PISCES MAN SAYS 'I'M DONE!' WILL HE EVER COME BACK
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by woundedangel25 on Thursday, July 11, 2013 and has 25 replies.
We only dated for 2 weeks, and been on a relationship for like 2-3 weeks. At first, I can see he's sincere to everything he say. The way he looked at me, the way he touched me.. Just made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. It was amazing, and I fell so deep in love with him. Every time he calls me "babe", I don't know, I just feel like my heart is going to explode. I guess it's been a long time since I've been treated like this. I was so happy...
But the way I express my feelings to him, I guess it's just so wrong. I'm the type of girl who always needs to feel secured with my man. I always wanted to feel loved, and needed. I always want to hear those sweet words that will make me feel secure that he's never going to leave me. I demanded for a constant communication (texts.. calls..), even if we work for the same company and see each other 4 times a week. I wanted to be the center of his attention. I wanted to be his priority. I wanted to be his everything. Yes, I'm too needy and clingy, and I hate that about myself now. Because of that, the man that I love just walked out of my life.
Every time I say something, I'm expecting him to respond in a certain way. And if he answers differently, I'm gonna get mad. It's like I'm always looking for something to argue with. That's what he says. And I understand that. Though I didn't mean to. I just need to hear from him that he'll do anything for me.. That he will never do anything to hurt me.. I just put too much pressure on him. And now I keep blaming myself for doing that.
I tried to confront him. He tried to get away. Said we'll just talk later. And I said "No! I need to know now!" He just walked away. What can I do. He's a pisces, hates confrontations. But I followed him downstairs. And he finally talked to me.
But the way I express my feelings to him, I guess it's just so wrong. I'm the type of girl who always needs to feel secured with my man. I always wanted to feel loved, and needed. I always want to hear those sweet words that will make me feel secure that he's never going to leave me. I demanded for a constant communication (texts.. calls..), even if we work for the same company and see each other 4 times a week. I wanted to be the center of his attention. I wanted to be his priority. I wanted to be his everything. Yes, I'm too needy and clingy, and I hate that about myself now. Because of that, the man that I love just walked out of my life.
Every time I say something, I'm expecting him to respond in a certain way. And if he answers differently, I'm gonna get mad. It's like I'm always looking for something to argue with. That's what he says. And I understand that. Though I didn't mean to. I just need to hear from him that he'll do anything for me.. That he will never do anything to hurt me.. I just put too much pressure on him. And now I keep blaming myself for doing that.
I tried to confront him. He tried to get away. Said we'll just talk later. And I said "No! I need to know now!" He just walked away. What can I do. He's a pisces, hates confrontations. But I followed him downstairs. And he finally talked to me.
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He asked me, "What else do we need to talk about?" I was like, "What do you mean?" He said that we just have a lot of differences. That we can't just get along with each other. Then I asked him, "Did you even loved me?" He said yes. And I asked him if there's really nothing left, he just said that he couldn't actually say that there's nothing. I asked him to tell me the truth. He said, "I still love you, but I can't do this anymore!" He said that for that very short period of time, I got him feel so tired. It's always like that everyday, and that he hates that. I asked him if we can still work it out, he said that I'm just gonna get hurt. But he also said that he still might change his mind.
I know that pisces men don't really have any solid knowledge on what they want in their lives. On day, they're all over you, then the next day, it's all over. Then out of the blue, when you're least expecting it, they're back. I just don't know if in my case, he will still come back. I just wish he would.
I decided to try to make friends with him. So I can still have an opportunity to show him that I'm always here for him. That I'm willing to change for him. That I can make all the sacrifices needed to get him back. That's how much I love him. But I can see that he's not comfortable with it, at least for now. I'm a scorpio, by the way. I just don't give up easily. Call me stupid and crazy, like my friends did. But this is who I am. And I'm hoping that one day, I can win his heart back. I just don't know what to do.
He asked me, "What else do we need to talk about?" I was like, "What do you mean?" He said that we just have a lot of differences. That we can't just get along with each other. Then I asked him, "Did you even loved me?" He said yes. And I asked him if there's really nothing left, he just said that he couldn't actually say that there's nothing. I asked him to tell me the truth. He said, "I still love you, but I can't do this anymore!" He said that for that very short period of time, I got him feel so tired. It's always like that everyday, and that he hates that. I asked him if we can still work it out, he said that I'm just gonna get hurt. But he also said that he still might change his mind.
