Hey guys,
Thanks for reading. I need some input from the Pisceans out there.
I've been dating a Pisces guy for 9 months now. Things have been pretty good - a few rocky patches here and there. A few times he pushed me away saying he doesn't know how to do this "love stuff" and I deserve better and within a day he came back.
We've been discussing moving in-together and I got cold feet because I got burnt bad from a previous relationship. But then I changed my mind and agreed. Then he said I don't appear enthusiastic about the move and asked me not to move. I asked for space and I took a few days to figure out what I wanted. Then he asked for space and I got upset because he made it about me. I didn't give him space. I drove to see him and he didn't want to see me and after I left, he asked me to come back. We made up. 2 weeks later he broke up with me saying he loves me but doesn't know if he's "in love" with me and that he's messed up and confused in his mind. We fought. Stopped talking. Then he texted me saying i'm the most amazing and kindest girl he's ever met and I deserve better and he's in such a confused state atm.
I told him how I felt, that I still loved him and because I love him, i'll give him space to think and that I haven't given up on us. He replied saying "thank you. Space is what i need".
So i'm giving him space- no contact for a few weeks is what I considered and then reapproaching him.
Why do Pisces men behave like this?
Do they miss their partners during "breaks"?
How can I get him back once he's cooled down?
Thanks in advance xx
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
You sound like a needy and clingy person .... Aries, you say?