Non-Defintive

There is nothing definite about pisces. Its like when I try to learn about you guys..nothing is really said....

Well im mostly trying to research the pisces man...

Any thoughts...Haffo is welcome too...

Lol, Lady M, I'd say if you've figured that out, then you're definitely on the right track. That's a crucial point to understand a piscean, which some people never get around to assimilating. You sound like you're doing just fine to me 🙂

I love that Aqua thing where you have to figure everything out. The Aqua mind is always ticking in the most unexpected, entertaining ways.

I love my pisces soooo much!!
things i really like..
he seems to get "it". he finds the right thing to say at exactly he right time. he has a crazy 6th sense about this. he can be very romantic, without being smothering. i have been alone in a crowded room with him. he gets the doors. has my back. stand up for me and enchourges me to also. i adore his wit and humor. is never cocky with others, but is sure of who he is. he doesn't stand out, but is my greatest cheerleader. he is phychic about many things, not future things, but it is like he is very intutive about what i am thinking. i will think something and he will say it. creepy, but neat at the same time. he is not jealous at all and if he were i'd probably never know it. loves to snuggle and would rather spend a quiet evening at home with me. not very sexual, but when he is..ooohhh mmyyyy. he is terrible with money..but i can live with that..lol
amazing guy, i am so lucky.

Nope .. nothings JUST black or white .. don't look here if you want someone to live inside a box.

We speak as we live .. just as the universe .. infinity .. possibilities are endless and so we will ponder them all ..

The flip side to that is .. most Pisces I know feel the other way around towards people who have concrete definition .. live inside a one-dimensional box. We can't fathom how people can ONLY look at ONE possibility when there are millions, billions, zillions .. just like the stars in the sky.

If you're trying to figure out this man, Lady M, the first thing you have to understand is that he will break all barriers put around him .. he will refuse to be put inside a box to function with only a limited amount of definition .. that would go against his nature .. when you try to learn about us, everything is said .. to a person who lives inside of barriers, it would appear as though nothing is said because you have only one set of parameters to compare to .. there is no comparison with us, because they are no limits.

Everything .. there is to say .. there is no end ..

We would appear to others as though we can't make a decision, contridictory ..

That's true to an extent and not true at the same time .. because nothing is JUST one-sided. However, rest assured that we CAN make a stand .. we just don't want to because the possibilities are endless .. there is no definitive answer to anything.

What is love?
What color is blue?
How do you feel?

There is not just ONE answer .. if you have it in your mind that there is only ONE answer .. then when he speaks, it will appear as though he says nothing because he's not conforming into your set of parameters ..

Look at it this way, there are people who live inside the box and there are people who live outside the box .. to the Pisces ..

There is NO box.

Oh Lady M are you interested in a pisces man? The one that I dated and ran from because I was scared (stupid now but he wanted an emotionally dependant upon him type of girl; something I am at a loss to be.)

My suggestion in getting to know the guy is to nicely ask him questions. See how he responds. Let him flirt with you and make you laugh. The guy was so easily caught but he stuck around after that because he was interesting and so very different.

And for fun seriously check out all the pent up passion that the Aqua man/Pisces woman had in an old movie, The Long Hot Summer. In a way I can relate to this movie because of the smoldering looks between the two seemingly different characters. (Best thing is that the actors met on that movie and are still married to this day.) Movies are excellent research tools and a way to relax.

In real life Paul Newman is an aqua and Joanne Woodward is a pisces. It's in their first movie where they met though and I can see the most common unsaid expressions between the union of these two signs. The unsaid communication is something that is hard to describe in real life, but it's very visual. The Long Hot Summer is not the type of movie that today's studios would make to see as it's a chick flick, but darn those looks can heat up the senses. And it's based on a Hemingway book so it has lots of hidden meaning (I might have the author wrong.)

I know that people would constantly apologize for interrupting us when we were just having a minute long chat, but they felt that they were intruding on something more.

Wow I'm going home to watch this movie tonight. (I own the DVD.)

