Pisces males...help!

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by greeneyes on Friday, October 18, 2013 and has 40 replies.
I am a scorpio and wrongfully so I am in love with a pisces. We had a disagreement and i ended up deleting him as my fb friend. I told him first b4 tho. Winking. Now i cant take it!! I keep checking fb messenger and am in a pickle. What is he going thru right now? Is he doing the same? I dont know what to do!!! My lAst message to him was "i hope you miss me" but i am te one going fucking crazy... Help a sexy scorpio out! Please!!! smile
Posted by greeneyes
I am a scorpio and wrongfully so I am in love with a pisces. We had a disagreement and i ended up deleting him as my fb friend. I told him first b4 tho. Winking. Now i cant take it!! I keep checking fb messenger and am in a pickle. What is he going thru right now? Is he doing the same? I dont know what to do!!! My lAst message to him was "i hope you miss me" but i am te one going fucking crazy... Help a sexy scorpio out! Please!!! smile


He is probably going through the same thing but he isn't going to let you know that. (Unless he really is in love with you, then he would have tried harder to make amends) Pisces tend to be very emotional and very sensitive so if he cared anything about u, he is hurt. He is probably somehow blaming himself for what u did and also blaming you and is going take time to heal from your insensitivity.
I will tell you a secret. If you humble yourself and swallow your pride and be genuinely apologetic he most likely will forgive you and love you even more for being unselfish and understanding. Sincerely tell him how much he means to you, how much you love him and how truly sorry you are for hurting him and give him a sentimental gift and he will melt. Lol.
I doubt you will take this advice because most people tend to suffer from mild to severe narcissism but I just had to try lol.
Good luck Scorpy.
Posted by greeneyes
I am a scorpio and wrongfully so I am in love with a pisces. We had a disagreement and i ended up deleting him as my fb friend. I told him first b4 tho. Winking. Now i cant take it!! I keep checking fb messenger and am in a pickle. What is he going thru right now? Is he doing the same? I dont know what to do!!! My lAst message to him was "i hope you miss me" but i am te one going fucking crazy... Help a sexy scorpio out! Please!!! smile


why are you playing games? just tell him how you feel. love isn't all that complicated. you tell him you'll remove him from facey and then act like it is in fault and miss him when you took the step. just say how you feel.
You sound like my ex Scorpio. He used to pull crap like this.
You deleted him in the hope that he would miss you, pine for you and beg for your forgiveness or whatever and now that hasn't happened you're freaking out.
Stop playing games and just reach out. If you made a mistake be honest and own it.
Posted by djbuck1
"I hope you miss me?" That's manipulative BS.
Illusion and Snow Whi . . . er . . . MissPirate are spot on. Listen up!
Cut the crap, admit what you did, apologize and stop pulling this schmick or you _will_ lose him.



Yeah, most scorps like to become retards with these stupid ass games. With Pisces it will blow up and kill things quick.
U r all right! Sad
Djbuck - i WAS being manipulative, not a good quality i know. I guess i was frustrated with pisces always being so, ugh i dont know, Frustrating!!! He could ask me something and i give direct answer, I ask him something and he waits 13 hours to respond. When i tell him i cant do this anymore and best for me to delete him, etc. he says he never wants us to not be together- wtf? What is he waiting for then - i deleted his ass on tuesday. I am so sad. I wish he was just effing mean to me and i would have no prob hating him! Freaking wishy washy fish! Sad
If u cant make nice helpful comments then please dont post mean ones. I am looking for help not to be called names.
One... um... quick question...

Posted by greeneyes
I am a scorpio and wrongfully so I am in love with a pisces.



why wrongfully?
Thanks in advance sexy scorpio.
Wrongfully so because he makes me crazy!! I was fine, just living my life. We connect, he says all these things...all the right things to me and I get sucked in. I am a Scorpio! I shouldnt get sucked in to anyone, EXCEPT for Pisces. Pisces is the one sign Scorpio can NOT manipulate and I know this, well, I knew this, and will never forget this. I am having a hard time getting him out of my head. ARGH!!!!!
lol that's because scorps are also obsessive Big Grin
And.... you need to admit that what you did to him was wrong (to him I mean), or you should get ready to burn yourself in to the ground obsessing over this. He won't chase you to prove his love for you. I can almost guarantee that. You gave a definitive action that said you didn't want him around... and he's probably going to think... "wishy washy THIS *swims away*"

One other question.... who are the Cancer and Leo?
sniffle, sniffle. so u don't think he will contact me? He is done? Sad
lol... not if you don't do what was advised (and presumably, what you sought for as an answer here).
You stand a chance if you apologize, but myself, I'd be wary of someone thinking that they were going to control me with such petty action.
Why? Why can't he chase me to prove his feelings? I don't want to apologize....I told him I was sorry before I deleted him. I had to stop it because his behavior makes me crazy! I don't get it. I.don't. get.PISCES! How can u guys remain so chill? Where is the fire? I would be fine with him even fighting with me but to just "disappear" whenever he is hurt or whatever is so effing Frustrating!
Arggggh! I am doomed!
Cuz he doesn't need or want drama like you apparently do.
Ha u r def a pisces! :p
Do you see... the ridiculousness that what is inherent to the fish nature, drives you crazy, and you don't want it to be that way. You want to force it to be 'your' way...?
Scorps seem to do infinitely better with other fixed signs.
Yes, I see it. I know it is crazy. I want him to do what I want and I can't so he wins. Sigh! No really, I just want him to be more open and not so serious!
lol

lies.

