Open Relationships

How do you Pisceans (especially women) feel about open relationships?...

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by TowardAscension on Wednesday, January 11, 2012 and has 388 replies.
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Posted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....





So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?

That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?

Posted by P-Angel
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Well jeeze, I didn't mean to post this yet. Ok bring on the attacks.




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What are you babbling about this time? I'm using my I-phone and it's touch screen is sensitive. You're an idiot.
You're sour because you have been gotten in about 20 years!
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http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00
Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.
Haven't been* but you got it because that's all you're getting at home is these posts to read.
Posted by AutumnalChick
^ whoops, formatting ish.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00
Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.


Bahahaha
Posted by RealTalk
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
And real talk, don't you have a prescription that needs filling?


Eat my ass you stanken bitch. Big Grin
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No thanks, It's so worn out I'd have to fold it over to get to the middle.
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....


So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?
That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?

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was that supposed to be funny? as for a fourth grader i seem to be much more mature than you
Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....


So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?
That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?



was that supposed to be funny? as for a fourth grader i seem to be much more mature than you
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True
Posted by AutumnalChick
^ whoops, formatting ish.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00
Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.


only majority dont find out they gave HIV early, hence 10 years, not more, unless of-coarse you are loaded with money then.
I have worked with an HIV patients in a dental clinic, once i found out they had HIV (usually black men) i went out put on two pairs of glows, mask of coarse and protecting glasses before touching their mouths, i had to take x-rays, and other doctors knew immediately that he was HIV everyone kept warning everyone else.
You will really have a great bedside manner once you become a doctor!
So you can contract HIV by taking X-Rays? Wow, you are learning so much interesting stuff at this school. It must really be prestigious.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
Posted by iceredrobot
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit EuropeTongue


lol For me it's just that, what's mine is mine. I don't share well ;P
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Bingo. I don't share at all. I also don't run with scissors or play well with others. Why yes that is my marble tyvm. Suck it up. Big Grin
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Usually a good man is not interested in bringing someone home to mom and dad who has had the whole football team. By the time she realizes this and wants to settle down, it may be too late for her to be considered worthy. I can only hope he would love her enough to accept her past. I say self worth and respect because It often has to do with the relationship the girl has had with her father. Usually a non existent father or one who is too strict. She moved on in life finding comfort in many different men. It's usually those who become prostitutes and exotic dancers. M


Yes but the way the society views them is not their problem, it's the society's problem. It's the society that has a warped view on what a woman is and should be like! Don't you see that? :-/ It's like saying a woman who dresses like a "slut" has only herself to blame if she gets raped because of the way the society views her.
And you are right about bad father figures, but you do realize that we are all a product of our upbringing/enviroment so who's to say what's normal? What is a normal childhood? Is it normal to have parents that never argue and are happy because they bottle up their frustrations... or maybe they are just very compatible, doesen't matter, my question is what does it do to a kid who's a product of this "happy marriage" and eventually realizes that his own marriage is a failure in comparison, when in fact it's not! And so on. You do realize that "happines" in itself will create complexes that can have dire consequences too? So no values or principles are "normal", apart from those that are forced onto us by the society and times we live in. It's a question of norms, not what's right or wrong.
Check out the Madonna-Whore complex, btw.... Winking
He's trying to get his point across by lying. He can afford that luxury since this is internet.
Goddammit but I suck at formatting, hence the hidey above ...
Posted by KingOfAries

only majority dont find out they gave HIV early, hence 10 years, not more, unless of-coarse you are loaded with money then.
I have worked with an HIV patients in a dental clinic, once i found out they had HIV (usually black men) i went out put on two pairs of glows, mask of coarse and protecting glasses before touching their mouths, i had to take x-rays, and other doctors knew immediately that he was HIV everyone kept warning everyone else.



Where are you getting your information? Seriously, I really do want to know. Not to be a bitch or derail this thread into a huge HIV awareness campaign, (because it is so mich more fun watching people tear each other a new asshole or discussing revolving-door vaginas) ... but ... having worked with an HIV clinic and having traveled to Africa to participate in HIV education programs and medical clinics, my JOB was to educate people about the realities of HIV and AIDS. To say that most people aren't diagnosed early is just plain wrong, I was in western Kenya where people were living in mud huts, for fuck's sake, and people there were getting their diagnosis within a year of being infected.
The blanket statements you are making may be true of CERTAIN populations but not all, and nobody who was well informed would ever make any sort of sweeping generalizations like "10 years not more," because each case varies from individual circumstances to what society they are living in and what resources are available to them. To say you have to be loaded with money to get treatment is also, again, just plain wrong. I can direct you to several non-profit progams that help indigent people to pay for HIV treatment.
Also, you don't need two pairs of gloves, mask and protective goggles to protect you from HIV when taking dental x-rays. One pair of surgical gloves is what is used by doctors (real doctors) and nurses who spend their careers working with HIV patients.
And that is all I'm gonna preach about HIV, I don't want to hijack this thread but as someone who *is* rather well informed about HIV and AIDS I could not sit back and watch this misinformation being spread.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Usually a good man is not interested in bringing someone home to mom and dad who has had the whole football team. By the time she realizes this and wants to settle down, it may be too late for her to be considered worthy. I can only hope he would love her enough to accept her past. I say self worth and respect because It often has to do with the relationship the girl has had with her father. Usually a non existent father or one who is too strict. She moved on in life finding comfort in many different men. It's usually those who become prostitutes and exotic dancers. M


