Pisces...a great actor

A few of my previous posts were asking other pisces guys if there was any way that i could tell if the fishy i was after had true feelings or not. Of course, these guys couldn't answer for the guy I WAS after. I recently got a phone call where he explained that another girl he was seeing told him she loved him. I was speechless for the most part. For the first time in my life, I was lead on. I'm a freakin aries, i'm not supposed to be lead! I'm a hopeless romantic and i suppose a Pisces could easily get any girl caught up in fantasy land. Its so shocking though, I really didn't think he'd pull something like that. For all I know, this girl could have been his girlfriend all along and he was cheating on her. There's no real point to this post except for the fact that its sort of an update. This was pretty much an "epic love story" to my friends, which has just so abruptly ended. You pisces sure have skills in the romance department!

yeah it seems as if my guy was quite the charmer and i could just see him being that way with a g/f or not. He refuses to change his myspace status from "single", even if he has a girlfriend. Call me possessive, but if you're with me, you're not telling the world you're single! Luckily, my head is now out of the clouds, and I see all the reasons why we wouldn't work. His birthday is March 14 and i plan on sending him the gift i got him anyway. What else am i gonna do with a ninja t-shirt? lol.

What else am i gonna do with a ninja t-shirt? lol.

lol!!

I find this post rather funny, actually, because the Aries is notorious for attempting to make their partners jealous by boasting about other people who think they're hot up in the face of their partners .. "Oh, he wants me", "He thinks I'm hot", "He's hitting on me" .. kind of stuff .. happens all the time .. every Aries I know tries to make the person they are will jealous of them.


lol .. maybe this is karma coming back to you.

Yes, Aries girls like to try to make others jealous...one: because we have a huge ego, and two: we wanna make sure that this is not intimidating to our mate. In a sense, I agree this is karma...in a sense. I certainly don't deserve being lead on though, I never do that to any guy. I'm direct and up front about things. Mr. Pisces didn't have to make this girl he was seeing seem like just a fling. He didn't have to make the first move or give me false hopes about the future. THAT i dont deserve. The fact that I got dissed for somebody else, well yeah, that is certainly karma

Pisces just don't respond to the whole jealous thing .. we'll try and make you that way, but, if it's done back to us .. we're gone. One area where Pisces and Aries bump heads a lot .. both of us can't do this .. one has to be the chaser, right? Can't be both .. he probably just wanted what you want .. not to be intimidated by it.

Pisces men just love to have women around them .. a lot of women .. my Piscean nephew is perfectly happy in a relationship and would never cheat on his woman .. but, still, he has tons of females around him 24/7 .. even if he goes out somewhere without his woman, he takes other women with him .. doesn't mean anything, his woman doesn't get upset because she knows he's harmless .. just loves female company.

Anyway good luck on your next venture ..

I feel ya. It's been about 6 months since I met my Piscean. And this past weekend I finally got him to meet one of my friends. Haha. I used to be so sure about him. I thought he just had his own issues to work out and that I'd love to take on the task of helping. Well.

I have my own shit to worry about. Any maybe all he'll ever be is a good lay. 😉

But I haven't called him since Saturday. And it feels ok.

I'm sure the next time a really great, cute fishy comes my way. . . I'll do the exact same thing! ! !

Yeah Mystic, I can relate. When we first started hanging out, it all felt so right. I would have never thought he was in the process of having another girl fall in love with him. He text messaged me about a week after he told me about the other girl, to try to start some sort of conversation, but I never answered. Tomorrow is his birthday, so I intend on sending him wishes just so he knows I'm not TOTALLY ignoring him. After all, he's a patient at the office I work for, so I have to maintain some sort of casual relationship. My dumb ass bought him a small bday gift before he gave me the news on the other chick. I'm contemplating sending it to him as sort of a guilt trip thing. Thats probably bad huh? Ok, maybe i'll just return it haha.

Next time a fishy crosses my path....which is probably never again since he's the only one i've gotten close with in my 25 years on this planet...I'll be much more cautious.

Mm. Aries is pretty good at cutting all that bull. But, sadly. . . when we realize it's all fake rather than giving up, we try harder. Does Pisces secretly take pride in misleading people, I wonder. Patience is a virtue with these guys. And if you can handle all of their hang ups, they make us strive to be even more independent.

On one hand, feeling challenged is a plus. But on the other, when we aren't rewarded for our efforts we become very unpleasant, indeed.

Well good luck to us all.

