Pisces and Scorpio a good match?? i have my doubts

For as long as i've been into astrology i've heard that pisces and scorpios are a perfect match. I am a pisces female and i have YET to find this perfect match in a scorpio.

I went on a date last night with a scorpio that i've been friends with for almost 7 years. We didn't get together before that because i had a boyfriend but now i am free and he started calling me. We were very attracted to each other but that all ended last night, at least for me. Last night was the first night that i spent a long period of time with him alone. I found him irritating and exhausting but still physically attractive. There was no easing into the physical part of the evening. He was showing me his grappling mitts and then he tackled me onto the floor and what went on from there was so rough and unpleasant. He wasn't trying to hurt me, he thought he was this awesome god in bed but he mauled at me like a bear! Today EVERYTHING hurts! :/ It was probably the worst sex i've ever had. Our friendship will be ruined over this because now i don't even want to call him and I'm sure that he could sense that I wasn't having a good time either.

Anyway that is scorpio number 3 for me and i'm giving up on them! I was wildly attracted to all of them but the first one turned out to be a flake and the second one...omg, CRAZY AND PSYCHOTIC.

On the other hand, I had a strong long-term connection with a capricorn and an aries and now i have met a wonderful gemini who i have a bond with. We started out as friends about 4 months ago and it evolved into a long-distance romance. I didn't really want to put myself out there for this gemini because all i keep hearing is "that's not a good sign for you, he's a gemini!" but we just feel so comfortable with each other.

This is crazy. It almost makes me wonder if astrology is even correct. Have any of you met your match with scorpio or do you find them all as crazy as I do?

maybe sea siren can give you some tips on this.... 🙂

btw, we are crazy and psychotic... but you're supposed to "understand"

The only thing that i am starting to understand that scorpios are so damn intense! The scorpios that i've had experiences with weren't the only crazy ones. My ex-boyfriend used to get over 350 text messages per day on both his personal and work cellphones from a scorpio woman that he broke things off with. This went on for weeks. I don't know how she found the time for it! A special brand of scorpio- style focus i guess! 😄

Maybe the combination works better when the pisces is a man and the scorpio is a female. I'm dating a pisces and the chemistry is very very real and magical. Neither one of us has come to the point where we're vulnerable enough to really tell each other how we feel but it shows in our actions. I've dealt with a scorpio man before and it was just as you said, it was the worst sexual experience of my entire life, he was so rough and brutal and it felt like rape if you ask me....i don't think that scorpio men are as loving, imaginative or as sensual as scorp women when it comes to the sex act..they act like animals and i've had two pisces female friends who had bad experiences with scorpio men as well. i'm sorry that you had to go thru that. We can't base our lives on astrology, if you are into the gemini guy than that's all that matters...

And yes i know lots of crazy scorp women but i know other scorp women who don't act like that...i'm the type that has come a long way and i don't have time to harrass any man..when i'm done, i just cut them off and to hell with them...

You are right msscorpio, we cannot base our lives on astrology. I know that other things play a factor in how we are, like rising sign, moon sign...even our childhoods and environment... but when it is common belief in astrology that pisces and scorpio are a great match and i've experienced anything but, i have to question where they are coming up with this information. That gemini man makes me smile and laugh like no other and i am very comfortable with him. He is such a good person and i think that now i will hesitate a little less to see where a romance with him can lead. my good friend is a pisces and she's married to a gemini. she says it's not easy but it makes things "interesting". i think that is actually what i need because i do not last long with men that bore me.

I know what you're saying....a lot of times what the books say just simply aren't true. they say that scorp and cap are a good match and i didn't find that to be the case at all...sometimes it's the ones that they say we're "not compatible" with that turn out to be the best ones for us...they say that scorp and cancer are good but i've yet to find one that i'm interested in...in my case the pisces with the scorp is good but it's all on an individual basis...it's really the person and not the sign..

haha, i had a very long-term and loving connection to a capricorn. it was the closest i'd ever felt to another person and we understood each other completely. I later attempted to get involved with a cancer who i know had feelings for me but would not come out of his shell. I also had a pisces ex-boyfriend and in him i found every annoying quality that i didn't like about myself.

i just saw your message Prince Pisces. That is the thing, i'm starting to think that Scorps really are very crazy but i know that pisces can be crazy too...so why on earth does any astrologer think that two crazy effed-up signs like pisces and scorpio belong together— Yeah we understand each other alright....we should understand enough to run away! 😛 I need someone sane to balance me out. I think i will stay away from water signs from now on. I would be SHOCKED if i ended up married to one.

