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Jul 08, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 314 · Topics: 23
How to stay positive? Depression hits me around night time, every damn night. Suggestions please?
Onde month i decides to be happy. Nota care to negative stuff. Forget the girl i was getting eluded. Hmm. Try setting positive things to achieve. Work on your appearance, friends.
What is your main problem?
Feel bad bout your appearance, loneliness, age (how old are you?) !
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Jul 08, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 314 · Topics: 23
Wow both fishinamaize and prophetaazteca have really good answers. Thank you everybody I just feel drained by people at home. I lack motivation sometimes to reach for what I know I should be doing. But I need to shake it off... Dancing crazy is funny bc I do that a lot! Maybe fishinamaize is right, maybe picking up a hobby in which I can channel my emotions would be a good stress release. Thank you guys.
I have the same issues so then I stay up at night loose sleep, then sleep the day away, every Channeling I do to focus on positive turns to negative, I've notice When I do find a Hobby or channel I follow it till it turns bad and drop it and move one. Its my one weakness to not finish stuff.
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Jun 03, 2014Comments: 7 · Posts: 1996 · Topics: 55
I should add...once you get away from the mental blockage that is keeping you stagnated (that is, allowing doubt to slip in making it hard for you to feel motivated) you'll find it easier to commit.
So hobbies are great but you won't commit to them, so long as internally you still haven't addressed the issues that make you doubt yourself, your situation from ever changing, and any other garbage that is infested inwardly.
You have to clean yourself up mentally first, but I think finding a hobby to have while you declutter your mind is a good supplement.
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Oct 16, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 116 · Topics: 17
Wow, I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one and apparently this sadness is a common pisces trait.
Usually around the day time I'm just fine, I keep myself busy and I'm happy, but at night sleep comes hard to me because my head is over-thinking and over-analyzing everything I did and said during the day, and thinking of the past and the future and worrying, and yes sometimes I end up crying myself to sleep, and then at the next day I'm just fine.
I have a happy life, I just feel the need to vent sometimes and crying is a good therapy for me, that's how I release all the bad emotions and the negativity. Who said that crying is bad? it doesn't necessarily mean that you are depressed, crying is healthy too, people can not be happy all the time, because for you to feel all the nice and positive emotions, at some point you also have to feel the bad. There needs to be some balance, nothing can remain forever perfect neither it can remain forever bad.
So I say crying is not that bad, you have to allow yourself to feel how you are feeling and don't suppress it, that is even worse. I cry very often, and I think that is totally fine, it doesn't mean you are weak, it just mean that you are more sensitive than others.
Also when you say that people at your home drains you, I feel the same, not only at home, people in general drains me, I'm not anti social, is just that whenever I spent long periods of time near people I always need some time alone to recharge my energy, I guess I'm an introvert at heart.
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Apr 07, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 1325 · Topics: 0
I tend to sleep so I no longer have to think anymore,
but usually if I want something to change or become more positive I spiritually ask for it, and it comes to fruition...I usually ask just before I fall asleep..and believe it to happen and it does...if I want something bad enough I will it to happen, I ask spirit to help...and let those thoughts manifest...
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Dec 20, 2011Comments: 362 · Posts: 10167 · Topics: 100
I'd usually start reading or watch something provoking when the woes catch up before sleepy times.