I know that pisces men don't really have any solid knowledge on what they want in their lives. On day, they're all over you, then the next day, it's all over. Then out of the blue, when you're least expecting it, they're back. I just don't know if in my case, he will still come back. I just wish he would.
I decided to try to make friends with him. So I can still have an opportunity to show him that I'm always here for him. That I'm willing to change for him. That I can make all the sacrifices needed to get him back. That's how much I love him. But I can see that he's not comfortable with it, at least for now. I'm a scorpio, by the way. I just don't give up easily. Call me stupid and crazy, like my friends did. But this is who I am. And I'm hoping that one day, I can win his heart back. I just don't know what to do.
It's not just you.
Posted by Poisson
Do you mind if I ask how old you are?
I'm 26.
okay u dont really need to take this coz im a pisces woman, but me being a pisces, i believe when we said were "DONE" means we are done, we can change our minds though esp if we feel its the right person..
being too clingy and needy are the things we hate the most (or atleast i do). we are soft-hearted, gentle and compassionate, we care a lot about other ppl even put other ppl feelings first before ourselves esp the one we love. we give that without effort we just give that out freely and we will let u enjoy it but we hate beeing rush or being pressured or being asked too much for something its like its suffocating us and we dont follow fixed rules (or atleast i am). i have also been ur pisces man, when someones beeing tooooo clingy and needy i just get tired of that person and say im done, i will not talk for sometime, put a lil distance but when im ready to talk i will, and good thing about us is whatever happens we dont hold it inside and we dont also keep grudges (or atleast i am) so im sure he'll talk again, about coming back, only time can tell... but dont be so harsh on urself, i understand ur side too coz im a woamn like u, we all need assurance coz when were inlove we only want that relationship to last and our man to always be ours,. but honey sometimes i think ur being too emotionally insecure by asking too much from pisces guy.. right now i suggest dont try to contact him or annoy him by asking him to talk believe me it will only pis*ed him off more and though there are tendecies he will talk but it wont be a good talk.. im like that too, i will only talk when i want and if u push it u will only hear what u dont want.. so honey, dont be so had on urself, let him be for the moment.. and dont blame urself.. and it will help if u go out with friends..
being too clingy and needy are the things we hate the most (or atleast i do). we are soft-hearted, gentle and compassionate, we care a lot about other ppl even put other ppl feelings first before ourselves esp the one we love. we give that without effort we just give that out freely and we will let u enjoy it but we hate beeing rush or being pressured or being asked too much for something its like its suffocating us and we dont follow fixed rules (or atleast i am). i have also been ur pisces man, when someones beeing tooooo clingy and needy i just get tired of that person and say im done, i will not talk for sometime, put a lil distance but when im ready to talk i will, and good thing about us is whatever happens we dont hold it inside and we dont also keep grudges (or atleast i am) so im sure he'll talk again, about coming back, only time can tell... but dont be so harsh on urself, i understand ur side too coz im a woamn like u, we all need assurance coz when were inlove we only want that relationship to last and our man to always be ours,. but honey sometimes i think ur being too emotionally insecure by asking too much from pisces guy.. right now i suggest dont try to contact him or annoy him by asking him to talk believe me it will only pis*ed him off more and though there are tendecies he will talk but it wont be a good talk.. im like that too, i will only talk when i want and if u push it u will only hear what u dont want.. so honey, dont be so had on urself, let him be for the moment.. and dont blame urself.. and it will help if u go out with friends..
what is ur sign btw?
@woundedangel: i knew it u are a scorpio, lol.. well we all know that some scorps really have issues with insecurities (some not all), but i never knew anyone who's too clingy and needy at all.. i dealt with a scorpio guy too just recently, but i have to swim away because of his emotional insecurities i just grew tired of him and now im moving on.. anyways, ur a scorpio im pretty sure u can deal with this situaion, just try not to be very clingy if/when he comes back and at the moment let him be he'll talk and come around after a while u will see, coz the tendency of trying to push him to talk things over or this or that will only suffocate him more, and u might just end up hearing the things u dont want to hear when u pushed him down to the his max limit, yes we can be very rude at some point esp if u cant give us what we ask for, space and time alone..
i hope i helped..
i hope i helped..
