PISCES AND SAG

This topic was created in the Sagittarius and Pisces Compatibility forum by ventibreeze on Friday, January 20, 2012 and has 30 replies.
I'm a sag woman and my pisces man and i just split, we were together for a year. I have read many topics on the pisces forum and it seems that sagittarians are for the most part misunderstood, not all, but some pisceans seem realy down on saggys. For the most part our relationship was good, but our differences are what pulled is apart in the end. He was a wonderful man, very hard to get to know, he found it difficult to let me in, but i can honestly say of all the signs that i have had the pleasure or the pain of knowing, pisces was the best. He made me feel loved, realy loved. He was intense, a march 1st sun with a scorpio moon, he was very sensitive and us saggys can be pretty severe when it comes to what we say, even in general conversation we can be brutaly honest, even if we don't mean to sometimes it just comes out that way. I felt that i was walking on eggshells all of the time having to keep in check what i was saying, which was very uncomfortable. I suggested we travel, go out, do things and he just wanted to stay home, because that's where he was most comfortable. I went ahead and did things by myself, it was quite sad realy. He would hide himself away for months on end speaking to no one, including me! The first time it happened i thought i had done something wrong, he told me that it was just his way and that he often did this. There is so much more more that i could tell you, we tried hard to make it work but we were just two different people. It takes a special girl to deal with a pisces man. But i still love him now and i always will.
aww i love my sagittarius' so much. Maybe you can still have a Pisces man if their moon or mars is in an air or fire sign...my gemini moon makes me love fire signs, especially sags
Saggies? I have a female friend who's a Saggie & I love her to death. She's really funny and optimistic, but on the flip side she causes alot of her own problems and is prone to dark moods. I'm often finding myself trying to cheer her up and listen to her vent about her problems, which I don't mind. However, Last year I ended a 6 years friendship with a Saggie Male because he was waay too self-absorbed and peculiar. He was always short with me, left me out on alot of things and often snubbed me in public. Whenever I'd pass him on the street in my car, I'd blow my horn at him to say "Hello" and he would just drive right on by like as if he doesn't know who I am, which is bullshit. The last straw that made me throw the friendship away was when he bought a house with his girlfriend and threw a New Years Eve Party, sent out tons of invites and did not invite me. I spoke to him weeks prior before the party about how proud I was of him buying a house with his girlfriend and all. I mean, I really was proud of him, but he never mentioned the party to me at the time. What's peculiar is that he tells me all the time that I'm a really good friend, hell even his father thinks that of me too, but then he turns around, throws a party and left me out? That was my last draw because I've been waay patient with him, but our friendship was just too "one-sided" and I felt no remorse throwing it all away.
Sorry your friend treated you that way, it doesn't sound like a saggy to be so mean.
NIGHTS 22, YES saggy gals can be difficult, i do not however class myself as such. I can't live with unhappiness and tension in my realtionship, my pisces was lovely, the best, but we were just two different people. We were opposite sides of the coin in every way, i needed constant movement, exploration and new experiences, all of the time, he was happy to stay put because he felt safe doing so. He saw a future with a family i saw my future without. Neither of us were nasty or bad or difficult, just DIFFERENT that's all.
I've read a lot in dxp and I can't recall a lot of threads referencing Sags being misunderstood ... in fact, hardly any threads are being at all by Sags even discussing how they really feel, to even come in here to say ...
"I have read many topics on the pisces forum and it seems that sagittarians are for the most part misunderstood, not all, but some pisceans seem realy down on saggys."

If you aren't disclosing how you really feel, then how can you say you are misunderstood?

Pisces are multi-sided, so multi that we ourselves can barely pick one, on any topic .... we therefore live most of our lives in seclusion of the mind, even in a room full of people. It's not unusual that your ex-P would tuck himself away and choose to diassociate himself with other human beings.
We do that often .. so often that it's totally understood (by most of us) that others get impatient and move on.
The thing is, though ... so long as you understand the why's when it comes to the Piscean need for seclusion, then it becomes quite easy to deal with us.

Posted by sexifulscorpio
so is that what it is? pisces need seclusion? so when they need their space just give it to them right? well i do, and that is so hard for me... i dont like the quietness.... but hey guess you pisces just need ur time to regroup... i dont like when pisces is upsset with me...


Yes my dear we do...very much so. Some pisces need it more than others, also it depends on what's going on that makes us want to become isolated. For instance when I got laid off from my job. I worked ever since I was 14 and was the breadwinner in our family. With loosing my job and a 6 month old child I became very isolated so much that you could of called me a shut in, slept constantly and just was in bad shape all around. I wasn't there mentally but I was there for my kids. Besides that I felt worthless and with my leo rising that was a huge slap to my ego, besides the fact I wasn't laid off for performance issues. It just was the economy. I just needed isolation and a clear purpose so I could direct my focus on that. Once we snap out of that stupor we come back better and more alive and ready to achieve anything.
It's a way to be...energized in every form of that word and meaning.
Honestly it can be hard to really piss off merfolk, irritate us is more likely but if you make us upset we will SURELY let you know lol. If you ever run into that just give us space. It doens't take long for us to get over it. We forgive but never forget. We have excellent memories. Don't worry...just give us our time and space and we will come back and ready to give loads of love and affection my dear. I know... we can be addicting. lol Just like other signs.... not tooting the pisces conch shell or anything. That just made me think of the book Lord of the flies.
Oh yes, that is very true about Pisceans needing their space and seclusion time. That is something about me that most people in my life will just have to accept. If they can't accept that, then it's a sign that the relationship will be very bumpy indeed.

Ventibreeze,
I appreciate it. My Sag friend was just self-centered, but he does it in a subtle, passive aggressive way just to preserve his nice guy facade, when he's really not. I'm not too worried about him because karma is a bitch and he will definitely "get his."
Posted by Nights22
Vote no to saggys in the 2012 election!


Booo!
I love saggies ???
Haha Big Grin
Buffy!!! Nice! Where's Xander?
Posted by tbird
Buffy!!! Nice! Where's Xander?


FUCKING LOVE!!!!! ZOMFG!!!
Okay so it's natural I have to bring in Spike...cause what's buffy without the blonde dead guy...
Friends is better!
Posted by tbird
Okay so it's natural I have to bring in Spike...cause what's buffy without the blonde dead guy...



aka Randy Giles

Best episode ever, hahaha
Posted by Sag89
Friends is better!


True, nothing beats friends.
Blasphemy!
@nights: *clutch the pearls* have you ever.... never! Don't tell me your a Riley fan...eww
@pisceology: You're right this is blasphemy! For shame nights...for shame.
whew *wipes forehead* well thank goodness for that. If so I would of had to reserve a rubber room for you lol
*raises hand sheepishly* I used to be a riley fan Tongue
Posted by aquaj
Well if it makes you feel any better ventibreeze, Robin Thicke is a Pisces and he's been with his Sadge wife since high school. They're in their early 30s now and now have one son.


I thought she was a capricorn
bahaha seriously you like Riley...I stand by my statement ewww... He was such a drag. lol
Well what can I say, I was a teenager when I watched that show + he's kinda hot. Of course I liked him... Big Grin
yeah he's hot but uh hotness can only get you so far. lol
I love Saggies I've met irl!!! But I'm biased it's my AscTongue Can't see it working in a relationship cause I think both are too restless, but we make awesome friends. I heart my Saggy girlfriendsBig Grin
But if you're a Saggy guy and look like this


then you need to CALL MEEE

Screw astrology, I will make it workTongue
I think Sergio looks better in motion
haha thanksBig GrinTongue I love his work xD