The first time with a Scorp man is always like that. At least it has been for me. Especially if there has been a long build-up to the actual act (like the seven-year attraction you mentioned...whoa! Hello! Serious sexual tension there). I'm not sure why. It's almost like an initiation of sorts...but if you judge them on the first time, you won't see what's behind that.

It does get better. I have found them to be the most attentive lovers. Very generous and giving, and yes, even gentle. The animal does reappear on occasion, but then I enjoy that sometimes. Gentle and sweet all the time would put me to sleep. 🙂

As someone said before, astrology certainly doesn't have all the answers. Even if you do use it as a guide, you MUST consider your entire chart. You may have many aspects in air that draw you to Gemini. If it feels right, go for it!

"Maybe the combination works better when the Pisces is a man and the Scorpio is a female?. What? I think NOT!
Oh my, we scorps could be little nuts 🙂 but Pisces (men) they are the only sign I can't seem to control. I just don't get that, especially on some stuff. 😢

"I don't have time to harass any man. when I'm done, I just cut them off and to hell with them...I feel you on this one msScorpio ( although it takes a lot for me to get to that point,for someone to push me to that extreme(that's when feelings involve) . I take and take and take but when I am done believe it I am out. My Pisces friend went AWOL for like 3 months, and recently just decides to get in touch with me. Like WTF— I can even bother to understand that. What make him think he still exists? Leaving stupid messages like he was just gone for 1 hour 🙂 SO unaceptable.

"but Pisces (men) they are the only sign I can't seem to control."

Which is why they intrigue you. 😉 No, Pisces won't be controlled. We are non-conformists, equalled probably only by Aquarians in that regard.

Haha, i second that Sea Siren. I broke off a relationship with a rich, handsome Leo for that reason. He was so kind and attentive and loving and I soaked it up like a sponge. We were joined at the hip for several months. Then he started being a little controlling, telling me the "proper" way to do things that in my opinion weren't necessary. On my birthday, I wanted to have a small party with him and my friends. He did not want me to invite them and when i tried to call one of them, he snatched my cellphone out of my hand and closed it. My feelings for him vanished right then. There was no bringing them back. I am very much a submissive partner but I do not like to feel like a caged animal.

And yeah the sex with scorpio was pretty brutal. It did almost feel like rape. I really don't want to go back for seconds. I don't like kind and gentle all the time either but damn, i want to be left intact afterwards! 😛

"but Pisces (men) they are the only sign I can't seem to control."

Which is why they intrigue you.You could say that🙂 what I mean by control (not like that) ,I meant I am usually the One in the relationship that put you thru the test,played the mind games,you know get under your skin kind of thing. And with him it's the other way around, confused the heck out me 🙂And it's seem like we go very well when we're together it's like magic, the problem come when we are NOT together then all sort of crazy stuffs happen.

Pisc, I'm sorry it was that way for you. 😢 That's terrible. Why didn't you make him stop?
We have knees for just that reason...

"And it's seem like we go very well when we're together it's like magic, the problem come when we are NOT together then all sort of crazy stuffs happen."

It's because the connection is still there, whether you're together or not. It creates this yearning and, yes, obsession, on both sides, which you try to hide from each other so you won't feel vulnerable, which creates craziness. 🙂

@depth_scorp...i think in my case he's a very immature scorpio. he's about 7 years younger than me and i can read him like an open book. there's not much to his story..lol. i think if he were an older and more sophisticated scorpio then perhaps there would've been some mind games involved.

