Pisces 2nd Decan and Cancer 2nd Decan
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Numerouno on Monday, August 28, 2017 and has 8 replies.
I'm a Pisces man born 2nd Decan and in a relationship with a cancer woman who is also born in 2nd Decan. We have been dating for over 2 months, but it's is warm and cold, intense and aloof. Sometimes the Cancer is full of passion and sometimes it's just very aloof. Being a cancer from second Decan, my partner is very analytical and has a very matter of fact approach. While, it's great to be so 'matter of fact' it sometimes feels cold and she does not care. Has any Pisces encountered this before? Or I'm hurt being insecure.
Posted by NumerounoJust because she's a "water" sign doesn't mean she empathizes and sympathizes like we, Pisceans do. She's her own individual person; so are you. My Taurean (John); with the hurricane we had didn't call to find out if I was "okay". This doesn't mean he doesn't care (he's an earth sign); he just wants a "strong" woman as I've mentioned to him a couple of weeks ago I had just mowed the lawn and he said, "Sexy". Read up on Cancerian women...too tired to cut and paste. You're an adult; you know how to "Google".
I'm a Pisces man born 2nd Decan and in a relationship with a cancer woman who is also born in 2nd Decan. We have been dating for over 2 months, but it's is warm and cold, intense and aloof. Sometimes the Cancer is full of passion and sometimes it's just very aloof. Being a cancer from second Decan, my partner is very analytical and has a very matter of fact approach. While, it's great to be so 'matter of fact' it sometimes feels cold and she does not care. Has any Pisces encountered this before? Or I'm hurt being insecure.
Yeah, it's you...too sensitive.
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Aren't Cancer women supposed to be caring loving people? I find it hard to understand that
she can be so aloof suddenly. Also, we just got back from a weekend trip, that I had setup just for her. Ideally, it should have brought us closer, but when we split to go home, it almost felt like something was weird.
she can be so aloof suddenly. Also, we just got back from a weekend trip, that I had setup just for her. Ideally, it should have brought us closer, but when we split to go home, it almost felt like something was weird.
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by NumerounoJust because she's a "water" sign doesn't mean she empathizes and sympathizes like we, Pisceans do. She's her own individual person; so are you. My Taurean (John); with the hurricane we had didn't call to find out if I was "okay". This doesn't mean he doesn't care (he's an earth sign); he just wants a "strong" woman as I've mentioned to him a couple of weeks ago I had just mowed the lawn and he said, "Sexy". Read up on Cancerian women...too tired to cut and paste. You're an adult; you know how to "Google".
I'm a Pisces man born 2nd Decan and in a relationship with a cancer woman who is also born in 2nd Decan. We have been dating for over 2 months, but it's is warm and cold, intense and aloof. Sometimes the Cancer is full of passion and sometimes it's just very aloof. Being a cancer from second Decan, my partner is very analytical and has a very matter of fact approach. While, it's great to be so 'matter of fact' it sometimes feels cold and she does not care. Has any Pisces encountered this before? Or I'm hurt being insecure.
Yeah, it's you...too sensitive.
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Aren't Cancer women supposed to be caring loving people? I find it hard to understand that
she can be so aloof suddenly. Also, we just got back from a weekend trip, that I had setup just for her. Ideally, it should have brought us closer, but when we split to go home, it almost felt like something was weird.
I might be wrong, but I think sometimes it has to do with instability and insecurity. I was dating a Pisces some month ago, i was the one who did the first move and things didn't work. First, because he was in contact with his ex girlfriend, that made me feel insecure, but the problem was that I was too hesitant... sometimes I disappeared hours when he texted me, I was cold only in my messages, I wanted to seem free and easy going... I used some excuses such as "my whatsapp doesn't work" and so on... i did this because I felt insecure... sometimes as cancers we are afraid of being left behind, of being just part of a game... I don't know if it's your girl's case, but sometimes we want our man to convince us he loves us... not with gifts or letters: actions speak louder than words, remember? If you think she is really interested in you or she has feelings for you, which is likely her case otherwise she wouldn't date you and become warm-cold constantly, fight for her, the only thing you have to do is call her and very romantically tell her you were thinking of her, visit her surprisingly and tell her you wanted to see her, tell her you love the way She looks, and if she tells you she likes sth (i.e. A chocolate or a candy) give her that chocolate (only little things, you don't need to be extravagant) and be constant, kiss her tenderly, express what you think and feel... I believe this is a very sweet partnership that can really work, but I've I read cancer reflects the environment and Pisces absorb it, that's why sometimes it causes lots of confusion among the partners, but I hope your story works... cancer-Pisces is a duo I would definitely bet for! Sometimes we like our partner to be decided and assertive, and Pisces are very wishy washy, but your sweetness and tenderness will win her, believe me, in a real partner we prefer that rather than a strong personality... That's my point of view... I might be wrong, but cancers tend to hide because they fear to be hurt... if I can tell you my Story in a private message, let me know, please I would like to know if I can do something with the Pisces I told you... if not, no problem... good luck and best wishes with your story.