Yes but the way the society views them is not their problem, it's the society's problem. It's the society that has a warped view on what a woman is and should be like! Don't you see that? :-/ It's like saying a woman who dresses like a "slut" has only herself to blame if she gets raped because of the way the society views her.
And you are right about bad father figures, but you do realize that we are all a product of our upbringing/enviroment so who's to say what's normal? What is a normal childhood? Is it normal to have parents that never argue and are happy because they bottle up their frustrations... or maybe they are just very compatible, doesen't matter, my question is what does it do to a kid who's a product of this "happy marriage" and eventually realizes that his own marriage is a failure in comparison, when in fact it's not! And so on. You do realize that "happines" in itself will create complexes that can have dire consequences too? So no values or principles are "normal", apart from those that are forced onto us by the society and times we live in. It's a question of norms, not what's right or wrong.
Check out the Madonna-Whore complex, btw.... Winking
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That makes a lot of sense. Still, it is not her fault she was raped but her dress does bring on that kind of attention. Just like when a guy knows a girl is easy, he treats her as such and usually is not willing to see what she has on the inside. I agree with you though that we are a product of our upbringing and it is not our fault the thoughts and mannerisms that were instilled in us. I'm a product of a wonderful and peaceful marriage, so my idea of marriage that is acceptable might not be that of ano
That makes a lot of sense. Still, it is not her fault she was raped but her dress does bring on that kind of attention. Just like when a guy knows a girl is easy, he treats her as such and usually is not willing to see what she has on the inside. I agree with you though that we are a product of our upbringing and it is not our fault the thoughts and mannerisms that were instilled in us. I'm a product of a wonderful and peaceful marriage, so my idea of marriage that is acceptable might not be that of another. Same goes for acts of sex.
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ive read it before you hid it no need to repost it, thing is, what youve been telling them is usual crap to make them feel better, i studied microbiology, viruses, i know how that stuff works, i actually know what those tiny virions do how they infect spread and how the secondary stage comes - AIDS, and how the immune system is gradually degrading, average is 10 years before you get AIDS. real doctors huh? you mean doctors with limited resources? firstly in dentistry we use sharp tools, we rip ur gums from your bones which are bleeding and if we puncture our glow we have a chance of getting infected
Posted by P-Angel

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I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
So you can contract HIV by taking X-Rays? Wow, you are learning so much interesting stuff at this school. It must really be prestigious.


your sarcasm didnt work lol, yes shyt happens what if he has a really sharp tooth which was bleeding, i dont wanna die cause of some fag who likes other guys asses no freaking way i wanna live and make money not die cause i was too lazy to put two pairs of glows on, besides i wasnt the only one who reacted that way, the doctor put on two pairs as well
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ive read it before you hid it no need to repost it, thing is, what youve been telling them is usual crap to make them feel better, i studied microbiology, viruses, i know how that stuff works, i actually know what those tiny virions do how they infect spread and how the secondary stage comes - AIDS, and how the immune system is gradually degrading, average is 10 years before you get AIDS. real doctors huh? you mean doctors with limited resources? firstly in dentistry we use sharp tools, we rip ur gums from your bones which are bleeding and if we puncture our glow we have a chance of getting infected
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I mean doctors from the University of California-San Francisco. Not really "limited resources."
Dude, you don't know shit.
That is all.
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.


usually you dont rip your glow, you poke it through with something sharp nearly as a needle, and most of the time glow isnt the only thing you poke, especially when youre washing instruments
Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.


usually you dont rip your glow, you poke it through with something sharp nearly as a needle, and most of the time glow isnt the only thing you poke, especially when youre washing instruments
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It is a fucking GLOVE. GLOVE. G-L-O-V-E.
Are you seriously in college?
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Posted by KingOfAries
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ive read it before you hid it no need to repost it, thing is, what youve been telling them is usual crap to make them feel better, i studied microbiology, viruses, i know how that stuff works, i actually know what those tiny virions do how they infect spread and how the secondary stage comes - AIDS, and how the immune system is gradually degrading, average is 10 years before you get AIDS. real doctors huh? you mean doctors with limited resources? firstly in dentistry we use sharp tools, we rip ur gums from your bones which are bleeding and if we puncture our glow we have a chance of getting infected


