Pisces female dating a Taurus female... help! :)

Hey there - I'm head over heals in love with a Taurus (we're both females), and she is the first Taurus I ever dated. We were excellent friends, but now that we crossed over to committment land, her independance/practicalities makes my need for utter cinderella romance extremely insecure. Not to mention I've become jealous and posessive, which i didn't feel before we started dating. She's not even doing anything to make me feel that way, they just popped up. So, I've learned so far to NEVER question a Taurus's integrity, lol! 🙂

I'm so afraid I'll end up pushing her away. It sounds bad on paper, but I just can't figure out why I feel so insecure around her all the time. She's awesome, and makes me laugh so hard. There's no reason for me to doubt. I thought our signs were supposed to be pretty good together, but I worry about not being enough to keep her interested, I guess. Plus I think I smother her with too much mush. I don't know what the heck I'm doing..

Any insights, opinions, experience??

Thanks all!! 🙂

I happen to have experience with this EXACT combination, except I am friends with the Taurus chick in the equation. After some initial setbacks they now enjoy a beautiful relationship of around 10 years or thereabouts.

Don't let your insecurities bog you down! Take it as a challenge to yourself and just flow with the good things you have going with her. Keep a possitive attitude and it will all fall into place with time 🙂

From what I observed, Taurus does have enough of a nurturing instinct to help you overcome insecurities, which should come in handy, just try not to go overboard with them though 😉

best of luck!

Both good insights! Thanks you two! 🙂

The thing with bulls is they are slow to come to love...so when they get there they are steadfast and severly loyal. So if they are in a relationship with you boy oh boy they are IN a relationship with you. Good thing is you both will stick around till the bitter end you don't have to worry about a bull just up and leaving you for nothing. They will work with brimstone and fire in hell before they just up and quit any relationship.

You just have to learn how to be more independent and be secure with whom you are as a woman. The bull would love this and you will in turn love how strong you are...you will feel so free and empowered. It's truly glorious to know your happiness, sadness or emotional security isn't dependent on one person or they're interactions with you. You feel so damn free it's ridic. I will tell you know as a taurus mooner and venus DO NOT question a bulls integrity it will piss us off till no end and you will get the horns. We will pin red on you and won't stop until your defeated. Seriously... not much pisses us off but that will every time. She will have some level of possession of you...it's not to be rude or anything but bulls are a bit possessive. WE don't see you as an object just that your ours and it's our duty and obligation to take care of you in everyway. You can't do that fully unless something is yours. So if you can deal with that you can deal with bulls.... SO... keep that mermaid charm on a short leash. I know, I know we are just being playful or nice but to bulls that shite isn't tolerated and equates to flirting which = the horns.

Bahaha @ pushing a bull away...oh man that ain't gonna happen. Bulls are stubborn as all get out man. Your golden. It takes a lot for us to get there and you will have PLENTY of warnings before shite gets to the point that a bull walks the hell out on you. We take forever and a day and garden to decide I'm giving a person my heart. Once they decide they are stubborn cause we see something in YOU that makes us want to give it to you... you are seen as rare and of great quality. For bulls it's quality not quantity.

Don't worry about loosing her...focus on using our father's (Neptune's) gifts to his children and work on being a molding on iron scales onto your tail and fins. Be a fierce mermaid warrior and REALIZE how precious you are cause every pisces is truly precious! Stop trying to be a martyr and work on you. You will be better for this and your bullette will appreicate you being str

crap... I was cut off.

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TBIR😱 Thank you soooo much! Really great words, thank you! I'm going to read it again! 🙂
what about if i got insecure and it made her really upset with me? I can tell she's a little timid right now, so i'm trying to give her space, but how much space is good enough or how much is too much? is there an easy way to help her get her comfort level back?

That was damned well said tbird! *putting 4 hoof prints all over it*

@corky: You're very much welcome my dear! Ah ha! You asked a question that I cannot answer. If I did I would be blowing sunshine up your bum. The reason I say such is I have a lot of taurus in my chart BUT I also have Mermaid and Virgo in my chart which equates to leave me the hell alone at times. In every aspect so I cannot TRULY tell you how a bullette is regarding personal space in love. My need for space is apparant and abundant at times but I truly believe my mermaid and virgo aspects have something to do with...did I meantion I have an aqua placements in my 7th and 8th house? LOL yeah I SCREAM I need some space in relationships.

Maybe venusianbull can take over on that one hun. Sorry!

what about if i got insecure and it made her really upset with me?

Well your insecurity may have been the root cause of this but I have a feeling it's what you said or how you presented it to piss her off. So think about what you said and why you saying it just to have affirmation of her love for you. As I said before bulls don't like you questioning their intrigrity and if your questioning her love for you...well you kinda in a roundabout way doing just that. Just be open and honest with her. Tell her why you did what you did and the reasons for such without pinning any blame on her as a person. She will hear you and understand it and guess what have PATIENCE with you! lol yes, yes she will sit in her green pastures and graze and wait until the time is right. Life's too short to dwell on negativities and she's got a lot to tend too...she's a bull! Honey communication is the key for every relationship except ones involving aquas...I'm learning that one now. lol

is there an easy way to help her get her comfort level back?

Work on you hun... present to her what's going on like I said and learn on how to deal with it, curb it and/or recongize it before it materializes in what you say and do. Self realization is so powerful and wonderful! It's a blessing to look at your faults, learn how to deal with them and be better for it...ignoring it ain't gonna fix the problemo, neither is buring it, my dear. Dust that sucker off and bring it into light. Take a magnifing glass to it even. Then pick yourself up and march forward with your head held high! You GOT THIS!!!

Once you do this or are working on doing this everything will fall into place. Stop being a marytr!!! You're important too hun! It's not ONLY about the bullette. It's about you as well!

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That was damned well said tbird! *putting 4 hoof prints all over it*

bahaha awww shucks! thank you my dear!!

You gals are awesome! Including XV2(male) and Piranhaparadiise(don't want to leave you out!) I will apply the words you all have written out so thoughtfully and completely.

@Venusian- thanks for your replies on the Taurus forum as well. (I'm hitting up EVERYONE!) All the information has helped.

@Tbird - she screams she needs space all the time ss well! (and i'm on the other side of the world right now) LOL.

Thanks for listening ya'll! Seriously! 🙂 I'll be gone for 8 more months... I can't wait to see her again.