Pisces Friendship or Love?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Renata25 on Thursday, September 22, 2016 and has 13 replies.
So I have been friends with this pisces female who has venus in aquarius. We have just been friends, and I have always liked her. BTW i am gay, and she knows that. We have talked about it. Anywho I have always had this vibe that she likes me, btw that she always wants my attention, looks at me differently. With these eyes that just tell me she is in love with me, its the weirdest thing. She says that people have asked her "are you gay?" and she has just blown that idea off, and that she isnt. I honestly think she is confused.
Recently I distanced myself even though we are super close because I did not want to be selfish and ruin our friendship, and I did not tell her why. There was this one night I almost told her, and i think she caught on. From then on we have gotten even closer. And I totally thought dang she likes me. However she keeps on saying friends this, your friendship means the world to me, and just homies. Very friendzoning, but like overly. But at the same time she is dropping all these hints about how she feels for me, like the way she treats me. However recently after I let her know that we are forever friends and have slowly moved out of this distance, SHE is now distancing herself. I feel like a hypocrite because I cannot ask her why she is distancing herself because I did it first. So I have just let her be. Our friendship has definitely changed. It no longer has that comfort feel, but like this pressure, i don't know if its just me.
Our mutual best friend though, has been super adamant about us hanging out or spending alone time together. This happened before she started distancing herself. Like 2 weeks before she started the distance. Then last week when I went to go see her she didnt text me and was very distant, but our friend made us sit together, and said you and her are going to hang out at this time. It is always the three of us, but they have these secret talks where it seems that they talk about me. Why is our friend bringing us together, while she is pulling apart?
What do I do, does she just view me as a friend? As much as I am trying to save it, it seems that I am ruining it. What do you think is going through her head. Does she think I dont like her?
Recently I distanced myself even though we are super close because I did not want to be selfish and ruin our friendship, and I did not tell her why. There was this one night I almost told her, and i think she caught on. From then on we have gotten even closer. And I totally thought dang she likes me. However she keeps on saying friends this, your friendship means the world to me, and just homies. Very friendzoning, but like overly. But at the same time she is dropping all these hints about how she feels for me, like the way she treats me. However recently after I let her know that we are forever friends and have slowly moved out of this distance, SHE is now distancing herself. I feel like a hypocrite because I cannot ask her why she is distancing herself because I did it first. So I have just let her be. Our friendship has definitely changed. It no longer has that comfort feel, but like this pressure, i don't know if its just me.
Our mutual best friend though, has been super adamant about us hanging out or spending alone time together. This happened before she started distancing herself. Like 2 weeks before she started the distance. Then last week when I went to go see her she didnt text me and was very distant, but our friend made us sit together, and said you and her are going to hang out at this time. It is always the three of us, but they have these secret talks where it seems that they talk about me. Why is our friend bringing us together, while she is pulling apart?
What do I do, does she just view me as a friend? As much as I am trying to save it, it seems that I am ruining it. What do you think is going through her head. Does she think I dont like her?
Believe me when i say she knows you like her,she's just bored so shes playing you for fun and pretending that she doesn't know anythy more likely than not she's not gay.If you act more seriously she will pull away cuz she's just having fun
Skyla, why is she playing me for fun if i mean alot to her? Howcome she is distancing herself right now, I dont get it. I know she knows, then why lead me on, its so annoying.
like she seems to care about me alot, but doesnt reply to my texts and is just super distant. We would talk all of the time, and now nothing. She doesnt reach out to me at all, and is listening to love songs, and im so confused, like "our songs" type of things.
Wow, okay good to know. Its just different when you know the person is gay, and likes you ya know? So would it just be best for me to let her be distant. Its so weird though cause as soon as i treated her like just a friend thats when she started distancing herself. Is there anyway that she is doing to me, what I did to to her to get over me? I guess ill just have to get over it, it just sucks that our friendship isnt even there anymore. Thats what hurt the most I guess. She really is a forever friend. Its almost as though she is mean to me now, and like mad at me!
No, she is in San Diego, and I am in about 2 hours away. I transferred schools for a semester. So there actually is literal distance as well haha. I would have to drive up to tell her, but we haven't seen each other in about 2 weeks. Maybe a text hear and there, but nothing intimate or personal. I guess I will have to tell her the next time i see her.
my best girl friend is pisces.
like most pisces she's kind of a masochist, meaning that when someone obviously likes and values her it turns her off. she's most attracted to men who don't like her that much, but give her scraps of attention.
i also had a pisces boyfriend who didnt care for me when i was in love with him, but when i started detaching and treating him like a bit*c this is when he fell in love with me. but it was too late for me...
like most pisces she's kind of a masochist, meaning that when someone obviously likes and values her it turns her off. she's most attracted to men who don't like her that much, but give her scraps of attention.
i also had a pisces boyfriend who didnt care for me when i was in love with him, but when i started detaching and treating him like a bit*c this is when he fell in love with me. but it was too late for me...
Pisces are natural flirts. even with our best friends, we can occasionally come across as over sweet. But thats just because i want my friends to know how much i appreciate them - platonically.