I mean doctors from the University of California-San Francisco. Not really "limited resources."
Dude, you don't know shit.
That is all.
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exactly doctor, not dentists who hold a sharp mini electric drill in one hand and a mirror in the other hand, while assistants fingers are half a centimeter away
Posted by enfant_terrible
Check out the Madonna-Whore complex, btw.... Winking


omg someone here knows what that is!!! I'm high 5ing the screen lolTongue
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Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.


usually you dont rip your glow, you poke it through with something sharp nearly as a needle, and most of the time glow isnt the only thing you poke, especially when youre washing instruments


It is a fucking GLOVE. GLOVE. G-L-O-V-E.
Are you seriously in college?
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thanks i wondered why my computer kept autocorrecting lol, no im joking im in the kinder garden, bye gotta go study
Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.


usually you dont rip your glow, you poke it through with something sharp nearly as a needle, and most of the time glow isnt the only thing you poke, especially when youre washing instruments
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are you on any of those painkillers right now or is your glow cutting off the circulation to your brain?
Posted by KingOfAries
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Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I doubt you have any type of glow about you but I bet if you rip your glove you could become infected Doggie.


usually you dont rip your glow, you poke it through with something sharp nearly as a needle, and most of the time glow isnt the only thing you poke, especially when youre washing instruments


It is a fucking GLOVE. GLOVE. G-L-O-V-E.
Are you seriously in college?


thanks i wondered why my computer kept autocorrecting lol, no im joking im in the kinder garden, bye gotta go study
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Hahaha
All right! Back to talking about revolving-door vaginas, Madonna/Whore complex and flinging personal insults.
I'll start, I dated a Cancer with Madonna/whore complex. We had an amazing sex life for like the first six months, he was insatiable, then he stopped being able to have sex after we started talking about marriage and children. Turns out he couldnt have sex with anyone he was seriously considering marrying.
Yes, we broke up and yes he is still single and childless.
His loss
No shit! It is a terrible complex to have!
Mine, too, cuz we really were compatible in so many ways and the sex was great ... while I was the Whore. When I became the Madonna, it went down the toilet!
The good ones don't want whores. You are thankful he left, I'm sure.
Well they want the "lady on the street" kind of whore.
Posted by Chocokat
Maybe, it's just me, but I hate using the word slut. I've peer counseled in high school and now in college. I've worked and have had personal conversations with these "so-called sluts". Just hearing the word "slut" creep out of someone's mouth makes me cringe..
I also grew up around a lot of sexist pigs, thus why I will never tear down another woman..
Damn my Pisces Moon..


Consider the one(s) who use it.
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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
It's refreshing to see, especially a young guy feel about it the way you feel winter. And your woman is going to feel so special when she learns that about you.


In full agreement smile We need more young men around to think with the same policy, one key- one lock


Indeed. smile This key has but two purposes. And one applies to what you've said. The other?
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Tongue


The other, hmm good question...what is the other??


Key-fiddling. Tongue
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That's the most important part of the unlocking. She'll keep it unlocked for you if you fiddle.
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Posted by iceredrobot
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit EuropeTongue


lol For me it's just that, what's mine is mine. I don't share well ;P
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Amen APP! I've only been with 2 guys and I have no problem stating such. 200 to 250 is just fucking nasty. There is no way you can remember faces, names and experiences. You would have a tiker taker hanging off of your thigh or like the DMV you should have a electric sign that says now serving...
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Posted by P-Angel

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Preach hun!
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Posted by aPiscesPrincess
Posted by iceredrobot
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit EuropeTongue


lol For me it's just that, what's mine is mine. I don't share well ;P


Amen APP! I've only been with 2 guys and I have no problem stating such. 200 to 250 is just fucking nasty. There is no way you can remember faces, names and experiences. You would have a tiker taker hanging off of your thigh or like the DMV you should have a electric sign that says now serving...
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That is an excellent visual, thanks tbird! hahaha!
I don't share well either. Significant others, that is. I am very generous with other things.
The Cancer I referred to earlier, with the Madonna-Whore complex ... interestingly I DID try the open relationship thing with him. I was not getting sex anyway and we were in a long-distance relationship only seeing each other on occasion ... and when we DID see each other, no sex. This was not okay with me after a while so I suggested we try seeing other people while maintaining our relationship. We were gonna be totally honest with each other and all that. Well he got another chick on the side IMMEDIATELY (which bothered me, heh) and when I went to visit him I found condom wrappers in his car, so I knew he was having sex with HER and not me ... I guess I could have comforted myself by reminding myself that in his fucked-up brain she was the Whore and I was the Madonna. But, in reality I am neither Madonna nor whore, just a regular Scorpio chick who needs her lovin'. And I was consuuuuumed with jealousy, and ended up just breaking up.
So even though I initiated the open relationship, it turned out I couldn't handle it.
Lesson learned.
Lastly I would like to thank KingofAries for giving us the excellent lock-and-key analogy which everyone here is flogging like a dead horse! smile
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Posted by iceredrobot
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit EuropeTongue


