Not Sure If It's Worth It Anymore...

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by CLCNY30 on Friday, July 16, 2010 and has 125 replies.
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hi CLCNY30..
I am not a Pisces as you can tell from my user name. Reading your story melted my heart because I truly feel your pain. I am impressed with your undying loyalty to him, so I feel the need to give you my two cents, although this might hurt you, base from what I read, I'm being honest.
I as well fell for this "long distance" thing before. and let me tell you this, if they're not contacting you, they're not into you. Worse, they found someone else. Accept it. Be brave and take the pain. That's the only way you can break free from this. Never look back. never regret.
As I read your post, I can tell you're rationalizing why he's ignoring you.Trying to find a nice reason why "maybe" he couldn't reply. All these are your way of covering up the truth, covering up what hurts. Accept it Virgo. you're strong.
Don't waste brain cells on this man. I can tell you this, when there's a will, there's a way. Any man, whatever sign he's in, will do everything for that "one" woman they want to spend their lives with.
I know you feel that this relationship has potential. but sadly, he doesn't feel or think the same. And think about it, all these months you wasted on him, you're missing the opportunity to meet the real relationship you will have in the future. there are many guys out there. I Know you're not interested in knowing any of them yet because you're still into this Pisces man, but really, you don't deserve such disrespect. The ball is in his court now. He decided to abandon it. Now, you should do the same. stop analyzing what's going on. You're a Virgo... unleash your powers! let it go..

HOWEVER, if you really want a true answer to his behavior. call him in England. Tell him you deserve a decent answer all these. That you deserve closure if there is one. Tell him you need an explanation for all of these cos you're tired of beating your brains out. Usually, they will pick up. I did that, and I got the hurtful words I needed to move on. good luck.
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Thanks, Scorpio--I understand what you are saying, and I really appreciate you taking the time out to read and comment.
Nah, I'm not going to call him. I'm just going to continue doing what I have to, to make myself happier, and I'll eventually move on because it's what I do once I feel there are no further options
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OMG!
i read the first post, then the second, then something said "scroll down."
yeaaaaaaaaaaaa, i'm not that "unbusy" right now. sounds interesting though. hope to get through it all...at some point.
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Posted by seavixen2
Scorpio740...WOW! That was truly such a thoughtful answer.CLCNY30, I hope you feel better soon.


Thanks, I'll be okay smile
I made it through almost 5 months now, I can make it through another 5 and beyond
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november 2009 to february 2010...roughly 4 months of "knowing" this person and you've been agonizing for the past 5?
does that strike you as odd?
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naaah, this is a different pisces. her landlord is obviously in ny, the pisces in this thread is in england.
i don't think dude's sun sign is an issue. the way she handled his lack of response with regard to her illness is. virgos have a way about them that can be biting when you don't do as they expect. that's why she sent that pointed (nasty) email after getting out of the hospital. she felt like she had been there for him during his illness and was offended that he didn't return the favor. normal reaction i suppose but truthfully, he's going through a divorce right? it's been contentious right? maybe he was put off by her emo-tirade?
what's sad is how she behaved thereafter. the pleading, the apologies, the "i'm going to leave it up to him" while sending out email feelers. it wreaks of desperation and where i get how she was behaving in the moment, that emo-storm would make most men run. it'd definitely send a man who lives an ocean away packing.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
november 2009 to february 2010...roughly 4 months of "knowing" this person and you've been agonizing for the past 5?
does that strike you as odd?


Being that I would never try to place my own ideals of love's timeframe on others--as I find that pretentious, no, it does not.
Sometimes you have to remind yourself that everyone doesn't feel nor think as you do. Perhaps it takes you 2 years to feel for someone, perhaps more. I have seen that you said you are a Taurus, and are very guarded of your feelings in another post--that is you. If it works for you, then who is someone that normally falls in love at first sight to tell you it's "odd"?

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Posted by katica
Is this the same pisces you were nosey in on his private life by listening to him and his girlfriend ????
laughing and carrying on while you over hear what they were arguing about ?
Saying shit about her because you *can't* have him ??? jealous much ?!!
leave Pisces alone...he doesn't want you and neither does this one...