@sea siren... lol, i guess i didn't stop him because i was just in shock. he really wasnt trying to hurt me and he was concerned about it but overall his technique was so rough and i dunno, maybe this is what girls he was with in the past were used to because he seemed to think that he was impressing me with his skills. There is a big swollen painful mouth-shaped black and blue mark on the right side of my neck. I am not impressed and honestly he made me feel like a piece of raw hamburger, not a woman. I think i like the gemini better because they need to be seduced via the mind and I am very much like that too. Me and the gemini have never done anything physical...we kept matching wits and kept our feelings for each other a secret until we couldn't anymore. We can't wait to see each other 🙂 Then maybe we will do something a little more...animalistic 😉

"i think in my case he's a very immature scorpio. he's about 7 years younger than me"

This explains a lot...someone has been watching too much porn...lol

"There is a big swollen painful mouth-shaped black and blue mark on the right side of my neck"

ACK! Well..they're all biters. I'm guessing the difference between the young and older scorpios is that the more mature ones only leave the marks in spots that won't show... 🙂

LMAO! I quite enjoyed that analysis, Electro. Very true.

@ Sea Siren

"It's because the connection is still there, whether you're together or not. It creates this yearning and, yes, obsession, on both sides, which you try to hide from each other so you won't feel vulnerable, which creates craziness."

I totally totally totally agree.....

MsScorpion, here's the thing. We sense that you scorps are used to getting anything/anyone that you want....and so are we. We just go about it a different way. 😉

In order to stand out from the crowd, we know we'll have to be more of a challenge if we want to keep your interest. So, we mirror yourself back to you. The mystery and secretiveness. Those are traits we share with you, so it's easy for us to do that. Try not to let it get to you. Your fish is feeling the same way.

"Pisceans are essentially scorpios, but unlike fixed scorps, they are mutable. Therefore, where scorpio goes: "BLAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!", pisces basically goes: "blam", "bloop", "blip", "bloch", "wham", "pooff", "blam", "pooff", "blam"..."

LOL!!!! Electro that was brilliant!! LOL LOL although i am reluctant to agree to any sort of likeness to scorpio...and to the scorpios who are kind enough to read my post and respond, you are exempt from my scorpio bashing 🙂 It's all the other scorpios out there that are crazy!

@ sea siren - "In order to stand out from the crowd, we know we'll have to be more of a challenge if we want to keep your interest. So, we mirror yourself back to you. The mystery and secretiveness. Those are traits we share with you, so it's easy for us to do that. Try not to let it get to you. Your fish is feeling the same way."

THIS IS SO TRUE! 😄

btw, Mr. Scorpio just texted me. He wants to see me again! SH*T! lol I thought I'd scared him off but perhaps he's just wanting to repair his wounded ego over the big sex debacle that took place the other night. I'm not quite healed from the previous night but perhaps i should put on a suit of armour and give him a call 😛 I don't want to sleep with him again but i don't want to lose his friendship.

Just be upfront with him and tell him it was all too rough for you. I'm sure he'll give you ample opportunity. They generally fish around to find out what you thought of their performance. When you tell him, he'll most likely pressure you to give him another shot, though, so be prepared...😉

Haha, i was thinking of a more indirect approach

"Yeah hi, how are you? Sorry I can't go out tonight. I am laying here with several strategically located ice packs to take down the pain and swelling. I'll call you when I'm fully healed and perhaps then we can go and hang out in a well-lit public place" 😛

Yeah tell him exactly how you felt about that and i hope it works out for you..in the case with the scorpio that i was with i told him that his perfomance was horrible and that it felt like i was brutalized, i told him that he was the worst lover that i ever had and that he cared absolutely nothing about me...and you know what, we tried it again and again and he didn't change...i cut him off and to think of him brings back bad memories...but i have a cancer friend who had the best sex of her life with a scorp..so keep us posted please...

thanks sea siren, i didn't know that he was thinking that way...for some strange reason when he needs his space i never get upset with him becuz i just understand him for some reason...so i let him have his space and he lets me have mine..i guess becuz i can tell that he is into me and he's not brushing me off...

"Yeah hi, how are you? Sorry I can't go out tonight. I am laying here with several strategically located ice packs to take down the pain and swelling."

You realize he'll take that as a compliment, right? lol

"so i let him have his space and he lets me have mine..i guess becuz i can tell that he is into me and he's not brushing me off..."

Yeah, I think that's why this combo def. CAN work quite well if both people are ready for it. We both need our space, but the other one won't get bent out of shape about that. Most people take it as an insult because they constantly NEED human interaction. I've run into this in friendships and relationships my whole life. I'm not intentionally dissing, I'm just taking some time for myself to rest and recharge.