It's old but it's a classic. Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward are both oscar winners (and she won hers before she met him.) I had seen it many times before as my father is a huge movie buff, and collects movies. So I grew up watching the classics, and it's great. I probably bought my personal copy at Walmart or somewhere out when I spotted it. Video stores often keep the classics and rent at a cheaper price.

Well I've been running for about 3 years now...we've still got some serious distance between us (which I secretly like and kinda hate).

He's really nice and funny...I dont exactly know how I feel, but this is the farthest (as far as serious relationship) Ive gone with anyone...and btw we're still not really defined (which is what I also like)...he doesnt rush anything and is very patient.

We've had the silent understanding for a really long time (which I also love). But as aqua girls do go for the shy/interesting types they are usually the ones who dont take the reigns when necessary...thats when we lose interest. He just took too long and I guess I was kinda confusing (he told me so) so now he picking up the pace, and i'm trying to stay put...we'll see how this works.

Well the pisces guy is a February fish (feb. 22) and only has 3 degrees in pisces. He has a Sag moon. SO I dont think he is possesive. He is kinda old school in his thoughts on relationships and women (I'll have to work on that). We nboth have venus in cap. and I have a my Mercury in pisces.

LOL, he's horrible with money too 🙂

Thuis is kinda getting serious because he keeps asking when im coming to see him...

I have a feeling I wouldnt be able to be the kinda girl he wants [he kinda knows my faults ans need for freedom, but still]...hence the running. If it doesnt work out we wont [mainly I wont] have him anymore....friendship and all.

He did tell me something about why he let his last girlfriend go..."she wanted to be in control of the relationship..."

Im thinking "whoa you may not be able to handle me then". I wouldnt try and control him, but no one sure as hell will control me.

He too is the perfect gentlemen...good and bad....😉

decipher the rambling if you can 😛

wtf—?

You've been with him for 3 years and you're in here asking US?

Geeeeeezzzzz .. another chucklefuck.

No I have not been with him for 3 uears...I ve known him for three years.

Nor am I asking YOU about HIM, im am trying to learn about the pisces man, which makes up a part of my guy (since astrology has its influence).

It's hard to stay away from the Pisces guys; I know that. We've been dancing around each other for a year, then dated where i had a sudden freak out saying awful things about his faults which were really just my insecurities. We swore never to speak or hear from each other again, that lasted a few weeks where I became involved with another guy, the Capricorn. The magnetic pull though keeps us talking despite being 'just friends.' (Friends with the old school defination, no touching at all!) He's a sweet talker who tempts a girl with his tender side (completely at odds with his man's man attitude.) And he too is definately a gentleman. Sigh... I'll see him in less than hour for a simple chat as his voice is very soothing.

Good luck in your decision M!!! They are hard to resist though. (I read in a book somewhere that Jesus had the traits of a Pisces man... course Jesus is God, and a man is just a man.)

William Faulkner not hemingway... the movie is based on Faulker... very different! I was screwed up earier!

Thanks Ladyvie for the comments.

The back story was just that.... a back story...once learned that clouded the responses of some...but I appreciate those who added substantially to my research project.

Not all Pisces Men are bad with money BTW :-)

Most Pisces I know are pretty good with finances, though, the books say otherwise.

Money thing and astrology... this is just my theory... people who write the books and pages on astrology in some fashion write to their audience. The old theory about astrology is that 'people with problems look for a reason and people without problems don't look for trouble.' To translate my aqua thinking... many of the signs are said to be bad with money. It's easier to say that when the person reading it is likely not rich.

It's old school thinking. There are rich and middle class people into astrology and lead successful lives. So I wouldn't put much stock in any astrology theory saying 'X is bad with money.'

I look for personal characteristics for interpersonal relationships and the patterns that I can find. Others have their own reason for reading astrology, but there is still some old school 'cater to the audience' nonsense in many of the signs.

wasnt really cnfused...just wanted to understand a little better...

Im an aqua...we are the confusers 😛

Anything...everything...whats specific to you...whats the stereotype....

something definitive..

indefinite

1. not definite
2. vague or unclear
3. undecided or uncertain