You people are just too much .. after a period of time, some people just dont' get along.

What about enjoying the time spent?

Aries .. I'm getting pretty irritated with you people .. but, of course, if someone decides that you aren't the one for them .. then that's playing you because YOUR feelings are the only ones in a scenerio ..

.. I hope, just to be a bitch .. that these Pisces are sitting back, thinking the complete opposite of you Rams .. I hope they have fond memories and knowing that every person isn't right for every person and just because two people don't mesh, doesn't make one of those persons to blame for it.

"when we aren't rewarded for our efforts we become very unpleasant, indeed."

This makes you sound like the world has some kind of duty to please you .. screw you.

We go for people who comprehend that there are two people in a relationship with feelings .. the Ram only recognizes thier own feelings ..

.. someone that shallow just isn't good enough for us .. face it and look elsewhere.

Though, you non-Pisces may not realize it (maybe you do) .. because we have a dreamy look on our face and hesitate often before responding .. it is taken as though we are looking for an answer .. we're not.

Over time, having to deal with people who are compelled to tell us what to do when we haven't asked for aid .. Pisces tend to just dis-regard you, if we believe that it is in you to attempt to take control .. we'll leave or ignore.

no leading, no following .. rather, sharing


Nobody knows us better than we know ourselves and we won't tolerate somebody thinking that we need your input because we don't .. what we need is for someone one to just trust that we know ourselves, for ourselves. If I'm sick, I say so .. if I'm feeling better, I say so .. if somebody tries to tell me how I feel inside, I'll defy them.

P-Angel, I wasn't trying to offend. I'm hurt because I was definitly played out and I'm blaming it on the Pisces nature because at the moment. It was a first time enounter with a guy so emotional. Maybe he did actually feel the way he acted and said he did, but the bottom line is he wasn't openly honest about having such feelings for someone else. I just couldnt fathom being in love with one person then telling another how great we'd be together. I figured that because he was such a typical Pisces, what he said was truely heartfelt...and like i said, maybe it was, but actions speak louder than words to an Aries girl like myself. On the other hand, I'm a Venus in Pisces, so when I see and hear such romantic things from a guy, I fall head over heels. Then when I'm hurt, my Scorpio moon kicks in. Althought he did what he did, I still truely believe he's a good person....just not a very direct person. No hard feelings Pisces, i love you guys. At least my Pisces girls always have my back!

I just wished Mr. Pisces a happy birthday today via text message and he wrote back asking me if I was going to be joining he and his friends for his birthday party next weekend. I can't help but wonder why he'd ask me to go. I told him I wasn't sure because I wouldnt know anybody else. He said not to worry because they're all really nice GUYS. So why isn't his girlfriend going? I just dont get it. Since he told me he was going to pursue things with this chick, I've been trying to work on things with the guy I had recently broke up with. So now it just wouldn't be right if I stir things up again. Timing is everything! I just really wanna know why he'd invite me out with his friends. Boys suck, no matter what sign you are *wink*

LL410 .. you didn't offend me. I'm just very blunt .. if something comes to mind, I blurt it out .. I rarely take into consideration (in here) that people are more than just typed words on a screen. In here, there are no feelings .. just objects, to me.

I've taken this topic .. desensitized it .. talking from just my perspective of an object .. object being, Pisces The Actor, and what it means. I guess I went off topic a tad .. apologies .. however, you can't offend me in here. I do others quite often, though, because I don't "feel" people in here, like I do in real life.

Sorry, I'll get back to topic and use sensitivity.

Water signs are insufferable ..

Scorpio's are severly passive/aggressive
Cancer's take everything personally, then turn it around so that you've victimized them
Pisces only care at their convenience, then usually only about themselves

But, this is about the Pisces .. we have to interact with others because we exist on the planet with others, yet, it's our own feelings that we think about most of the time, so, in order to survive and feel loved, we absorb all emotions from another until their completely drained .. then we move on to another and another.

Some day along the way .. perhaps we will find the person who has an endless supply, in to which we will stay for a while .. if they run out, so will we.


Oh, that's right .. I said I was going to be sensitive ..

There's a message in here, did you catch it?

We are two fish swimming in opposite directions ..

We care, we care not

To others, this looks like we are acting .. but, we're not .. not at all.

We just don't care, yet, we care about everything and everybody.

We care about you only if you care about us .. if you don't care about us, we couldn't care a less about you. That's how we work .. it's not acting, not pretending.

