Posted by BlindedByLovelol why? It must've been a good letter, quite impressive too!
You lost me at I even showed the letter to my therapist
Posted by PurplePassion38I know it’s her primary because I’ve sent her something to that address before. And it’s the most proper one (like her first last and middle name) which statistically people use for professional/important matters ect. Also had her picture. Idk for sure tho
I have push notifications on my phone for my email, and I only check my email if I get a notification. If I don't get the notification then the email may sit there forever before I see it. Now this is also assuming she gave you her primary email address and not a throw away one.
Posted by pisceswoman123Think about?
Sometimes I do sometimes I don’t.
Sometimes I read them and I need time to think.
Sometimes I forget to respond
Posted by saggurl88Posted by BlindedByLovelol why? It must've been a good letter, quite impressive too!
You lost me at I even showed the letter to my therapistclick to expand
Posted by chris19Makes sense
I read my e-mails everyday. Sometimes I don't but at least after two days I do check my e-mails. I might not respond to emails in time. Sometimes I take long to reply, because I overthink what to write, I am so sensitive as not to ruin anybody's day.
Posted by LoyalNo. We haven’t spoken in 4 months or seen one another since June.
Damn son you still with her?
Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!
Posted by ArgusI’m like that (cancer) it be like that sometime haha
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
Posted by WaterDevilNo, it will say "unopened" if she didn't open it!Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!click to expand
Posted by UndineWait would you walk me through this? I try my best but I’m like an 80 year old woman when it comes to Internet things (I’m 27 for context haha)Posted by WaterDevilNo, it will say "unopened" if she didn't open it!Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!
That's how I know someone who opens my emails about 80-120 times over several days...
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Posted by KoniAssuming you havnt read my previous posts about her but we tripped on mushrooms and basically fell in love and made love. And I don’t mean sex. I mean spiritually. And she accidentally dropped the L word. During and well after the trip. And than she got all emotional and dark about the entire thing and basically started ghosting me (I live 6 hours away). And I confronted her eventually about her behavior and in so many words she doesn’t want someone there for her who can’t even be there physically. Wether or not she still has feelings I don’t know. But she expressed many times that she “cares deeply”. verbatim.
Do you think she is in to you ?
Posted by tctaapThe one I tripped on mushrooms with this summer.
who is this
Posted by WaterDeviloh yeah, the shrooms lolPosted by tctaapThe one I tripped on mushrooms with this summer.
who is thisclick to expand
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Holy fuck. Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
My business oriented email always alerts me
But my personal email has about 4,000 unread messages..so..
Posted by UndineWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?Posted by WaterDevilNo, it will say "unopened" if she didn't open it!Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!
That's how I know someone who opens my emails about 80-120 times over several days...
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Posted by PurplePassion38Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
I have push notifications on my phone for my email, and I only check my email if I get a notification. If I don't get the notification then the email may sit there forever before I see it. Now this is also assuming she gave you her primary email address and not a throw away one.
Posted by pisceswoman123Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Sometimes I do sometimes I don’t.
Sometimes I read them and I need time to think.
Sometimes I forget to respond
Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
Posted by pisceswoman123Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Sometimes I do sometimes I don’t.
Sometimes I read them and I need time to think.
Sometimes I forget to respond
Posted by WaterDevilYeah just for the fact that I know its there in case I didnt see itPosted by AfternoonDelights22Holy fuck. Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
My business oriented email always alerts me
But my personal email has about 4,000 unread messages..so..click to expand
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Through DM?Posted by WaterDevilYeah just for the fact that I know its there in case I didnt see itPosted by AfternoonDelights22Holy fuck. Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
My business oriented email always alerts me
But my personal email has about 4,000 unread messages..so..click to expand
Posted by PurplePassion38Ehhh I’m cringing just reading that to be honest lol. I feel like that sounds like it warrants a response. I don’t want to do that... also if it’s not the right e-mail wouldn’t that defeat the purpose? Would it be better to DM her or something? Like “Hey there is an e-mail in your inbox. Happy birthday”. Ughhh I don’t know I even that sounds pushy. :/Posted by WaterDevilPosted by PurplePassion38Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
I have push notifications on my phone for my email, and I only check my email if I get a notification. If I don't get the notification then the email may sit there forever before I see it. Now this is also assuming she gave you her primary email address and not a throw away one.