Wow. Really sweet forum.
Actually, I was reading in my bed when the landlord (the Pisces you are referring to) brought his girlfriend downstairs to place against the wall to (I'm guessing) prove to me that it's really over, so that I would make the first move.
I've absolutely no clue why your response was such a bitchy one, but I'm not the one to talk to like that. Don't say I didn't warn you. I've read more than enough about you on here to know that you should really take a step back from addressing me as such, because I'm not one to hold back on telling you witch one of my azzcheeks to kiss.
You're doing exactly to me what someone else in another thread did to you, jumping to conclusions. Who wants a guy as torn as my landlord? Who is using his ex as a sex toy? Me??? Really??? Funny, this thread wasn't about him.
You sound like you need more help than you're suggesting I do. I hear there are really nice shiny pills for your kind of batsheit crazy.
Ask your doctor to prescribe some.
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you're missing the point. you have been lamenting this for FIVE MONTHS and he forgot about you when? FIVE MONTHS AGO!
sure, it hurts but it makes me wonder how "deep" the attraction was for dude to vanish out of thin air? your actions thereafter indicate an EXTREME level of emo on your part. you're entitled to feel what you feel but uhm, bad idea to put yourself on the spot with regard to your feelings for another when those feelings haven't clearly been reciprocated. i mean, didn't you just get through criticizing the gf of the pisces landlord for not being "smart" and not being able to see the writing on the wall? i mean hey, he was NEVER visible when he talked to you. your landlord NEVER told his ex-gf that he loved her. seems pretty evident what was going on in both cases but hey, easy for you to judge her while failing to see the faults within you. oh, yeah, that's another virgo trait...hypocrisy.
you're "hiding" because you're afraid to face the reality that he might not have given a crap about you. if you're not available online, you don't have to face the rejection. but you also deny yourself the possibility of closure and clarity. you'd rather wall yourself off from the pain than face it. brilliant!
if you really wanted an explanation, if you wanted to know why he behaved the way he did, if you weren't bitter and controlling, you'd conduct business as usual.
as the scorp said, maybe you're rationalizing and maybe the rational thing to do would be to leave the dude alone but leave open the possibility that he's not a bastard? if you had, you wouldn't have sent the email.
what if he got sick again? what if something happened with regard to his kids that kept him from being able to contact you during the week of your illness? there are so many possibilities but you reacted just like a virgo. you wanted him to reciprocate your care and concern. you didn't get it in the time frame you desired and you flipped the fug out.
if his behavior was consistent since september 2009, the RATIONAL and intelligent thing to do would be to assume that something abnormal had occurred. right? you shot yourself in the foot and deserve the fallout.
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sorry, november 2009 Tongue
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Wow.
Nevermind.
Thanks for my sweet welcome, everyone.
Have a wonderful weekend.
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that's another virgo trait. become indignant and retreat when criticized.
you asked for advice. you got it.
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And a very prominent Taurus trait is to be an unbelievable bi.tch. Yay, we fit our signs smile
I have no clue why some of you are so rude, but Jesus! Wow...
For a Virgo to tell you to lighten the f up? You're damaged...
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i'm damaged and yet you have to find ways of the past 5 months to forget a guy that you never met and possibly never would have met? i say you focus on point 5 of your 5-point plan to healing and finally get that workout regime going. hmm, was that why you guys haven't met yet? needed to lose a few pounds?
also, words to the wise, don't get involved with a recently divorced man. it's stoopid. who wants to be a rebound. but you're virgo...the sign of "rational thought." you should know that right?
and i'm not an unbelievable bitch silly. i'm an awesomely super duper BITCH
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and i just realized. what a peculiar topic.
you're not sure if "what" is worth it anymore? are you literally still hoping for "something" after 5 months of no contact? and you wonder why people are regarding you as emo, insecure, desperate and slightly wacked?
gotcha!
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lmfao.
yawn yawn, and still commenting.
I don't even want to know what you two have been through so be so completely angry with life. Taking it out on me won't help, but you can try--because I'm having a good laugh.
lmfao, I wish you could both see how cuckoo you appear--not just here, but all over the forum.
"Chips on your shoulders" is an understatement.
*peter griffin* who HURT you? who...HURT..you...
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And I SWEAR I just read in another thread, Katrina, that you were giving a man going through a seperation a "chance"? LOL!!! And he was puzzyfootin around on you, which made it even worse. How desperate and pathetic. You sound like you give sex away like handshakes at a convention--just to get attention.
Another Pisces trait, hipocrisy =))
Talk about clueless.
"Do as I say, not as I do" mentality at its finest, LOL!
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virgos REALLY hate to be criticized which is why their seeking advice is kinda asinine.
go to the virgo forum where you and the nerd clique and stroke each other's ego while poo-pooing about how horrible pisces is.
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Nah, boo boo, but life got to you Sad To attack me? LOL, I've done nothing to you, that is like far out insanity. You seem highly unbalanced, and are doing a great job representing your sign smile please continueLaughing!!!! It's funny how you're proving the talk of crazy fish true--and you don't even realize you're doing it!
But no, really--I hope you find happiness one day. It seems someone (or several people?) have really put you through the wringer, and instead of channeling that anger in productive ways, you take it out on complete strangers. That's horrible.
Sounds like you need a good cryfest. It's okay to cry--crying lets the sad out smile
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wow, you're crazy for really real.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
virgos REALLY hate to be criticized which is why their seeking advice is kinda asinine.
go to the virgo forum where you and the nerd clique and stroke each other's ego while poo-pooing about how horrible pisces is.


