memories that you may wish to carry in your heart - be thankful for the moments that you both shared and when you are ready...silently bless him and wish him well on his life's path knowing he has done what is best for him and for you as well.
Yes! by golly there is someone out there who is waiting to love you and you must be free for this to happen.
Trust. Winking
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Use Voodoo and put a hex on him. I never had a guy leave me for his ex, but I did have a guy leave me for this virgin he was "so in love with". Well, she ended up loosing her virginity to someone else right before they slept together. Then, after college he married some chick and now he is divorced and his penis is curved. Dont cross me.
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"Use Voodoo and put a hex on him" lol i tell the lady sounds so desperate to me... she's 38 years old . she hasn't had any kids yet.....well i do think that she did some voodoo on him lol...him.yea the moment she showed ,he said he wanted to be with her the next day....she's from africa. voodoo,witchcraft is very very common there
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i tell you she does sound very desperate to have kids with him
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Cancir-if thats the case he may be a lost cause. Something similar happened to guy I know. He was 26 at the time, hooked up with a woman around 35, she had no kids and was CRAZY as a loon. Well anyway, she got pregnant. I dont think she ever really wanted him, she just wanted a baby and some money every month. BTW, I was kidding about the Voodoo, but all those things did happen to my ex. I would like to think it was Karma.
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"before that they were dating for 3 years...left him because he got somebody else pregnant"
What? Am I reading that right? He was with her, and planted his seed in another woman?
"i'm a cancer and you know how cancers have a hard time letting go of something so precious"
Precious? A cheater is a cheater, cansir.
I know you're hurting, but, you have to put this into perspective if you are to get past this .... here he cheats on his long-time girlfriend, and you would still respect him for it .. this is open ball-park for him to do it and still have a woman by his side (you).
Players dream-field .... tucks you into his corner securely, so then when he's playing, if he hits a strike, he still has you at home-base.

This is a blessing in which you don't realize YET. You will though, when the pain subsides ... and you will be thanking your lucky stars that you two did NOT carry-through with your planned futures together.
Back off and let the two have each other ... if she would take him back after what he did .. then they deserve each other.
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Use Voodoo and put a hex on him. I never had a guy leave me for his ex, but I did have a guy leave me for this virgin he was "so in love with". Well, she ended up loosing her virginity to someone else right before they slept together. Then, after college he married some chick and now he is divorced and his penis is curved. Dont cross me.
Whoa!
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Precious? A cheater is a cheater, cansir.
P-angel but you know what this guy was always good to me till when she showed up.i mean hell yea he was precious to me...yea i'm moving now....we shared alot of great memories.i mean that's something i'll never forget..
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Cansir ... I thought about this today, which actually inspired a thread. You're right, of course .... just because he was, doesn't mean he is.
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"we shared alot of great memories.i mean that's something i'll never forget."

And really .. that is all that matters. In the end, it's only our memories of our life we really have to hold onto.
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And really .. that is all that matters. In the end, it's only our memories of our life we really have to hold onto.
p-angel yea your right on that....yea there is somebody out there for me.....is just that right know i'm really hurt.and i know with time , i'll get over it....
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unreal i belive what you just said..... one of my pisces best friend though thing you did.she had the same bad experiences you had too...so yea... i bet he'll pull thesame thicks woth her too....thanks for the advice tho....i have been moving on....whatelse can i do? Are you a pisces too unreal?
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