You can send a follow up email saying something along the lines of "hey hope you got my prior message. I just want you to know how much you mean to me..." Send the follow up email using the program Undine recommended and leave it at that. If she reads it and still doesn't respond, fuck it it's done.click to expand
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
I usually only check my emails when I get a notification on my phone.
Posted by dilettanteThe previous time I told her I was e-mailing her. And I already had her e-mail but she sent me hers so I knew she knew to receive something. And the only other time I e-mailed her was to send her something that I don’t recall while we we speaking on the phone. So this would be the first time I e-‘mailed her without a heads up
if you’ve emailed her before, how long would it typically take for her to respond back?
Posted by NeshamaWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
on the up side when she texts me i dont see it she doesnt mind
Posted by PurplePassion38Would it be better if I DM’d her? Since I know she’s active on IG?Posted by WaterDevilPosted by PurplePassion38Ehhh I’m cringing just reading that to be honest lol. I feel like that sounds like it warrants a response. I don’t want to do that... also if it’s not the right e-mail wouldn’t that defeat the purpose? Would it be better to DM her or something? Like “Hey there is an e-mail in your inbox. Happy birthday”. Ughhh I don’t know I even that sounds pushy. :/Posted by WaterDevilPosted by PurplePassion38Well let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
I have push notifications on my phone for my email, and I only check my email if I get a notification. If I don't get the notification then the email may sit there forever before I see it. Now this is also assuming she gave you her primary email address and not a throw away one.
You can send a follow up email saying something along the lines of "hey hope you got my prior message. I just want you to know how much you mean to me..." Send the follow up email using the program Undine recommended and leave it at that. If she reads it and still doesn't respond, fuck it it's done.
You want to make sure she got your message or not? 😜 LOL. Phrase it in whatever way feels best for you. Sometimes I have only noticed a first email after a second one.click to expand
Posted by NeshamaSo am I. I’m looking for a Pisces perspectivePosted by WaterDevili am a cancer....Posted by NeshamaWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
on the up side when she texts me i dont see it she doesnt mindclick to expand
Posted by dilettanteYeah I think I’m with you on that honestly. I was really unsure but she already swam away. She either got it or not. I guess I’ll leave it at that.Posted by WaterDevilim no cancer (which i vaguely recall you are?) nor am i a pisces buuuuut...Posted by dilettanteThe previous time I told her I was e-mailing her. And I already had her e-mail but she sent me hers so I knew she knew to receive something. And the only other time I e-mailed her was to send her something that I don’t recall while we we speaking on the phone. So this would be the first time I e-‘mailed her without a heads up
if you’ve emailed her before, how long would it typically take for her to respond back?
if i were u, i wouldnt push it. i have alotta piscean experience & sometimes a message like that, makes them feel pressured. she could be taking time to respond or... it couldve made her swim away.
if she felt pressured, or is taking time to respond, a follow up email is gonna make u look thirsty af.click to expand
Posted by dilettanteAlso Scorpio advice is always welcome in this case lol. I know ya’ll know your shit with PiscesPosted by WaterDevilim no cancer (which i vaguely recall you are?) nor am i a pisces buuuuut...Posted by dilettanteThe previous time I told her I was e-mailing her. And I already had her e-mail but she sent me hers so I knew she knew to receive something. And the only other time I e-mailed her was to send her something that I don’t recall while we we speaking on the phone. So this would be the first time I e-‘mailed her without a heads up
if you’ve emailed her before, how long would it typically take for her to respond back?
if i were u, i wouldnt push it. i have alotta piscean experience & sometimes a message like that, makes them feel pressured. she could be taking time to respond or... it couldve made her swim away.
if she felt pressured, or is taking time to respond, a follow up email is gonna make u look thirsty af.click to expand
Posted by dilettantePosted by WaterDevili know it sucks but... its prob for the best, you know?Posted by dilettanteYeah I think I’m with you on that honestly. I was really unsure but she already swam away. She either got it or not. I guess I’ll leave it at that.Posted by WaterDevilim no cancer (which i vaguely recall you are?) nor am i a pisces buuuuut...Posted by dilettanteThe previous time I told her I was e-mailing her. And I already had her e-mail but she sent me hers so I knew she knew to receive something. And the only other time I e-mailed her was to send her something that I don’t recall while we we speaking on the phone. So this would be the first time I e-‘mailed her without a heads up
if you’ve emailed her before, how long would it typically take for her to respond back?
