Pices Men are horrible my advice to all ladies "stay away!"

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Aquastic on Monday, February 8, 2016 and has 177 replies.
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So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine until when I woke up this morning, booom! he's changed his profile pic,it's him and this other girl kissing! The worst thing I have ever come ACROSS.Me and him were doing just fine. I really don't know what I did to him for him to do this to me. I wish he could have told me something. I really don't feel like talking to him right now. This is so painful I won't lie to myself. Are pisces men this horrible? what could have pushed him to do this to me.

I don't know what to do. Should I confront him or should I take this as a message to back off!?
What are his other planets?
maybe he doesnt feel loved by you enough, so he decided to take a drastic action
or, he really want you to back off.....

hard to say without more background
Damn!!!
Until the words come out of someone else mouth do you want to be my gff. And there's a yes then that would be messed up. If you don't hear those words and hear I am not ready or something like that. Then can do whatever. .
@Arielle m broken , but I will try to not care .
@Pandora ja maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause of I'm an aquarius woman who hardly show affection. I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him. we don't talk everyday. But I was under the impression that we were fine so I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.
I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy everyday. I have a life outside of the relationship. so we don't really see each other everyday.

And besides, he always expect me to initiate meeting, or going out. but he's always available when I need to see him or plans something out. He hardly comes up with plans.
@firstdecan, this man we were even planning to have babies together. He was even telling me that one day we will get married. I was sure about him , maybe he did not trust me enuf.
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little

My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.

Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.

The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons



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Posted by Aquastic
So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine until when I woke up this morning, booom! he's changed his profile pic,it's him and this other girl kissing! The worst thing I have ever come ACROSS.Me and him were doing just fine. I really don't know what I did to him for him to do this to me. I wish he could have told me something. I really don't feel like talking to him right now. This is so painful I won't lie to myself. Are pisces men this horrible? what could have pushed him to do this to me.

I don't know what to do. Should I confront him or should I take this as a message to back off!?

That's awful, don't blame yourself for "pushing" him to do it. Allow yourself to cry to feel sad for a few days. It's perfectly normal to be upset in this situation.

If you were in a committed relationship you have every right to ask him what is going on. Be polite during the conversation yet be authentic to express your emotions.
@Op- you dodged a bullet then..
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little

My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.

Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.

The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons



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@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.

As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!

He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.

but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!
Posted by Aquastic
@Pandora ja maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause of I'm an aquarius woman who hardly show affection. I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him. we don't talk everyday. But I was under the impression that we were fine so I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.
I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy everyday. I have a life outside of the relationship. so we don't really see each other everyday.

And besides, he always expect me to initiate meeting, or going out. but he's always available when I need to see him or plans something out. He hardly comes up with plans.

Listen bitch I CLEANSE YOU! now move on from this, have your moment, learn your lesson and move on. You've already given him too much
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little

My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.

Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.

The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons



.

@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.

As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!

He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.

but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!
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If you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequences
Thank you Arielle83. That's what I was telling myself that I know he showed me his true colours before we even got married or had a child together. I have learned a lot from him about love and relationships. I will do better in my next relationship because of the experience.
I am probably a challenge for him cause I don't follow him around or show signs of jealousy , I have a life.

@ eleventh sign , I get you , but how do I treetrunk ? if you me how would you tretrunk him, advice.
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Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little

My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.

Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.

The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons



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@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.

As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!

He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.

but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!

If you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequences
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@ The_ Eleventh _Sign if u were in my situation , how would you treetrunk him?
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.
Posted by Nemilicious
really, revenge? how fucking important do you think you are lol?

@Nemilicious you know sometimes when things like this happen ,one can't help but think of the most horrible things to do to the one who have broken me,not that I will do anything. NO!
Posted by MysteriousPresence
Thankfully not all Pisces men are like that. If I really like a girl, I would want to stick with her.
This is Aquarian business and should be handled the Aquarian way....