And since we're telling each other where to go, you know where I'm about to tell you to go, dontcha? Winking
You think it's hot outside now? Wait til you get there smile
My mother's a Taurus, and so similar to you it's sad!! She spent her life alienating people by being absolutely unecessary with her way--oh, it's fine to give advice, even harsh advice, but keep your b.itchassedness out of it, talk to people as you'd like to be spoken to. She spent her life talking down to people, pushing people away and making them uncomfortable to be around her, and is now alone in another state, reaching out to the same people she treated like s.hit. I have never heard this woman say "I love you" more than she does now--she sounds so sad! Almost makes me forget about the misery she bestowed on all of us before she left. Her GRANDKIDS don't even want to see her!!
LOL!!!
I only know ONE Taurus I get along with, and it's because she has a breezy attitude. Life has knocked her around so much, and this woman just gets back on her 2 feet and gets back out there, all the while being sweet as hell. Everyone who knows her would go to the ends of the earth for her, she's just a damn joy to be around.
Guess she's the exception.
The rest of you...well...good luck with all that anger, resentment, and misplaced hostility. Please do come back to tell us how far it gets you in this world.
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so you basically just called your mother a bitch?
dude, i'm not reading your responses anymore.
you got served and you're responding like a stark raving lunatic. wtf is wrong with you? stop pitying yourself and being defensive and realize you're an insecure, naive twit.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
wow, you're crazy for really real.


Please do stop talking to yourself. Crazy would be a compliment for you, dizzy bull.
I never get why people like you and hurricane Katrina over there bother with threads you think are beneath you. Just goes to show your idiotic mentalities.
I'd promise to pray for you, but we both know I won't.
In all seriousness--whoever hurt you two needs to be shot though, because they have no clue how much they've broken your spirits. It's a damn shame. You both sound like you can't even enjoy life--who comes into a thread to act like this if they enjoy life?? That's nuts--what's the point of living if you can't enjoy life? Seriously, lighten up--you're over there popping blood pressure medication over a thread! LOL. Relax. We don't agree, we don't agree. Why is this still going?
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Posted by tubbyscubby
so you basically just called your mother a bitch?
dude, i'm not reading your responses anymore.
you got served and you're responding like a stark raving lunatic. wtf is wrong with you? stop pitying yourself and being defensive and realize you're an insecure, naive twit.


Yes, I did.
That woman abused me and my siblings, and drove some of us to attempt suicide.
The only one showing insecurity is the bull pretending to be the smartest idiot in the universe. Get over yourself, and get out there and smile. I promise your face won't crack. How fun is it to be so damn bitter? I really do feel sorry for you.
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Posted by periperi
My daddy's a Taurus and he stomps ass. He should impregnate all of your mothers so they can have beautiful and intelligent kids like me smile


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I will say this though--Taurus males, I get along with. Their sarcastic without being rude, and I admire that.
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Posted by Days22
I didnt think Tubby was that bad...for once. :/


She started out okay, but then hurricane Katrina fueled her up, and she just went downhill.
Attacking newbies on this site is really low. Every one of you was new at some point, how would you have reacted had someone come at you this way?
Absolutely disgusting.
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like mother like daughter
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Posted by periperi
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My daddy's a Taurus and he stomps ass. He should impregnate all of your mothers so they can have beautiful and intelligent kids like me smile


LOLLLL
I will say this though--Taurus males, I get along with. Their sarcastic without being rude, and I admire that.