if i were u, i wouldnt push it. i have alotta piscean experience & sometimes a message like that, makes them feel pressured. she could be taking time to respond or... it couldve made her swim away.
if she felt pressured, or is taking time to respond, a follow up email is gonna make u look thirsty af.
i dont like waiting around for a response from a luvr but if they dont respond in 2-3 days, i pick myself up & move forward... i may still think about them but... you dont wanna push someone who will just continue to back away.click to expand
Posted by dilettanteFACTSSS HAHAHAHAPosted by WaterDevilseriously... my major issue w/ pisceans is ALWAYS communication. always.Posted by dilettanteAlso Scorpio advice is always welcome in this case lol. I know ya’ll know your shit with PiscesPosted by WaterDevilim no cancer (which i vaguely recall you are?) nor am i a pisces buuuuut...Posted by dilettanteThe previous time I told her I was e-mailing her. And I already had her e-mail but she sent me hers so I knew she knew to receive something. And the only other time I e-mailed her was to send her something that I don’t recall while we we speaking on the phone. So this would be the first time I e-‘mailed her without a heads up
if you’ve emailed her before, how long would it typically take for her to respond back?
if i were u, i wouldnt push it. i have alotta piscean experience & sometimes a message like that, makes them feel pressured. she could be taking time to respond or... it couldve made her swim away.
if she felt pressured, or is taking time to respond, a follow up email is gonna make u look thirsty af.
“oh i forgot to respond” “oh i forgot to hit send” “oh my phone died” “oh i forgot to pay my phone bill”
like wtf - get it togetherclick to expand
Posted by DrinkWaterHaha why you wish that? I’m a cancer
Please be a Scorpio.
Posted by PurplePassion38Why?Posted by DrinkWaterPosted by WaterDevilOh she won't respond then.Posted by DrinkWaterHaha why you wish that? I’m a cancer
Please be a Scorpio.
LOL. I usually give cancers more passes than scorpios because they are defensive and reactionary. But I must admit I am more likely to cut them off permanently than scorpios.click to expand
Posted by PurplePassion38Yeah but we are great in bed ;pPosted by WaterDevilPosted by PurplePassion38Why?Posted by DrinkWaterPosted by WaterDevilOh she won't respond then.Posted by DrinkWaterHaha why you wish that? I’m a cancer
Please be a Scorpio.
LOL. I usually give cancers more passes than scorpios because they are defensive and reactionary. But I must admit I am more likely to cut them off permanently than scorpios.
Because cancers are more stressful to deal with than scorpios. My Scorpio friends are tranquil, reliable, loyal, and consistent. Cancer friends are moody, unpredictable, reactive, and changeable. I prefer harmony and consistency, two things I can't get with cancers.click to expand
Posted by WaterDevilThere is really no cut and dry answer to that question for it all depends on how I feel about the person. Sometimes people part ways in less than desirable tearms yet there is a part of that individual we hold dear. In which case, receiving a brief “happy bday” note Id most likely find endearing.Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️click to expand
Posted by ArgusGreat advice, and I agree. Thank you. Also I don't know If you peeped it but the e-mail I sent was a full on letter, not just a brief "happy birthday". That said, yeah i don't feel comfortable following up. And I wont. Worst case scenario she didnreceiveve and thinks I didnt wish her happy birthday, in which case I told her she can have all the space she needs when we last spoke anyway so, I think both ways have a relatively decent outcome I suppose.Posted by WaterDevilThere is really no cut and dry answer to that question for it all depends on how I feel about the person. Sometimes people part ways in less than desirable tearms yet there is a part of that individual we hold dear. In which case, receiving a brief “happy bday” note Id most likely find endearing.Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
With that said, sending a follow-up message informing me of the initial message/e-mail could easily backfire in that it could be perceived as insistence/pushiness, and weather true or not, potential intent to manipulate how I feel about the situation...among other things.
My suggestion is to just leave it at that. If she feels like responding, she will...which goes without saying.
I understand the need to know/satisfying one’s curiosity regardless of the nd results all too well, but some things are better left alone.