The age of Aquarius is a force of nature, when there is a corrupt government taking advantage of society the only thing that can take it down is a storm, sure there are casualties but in the end the survivors learn the ultimate lesson and grow from it, that's Aquarian power right there, we are violent but not fighters, we are indifferent when delivering justice.
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Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little

My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.

Since thenot their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.

The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons



.

@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.

As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!

He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.

but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!

If you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequences

@ The_ Eleventh _Sign if u were in my situation , how would you treetrunk him?
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The only thing you can do is cut him off completely, tell all mutual friends what he has done and what he's capable of, forgive and forget him COMPLETELY....
It's the hardest thing to do but that's how you chop off their heads
@Pector what makes you say that. I wonder......?
Posted by pector
what a stupid little girl you are

@Pector what makes you say that. still wondering......?
Use pector as an example, he's a prawn, rip off his head that's what everyone's been doing.

@Pector WOW! that's all I can say to people like you!
The _eleventh -sign-11 ,I won't waste my time on "a Pector", hes gonna rip his head off byself without me trying.
Hey guys does this forum have a block button somewhere? please help!
I am not sure how this will work out, thought I m thinking of driving to his place and talk to him.I will even pack all of his stuff in my place and return them to him.To be honest I think I keep hurting myself by staying in this toxic relationship.I know my worth and it's about time I claim it by staying away from people who don't add value to my life.I wanna do things differently for myself from now on, I wanna prove to myself that life does not have to revolve around people I "think" love me.I have a lot going on for me to even stress myself about people who behave like kids. Maybe this guy is just bitter that I hve achieved lot since he's known me , and he hasn't.I work hard for everything I have, never asked for help from men.I hope one day I will back and laugh at all this!
Thanks @ Starwars m not even gonna waste time.
Posted by Aquastic
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.

I know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.

Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.
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@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.

I know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.

Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.
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Ja hey, I will just do that from now on.Thing is I hate breaks ups, But I guess I can't ignore all this.
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@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.

I know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.

Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.

Ja hey, I will just do that from now on.Thing is I hate breaks ups, But I guess I can't ignore all this.
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Break up is never easy on dumper and dumpee. There will be feelings of self blaming and thoughts of "what if"

Focus on what you want and what make syou happy. Don't ignore your own feelings, let your emotionas out to heal yourself.

Ja hey ,and this guy has a lot of other issues that I deal with. I really don't need this adding to the list of issues. I 'm not perfect myself , but I never pulled a stunt this ridiculous. He's makes happy when m with and all that, but it's really not worth me suffering like this.
Posted by Aquastic
Ja hey ,and this guy has a lot of other issues that I deal with. I really don't need this adding to the list of issues. I 'm not perfect myself , but I never pulled a stunt this ridiculous. He's makes happy when m with and all that, but it's really not worth me suffering like this.

Sounds like you already know what needs to be done.
Posted by starwars
im a wet blanket

@ Starwars m not sure if I understand what you mean by wet blanket.
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Ja hey ,and this guy has a lot of other issues that I deal with. I really don't need this adding to the list of issues. I 'm not perfect myself , but I never pulled a stunt this ridiculous. He's makes happy when m with and all that, but it's really not worth me suffering like this.

Sounds like you already know what needs to be done.
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The more I talk about it , the more I realise how bad it has become, and how I really need to do something about it before I go insane.
Posted by Aquastic
So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine

LOL! Contradicting yourself from the first sentence!

A relationship cannot be "off" and "going fine". If it's on/off, leave it there. You two are not compatible long term. You are just delaying the final "off".
@ Udine Yoh! yah I get all of that, the relationship was on and off, and we were both trying to fix things. And I somewhat thought everything was fine ,I guess I fooled myself into believing that. Yha I guess you are right by saying we are delaying the "off".
Shit I burnt my popcorn.
@ Captain The only reason I would put up with all this was because I was going through a lot of family problems when we started dating, I somewhat neglected him , and guess that created a very bad foundation for us both. I had lost a lot of confidence in myself and my self-esteem had gone very low, this man showed me love at my lowest point in life , that's why I hung on.