lol For me it's just that, what's mine is mine. I don't share well ;P


Amen APP! I've only been with 2 guys and I have no problem stating such. 200 to 250 is just fucking nasty. There is no way you can remember faces, names and experiences. You would have a tiker taker hanging off of your thigh or like the DMV you should have a electric sign that says now serving...
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Bahahahaha hahahaha hahaha bahahaha
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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Posted by winterwrought
Posted by LadyScorpP
Posted by winterwrought
Posted by LadyScorpP
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
It's refreshing to see, especially a young guy feel about it the way you feel winter. And your woman is going to feel so special when she learns that about you.


In full agreement smile We need more young men around to think with the same policy, one key- one lock


Indeed. smile This key has but two purposes. And one applies to what you've said. The other?
...
Tongue


The other, hmm good question...what is the other??


Key-fiddling. Tongue

That's the most important part of the unlocking. She'll keep it unlocked for you if you fiddle.


As he does with his key, she can fiddle with her lock. Tongue As long as neither one's 'fiddling' reveals realms that a key-to-lock one can't. That would kind of defeat the purpose of key-to-lock.
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One can fiddle with their own lock, yes. But never as good as one who bears the skeleton key.
One that knows how to unlock all the hidden passages in her castle.
Sounds perfect. She would be happy to oblige to a man willing to explore all of those secret places.
@MeMyselfAndIntrigued: Sure, there is a logic in that a woman who behaves or dresses in a certain way will get attention from a certain type of men. But the fact that a guy sees you as cheap and accessable based on the way you dress doesen't make you cheap and accessable. It's their problem, not yours. So why should you care what that guy thinks? A girl with inappropriate clothing deserves to be raped just as much as I deserve to be mugged walking in a dark alley with a suitcase full of cash. Carelessness is not a crime.
The way you dress cannot summorize your values or your life-story. Like once upon a time I was madly in love with this Pisces chick who would dress "slutty", not trashy, just sexy in a modern sense of the word. She had a bad rep, everyone assumed she's been with a busload of guys in her past, yet this girl has never even touched a weewee nor let a weewee touch her, lol. She just exercised her right to show off her body and feel sexy about it! That "slut" is in her early 20's and still a virgin. One day she's gonna make a guy like me very happy, lol. So will you.. Winking

But your "resentment" towards optional values and principles on this subject seem to stem from your own sense of inadequacy. Even if you can stand up for your values, you are upset about the fact that "sluts" are praised in the context where you are labelled as "prudish", which is usually misinterpreted as "being unable to satisfy your man". I know you don't have to hear this from me, but you're good the way you are. No one is everyone's type. Stick to your own crowd and accept that those who do not share your principles are not wrong!
I'm quite old-fashioned myself, I have a very strict image of what type of woman I'm looking for when it comes to a potential partner. In terms of intimacy the ideal woman is someone who doesen't enjoy sex for the sake of sex, but because it's with me. I cannot however bring myself to judge those women who DO enjoy sex with anyone, because if anything, they are like me. So what I value in a potential partner is quite the opposite of how I am myself. As you can tell, I'm intrigued by gender-stereotypes but that doesen't make me blind. I still get the big picture.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Check out the Madonna-Whore complex, btw....


omg someone here knows what that is!!! I'm high 5ing the screen lol
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Haha high 5ing back! I thought that was common knowledge? Love your blog btw, it's astrology gone pop-art..Tongue I wish you would personalize it more by writing more of your own stuff though...
You're alive and well again, PiscesPrincess? I've missed peeking up your skirt, lol
You guys act like sex with 200 men is a bad thingTongue whatevs being a *slut* is fun, and I use rubber so it's all cool lol
I feel like I shouldn't be saying this in the presence of my avi xD
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Posted by enfant_terrible
You're alive and well again, PiscesPrincess? I've missed peeking up your skirt, lol


haha Yes I'm alive Tongue Well you can still look up my skirt if you want, it's still in my pics ;P
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Yeah but I value your inputs too, not only your sweet ass... Tongue