Pisces Male driving Virgo female absolutely crazy!

Hi I found this site on the net and I have to say I have never posted anything on a site before but reading notes about Pisces males made me think I could get some help.

I broke up with my Pisces male in April (well it all started in Feb) as he strayed. But since then and its now Sept he?s texted, emailed, called and left voicemails but wont say sorry or ask me to come back, But he wont leave me alone. He makes up silly excuses to contact me like cd's, old pictures & random crap, ANYTHING HE CAN THINK OF and this has been every week since April no word of a lie. I have explained we can never be friends but he?s still contacting me. Recently he arranged a meeting for us to talk and then cancelled it. I was gutted.

Now here is where I need help. I am madly in love with him and would do anything (apart from beg) to get him back but not back to stray again back for good. We were meant to be moving in this year and we had been together for almost 2 years it had a few problems with friends but other than that it was bliss. I told him I Loved him first and months later he said he did out of the blue so I know it was real we were driving home. Honestly at first it felt like he fell straightaway but I was cautious. He has been hurt before so didn?t trust easily and so had I.

He says he don?t love me but everything he does says he does and I know he does cause apart from this one incident he treated me like a queen and called me his wife and I feel we are meant to be. I feel its his pride that he wont let him say he was wrong plus he cares to much about friends, of which 2 had told him I am not the one.

Why the mind games and what the hell is problem why is he in self-destruct mode. He?s even admitted to me that his dream is to settle down and have a family but he thinks he messed it up with me. Just to add he is 30 and desperately wanted me to have kids now he throwing it all away ? why!

I can somehow relate to your situation with a pisces male. *sigh* I'm a virgo female too. Although, we were seeing eachother for only 3 months, it was the most intense 3 months that I ever experienced,I felt like things were going too good. I shouldve trusted my instincts then. We meshed and clicked quickly, and became exclusive in a matter of weeks. I followed my heart and just went with the flow of things. And yes, these pisces men can really charm and sweep you out of your feet!! He was so attentive, thoughtful, romantic, generous, easy-going and just plain sweet. But there were rough times in which he would swim off to the oppsosite direction and i wouldnt hear from him for consecutive days on end. In which left me feeling disconnected and worried. His reason was a lot of stress at work and no time for anything else. We tried working things out, and it happened all over again. I couldn't understand why he couldnt do the simpliest things and be up front about what he wanted. Again, these pisces fishies are non-confrontational people. So I found it very difficult to get legitimate answers which he followed through. And then, we just both parted, going our separate ways... even though the feelings I had for him were strong and real, I couldnt be in a realtionship where there was no stability or security. I knew then I was doing the right thing. I'm an all or nothing type of gal, and he couldn't give me what I wanted. So I sulked for a couple good weeks, and every now and then I still think about him. We still keep in touch, but I think it's only because i miss him. Pisces men are complicated people, it takes a lot of patience to stick around. If this is not what your looking for at the moment, then cut him off completely and move on. You want to begin fresh on a new encounter for the coming future. 🙂

Oh geez...Isn't there one success story with a Pisces man involved? Please, point out one to me. I guess those don't have the time to come on message boards, eh?

But come on! This is such a pattern. It depresses me. Screw complexity...and being non-confrontational. Whatever. Go get yourselves a safe Taurus/Leo/Virgo/Capricorn. That's what I've been contemplating.

Kafka:

The relationship with Pisces men are either heaven (good) or hell (bad). There is no middle ground.

Thank you.

How is heaven good? There's Jesus and the angels and all that crap there.

Kafka...

I think Tiamat and CancerKitten are the ONLY one's with success stories. I know I asked this question too, do Pisces men EVER have good relationships?

I don't think so! I quit...going for a Leo next time! XXLani, I suggest you do the same. Once a cheater...always a cheater. These guys don't know HOW to have good relationships I don't think!

CL/CM2

"How is heaven good? There's Jesus and the angels and all that crap there."

No Jesus or anything realted with real heaven (speaking about my POV though). By saying heavenly I didn't mean anything related to real heaven definition. I would say something like "magical". Yes, that describes much better what I wanted to say.

I'm becoming quite neurotic...

















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Hey All,

I have been reading your comments and taking it all in. After I wrote this he began to ring my work phone and arrange a meeting for us to talk he was being quite arrogant so I didnt take up the offer straight away but then eventually I did since it was 7am in the morning he was calling. By 8pm that night he had cancelled the meeting via text. I didnt answer back and left it at that for the past 2 weeks he has been texting me and I have been ignoring him.

See what I have here - He confuses me so much

the 21st was my virgo birthday and from 11am sure enough he was on the phone but just talking and not really saying anything. He gets upset when I dont converse with him and give him 1 word answers and we eventually talked/argued till 6 pm on and off that day. without anything getting solved. Last words were him saying he going to call me and we can have a good talk. which I know is rubbish he will contact me but not to talk just to try and act as if nothing has happened.

I agree I am a staright to the point kind of Gal and he is non-confrontational and so he talks gibberish when I confront him. All I know is I can no way live in Limbo.

Pisces Men are very intense and then it does seem they just swim around aimlessly and im tired now so I getting of this merry go round.