I'm a sag woman and my pisces man and i just split, we were together for a year. I have read many topics on the pisces forum and it seems that sagittarians are for the most part misunderstood, not all, but some pisceans seem realy down on saggys. For the most part our relationship was good, but our differences are what pulled is apart in the end. He was a wonderful man, very hard to get to know, he found it difficult to let me in, but i can honestly say of all the signs that i have had the pleasure or the pain of knowing, pisces was the best. He made me feel loved, realy loved. He was intense, a march 1st sun with a scorpio moon, he was very sensitive and us saggys can be pretty severe when it comes to what we say, even in general conversation we can be brutaly honest, even if we don't mean to sometimes it just comes out that way. I felt that i was walking on eggshells all of the time having to keep in check what i was saying, which was very uncomfortable. I suggested we travel, go out, do things and he just wanted to stay home, because that's where he was most comfortable. I went ahead and did things by myself, it was quite sad realy. He would hide himself away for months on end speaking to no one, including me! The first time it happened i thought i had done something wrong, he told me that it was just his way and that he often did this. There is so much more more that i could tell you, we tried hard to make it work but we were just two different people. It takes a special girl to deal with a pisces man. But i still love him now and i always will.
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Nov 02, 2010Comments: 6 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 17
aww i love my sagittarius' so much. Maybe you can still have a Pisces man if their moon or mars is in an air or fire sign...my gemini moon makes me love fire signs, especially sags
Saggies? I have a female friend who's a Saggie & I love her to death. She's really funny and optimistic, but on the flip side she causes alot of her own problems and is prone to dark moods. I'm often finding myself trying to cheer her up and listen to her vent about her problems, which I don't mind. However, Last year I ended a 6 years friendship with a Saggie Male because he was waay too self-absorbed and peculiar. He was always short with me, left me out on alot of things and often snubbed me in public. Whenever I'd pass him on the street in my car, I'd blow my horn at him to say "Hello" and he would just drive right on by like as if he doesn't know who I am, which is bullshit. The last straw that made me throw the friendship away was when he bought a house with his girlfriend and threw a New Years Eve Party, sent out tons of invites and did not invite me. I spoke to him weeks prior before the party about how proud I was of him buying a house with his girlfriend and all. I mean, I really was proud of him, but he never mentioned the party to me at the time. What's peculiar is that he tells me all the time that I'm a really good friend, hell even his father thinks that of me too, but then he turns around, throws a party and left me out? That was my last draw because I've been waay patient with him, but our friendship was just too "one-sided" and I felt no remorse throwing it all away.
Sorry your friend treated you that way, it doesn't sound like a saggy to be so mean.
NIGHTS 22, YES saggy gals can be difficult, i do not however class myself as such. I can't live with unhappiness and tension in my realtionship, my pisces was lovely, the best, but we were just two different people. We were opposite sides of the coin in every way, i needed constant movement, exploration and new experiences, all of the time, he was happy to stay put because he felt safe doing so. He saw a future with a family i saw my future without. Neither of us were nasty or bad or difficult, just DIFFERENT that's all.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I've read a lot in dxp and I can't recall a lot of threads referencing Sags being misunderstood ... in fact, hardly any threads are being at all by Sags even discussing how they really feel, to even come in here to say ...
"I have read many topics on the pisces forum and it seems that sagittarians are for the most part misunderstood, not all, but some pisceans seem realy down on saggys."
If you aren't disclosing how you really feel, then how can you say you are misunderstood?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Pisces are multi-sided, so multi that we ourselves can barely pick one, on any topic .... we therefore live most of our lives in seclusion of the mind, even in a room full of people. It's not unusual that your ex-P would tuck himself away and choose to diassociate himself with other human beings.
We do that often .. so often that it's totally understood (by most of us) that others get impatient and move on.
The thing is, though ... so long as you understand the why's when it comes to the Piscean need for seclusion, then it becomes quite easy to deal with us.
Oh yes, that is very true about Pisceans needing their space and seclusion time. That is something about me that most people in my life will just have to accept. If they can't accept that, then it's a sign that the relationship will be very bumpy indeed.
Ventibreeze,
I appreciate it. My Sag friend was just self-centered, but he does it in a subtle, passive aggressive way just to preserve his nice guy facade, when he's really not. I'm not too worried about him because karma is a bitch and he will definitely "get his."
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
Buffy!!! Nice! Where's Xander?
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
FUCKING LOVE!!!!! ZOMFG!!!
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
Okay so it's natural I have to bring in Spike...cause what's buffy without the blonde dead guy...
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
whew *wipes forehead* well thank goodness for that. If so I would of had to reserve a rubber room for you lol
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
bahaha seriously you like Riley...I stand by my statement ewww... He was such a drag. lol
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
yeah he's hot but uh hotness can only get you so far. lol
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I think Sergio looks better in motion