Posted by prettypiscean
@woundedangel: i knew it u are a scorpio, lol.. well we all know that some scorps really have issues with insecurities (some not all), but i never knew anyone who's too clingy and needy at all.. i dealt with a scorpio guy too just recently, but i have to swim away because of his emotional insecurities i just grew tired of him and now im moving on.. anyways, ur a scorpio im pretty sure u can deal with this situaion, just try not to be very clingy if/when he comes back and at the moment let him be he'll talk and come around after a while u will see, coz the tendency of trying to push him to talk things over or this or that will only suffocate him more, and u might just end up hearing the things u dont want to hear when u pushed him down to the his max limit, yes we can be very rude at some point esp if u cant give us what we ask for, space and time alone..
i hope i helped..
Thank you. That's what I've been trying to do now. Btw, his best friend and I got close when we started training for a new skill 4 days ago. And since then, I started to feel like he's not just ignoring me anymore, he's kinda mad at me at some point. I really don't know.
Posted by prettypiscean
@woundedangel: i knew it u are a scorpio, lol.. well we all know that some scorps really have issues with insecurities (some not all), but i never knew anyone who's too clingy and needy at all.. i dealt with a scorpio guy too just recently, but i have to swim away because of his emotional insecurities i just grew tired of him and now im moving on.. anyways, ur a scorpio im pretty sure u can deal with this situaion, just try not to be very clingy if/when he comes back and at the moment let him be he'll talk and come around after a while u will see, coz the tendency of trying to push him to talk things over or this or that will only suffocate him more, and u might just end up hearing the things u dont want to hear when u pushed him down to the his max limit, yes we can be very rude at some point esp if u cant give us what we ask for, space and time alone..
i hope i helped..
Thank you. That's what I've been trying to do now. Btw, his best friend and I got close when we started training for a new skill 4 days ago. And since then, I started to feel like he's not just ignoring me anymore, he's kinda mad at me at some point. I really don't know.
Posted by ProphetaAztecaPosted by woundedangel25
I'm a scorpio, by the way..
what's your moon and rising?click to expand
Sun in: Scorpio
Moon in: Cancer
AS in: Gemini
MC in: Pisces
Posted by Poisson
My dear, you're acting like a needy 16 year old. If you're this way after only a couple of weeks... I can only imagine what kind of emotional coddling you need in the future. Pisces want their relationships to feel effortless with sincere growth and development. Not pressured with questions and nagging.
I know. And I realized that now. If only I could get another chance..
Thank you. That's what I've been trying to do now. Btw, his best friend and I got close when we started training for a new skill 4 days ago. And since then, I started to feel like he's not just ignoring me anymore, he's kinda mad at me at some point. I really don't know.
oh in that case if he's being mad at u at some point and u feel that well theres jealousy involved in there already, the very fact that u got close to his bestfriend now that ur no longer together makes him mad and jealous, if i can just get into his thoughts i will feel like "are u doing this on purpose to hurt me, catch my attention or what?" but ofcourse he will not ask that but we pisces (or atleast me lol) when i get jealous i really ignore the person and like show that person i dont care whatever u do whoever ur with but deep inside im dying, lol, im pretty sure he feels the same and im pretty sure if he's mad of u being close to his bestfriend goes to show that ur still in his heart, which is good though otherwise he will never really care and would not even ignore u or be mad at u at all.. so there, just a pisces woman point of view but the rest is up to u.. thank u (BOW)
and dont worry about him being mad, its not gonna last a life time, lol, i should know.. like i said, we are soft-hearted and we dont hold grudges or anything inside, it makes us feel bad.. at the moment let him be, it'll all pass in due time, in his own sweet time he'll come around he may even be the one to apologize u'll see.. lol 
Posted by prettypiscean
Thank you. That's what I've been trying to do now. Btw, his best friend and I got close when we started training for a new skill 4 days ago. And since then, I started to feel like he's not just ignoring me anymore, he's kinda mad at me at some point. I really don't know.
