Pisces Male help

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by jessejames on Tuesday, May 28, 2013 and has 19 replies.
I'm in a fairly new relationship with a Pisces man. I need some advice, my guy was all about me for the first couple of weeks, and maybe I'm jumping the gun but he isn't very affectionate right now. Maybe it's just a phase. I am trying not to worry about it and let it go but I can't help but pick up on it and I'm really not sure what kind of vibe I'm getting. It could totally be me...I know, I know... Scorpio's are a pain in the ass. I guess if you guys could tell me if Pisces are up and down or moody it would help me understand. He isn't being a jerk just a little different.
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Yeah give it time. Sometimes we have to have times to ourselves to re-energize.
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Thank you so much, in past relationships this is the point where I see a guy slowly check out when I notice this behavior. I can't help but question myself and I really shouldn't but that in itself is another long story. I am not throwing a pitty party but I have had a rough hand dealt to me, so I critique my every move. Thanks for the feedback and any advice on what to do is always wonderful for me.
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Theres a lot of push an pull with us. He could be picking up on your worry and discomfort and internalizing it incorrectly. Or he could be having some time in his personal pond. Sometimes we just need to be left a lone a while in the deep water. We are overly emotional and can swing a mood here and there. If you want to keep him put the strong invisible chains of love and lust on him that scorpios are so famous for.
The only way to keep a male fish in your tank is to make them think it was there idea without making them suggest it. Seems complicated we are a bit tied up and twisted inside. We pretty much need someone to help with all the knots.
be strong and confident. Push and pull just the right amount. We like to feel and be felt. Check in with yourself how is your connection to him developing?
Are you overly guarded? That can send us swimming pretty quick. Its all up to you as odd as that seems. If you can catch a dream you can catch a fish and keep it.
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Yeah we also will mirror if all else fails. So if he is picking up something from you he may try and mirror it back. Gotta make pisces comfy I think lol
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Ok thanks guys, this is incredible. Yes I am extremely laid back with him, I don't put any pressure on him, my dad is a pisces so I try to recognize some of my Dad's likes and dislikes. I feel very connected to him, he has not left my side other than to go to work. His son is very attached to me, his mother is not in his life and has not been for a little over a year. I try to help my Pisces stay organized without mothering him. I just stand back and help where I can. He seems to be very comfortable with me, but I don't want him to get tired of me. I am a very nurturing person and will wait on a man hand and foot, it's just who I am but I don't do it for anything more but because it's just who I am, I don't want credit or expect anything in return. He has had a lot of trouble in his past, has good parents just had a bit of a wild teenage life and young adult life. He is quite the singer and is hilarious. I really enjoy his company but I don't know if he is enjoying mine the same. I don't feel insecure or less than confident but I may be coming off this way. I try to grin and bear whatever in pretty much all my relationships.
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I am a very nurturing person and will wait on a man hand and foot
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True
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afternoons right about the mirroring part. Although its smoke as well. Youve got to make him pine for you a bit.
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Ok "the fish" define pine for me a bit? I wanna get this straight you guys are really helping so much!! smile
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it means you need to make him think hes never really nailed you down and work hard for your affection. But only until you shut the bedroom door. Make him work sometimes and rock his world others. Push and pull your affections just a little. Keeps us on our toes and makes us pine for you. Want you more just because we havent figured you out. Keep it busy and interesting. Keep him guessing and youll have him to the grave. Gotta learn to feel him. Pull when hes stressed or vulnerable. Push when hes distant or cold.
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I think the push/pull should only go on for so long however. But I'm earth ruled so maybe i'm different.
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I'm thinking he may be earth ruled as you say "Afternoon Delight" But you may know more than I do. Here is his natal chart.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 13.57 Ascendant Taurus 13.46
Moon Virgo 0.05 II Gemini 12.11
Mercury Pisces 4.00 III Cancer 4.56
Venus Aries 22.06 IV Cancer 27.21
Mars Aquarius 17.57 V Leo 23.47
Jupiter Taurus 24.51 VI Virgo 29.11
Saturn Leo 11.10 R VII Scorpio 13.46
Uranus Scorpio 11.38 R VIII Sagittarius 12.11
Neptune Sagittarius 16.06 IX Capricorn 4.56
Pluto Libra 13.36 R Midheaven Capricorn 27.21
Lilith Taurus 24.29 XI Aquarius 23.47
Asc node Libra 25.03 XII Pisces 29.11
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He looks pretty well rounded actually
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The pisces I like has also Aries venus, they seem to be very stubborn and independent and manly (I like it). Let him initiate and feel that he is in charge.
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Ok maybe my chart is the squirrely one? Ahhhhh help!
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 7.28 Ascendant Taurus 23.32
Moon Gemini 21.52 II Gemini 19.44
Mercury Scorpio 15.03 III Cancer 11.53
Venus Libra 17.20 IV Leo 4.44
Mars Leo 1.45 V Virgo 2.34
Jupiter Cancer 6.04 R VI Libra 9.41
Saturn Leo 29.00 VII Scorpio 23.32
Uranus Scorpio 11.49 VIII Sagittarius 19.44
Neptune Sagittarius 14.31 IX Capricorn 11.53
Pluto Libra 15.01 Midheaven Aquarius 4.44
Lilith Gemini 21.16 XI Pisces 2.34
Asc node Libra 15.01 XII Aries 9.41
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oh..gem moon :/
lolol jk
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Uggg I knew it!!!!
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Sigh. I feel your pain. It seems as though the push-pull thing is very accurate. From what I've observed from the Pisces I was involved with, he pursued the crap out of me and once he was was almost "hooked", he darted away and swam upstream saying he "wasn't ready."
He still contacts me randomly... sometimes uber talkative, sometimes not. We hung out last week (as friends) and after that he's distanced himself once again. Strange fish, they are.
I agree with what some have said here. The push-pull thing is fine, so long as you're fine with it. However, when it becomes a convoluted mind game, that's where the trouble may arise. If it's one thing I've noticed, Pisces men may want you, but they want you on THEIR terms. They are incredibly hard to read.
Ps- I am a Gemini moon as well, so I somewhat enjoy torturing myself with piecing together the Pisces puzzle.
Good luck, love!
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