Posted by NumerounoAction speaks louder than words....are you going to try harder, leave her, or talk to her? Just like I mentioned in my first line, "Just because she's a water sign".....same as saying just because she's a woman she is feminine (we CAN be, but strong and independent, too).Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by NumerounoJust because she's a "water" sign doesn't mean she empathizes and sympathizes like we, Pisceans do. She's her own individual person; so are you. My Taurean (John); with the hurricane we had didn't call to find out if I was "okay". This doesn't mean he doesn't care (he's an earth sign); he just wants a "strong" woman as I've mentioned to him a couple of weeks ago I had just mowed the lawn and he said, "Sexy". Read up on Cancerian women...too tired to cut and paste. You're an adult; you know how to "Google".
I'm a Pisces man born 2nd Decan and in a relationship with a cancer woman who is also born in 2nd Decan. We have been dating for over 2 months, but it's is warm and cold, intense and aloof. Sometimes the Cancer is full of passion and sometimes it's just very aloof. Being a cancer from second Decan, my partner is very analytical and has a very matter of fact approach. While, it's great to be so 'matter of fact' it sometimes feels cold and she does not care. Has any Pisces encountered this before? Or I'm hurt being insecure.
Yeah, it's you...too sensitive.
Love,
Eva
Aren't Cancer women supposed to be caring loving people? I find it hard to understand that
she can be so aloof suddenly. Also, we just got back from a weekend trip, that I had setup just for her. Ideally, it should have brought us closer, but when we split to go home, it almost felt like something was weird.click to expand
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaWell, I never got the chance. We Pisceans are intuitive, and I had a feeling that this relationship has run its course. Since we had met on a dating website, I checked that she has reactivated her profile. I think that was sign enough for me to realize, that it was over. I sent her a note breaking it. She just responded back saying my note made it easier for her to break up. She told me I'm looking for love at the wrong places and thanked me for all the good times. Travelling with together realized we are very incompatible (we just took a weekend trip). So, anyways, that is the end of this story.Posted by NumerounoAction speaks louder than words....are you going to try harder, leave her, or talk to her? Just like I mentioned in my first line, "Just because she's a water sign".....same as saying just because she's a woman she is feminine (we CAN be, but strong and independent, too).Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by NumerounoJust because she's a "water" sign doesn't mean she empathizes and sympathizes like we, Pisceans do. She's her own individual person; so are you. My Taurean (John); with the hurricane we had didn't call to find out if I was "okay". This doesn't mean he doesn't care (he's an earth sign); he just wants a "strong" woman as I've mentioned to him a couple of weeks ago I had just mowed the lawn and he said, "Sexy". Read up on Cancerian women...too tired to cut and paste. You're an adult; you know how to "Google".
I'm a Pisces man born 2nd Decan and in a relationship with a cancer woman who is also born in 2nd Decan. We have been dating for over 2 months, but it's is warm and cold, intense and aloof. Sometimes the Cancer is full of passion and sometimes it's just very aloof. Being a cancer from second Decan, my partner is very analytical and has a very matter of fact approach. While, it's great to be so 'matter of fact' it sometimes feels cold and she does not care. Has any Pisces encountered this before? Or I'm hurt being insecure.
Yeah, it's you...too sensitive.
Love,
Eva
Aren't Cancer women supposed to be caring loving people? I find it hard to understand that
she can be so aloof suddenly. Also, we just got back from a weekend trip, that I had setup just for her. Ideally, it should have brought us closer, but when we split to go home, it almost felt like something was weird.
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by Arielle83
It's only been 2 months.
You've analyzed her texting and then wanting to get into her place. Like I said in your other thread. Just because you want things to move fast, it doesn't mean she does.
This is probably your third thread complaining about her. She seems chill, you're not. You want too much too soon.
It's been two months.
You rush things and they crash and burn.
Maybe you're used to chicks validating you too soon and now you've found one who takes her time and keeps her space.
You clearly didn't take the advice I gave you last time.
You're too needy for her. Let her go. You'd just make her resent you with your needs for all this rushing to get to some make believe a place so you aren't as insecure.
Well, I feel this is one sided analysis. You have to see that Pisces are very Intuitive. They can read your expressions and things that you do not say. This quality makes Pisces feel everyone's pain with empathy. So, while I'm not going to comment on your view on my insecurity, but will add that when a Crab is attracted to anyone, they make you feel it. In my case, it was hot and cold, which signifies hesitation.
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