I hope that made some sense.click to expand
Posted by WaterDevilOh, you can rest assured I peeped. :p Which is precisely why I made a point to say brief "happy bday" note take terms on which you two parted into consideration. Furthermore, you said the email address you used is for business purposes which ultimately yields higher chances of her receiving the email than not. Corny as it may sound, you just have to trust that things do indeed happen for a reason and that relinquishing control over circumstances does not equate loosing control over yourself.Posted by ArgusGreat advice, and I agree. Thank you. Also I don't know If you peeped it but the e-mail I sent was a full on letter, not just a brief "happy birthday". That said, yeah i don't feel comfortable following up. And I wont. Worst case scenario she didnreceiveve and thinks I didnt wish her happy birthday, in which case I told her she can have all the space she needs when we last spoke anyway so, I think both ways have a relatively decent outcome I suppose.Posted by WaterDevilThere is really no cut and dry answer to that question for it all depends on how I feel about the person. Sometimes people part ways in less than desirable tearms yet there is a part of that individual we hold dear. In which case, receiving a brief “happy bday” note Id most likely find endearing.Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
With that said, sending a follow-up message informing me of the initial message/e-mail could easily backfire in that it could be perceived as insistence/pushiness, and weather true or not, potential intent to manipulate how I feel about the situation...among other things.
My suggestion is to just leave it at that. If she feels like responding, she will...which goes without saying.
I understand the need to know/satisfying one’s curiosity regardless of the nd results all too well, but some things are better left alone.
I hope that made some sense.click to expand
Posted by ArgusPosted by WaterDevilOh, you can rest assured I peeped. :p Which is precisely why I made a point to say brief "happy bday" note take terms on which you two parted into consideration. Furthermore, you said the email address you used is for business purposes which ultimately yields higher chances of her receiving the email than not. Corny as it may sound, you just have to trust that things do indeed happen for a reason and that relinquishing control over circumstances does not equate loosing control over yourself.Posted by ArgusGreat advice, and I agree. Thank you. Also I don't know If you peeped it but the e-mail I sent was a full on letter, not just a brief "happy birthday". That said, yeah i don't feel comfortable following up. And I wont. Worst case scenario she didnreceiveve and thinks I didnt wish her happy birthday, in which case I told her she can have all the space she needs when we last spoke anyway so, I think both ways have a relatively decent outcome I suppose.Posted by WaterDevilThere is really no cut and dry answer to that question for it all depends on how I feel about the person. Sometimes people part ways in less than desirable tearms yet there is a part of that individual we hold dear. In which case, receiving a brief “happy bday” note Id most likely find endearing.Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
thank you for this.
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
With that said, sending a follow-up message informing me of the initial message/e-mail could easily backfire in that it could be perceived as insistence/pushiness, and weather true or not, potential intent to manipulate how I feel about the situation...among other things.
My suggestion is to just leave it at that. If she feels like responding, she will...which goes without saying.
I understand the need to know/satisfying one’s curiosity regardless of the nd results all too well, but some things are better left alone.
I hope that made some sense.click to expand
Posted by WaterDevilWhat for...? I assume I know already that they emailed me, unless:Posted by UndineWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?Posted by WaterDevilNo, it will say "unopened" if she didn't open it!Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!
That's how I know someone who opens my emails about 80-120 times over several days...
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Posted by UndineLols. If I was a stalker I think I would have figured that shit out by now. Otherwise I’d be a pretty shitty stalker 😂. But yeah I decided not to do anything. But thank youPosted by WaterDevilWhat for...? I assume I know already that they emailed me, unless:Posted by UndineWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?Posted by WaterDevilNo, it will say "unopened" if she didn't open it!Posted by UndineThat’s a little much don’t you think? To re-send. I don’t want her to think I need a response because I don’t. I tried to look up read receipts but it’s said regardless when you send the receiver a receipt they have to press wether or not they want to send her one. I can’t even be cunning about it lol
As a Pisces, I check my email every day.
Why don't you use the (free) email tracker to see how many times one reads your emails? If she doesn't respond, Instal it and re-send her the email!
That's how I know someone who opens my emails about 80-120 times over several days...![]()
(A)--I blocked that email address previously or
(B)--I marked it as "spam" and I don't open my spam folder.
I didn't recommend that you "let her know you emailed her", but to:
--Install the email tracker
--Re-send her that email, but maybe with a different subject (in case she has opened the first one, and would be less inclined to open what appears to be the same message).
In this way you will know if she opened your message. If she didn't, A and B may be the case. In which case you need to send it from a NEW email address.
Jess....I hope I didn't help a stalker! (@Pisces moon issues)click to expand