They're the most lovable creatures on earth (no pun intended). I will easily have to say that Taurus is the strongest of the Earth signs.
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Hm...I never thought about that
One thing I notice about them is their ability to just like zone out. Like when they're mad, they will be 100% all there, mentally, but when YOU'RE mad? They just zone out, lmfao. Not a lot of people can deal with them, especially the females. Every Taurus female I know is either divorced, or single, and angry as hell. I just throw a smile their way and keep it moving, because that kind of bitterness can spread if you linger.
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and it's clear now why the pisces stopped calling you.
i bet the email was so "mel gibson."
seriously, hit the gym. you keep talking about it. how overweight are you?
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Posted by seavixen2
Scorpio740...WOW! That was truly such a thoughtful answer.CLCNY30, I hope you feel better soon.



Thank you seavixen (^.^)
for the rest of you all... at least you're helping CLCNY30 put her mind off the English dude eh? good job. =D (not being sarcastic here.. it's serious.. I'm nice. hehe..)
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Posted by tubbyscubby
like mother like daughter


weird, this makes no sense. Unless you're saying I'm making you suicidal? awwww, boo boo bear, don't go into the light! Stay on earth, and find something worth NOT being a b.itch about smile
Another thing, Taurus insults are usually eyerollers. Once they run out of steam, it's like a drunk hobo hurling insults. Just don't make no cotdamn sense.
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Posted by seavixen2
Scorpio740...WOW! That was truly such a thoughtful answer.CLCNY30, I hope you feel better soon.



Thank you seavixen (^.^)
for the rest of you all... at least you're helping CLCNY30 put her mind off the English dude eh? good job. =D (not being sarcastic here.. it's serious.. I'm nice. hehe..)

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LMFAO! yeah, i have to admit--I'm laughing my azz off over here--thanks everyone smile!!!
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no, i'm wondering how many times you've attempted to off yourself. you said she drove you and your siblings too it. when will you be successful?
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Posted by tubbyscubby
and it's clear now why the pisces stopped calling you.
i bet the email was so "mel gibson."
seriously, hit the gym. you keep talking about it. how overweight are you?


LOL!!! He actually thought I was too small for him, as he likes his women with meat. Poor me Sad LOL!!!
Keep the pathetic insults coming. Like I said, some of you are proving me so right about my negative generalizations about your signs. Wow, LOL!
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he meant you were short...short and fat.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
no, i'm wondering how many times you've attempted to off yourself. you said she drove you and your siblings too it. when will you be successful?


And there you have it. Actually, it was 2 of my brothers that tried--I found ways to cope with what she was doing.
You're a horrible person, you just told someone to go KILL themself? Over a forum post? What is wrong with you? You should really get help, you are not right at all in the head. Over a forum post??? My God, what is the matter with you?
I...just no words. You sound absolutely, positively pathetic. I'd say the same to you, but I don't go there--that's low and nothing you write in this thread is worth me telling you to take your own life. You have to have no class at all, and no respect for anyone's life to go there. I really hope you don't have kids, they don't need to learn from your disgusting mindset. If you do have kids, I hope someone else is helping them to be better than their mother.
Wow.
Thanks for proving what a horrible person you are.
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Posted by periperi
Posted by CLCNY30
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Posted by periperi
My daddy's a Taurus and he stomps ass. He should impregnate all of your mothers so they can have beautiful and intelligent kids like me smile


LOLLLL
I will say this though--Taurus males, I get along with. Their sarcastic without being rude, and I admire that.


They're the most lovable creatures on earth (no pun intended). I will easily have to say that Taurus is the strongest of the Earth signs.


Hm...I never thought about that
One thing I notice about them is their ability to just like zone out. Like when they're mad, they will be 100% all there, mentally, but when YOU'RE mad? They just zone out, lmfao. Not a lot of people can deal with them, especially the females. Every Taurus female I know is either divorced, or single, and angry as hell. I just throw a smile their way and keep it moving, because that kind of bitterness can spread if you linger.


The Taurus men are. Haven't really tried Taurus gals. I would like to though just for exoticism.
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Good luck, lmfao. If I could offer one word of advice, just hit it then quit it, as if you stick around too long, they get psychotic. Oh the tales I could tell you of Taurus females I knew who either beat on their hubbies, flung knives, set off guns, and put their children in ICUs. They're really just horrible acting at their worst. At their best, they're funny, and very proud--especially in the kitchen, and with fashion.
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yeah, just trying to put you out of your misery. you're questioning if "it" is worth it. you won't accept rational responses. you've lashed out at people for providing perspective. i say that you're right. you're not worth it.
if you haven't noticed, i'm not reading anything you write.
i'm waiting on my ride but i am enjoying toying with you.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
he meant you were short...short and fat.


