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@Eclipse80
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Pisces friend disappeared
Also she has been posting on Facebook so I know she's able to use the phone. She's giving me the cold shoulder.
Posted by ShadowcatMid 20s
How old are you two?
I explained that I was attending like I'd agreed to. It's not like I quit while she was taking it seriously. I don't know why she's mad at me now.
Posted by ScufflesPosted by Eclipse80She was persuasive about it when she asked. I indicated that I wasn't really interested, but she kept pushing, so I agreed because it was important to her.
Why would she get mad at you when she's the one who flaked out on you, but did she only ask you to attend with her or did she force you?
She WAS the one who flaked out, and I was upset because she wasn't appreciating thay I was showing up because she'd asked me to. She is mad because I quit and told her she was being a flake (in kinder words).
It has been several days of no contact. I'm upset that she'd give me the silent treatment and won't acknowledge her own responsibility. Oh well. If she swims back, I hope the story's a good one.click to expand
Posted by pakmaiThank you. I'll ask her once more what the problem is. After that, it's up to her. After 4 days of silence, I'm hurt.
Call her and see what's up. It sounds like she doesn't have a reason to be mad but we're only getting one side of the story here. With what you've told us, I would say you should just ask her what the problem is. The situation doesn't sound that bad, it can be fixed but if she's not being a good friend, she's just not a good friend (for whatever reason)
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflakePosted by Eclipse80
Yeah, she's being petty. She's ignoring you. Move on with your life. She will come around, or she won't. Either way there is nothing you can do.
Yes, I think so too. That was out of nowhere. Fish always ghost. Oh well.click to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI agree with this. I have seen a pisces friend do something similar
I bet she feels uncomfortable talking to you cos you're annoyed at her.
maybe she thinks you are mad at her which you are and just doesn't know what to say ? just call her FFS
Posted by Eclipse80You know what? When I respond I NEVER ask, "How old are y'all?". To me, being Piscean, I DON'T need that information so here goes....
I had a disagreement with a female pisces friend. I'm a virgo female.
My friend asked me to attend a class with her. I don't really have the time but I agreed. I was also driving us. She doesn't have a ride of her own.
We are 4 weeks into the class and she keeps missing the class because she has work and family stuff. I'm getting sick of attending because I never really wanted to in the first place. My friend says it doesn't matter that she missed all the classes and that she will just show up for the last class to write the exam and get the certificate.
I told her the day before the last class that I was getting sick of attending alone and if she wasn't interested, neither was I and that I would quit. She promised to come last week but something came up and she didn't show.
I got mad and sent her a text and said I wasn't going anymore and she needed to find another ride if she still wanted to attend.
It's been several days and she hasn't texted back. What's the deal? Is she mad at me or what? We've been friends for 4 years and never had an argument. Why did she disappear?
She's one of the FEW RUDE, CRUDE, DUDETTES, that gives US Piscean women a bad reputation. She's the one that is SELFISH! As Piscean, what I WILL tell you is that February and March Pisceans with the dates of the latter from 9-14 March are different Pisceans that fall into this category of being selfish and RUDE! I was born on Texas Independence day (2nd March); and I would NOT have treated you like this! What she also is SMART! (hang in there w/my explanation). She's NOT a bookworm, but can miss a class and take the final exam and score an "A". She's also CRUDE; and conceited. Rude to continue to say that she had no vehicle and relied on YOU to drive her; let alone take time out of YOUR life to sit in class with her (she sounds as if she's got you wrapped around her little "pinky finger"; rude to say that if she really cared about you as a "friend" she would not have taken this as NONCHALANTLY, would have apologized to you (SOME Piscean females RARELY say I'm sorry). Do you need a friend like this? If this is HOW she treats her "friends" how the treetrunk do you think she treats her ENEMIES? Good God! Diss her! Remember, Pisceans don't like to be ignored. If you see her, turn the other way, talk to a friend and diss her back! Remember also that Pisceans, when we hurt you, we hit your face with our wet fish tail (and I've heard it hurts MORE than slapping your face with a wet hand); I know, I can tell, because she hurt you. YOU do the same to her! Ignore her and she will be kissing your ass! "Oh, I didn't see you" (she will tell you), or she will text you. BLOCK her contact information on your phone right now (text/call). Mark my word. She will come kissing your ass as it's close to Christmas and she'll come to you with the excuse of handing you a Christmas gift; to talk to you. Your CHOICE to take her back as your friend, and if you do, let her have it!!! She needs to be informed of her behavior as being inappropriate!
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Posted by Eclipse80
1. I don't really have the time but I agreed.
2. I got mad and sent her a text
3. Why did she disappear?
1. This seems very odd to me .. unless of course, you had an ulterior motive. Like maybe you were desperate for friendship and/or attention .. I mean, why would you be such a push over for just a regular friend? Are you trying to gain romantic interest or what?
