Pisces has done it again
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by SagTheArcher17 on Friday, January 10, 2014 and has 11 replies.
I'm a Sag and I don't get along with Pisces for very long. Given long enough and they do some really selfish inconcederate crap. I had a best friend who is a Pisces. She stopped contacting me so I let her go. After 7 years she pops up at my house to get in touch with me, gives me some crap excuse about how she's been going through things and that why I haven't heard from her. I figured I'd give her another chance, but I did noticed she choose to find me when her husband is locked up and she doesn't really have any good friends that's there for her. Months pass and already I found myself going out of my way to be there for her, she's cheating on her husband and wanted me to give her advice when her and her side guy would have arguments(WTF!). I had my last straw when I went to see her and she wasn't home(she knew I was coming over but she was being lazy and didnt feel like leaving her moms house to go back home). I've always been a much better friend to her than she has been to me, I let her know that and that I was done. I blocked her from every source of communication I had her on. That was 4 to 6 months ago. Last week she texted my brother asking him to let me know she wishes me a happy birthday and new year. What the hell?!
Pisces sometimes seem like fair weather friends. You can feel so close to them, but when they swim away, it is downright painful because you have no idea why all of sudden they're not in your life anymore.
As a capricorn, I can understand why she felt she could come to you after years, because for a cap if you were a good friend then, you're still a good friend and years apart mean nothing to us. But, we're not talking about cap friendship here. I threw that in there to say I could understand it. But cap loyalty and pisces loyalty are two different things.
Anyway, this friend sounds toxic and she's really got some problems. She might be a user. You can either help her sort out her problems and point her in the right direction, which there is a chance she's likely to resent. Or you can leave her be and send her on her merry way, which she will also resent.
Most Sags are tender hearted and like to help people, the ones I know take in strays all the time. So, this is the trait that most likely brought her back to your door.
Honestly, I don't understand much about pisces as I've been stabbed in the back by one friend, deserted by another and have a close relationship with a third. I thought they were all users and fickle, until I became friends with the third. She changed my impression of them.
I have no idea if I've been any help, but I threw my two cents in anyway.
As a capricorn, I can understand why she felt she could come to you after years, because for a cap if you were a good friend then, you're still a good friend and years apart mean nothing to us. But, we're not talking about cap friendship here. I threw that in there to say I could understand it. But cap loyalty and pisces loyalty are two different things.
Anyway, this friend sounds toxic and she's really got some problems. She might be a user. You can either help her sort out her problems and point her in the right direction, which there is a chance she's likely to resent. Or you can leave her be and send her on her merry way, which she will also resent.
Most Sags are tender hearted and like to help people, the ones I know take in strays all the time. So, this is the trait that most likely brought her back to your door.
Honestly, I don't understand much about pisces as I've been stabbed in the back by one friend, deserted by another and have a close relationship with a third. I thought they were all users and fickle, until I became friends with the third. She changed my impression of them.
I have no idea if I've been any help, but I threw my two cents in anyway.
Frankly, I don't think it's a pisces thing, it just sounds like a toxic, confused, messed up girl to me.
I'm not pisces bashing, just my experience with a couple of female friends was unpleasant and surprising.
in my experience, the sagittarius gets on the pisces nerves just as much as the pisces gets on the sagittarius nerves...
i usually can't wait for the ones i know to go away lol
--Jack
i usually can't wait for the ones i know to go away lol
--Jack
I've always been friend with sag guys.
When I meet a sag we generally "click" instantly, and my best friend dude were sag.
When I meet a sag we generally "click" instantly, and my best friend dude were sag.
Posted by yellow01gt
in my experience, the sagittarius gets on the pisces nerves just as much as the pisces gets on the sagittarius nerves...
i usually can't wait for the ones i know to go away lol
--Jack
I will say this I have had the worst relationships with Sags. They are in my opinion the worst for a fish, unless they both really take the time to examine themselves. I mean I get them if apply my empathy really acutely.
But I always end up finding them very self centered, inconsiderate, and lacking an ability to be deeply introspective, making it difficult for me tolerate them for long.
With that being said I don't think that excuses poor behavior of anyone but I just notice that its just really hard for picsea and Sagittarius to get each other without offense and communication
I'm not sure what kind of responses you want, here.
I've been friends with a few female sags. Some were overly rude, some were overly nice. Some were lazy, some were neat freaks. I don't think it's impossible for pisces and sags to get along and the behaviors you see in either side aren't going to be indicative of the whole sign. It can be a challenging relationship but it can also be a really fun one. It just depends on what kind of sag (person) you are and what kind of pisces (person) you meet, or the other way around.
I've been friends with a few female sags. Some were overly rude, some were overly nice. Some were lazy, some were neat freaks. I don't think it's impossible for pisces and sags to get along and the behaviors you see in either side aren't going to be indicative of the whole sign. It can be a challenging relationship but it can also be a really fun one. It just depends on what kind of sag (person) you are and what kind of pisces (person) you meet, or the other way around.
There are so many more factors than just the sun sign. I get along with sags, I dont get along with virgos so much. But it depends on the whole chart and peoples values in general.
Generalisation is always tricky and a dangerous thing to do.
But my advice for a bad friendship is, let them go if you feel used by them. Some Pisces do have the tendency to use others, some are greedy for money (who would have thought) some have no consideration for the feelings of others and yet, some are terrific people and the best friends you are ever going to have.
See people for how they behave and treat you, not for what sign they are
Generalisation is always tricky and a dangerous thing to do.
But my advice for a bad friendship is, let them go if you feel used by them. Some Pisces do have the tendency to use others, some are greedy for money (who would have thought) some have no consideration for the feelings of others and yet, some are terrific people and the best friends you are ever going to have.
See people for how they behave and treat you, not for what sign they are
Wow. This really sucks because I get along great with Sagittarius's. My mom is one. Although I've noticed that a lot of Sag's like to argue and be right all the time (even though about 90% of the time they're not. Lol) and it's very annoying, but I think they are overall good people. Very real and down to earth. But please don't think/assume that all Pisces are like that because we're not. Idk what is wrong with that chick. Got some growing up to do, I guess. Lol! But I've noticed that when most fire sign people get mad, they like to delete and block people on social networks. Why is that? I personally think it's hilarious.Lmfao!
Posted by missnia08
Wow. This really sucks because I get along great with Sagittarius's. My mom is one. Although I've noticed that a lot of Sag's like to argue and be right all the time (even though about 90% of the time they're not. Lol) and it's very annoying, but I think they are overall good people. Very real and down to earth. But please don't think/assume that all Pisces are like that because we're not. Idk what is wrong with that chick. Got some growing up to do, I guess. Lol! But I've noticed that when most fire sign people get mad, they like to delete and block people on social networks. Why is that? I personally think it's hilarious.Lmfao!
I've had strong relationships with 3 Pisces, my younger brother, my god sister, and the no longer best friend. Sooner rather than later, they all rub me the wrong way by doing something highly inconcederate. But my brother(and I'm not saying this because he's my brother,lol) is a really good person, he's very grounded, responsible, I would trust him with my life. You guys are right, I shouldn't hold someone's sign against them, they can't help the sign they were born under *smirk*(j/k). The blocking thing is, when I handle people I'm more logical than emotional(unless I'm pissed off), so if you give me logical reasons as to why a relationship with you will be a danger to my well being, I'll walk away for good and don't want you ever disturbing my existence again.
Thank you all for your input.
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