you want him to do what you want. It's evident, don't hide it Winking
on a side note, is my profile pic showing up? I don't see it.
of course I do. I get everyone else to do it, why can't he? Why is he so stubborn. He knows he won't be happy without me! lmao!! Clearly, I am conceited too! hahaha! Winking
no picture yet. It will show up at some random time. The site likes to play the lottery with these types of things.
lol.. entertain the possibility that your desire to control the uncontrollable is the real pull here. And once you had him under your finger, you'd have not much use for him. Then he'd be a doormat.
Ok doormat will work. I just want him to message me, first. It's not just love interest pisces that is maddening, one of my very good friends is Pisces too - she drives me nuts as well. BUT she has the ability to do it in a way that I never get angry with her. We just "are". I accept her and mess with her like Oh you arent going to the party cuz u didnt call me back and she says ok. Like she doesnt care and then she waits for my reaction. She knows I am kidding tho - she gets my humor. Winking
OMG That is it! DUH! I get it. He isn't chasing. I want him more because I don't chase, Ever!!! It is like a game. I mean he persued me relentlessly and made me want more. He cant give me any more because of our situations so he will just move on, like any fish would. Fuck! I need to move on to. Sad Thank you so much Deezie.
Posted by deezie

One other question.... who are the Cancer and Leo?


lol.... oh deezie
Thanks, Irresistible Scorpio. I appreciate your comments. I don't know if I just wanted more of him than he did of me or if he just couldn't allow himself to get too close because it wasn't a practical situation. Whatever it is, was or will be - I think I am going to ride it out a bit, and see if he comes around. If he doesn't then hopefully, my broken heart will mend and I will be no worse for the wear.
Posted by shellshocker
Posted by deezie

One other question.... who are the Cancer and Leo?


lol.... oh deezie
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lol... I have a fairly good idea, based on this talk of "situations" and practicality.
I see it keeps getting avoided though. ah well.
Now, now! Don't let my avoidance to answer make you jump to conclusions!!
lol I don't really care to be honest. I have no control over it. just saying... I feel there is more to the story.
It is nothing scandalous. Distance. Distance is an issue. Neither of us are in a position to move. See? smile It's all good!
Posted by deezie
lol

lies.


shellshocker what is the reason you keep jumping in requoting things? Is there something you want to ask me?
no
Ok good. Thanks to everyone for their input. smile
Haha! Jealousy is another bad trait of mine. You are close. Cancer is an ex of mine. Pisces worked with a leo, a very pretty leo.
Posted by ProphetaAzteca
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Yeah, most scorps like to become retards with these stupid ass games. With Pisces it will blow up and kill things quick.


they aim their stinger with intent to kill,miss,then wonder why he "disappeared"
"but baby,I was just playing.I didn't mean it!"
riiiiggghhhttt.....
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Any affliction or game playing toward a Pisces..The Pisces always will always take the higher road. (or should I say, speed boat-like swim very far away). He will not think twice.
Posted by greeneyes
We had a disagreement and i ended up deleting him .....
What is he going thru right now?
Is he doing the same?
My lAst message to him was "i hope you miss me"




Posted by greeneyes
I get everyone else to do it, why can't he? Why is he so stubborn.
He knows he won't be happy without me!

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You are extremely immature.
Posted by LetltB
Any affliction or game playing toward a Pisces..The Pisces always will always take the higher road. (or should I say, speed boat-like swim very far away). He will not think twice.




This ^^^^^^^^^^ is the utter truth. Once you attempt to play a head game with a Pisces, they erase you from existence.
here you are hoping he's pining away, wondering how he's feeling, what he's thinking ..... when in reality, you don't even exist ... and that's your fault, and always will be.
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Posted by greeneyes
I am a scorpio and wrongfully so I am in love with a pisces. We had a disagreement and i ended up deleting him as my fb friend. I told him first b4 tho. Winking. Now i cant take it!! I keep checking fb messenger and am in a pickle. What is he going thru right now? Is he doing the same? I dont know what to do!!! My lAst message to him was "i hope you miss me" but i am te one going fucking crazy... Help a sexy scorpio out! Please!!! smile


He is probably going through the same thing but he isn't going to let you know that. (Unless he really is in love with you, then he would have tried harder to make amends) Pisces tend to be very emotional and very sensitive so if he cared anything about u, he is hurt. He is probably somehow blaming himself for what u did and also blaming you and is going take time to heal from your insensitivity.
I will tell you a secret. If you humble yourself and swallow your pride and be genuinely apologetic he most likely will forgive you and love you even more for being unselfish and understanding. Sincerely tell him how much he means to you, how much you love him and how truly sorry you are for hurting him and give him a sentimental gift and he will melt. Lol.
I doubt you will take this advice because most people tend to suffer from mild to severe narcissism but I just had to try lol.
Good luck Scorpy.
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Lol!
The heart felt apology and gift is something I as a Taurus would have no problem doing!