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Jan 08, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 104 · Topics: 14
Ladies feel free to share your input also.
In my past and current relationships, I can feel strongly for a girl, but I can be just as cold as I can be warm with her for no real good reason. The girl I am currently with is the same story, I love her, shes the first girl I think I can honestly say that about, but sometimes I can feel so numb towards her. I think some of it may have to do with distance, and having yet to meet, but the same trend is repeating itself, I just have a hard time letting ppl in. Is this true with you guys aswell or do I just have issues? I dont think I have commitment issues, I think maybe just abandoned one too many times, Im not rly sure, hence this post.
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Nov 07, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 439 · Topics: 11
Yes...I am very slow to trust. Which is why I think I should become friends with people first before I really start dating them. It is a protective thing you are feeling. You feel the need to protect yourself from possible potential harm of rejection. So you do feel very much for her, but at the same time you are scared she will reject you at some point. You are preparing yourself for the possibility of that. We fish are quite wishy washy until we are proven a very consistent love. I would not expect much, but to have a good time and if it continues to work out, you can put more trust into it like I will suspect you do.