Pisces girlfriend not in mood for sex ?

I thought Pisces woman loved having sex..I don't have sex as often as before. Maybe once or twice a week and when I do have it she tells me I already gave u some last week. Now ill give a example. I'm in the room with her and ill be massaging her back and then I rub lotion all over her nude body and will be massaging her for about 30 minutes. Then when I am ready to get it on with her she tells me I'm not in the mood. She gives me every indication she wants to have sex but then she just backs off..what do u all think?

Posted by guiwaterdaymaster

Posted by ninjutsu
When someone gives me a massage I'm not in the mood for sex either, I'm in the mood for sleep. Which is a good thing really since I pay my thai ladies to massage me.

This more directed at the other guy you responded to... Nina

LOL... to... no this is more of an unhealthy thing that men will expect... for giving... you can be like let me give you this and then expect something... because it cost them something... as this is like treating girl like a hooker and controlling them... I know a bit harsh but it is like old men offering little kids candy with bad intentions...


Win the girls heart be Romantic change things up you do to show you care... I am sure she will fell the love and return... she could just be a little down or hard on herself feeling...

Either way are you in the relationship for sex or to develop a healthy relationship...

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I'm not in the relationship for sex. And I don't think giving her a massage will translate to having sex. What happens is I'm massaging her and feeling her all over and feel like she wants to be intimate but then says not tonight or not in the mood. Its like she is giving me mixed signals. I am romantic with her and do show her lots of love

I don't give up easily on someone I love that's all. Yes not as happy as I would like to be but have had my moments with her. My faith is that if I just love her and be there for her she will eventually open up....that is y I put up with everything

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Freddy.. something just dawned on me. Didn't you say she was in her mid 40's. One possibility to keep in mind is that there is a high chance that she is going through menopause!!!

That can wrack havoc on a some women. Her actions/behavior may have nothing to do with you but her hormonal balances.

Have you guys taken time to address this subject by any chance?

Taking time to discuss menopause? LOL!!! What a passion-killer that would be ES, you double naughty Pisces!

In reality, NSA sex sites are inundated with unsatisfied women about this age and older........one would believe that pre/post menopausal women are the horniest!

@Freddy: did you try what I suggested?

Freddy, what are you/her placements? Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars?
That s sweet that you dont want to give up easily.

Give her a good long cunnilingus and she 'll be all yours Freddy.....

Posted by Piscescorp

.... she's lost interest, spark is lost- for all that is listed below.

clinginess
nagging
neediness
desperate

very, very unattractive coming from a man. or a woman as well.

^^^^^^^^^^

She's nearly finished with you ... once the Fish emotionally checks out, it's finished.

You smothered the fuck out of her ... it's only a matter of time now

Well this is alot of info to take in. She is the one calling me and texting me most of the time. I have given her lots of space. As for kissing several girls prior to her told me I was a amazing kisser. I know the scorpion in me is good in bed. Have always gotten compliments from the ladies. She is the first woman that has me confused and questioning things that is why I am here for advice. I have not been clingy. I have not been desperate. In past I would not put up with this behavior. I would delete girl's # and never talk to her again. But have not done this to her cause fell in love...but we shall see what happens

I wish I had my Pisces back but I sent her 2jail

I am just letting things play out. Not putting any pressure on her. Just taking it day by day. I am letting her open up on her own time

Well I'm trying. U know I have a point where I will no longer care but have not reached that point. If I do I will let her know and will not b taking her back if she decides she really wants me. I love with everything I have but if she chooses to drag things with me I will eventually shut down and then its over...wont go back....time will tell

I would cut this chick loose, you have been dealing with a situation that you do not understand for far too long. We all know women can be complicated but something should have happened to clear this up sometime ago. For the record this isnt your fault, forget all the BS about how you must be doing something wrong i just dont see it.

Posted by ninjutsu
When someone gives me a massage I'm not in the mood for sex either, I'm in the mood for sleep. Which is a good thing really since I pay my thai ladies to massage me.

LOL

if i'm being pampered like a princess and i start to get neurotic it will show in how i react to intimacy in many of it's forms.
in the next situation and she rejects you, then accept it and still show affection and sleep. i bet she will start touching or kissing you in the middle of the night. she might even have some issues she would want to talk it out with you.
noone deserves to feel continuously rejected on the regular though, that is heart-breaking...
use some romantic words too...

Posted by freddy42
I thought Pisces woman loved having sex..I don't have sex as often as before. Maybe once or twice a week and when I do have it she tells me I already gave u some last week. Now ill give a example. I'm in the room with her and ill be massaging her back and then I rub lotion all over her nude body and will be massaging her for about 30 minutes. Then when I am ready to get it on with her she tells me I'm not in the mood. She gives me every indication she wants to have sex but then she just backs off..what do u all think?

if being yourself is a problem with someone you are with.....the concessions are way too much of a burden to bother.



Possibly the most profound statement I've ever seen on DXP.

Take her on a trip to a sultry romantic getaway.