We'll even say things like, "I don't give a shit". People think we are just having an attitude, but, we're not .. We don't give a shit what other people think, do, feel, say .. that is, unless they care about how we think, do, feel, say .. then we care.

But, then the two fish swimming in opposite directions has another meaning .. yet, it is connected, which makes us care and care not.

It's two worlds of illusion .. two realities of existence .. neither of them real, neither of them a dream .. we cannot care inside both at the same time .. only one, the other, we don't care .. there's a way to meld the two. There's a way for the Pisces to actually care in both planes .. but, the closed-minded, the egotistical, the shallow one .. cannot find us, cannot grasp us and what we mean, why we are here, how we exist.

Because of these two .. we care, we care not .. to most, to a few who have the ability to comprehend, we care in both, or don't care in neither.

Not making any sense? Then, you cannot make us care in both because you don't comprehend our existence.

It's not acting .. it's existing in two realms of reality simultaneously.

When we think we've found someone to whom accepts us for who we are .. we will stop taking their emotions from them and start to reflect those feelings back onto them, double-fold .. we will completely engulf our whole being, binding ourselves unto them and even start to supply them with emotions of every kind so they aren't lacking.

These people we scrutinize very closely before taking the leap .. they must be trusted and understanding that we process life differently. If these people do allow us to live freely and express in both realities .. we care tremendously, unselfishly.

It takes very little to send us away, little that is, from other's perspective .. however, it is a lot to us .. when talking to your Pisces partner or friend, if you say anything along the lines of, "Don't be silly", or, "What were you thinking" .. you've lost us, for this indicates to us that you aren't accepting. Not long ago, Solitas said to me, "Don't be ridiculous", as I was verbally searching within myself and my feelings .. I no longer care .. that is all it takes.

If your trying to date a Pisces and you make any suggestion whatsoever that the way he needs to process information within himself is stupid, ridiculous, or indecisive .. he's gone and will never look back .. there's no need to look again .. you don't get it, and you never will because if you did .. you would have.

We care if you care about us and what we need to survive, we care not if you don't.

What we need to survive is acceptance .. and nothing more .. if we have that than any other obstacles can and will be overcome. If we have that, trust, respect, communication and utter loyalty to your feelings and well-being will be given.

If you are dating a Pisces and you don't trust him, you don't believe him, you call him a name referring to his mental processing (especially teasing because it is mocking), any doubt about the way he needs to sort out between his two planes .. he'll swim away. If you continue to try and snare him again, or catch him .. he'll play you like a game of rummy because he knows that you really don't get him, just trying to have a relationship where his mental well-being is of no concern to you .. it's superficial and if he senses this then he doesn't care because you don't care about him and what he needs in this world.

Do you get it?

LL410,

With your particular Pisces man .. there was something in you that sparked inside of him, or he wouldn't have started putting on his charm to catch you .. then, something happened. I wasn't there, so I don't know .. but, in knowing our nature, I'm sure it had something to do with you not grasping what all this means to us. Aries, by nature are very inpatient, it just can't be helped because everything HAS to be done RIGHT NOW. Well, the fish pauses and pulls back to ponder because we have to .. we have two levels in which to process .. that dreamy silent stare, or maybe the eyes diverting for a couple seconds, he might even tell you he needs a few moments to think .. I've no clue, really, to the inside of this past relationship, but, if at those times, you express impatience with him for needing extra time to consider .. he'll swim away.

However, if he is still wanting to spend time with you, then all is NOT lost. Normally, when the fish swims away .. we're gone, forever .. never look back because there's no point .. you don't "get" us. He's not doing that, he senses that deep inside, you do want to "get" him and that you are willing to accept him for who he is.

I would go with him, if I were you .. just keep it platonic. Show him that you understand his true nature, and are willing to slow down a tad .. don't move so fast. I know that the Ram wants someone who can keep up .. that's not going to happen with the Pisces .. lightening speed will send us packing.

A way to us is through the imagination .. we fantasize continuosly .. share with him silly dreams that have no way of coming to fruit, or just a secret lust for a celebrity, or embrace the arts - a gallery, or play, or concert .. we are moved by anything that is done from the soul .. I can tell you right now, if you have absolutely NO interest in anything artistic, you'll likely not capture him .. I haven't met a Pisces yet who isn't drawn to creative people, or ones who love the art itself.

