Other viewpoints please .........
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by P-Angel on Friday, May 2, 2008 and has 6 replies.
Just last night at my poker tournament, a girl (Cancer) commented to me about all the guys I flirt with. She said this, looked over at my husband with eyes to suggest to me that she was insinuating that I'm somehow betraying my husband by regarding these men .. and it has left me flabbergasted.
Men ..
1) Scorpio (age 55) .. always stands up at the beginning of the tourney to find where I'm sitting and then plants a big smile on his face and nods to me. This happens every time. I smile back and nod, or wave.
2) Virgo (age 19) .. always puts his arm around my shoulders whenever in close proximity of each other beforehand/after, or during breaks.
3) Gemini (around 30) .. has dinner with me at the Tavern before the game (husband is drinking beer with his friends and doesn't eat with us).
4) Virgo (age 48) .. always tries to sit next to me during the tourney's because he has a political blog-site, and I love to hear his passionate talk, and he enjoys the attention since most of his other friends tire of his incessant critiquing.
5) Pisces (age 50) .. takes vodka shots with me, and during the tourney when one of us has mucked, we take turns running to the bar to fetch the shots then find each other .. say cheers and down our liquor together.
6) Sagittarius (unknown, around 40) ..
7) Scorpio (33) ..
8) 9) 10) .... the list goes on and on
Anyway .. am I blind? Why would this woman say, or think that I'm being flirty with these men simply because we are friends, and share time together being happy? My husband is right there, enjoying his personal friends .. some of them female. He doesn't think anything is wrong with me having male friends.
But ... maybe I'm being ignorant here. Does the above sound like I'm flirting? Or, just being friendly with my male friends?
Men ..
1) Scorpio (age 55) .. always stands up at the beginning of the tourney to find where I'm sitting and then plants a big smile on his face and nods to me. This happens every time. I smile back and nod, or wave.
2) Virgo (age 19) .. always puts his arm around my shoulders whenever in close proximity of each other beforehand/after, or during breaks.
3) Gemini (around 30) .. has dinner with me at the Tavern before the game (husband is drinking beer with his friends and doesn't eat with us).
4) Virgo (age 48) .. always tries to sit next to me during the tourney's because he has a political blog-site, and I love to hear his passionate talk, and he enjoys the attention since most of his other friends tire of his incessant critiquing.
5) Pisces (age 50) .. takes vodka shots with me, and during the tourney when one of us has mucked, we take turns running to the bar to fetch the shots then find each other .. say cheers and down our liquor together.
6) Sagittarius (unknown, around 40) ..
7) Scorpio (33) ..
8) 9) 10) .... the list goes on and on
Anyway .. am I blind? Why would this woman say, or think that I'm being flirty with these men simply because we are friends, and share time together being happy? My husband is right there, enjoying his personal friends .. some of them female. He doesn't think anything is wrong with me having male friends.
But ... maybe I'm being ignorant here. Does the above sound like I'm flirting? Or, just being friendly with my male friends?
It doesn't feel like flirting to me .. every single one of them are indeed my friends. We see each other during other social events, also. Several of them I play in cash-games with them.
Hell, the Virgo who is obssessed with politics .. I'm friends with his girlfriend and will be seeing her tomorrow night (she doesn't play poker). My husband is right in the same room with us .. it's not like we're humping each other in the corner.
A Leo man winked at me last night, and she (Cancer girl) saw it, and I just smiled at him when he winked .. and I think maybe this is what prompted her to have these thoughts. The thing is, though .. he winked at me because he took me out with the same hand I took him out 2 weeks ago at a cash-game (a set of 10's), which he slow-played, so he tricked me into going all-in .. so the wink was meaning ...
"Ah-ha, gottcha. Paybacks a bitch" .. it was a joke wink.
Thanks for the responses, for you all know how I am about being ignorant to reality .. and I've been sitting here all day, thinking .. oh my god, I am one .. it's right in my face and I cannot see it.
You've made me feel better .... thank you.
Hell, the Virgo who is obssessed with politics .. I'm friends with his girlfriend and will be seeing her tomorrow night (she doesn't play poker). My husband is right in the same room with us .. it's not like we're humping each other in the corner.
A Leo man winked at me last night, and she (Cancer girl) saw it, and I just smiled at him when he winked .. and I think maybe this is what prompted her to have these thoughts. The thing is, though .. he winked at me because he took me out with the same hand I took him out 2 weeks ago at a cash-game (a set of 10's), which he slow-played, so he tricked me into going all-in .. so the wink was meaning ...
"Ah-ha, gottcha. Paybacks a bitch" .. it was a joke wink.
Thanks for the responses, for you all know how I am about being ignorant to reality .. and I've been sitting here all day, thinking .. oh my god, I am one .. it's right in my face and I cannot see it.
You've made me feel better .... thank you.
My friends and co-workers tell me that I'm a flirt all the time. Maybe I am, maybe I'm not. I just think I'm friendly.
"Hell for all she knows he might (your husband) get his kicks from watching you flirt.."
So, I am flirting, Starfish
It's doubtful, for he's too busy being consumed with his own personal friends, and the ones we have in common. He doesn't even pay me any mind, most of the time .. unless each other needs something from each other, like money, or a cigarette.
Hell, he has one female friend there (Pisces - 17, same birthday as me), who he gave a piggy-back ride out to her car because she turned her ankle going down the stairs a couple months ago. I didn't care, she's my friend, too .. and he was being a gentlemen, and helping her.
I don't get it ... maybe this Cancer girl has the hotts for my husband and so she's just scoping me out, to see if I'm paying attention.
So, I am flirting, Starfish
It's doubtful, for he's too busy being consumed with his own personal friends, and the ones we have in common. He doesn't even pay me any mind, most of the time .. unless each other needs something from each other, like money, or a cigarette.
Hell, he has one female friend there (Pisces - 17, same birthday as me), who he gave a piggy-back ride out to her car because she turned her ankle going down the stairs a couple months ago. I didn't care, she's my friend, too .. and he was being a gentlemen, and helping her.
I don't get it ... maybe this Cancer girl has the hotts for my husband and so she's just scoping me out, to see if I'm paying attention.
It doesn't feel like flirting to me .. every single one of them are indeed my friends. We see each other during other social events, also. Several of them I play in cash-games with them.
I'm called a flirt just because I'm friendly. It's annoying (to say the least) because I know when I'm being friendly and when I'm trying to get attention.
I think this woman was just trying to get your goat, she was just trying to start trouble. She reminds me of a former scorpio friend of mind -- she was always in my affairs and she was a trouble maker. I'm glad to be rid of her!
I don't get it ... maybe this Cancer girl has the hotts for my husband and so she's just scoping me out, to see if I'm paying attention.
Oh I missed that! She's a cancer ??? Oh dear, then yeah she was trying to cause trouble hahaha she was just in that kind of mood. Don't let her know she has upset you because that's what she was trying to do.
I'm called a flirt just because I'm friendly. It's annoying (to say the least) because I know when I'm being friendly and when I'm trying to get attention.
I think this woman was just trying to get your goat, she was just trying to start trouble. She reminds me of a former scorpio friend of mind -- she was always in my affairs and she was a trouble maker. I'm glad to be rid of her!
I don't get it ... maybe this Cancer girl has the hotts for my husband and so she's just scoping me out, to see if I'm paying attention.
Oh I missed that! She's a cancer ??? Oh dear, then yeah she was trying to cause trouble hahaha she was just in that kind of mood. Don't let her know she has upset you because that's what she was trying to do.
My initial response was the same as Prince Pisces. I think she is jealous that you get that kind of attention from other men.
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