Just shaking my head. How old are you, sweetie? Does your mommy know you're on the big girl's computer?
You can't be like this in real life, I really hope this is just some image you're projecting. I really am going to end this here with you, as the joke's over--once you start telling people to kill themselves, you're not worth talking to. Get help.
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first she lashed out at the pisces. now she's lashing out at taurus. why?
cause she fell for some guy that decided it would be better to vanish than to communicate with her online?
how rank does your kitty have to be to keep men at bay even online?
so you're short AND fat right?
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Posted by periperi
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Posted by Days22
I didnt think Tubby was that bad...for once. :/


She started out okay, but then hurricane Katrina fueled her up, and she just went downhill.
Attacking newbies on this site is really low. Every one of you was new at some point, how would you have reacted had someone come at you this way?
Absolutely disgusting.


I'm a noob really, came here in May smile My number of posts are just over 9000 though, that's why.
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Well, this is actually my second time posting on here--I think I commented on a thread a little over a year ago. I'm just shocked at some of the females, it's like "that time of the month" everyday for them. I just don't get it. I'm no Pisces fan, but a young Pisces in another thread was saying how he feels so lost in life, and I went in to try to help, and to wish him luck and hope that he finds happiness. Why go into a thread to bash/namecall? You have to have no life, no love at all for anyone, including yourself, to spend your time doing that. It's horrible.
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if a libra gets on and offers her advice she will be.
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she went to a psychic to help her figure out why a man she's never met isn't talking to her anymore.
you stoopid.
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Posted by periperi
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Posted by periperi
My daddy's a Taurus and he stomps ass. He should impregnate all of your mothers so they can have beautiful and intelligent kids like me smile


LOLLLL
I will say this though--Taurus males, I get along with. Their sarcastic without being rude, and I admire that.


They're the most lovable creatures on earth (no pun intended). I will easily have to say that Taurus is the strongest of the Earth signs.


Hm...I never thought about that
One thing I notice about them is their ability to just like zone out. Like when they're mad, they will be 100% all there, mentally, but when YOU'RE mad? They just zone out, lmfao. Not a lot of people can deal with them, especially the females. Every Taurus female I know is either divorced, or single, and angry as hell. I just throw a smile their way and keep it moving, because that kind of bitterness can spread if you linger.


The Taurus men are. Haven't really tried Taurus gals. I would like to though just for exoticism.


Good luck, lmfao. If I could offer one word of advice, just hit it then quit it, as if you stick around too long, they get psychotic. Oh the tales I could tell you of Taurus females I knew who either beat on their hubbies, flung knives, set off guns, and put their children in ICUs. They're really just horrible acting at their worst. At their best, they're funny, and very proud--especially in the kitchen, and with fashion.


You sure you're not describing Libra chicks? 'cause that fits perfectly.
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Oh Lord, please don't get me started on Libras!!! My mother and aunt (who is a Libra) are bestest buddies forever, and that's all they got is each other, LOL!! No one else can stand them, and--in truth--they can't stand each other. They stay close because both spend their lives gossiping and trying to one
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see i told ya, now she's starting on libras.
she's so "mel."
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Posted by periperi
Posted by tubbyscubby
if a libra gets on and offers her advice she will be.


LOL, yeah. I got myself an archenemy now. Eh well, she sucks anyways. I'll let her post whatever she wants...DXP is her way of ventilation...
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Seems like that for a few here as well.
What is your sign, out of curiosity? I think I saw you mention earlier in here at being a Pisces?
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he's a sag.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
if a libra gets on and offers her advice she will be.


LOL, yeah. I got myself an archenemy now. Eh well, she sucks anyways. I'll let her post whatever she wants...DXP is her way of ventilation...


Seems like that for a few here as well.
What is your sign, out of curiosity? I think I saw you mention earlier in here at being a Pisces?


This be my sign Winking

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Awww, I hate when they do that--they really blow that hotlinking out of proportion. What was it??
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if you tell her what your sign is, she's going to start PMing you.
trust me. you're a sag.
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