@sea siren...i didn't think of the possibility of him taking that as a compliment. lol. I'm not so good at the direct approach. I'm used to being rather diplomatic. ugggghhhh..

LMAO! You're such a PISCES! 🙂

LOL...yeah i know! And with me being SUCH a pisces and him being SUCH a scorpio, you'd think we'd be SUCH a perfect match! 🙂


WRONG!!!!

Still haven't called him back yet. I'm hedging...like a typical pisces would 😛

Lol yeah you are a typical pisces and me being a typical scorpio i'm here to tell you that you have got to tell him exactly how you feel and don't be nice about it..just tell him like it is.."you hurt me and i don't appreciate it so you either lighten up or i'm gone...

LOL @ Bijou

"you have got to tell him exactly how you feel and don't be nice about it..just tell him like it is.."you hurt me and i don't appreciate it so you either lighten up or i'm gone"

Listen to Ms.Scorpion, Pisc 74. This is spot on! If you truly want rid of him, you can't be nice. And not responding at all will most likely send him into stalker mode. He'll be obsessing about how in the world you could possibly NOT be into him.

I know that all of what you're saying is right but the direct approach...uggghhh. I'm really not into him at all but I still want to maintain a friendship because we have too many mutual friends and we've known each other for so long. Can one of you call him for me? 😛 lol...just being a ridiculous pisces again.

i spoke to him last night. he really wants to see me again. he's being very sweet and i'm taking my time in answering his texts and ignored a phone call from him. i think this is making him crazy but i'm not doing it for that reason. i just honestly don't give a damn. i think of how he caressed my face, nearly pulling the flesh from my skull in the process and the random bite marks. Not very pleasant at all. I think that pisces and scorpio can probably be compatible in bed but pisces need a bit of tenderness and romance at times and scorpio needs to learn how to turn down the volume a bit.

A word of advice to you ladies looking to bed down a scorpio. If he tells you that your behind looks like a peach RUN FOR THE HILLS!! 😛

"I know that all of what you're saying is right but the direct approach...uggghhh. I'm really not into him at all but I still want to maintain a friendship because we have too many mutual friends and we've known each other for so long.
i spoke to him last night.he really wants to see me again. he's being very sweet and i'm taking my time in answering his texts and ignored a phone call from him. i think this is making him crazy but i'm not doing it for that reason."


Sounds to me like you have all kinds of excuses to continue leading on a person to whom you claim to not want him to want you.

You ignoring him, and knowing it's driving him crazy .. yet, doing it anyway and then talking all cutsey, like it's funny.


** shakes head **

I have to agree with P at this point....who cares about your mutual friends, that doesn't mean that you all have to be friends...and you should be able to tell him how you feel without that messing up your friendship...if he can't handle it than good riddance to him...it seems like you want him to be in your life for some reason..maybe you like the abuse...could that be a possibility..

He and I have been friends for 7 years and before our date, i always enjoyed being around him. I guess part of me is still in a bit of disbelief about the other night because i wasn't expecting him to be like that. I'm not wanting to totally write off our friendship because he really is a nice guy but at the same time, i no longer wish to be in an intimate relationship with him. i've never been good about being direct with guys about this sort of thing and i know it's a problem. i'm just thinking of the right words to say to him about this.

"The ones i know or know OF, seem like such disasters"

What kind of disasters are the ones you've known, PP? Let's compare notes! 🙂

@ P74

so you're scared basically...girl you gotta get over that...just tell him...or if you don't want to tell him than just let it drift off and if he tries to get some again just keep putting him off, after awhile he'll get the hint.

@ PP

hey we're not that bad are we—

@ Pp and Sea Siren,

All I have to say it takes one to know one 🙂.... you guys are not that far behind🙂
And after all said and done, I might end with a pisces man....can't get enough of them..:0 ) Oh Gwaaad I need help🙂

I hear what you're saying Prince .... only, I sense that the men are much more together than the women in their heads .. of course, when it comes to emotional chaos (which is what I sense is the Scorpio struggle/issue) .. men are just better at controlling it, in general.

@deathScorp

I know exactly what you mean..something about pisces men drives me wild...

I wonder who is a good match for scorpio?