If you draw, show him .. if you like to sing, do so, even if you can't carry a tune .. if you write poetry, let him read it .. because your art form is not intellectual, it's not rational .. it's within the imagination that moves you to bring fantasy to reality .. we relate to that, we live there and if you show him you allow your soul to be free to express with creativity .. he will be enamoured.

The thing is, LL, is that most of us dont' know any of this .. we believe that we are very giving and not selfish in the least .. these are our rose-colored glasses that we wear ..

.. we give to others, when they haven't asked .. because it makes us feel good to ourselves because we think we are being good to another. They didn't want our help, they didn't want our counsel .. we gave anyway, to please ourselves.

Our care is at our convenience .. not for the good of others.

Most Pisces have no clue that the reason WHY people don't "get" us is because our mental processing is different .. most believe that we are the same and it's just everybody else who is screwed up .. our glasses are rosed over .. just like the Ram, for example .. they believe they are confident, others see conciet.

So, my point is .. your Pisces man, likely has no clue of any of this that I've said. However, a time comes, when a person has to stop viewing their life through their own eyes, for a change .. and look at themselves through another persons perspective. This is how others see us .. this is how we appear to everyone except ourselves. So, when and IF you attempt to have a relationship with this man again .. he won't know this about himself, what you see in him.

How others view people isn't necessarily how we see ourselves. If you mention that his mind is working differently from your own .. he'll be gone.

thats what i can never get my man to realize. I always tell him to take what I say at face value instead of analyzing and trying to find some hidden meaning in it. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. That's what most other signs don't realize about Pisceans. If you try to twist what we're saying, we're going to back away from you because obviously you arent hearing what I've been saying.

please disregard that last comment, i posted it in reference to something on the first page.

That's ok .. I'm just babbling out loud ..

.. you have a good point .. if you said it, you meant it. People find this difficult because to them, because we are all dreamy-eyed, that looks vacant .. they think we don't know what we're talking about and are looking for some kind of answer to a problem.

Geeez .. the friggin problem is he didn't hear what you said .. listen next time and there won't be a problem.

When looking at the NEEDS of the Pisces and the Aries to feel complete .. we are probably the perfect match .. that is, if the two can learn to accept each other and find it endearing, rather than irritating.

The Ram needs someone who can instinctively know what s/he wants and desires and will give without asking ..

The Fish needs someone to whom they can just give to, knowing that the other needs them to take care of them because it pleases the Pisces to give to another.

Truly this is a match in heaven .. if the Pisces has someone to bind themselves to, who understands and accepts them for who they are .. our care to that other person is endless. Furthermore, once we find another who truly "gets" our intentions, we will look for no other, we will focus on the one person. We have it in us to care beyond the universe .. we just need someone who knows how to find us.

The problem is, how to get there?

"we just need someone who knows how to find us. The problem is, how to get there?".

In my experience....I wanted to get "there". The road to getting "there" is what I find so exciting. I really thought this guy saw in me what I wanted every other guy to see in me. When we would hang out, it was definitly sanctuary for my brain. Learning how his mind works was what turned me on. No guy has ever turned me on with his thoughts and opinions before. Usually its just physical attraction.

But you're right, I am impatient, and I like that instant gratification. I would have remained patient, but of course I gave up because I'm jealous of the other girl. No guy has made me feel the way I felt the way he did. We are definitly the Aries/Pisces "odd couple of the zodiac" type. He's a musician, long hair, laid back hippie type. I'm not your typical girlie girl, but definitly try to go for the "hot" thing. Most people who know me though, say I'm a hippie in disguise. Only with him can I feel free to truely express myself. And when I would, he'd love it. He'd reward me for it with love. He's also the one guy that I actually enjoy listening to. All of his stories, views, thoughts, opinions, are so interesting, and I'm open to all of it. I would never judge due to the fact that I would hate if someone would judge me for what I thought. He would love to point out the fact that he's a geek, and I would reassure him that that was ok because I too, am also a geek. You wouldn't know it unless I really liked you. Does this make any sense?

What I'm trying to say I guess is that I know we're so right for eachother. Or I thought I knew at least. To an extent, you're right about Aries being simple. TO AN EXTENT lol. Basically, and bluntly, I SIMPLY want him, and thats how I feel. If he knew that, and he truely liked me, I figured it wouldn't be as complicated as it is now. The fact that I don't fully understand him is what keeps me interested. I hope its not a reason why he's gone the other way : (

All I gotta say is I luuuuv Aries women. They make all the first moves and are very easy to understand. I'm centered on ONE right now. I luv her to death and call her my Princess.(she loves that)