I wish you had gone through what I went through , then you would understand how it feels like to be confused! It's not a nice feeling at all to keep thinking that the other person is acting the way they acting towards you just because you might have done something wrong to them. To think there's something wrong with you when there isn't .To think you need to fix yourself just so the other person can like you more. It's called emotional abuse, very hard to come of a relationship where you are being emotionally abused cause you don't have the bruises to show it.Most people don't understand it, very quick to judge and give unthoughtfull advice .*just saying*
Thanks @ Captain that's a profound advice.
Posted by Aquastic
@Pandora ja maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause of I'm an aquarius woman who hardly show affection. I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him. we don't talk everyday. But I was under the impression that we were fine so I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.
I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy everyday. I have a life outside of the relationship. so we don't really see each other everyday.

And besides, he always expect me to initiate meeting, or going out. but he's always available when I need to see him or plans something out. He hardly comes up with plans.

you just said it yourself, you hardly show affection....

so he is not getting from you what he needs. and you call him when you wanna see him.

you already KNOW your faults...so why are you acting like the victim??

he must be attracted to you somehow to be with a woman like you....

so i wonder what is in his placements that make him attracted to someone like you.

yet you abuse him (not physically) but emotionally withhold alot of what you can't give him.

you KNOW this, and you've even said it in your posts. So what is wrong with you???
women like you kind of piiss me off.
Posted by Aquastic
I wish you had gone through what I went through , then you would understand how it feels like to be confused! It's not a nice feeling at all to keep thinking that the other person is acting the way they acting towards you just because you might have done something wrong to them. To think there's something wrong with you when there isn't .To think you need to fix yourself just so the other person can like you more. It's called emotional abuse, very hard to come of a relationship where you are being emotionally abused cause you don't have the bruises to show it.Most people don't understand it, very quick to judge and give unthoughtfull advice .*just saying*

you're an idiot.

you can't even cut things off with him. that would have been much healthier for you and him.

@Tiziani thanks , I really need to know why he did this. I will talk to him when I have cooled off.I don't wanna find myself screaming at him cause I won't get answers.
Posted by 69
OP NEEDS TO GET HER TEETH SMASHED BY A MEDIUM-SIZED ROCK

when i read her posts i feel like that too.....

it makes me wanna kick her ass.

IDIOCY should not be walking around having relationships.


but dumbs dumbs never are happy anyway with anyone.
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I am not sure how this will work out, thought I m thinking of driving to his place and talk to him.I will even pack all of his stuff in my place and return them to him.To be honest I think I keep hurting myself by staying in this toxic relationship.I know my worth and it's about time I claim it by staying away from people who don't add value to my life.I wanna do things differently for myself from now on, I wanna prove to myself that life does not have to revolve around people I "think" love me.I have a lot going on for me to even stress myself about people who behave like kids. Maybe this guy is just bitter that I hve achieved lot since he's known me , and he hasn't.I work hard for everything I have, never asked for help from men.I hope one day I will back and laugh at all this!



Ehhh how about you just not talk to him at all. Sure when you see him to get your personal belongings you should be cordial, but I would keep it to a minimum. What's the point of talking to someone who clearly didn't give a damn to talk it out in the first place ? I would just move on. He sold you dreams, men are good at that shit. Sad but true.
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anyway....


girll....you look like Alyssa Sharpe with that "pose" with your hands over your mouth like that.

Saw Alyssa Sharpe's Facebook profile a week ago when linked from her YouTube. lol and her pose is just like that.

she has pisces rising. Big Grin

you must have some libra.
@Lisabethur8 you don't get to call me an idiot! no you don't know me that well. Just because I posted about my relationship doesn't give you any right to call me an idiot!
Posted by Aquastic
@Lisabethur8 you don't get to call me an idiot! no you don't know me that well. Just because I posted about my relationship doesn't give you any right to call me an idiot!

you are a fucking liar.

did you not read what your posts said??


it's like you are deliberately being STUPID.

ok this is troll..
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