I have a few bi/gay girl friends, and being bi myself, i try hard to keep it platonic, to not accidentally lead someone on. Yet at the same time...
pisces moods and opinions about people and things change every day. We are incredibly wishy washy. So it may just be that she does have something for you somewhere inside, yet in another moment she's trying to push it back.
Distance can be one of two things
1) you're annoying her and she just wants space (its a personal thing, nothing to do with you)
2) she has noticed feelings for you and is trying to push them away.
I have a few bi/gay girl friends, and being bi myself, i try hard to keep it platonic, to not accidentally lead someone on. Yet at the same time...
pisces moods and opinions about people and things change every day. We are incredibly wishy washy. So it may just be that she does have something for you somewhere inside, yet in another moment she's trying to push it back.
Distance can be one of two things
1) you're annoying her and she just wants space (its a personal thing, nothing to do with you)
2) she has noticed feelings for you and is trying to push them away.
Posted by jellyfish87When I was distant that is when I most thought that she liked me, and she fought for my attention. There was this one night when she did my hair and just looked into my eyes (she didnt have to ofcourse), and i swear they said she loved me. She does this stuff all of the time to me, and its stupid honestly. Everytime I have been around her I have been mean, and just rude. This is why I feel like I finally feel like she likes me. But why would she distance herself? What is the purpose of this? To get over me?
my best girl friend is pisces.
like most pisces she's kind of a masochist, meaning that when someone obviously likes and values her it turns her off. she's most attracted to men who don't like her that much, but give her scraps of attention.
i also had a pisces boyfriend who didnt care for me when i was in love with him, but when i started detaching and treating him like a bit*c this is when he fell in love with me. but it was too late for me...
Posted by firefis1996I honestly dont think I have annoyed her in any way because I have been distant, so maybe she is mad at me because i have been/ mean different. Second though is why is she pushing me away. and our friend is bringing us closer if she likes me? She texted me one day saying i was thinking of you this morning, and then after that text she has not reached out to me at all. Our friend Amber always sends me snaps of her. like why? I dont know what I am supposed to do now. What is going in her head, like what does she want me to do?
Pisces are natural flirts. even with our best friends, we can occasionally come across as over sweet. But thats just because i want my friends to know how much i appreciate them - platonically.
I have a few bi/gay girl friends, and being bi myself, i try hard to keep it platonic, to not accidentally lead someone on. Yet at the same time...
pisces moods and opinions about people and things change every day. We are incredibly wishy washy. So it may just be that she does have something for you somewhere inside, yet in another moment she's trying to push it back.
Distance can be one of two things
1) you're annoying her and she just wants space (its a personal thing, nothing to do with you)
2) she has noticed feelings for you and is trying to push them away.
Posted by firefis1996I agree 100 perecent with this post . Pisces need space and Pisces feelings change on a daily . My ex was a Pisces woman with a Venus in Aquarius so I know that combo very well . Venus in Aquarius if given time and freedom tend to be more open minded when it comes to potential love matches ...so the fact that you are her friend and female is actually something that is to your advantage . However Venus is aquarius don't like to be pinned down and put in a box . They love their freedom and they love a challenge . My ex initially didn't want a relationship with me because she was literally talking to 3 other people and didn't know how she felt about me or any of the other people she was seeing . I gathered this and rescinded my offer , distanced myself / gave her lots of space . But at the same time I'd reach out every so often and leave her a random gift . After a couple of months she asked to be in a relationship with me but I turned her down because at the time I really did just want to be friends . As a Pisces myself later that week I changed my mind and asked her.
Pisces are natural flirts. even with our best friends, we can occasionally come across as over sweet. But thats just because i want my friends to know how much i appreciate them - platonically.
I have a few bi/gay girl friends, and being bi myself, i try hard to keep it platonic, to not accidentally lead someone on. Yet at the same time...
pisces moods and opinions about people and things change every day. We are incredibly wishy washy. So it may just be that she does have something for you somewhere inside, yet in another moment she's trying to push it back.
Distance can be one of two things
1) you're annoying her and she just wants space (its a personal thing, nothing to do with you)
2) she has noticed feelings for you and is trying to push them away.
So long story short : A romantic relationship is possible but you have to first enjoy the friendship and work on deepening it . You also need to give her space and time . I suggest you work on yourself , maybe date other people . Enjoy life in the mean time.
Woah, this is huge!! Thank you, that gave me a lot of clarity actually!! I guess I will indeed just give her space, and yeah le life take its course.
She is straight.
She is far away.
I'm also Pisces with Aqua Venus and always distance myself when friends are leaving. The point of having close friendships is meeting up, talking face to face and doing things together. I have former friends who now live elsewhere and do appreciate mutual visits, maybe once a year, and the occasional contact....it's still good, but different to when we were closer. Things change, we need to adapt to new situations.
She is far away.
I'm also Pisces with Aqua Venus and always distance myself when friends are leaving. The point of having close friendships is meeting up, talking face to face and doing things together. I have former friends who now live elsewhere and do appreciate mutual visits, maybe once a year, and the occasional contact....it's still good, but different to when we were closer. Things change, we need to adapt to new situations.
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