2. Why get mad? How odd of you. And since you sent her a text as a reaction to being mad, the logical assumption is that text was full of angriness on your part, and spouting off your angry reactions. In her place, if you had done that to me ... I'd ignore your ass.
How dare you? You had no obligation what so ever to take that class .. and then turn around and mad at her and send an angry text because you made a stupid mistake?
3. you fucking sent her an angry text .... are you daft? You seriously cannot figure out why she bailed on you? wtf is going on here? How can you be in your 20's and STILL be this clueless to how people are going to react to you?
Posted by Eclipse804. seriously? ...... you get mad at her, and fling an angry text at her, but, you're dumbfounded why her reaction would be to be mad at you?
4. I don't know why she's mad at me now.
Can you add 2 plus 2? .... because it's that simple.
You get mad at her and fling hate at her ... then she responds by getting mad at you.
viola !!!! 2+2
Posted by Eclipse805. So, the real deal finally comes out ... you're seeking appreciation. You obviously are in need of being valued, likely because you don't value yourself .... you put the responsibility onto another to appreciate you, so you can feel important.
5. I was upset because she wasn't appreciating thay I was showing up
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I mean, what other reason is there for you to get mad about not being appreciated ?
Virgos are some scary people, I'm telling you .... their self centeredness goes way beyond the accepted normal of everyone else.
My counsel to you then is ........ forget about this Pisces and all Pisces here after. Fish will toy with ignorant people. She knows full well (and all of them would realize) that you're a rug, laying on the ground, ready to be walked on ... and they will take it. They take it because it disgusts them that a person could have such low standards, and low self esteem.
So, forget Pisces .. you'll never get around that with him, so long as you remain a doormat.
Try a Leo or a Scorpio ... they love to control, and would have you happy as a lark, hopping on one foot while barking.
"My friend says it doesn't matter that she missed all the classes and that she will just show up for the last class to write the exam and get the certificate."
^^^^^^
What part of this statement did you not understand?
She clearly said what she intended to do! You kept pestering her to change her mind and then got angry that she didn't do so.
As for 4 days of silence after you annoyed her...Pisces do this to protect people...otherwise you would have heard the full, non-self-censored version of P-Angel's rant from her
!
^^^^^^
What part of this statement did you not understand?
She clearly said what she intended to do! You kept pestering her to change her mind and then got angry that she didn't do so.
As for 4 days of silence after you annoyed her...Pisces do this to protect people...otherwise you would have heard the full, non-self-censored version of P-Angel's rant from her
!
Don't be upset that she's angry. Let her be angry and eventually she'll come to you. So annoying though! You're definitely not in the wrong. I would just full on say when you're on better terms, that you weren't that interested in the first place and that you were just trying to be a good friend
Maybe she is a magician?
OP, does the class cost you money?
Posted by Eclipse80I think she wasn't being appreciative enough but you also overreacted a little.
Also she has been posting on Facebook so I know she's able to use the phone. She's giving me the cold shoulder.
Don't let a petty argument get in the way of your friendship. Now that you're calmer, maybe you should call her and talk things through. Try explaining where you come from, listen to her explanation and everything will hopefully go back to normal.
Posted by BuffaloBills28^5 (high five).
Don't let your good heart take you down a fools journey. Worry about yourself, if she was a real friend she would of attended the class with you, and if she respected you, at the least she would've texted back.. I agree with @EvaTheDiva, block her out of your life completely. You're a person of character, while your "friend" sounds like a pretty big clown.
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Posted by BuffaloBills28LOL!Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by BuffaloBills28^5 (high five).
Don't let your good heart take you down a fools journey. Worry about yourself, if she was a real friend she would of attended the class with you, and if she respected you, at the least she would've texted back.. I agree with @EvaTheDiva, block her out of your life completely. You're a person of character, while your "friend" sounds like a pretty big clown.
Love,
Eva
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cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
My Virgo girlfriends would never like a threat like that (that's how they would see that message). Give her plenty of time to cool off and maybe she will come around again. Don't necessarily expect an apology, but graciously accept if you get one. They have big hearts but don't like to be put in a corner.
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My friend asked me to attend a class with her. I don't really have the time but I agreed. I was also driving us. She doesn't have a ride of her own.
We are 4 weeks into the class and she keeps missing the class because she has work and family stuff. I'm getting sick of attending because I never really wanted to in the first place. My friend says it doesn't matter that she missed all the classes and that she will just show up for the last class to write the exam and get the certificate.
I told her the day before the last class that I was getting sick of attending alone and if she wasn't interested, neither was I and that I would quit. She promised to come last week but something came up and she didn't show.
I got mad and sent her a text and said I wasn't going anymore and she needed to find another ride if she still wanted to attend.
It's been several days and she hasn't texted back. What's the deal? Is she mad at me or what? We've been friends for 4 years and never had an argument. Why did she disappear?