My mom would want me to get with a taurus 🙂 and my sis thinks because of my personality I should get with a leo 🙂 but you cannot help who you fall for (😢....

Polar opposites have the good and bad sides .... I wouldn't recommend it for the long haul.

Here's the perfect match ups ..

Aries with Gemini
Taurus with Cancer
Leo with Libra
Virgo with Scorpio
Sagittarius with Aqua
Capricorn with Pisces

And then divided down even further into matching up with the Decans ..

Aries I with Gemini I
Aries II with Gemini II

and so forth ....

"All I have to say it takes one to know one .... you guys are not that far behind"

Now, now, my scorpion dahlings! I think PP and I have both admitted on many occasions we are Scorp fans! Every man I have ever been with has been a Scorp except two, and those were when I was quite young. 🙂

"And after all said and done, I might end with a pisces man....can't get enough of them..:0"

I hope you do, Depth Scorp. Honestly, when we love someone we love you to the core. And you guys love the same way. Pisces and Scorp just have to get past their trust issues first, and this can make or break the relationship.

"I dont know why, its just when im around Scorpio's i feel like they lead troubled lives, and have serious issues."

I do too, and you know what? They usually do. I think (and correct me if I'm wrong, Scorps, because I would really like to know) this is because they do nothing half way. Everything is absolutely all or nothing, or they don't involve themselves in it in the first place. Because they go about things this way, when they don't work out, it leaves serious scars because they were so passionate about it. I think this is why Scorpios are either incredibly accomplished, wonderful people, or very negative people.

I agree with the fact that most Scorp ladies have it together a little more than their male counterparts in the relationship dept. What I've noticed about the men is that they have no problem facing adversity in career. Every one I've ever known has been successful in their field, but when it comes to relationships, they seem to lose their way. Many are workaholics (in fact the only men I know who are worse about this are Cappie men) but they don't put in the time to nurture their relationships, and then become vindictive when they fall apart. They become bitter and negative towards all women, attaching the baggage from previous relationships to the new one.

I told my Scorp early on that I had been through that before, and I wouldn't go through it again. I am me. Not some women you've been with before, and I won't be held responsible for someone else's mistakes. But, honestly, he's different as night and day from those I've been with in the past. Sometimes I have to do some coaxing to get him to be a little more open, but that's to be expected with most men. 😉

@ deathscorp

NO NO NO...NO Leos...they're not good for us at all...my ex-husband was a leo and those battles were horrible...

@ pp and ss

yes the pisces scorp connection will never be forgotten...we go too perfect together...i'm ready to tell him how i really feel but i sense that he's scared to let me know..so it makes me scared and i keep it to myself....

@ P-A
Virgo with Scorpio, I don't think I have met a Virgo man beside my dad, oh wait I did, well sort of... I used to work for summer @t retail store, heard around this virg had a huge crush on me. He was going around telling every one he fancy me, expect he would not say a word to me.He worked at the man dept. I was a cashier , I would called for price check all the time, just so he would come🙂my kind of torture him. We would go on lunch group but later I overheard one my co-worker telling someone that they are secretly dating 🙂 I was like forget it. That's my memory of Virgo man unfortunately. 😢
@PP.To be honest, i think when a Pisces and Scorpio get together and have a deep relationship, they'll never ever forget it. Even if they break up and go seperate ways, i think there will always be some sort of connection between them. It just seems that way.
I totally agree. Is that's why I can't get this pisces of my head ? Every time I try to let him go and move on.🙂 He seems to crawl right back in, pop out of nowhere 🙂

Defo no Virgo for me..don't like em for relationship purposes...I need some positive happy vibes not constant negative jibes..

Man that was good..

UPDATE:

Scorpio called me daily all week long. I answered his calls and did talk to him for the mostpart but treated him like I would any other friend. Did I tell him how I felt about our bedtime experience? Never. I was even thinking that if scorpios are so damn intuned with pisces, he'll figure it out on his own. Weeeeeeell, I finally agreed to go out with him last night and he did a complete 180! He was such a pleasure to be around and we had fun together like we used to and when it was "businesstime"....omg, it was incredible. I'm still in complete shock over that...and the way that I am feeling about him now. Now i'm trying really hard NOT to fall for him.