oh in that case if he's being mad at u at some point and u feel that well theres jealousy involved in there already, the very fact that u got close to his bestfriend now that ur no longer together makes him mad and jealous, if i can just get into his thoughts i will feel like "are u doing this on purpose to hurt me, catch my attention or what?" but ofcourse he will not ask that but we pisces (or atleast me lol) when i get jealous i really ignore the person and like show that person i dont care whatever u do whoever ur with but deep inside im dying, lol, im pretty sure he feels the same and im pretty sure if he's mad of u being close to his bestfriend goes to show that ur still in his heart, which is good though otherwise he will never really care and would not even ignore u or be mad at u at all.. so there, just a pisces woman point of view but the rest is up to u.. thank u (BOW)
Thank you.
It's really hard to see his real feelings though. But I'll just try to give him some space. Try to avoid him too, if that's what he needs. Hoping that one day he realizes that he misses me too. 
Posted by woundedangel25
We only dated for 2 weeks, and been on a relationship for like 2-3 weeks.
I demanded for a constant communication (texts.. calls..), even if we work for the same company and see each other 4 times a week.
I wanted to be the center of his attention.
I wanted to be his priority.
I wanted to be his everything. Yes, I'm too needy and clingy, and I hate that about myself now.
Because of that, the man that I love just walked out of my life.
I just need to hear from him that he'll do anything for me..
That he will never do anything to hurt me..
I just put too much pressure on him.
2 weeks !!!
::: shakes head :::
Here's the deal .... Scorpios have to be the breaker uppers .. they don't care how desperate and needy they appear.
There's no doubt in my mind that the only reason she tries to get him back ..... is so she can break up with him.
Seen it hundreds of times
Posted by P-Angel
Here's the deal .... Scorpios have to be the breaker uppers .. they don't care how desperate and needy they appear.
There's no doubt in my mind that the only reason she tries to get him back ..... is so she can break up with him.
Seen it hundreds of times
That's totally not true. I wouldn't be wasting my time if I'm just planning to break up with him soon.
Here's what I'm thinking now. I'll be resigning from work. So that we wont have to see each other again. If our paths ever cross again, then that's the time I would think of trying to get him back. Time and space is what he needs, I'll give it to him.. I'm tired of all these pain.. It's just too much for me. I want him to be happy, and I'll find my own ways to be happy too. Even if it means not seeing him anymore.
Am I doing the right thing?
Am I doing the right thing?
Posted by 88PisceScorpPosted by woundedangel25
Here's what I'm thinking now. I'll be resigning from work. So that we wont have to see each other again. If our paths ever cross again, then that's the time I would think of trying to get him back. Time and space is what he needs, I'll give it to him.. I'm tired of all these pain.. It's just too much for me. I want him to be happy, and I'll find my own ways to be happy too. Even if it means not seeing him anymore.
Am I doing the right thing?
No, you have to control your neediness behavior and learn to be self sufficient. otherwise every where you go, you will want to quit your job, because of some other man. Learn to be aloof and not give a damn so much about males. Use your Scorpion will-power and stick with it.
I use it and it works wonders, act like you have never seen him in your life and he will come around if he is still interested, give him some breathing room.
sometimes when someone overwhelms *me*, I may say I am done, but I may think again twice if the other person corrects themselves.click to expand
I just found out from his team mate last night that he liked someone else, and just got turned off from some reason. Physically. So I was thinking.. if he thought he liked someone else that fast, then maybe he didn't really love me at all. Maybe everything is just a game for him. I don't know. It hurts so bad.
I don't know what to think.Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
prettypiscean was pretty much on point. I love you cancer moons, but my goodness no one can be there all the time. You gotta give people some breathing room. I don't think you should quit your job unless you already found something else. It's gonna be hard seeing him all the time, but it will get easier.
I know. I've been a real bad girlfriend.. And I regret being that kind of person to him now. If only I could turn back those moments, I would totally change myself for him..
Posted by woundedangel25
then maybe he didn't really love me at all.
It was two fucking weeks ... shit, I've had periods last longer than that.
So, nowhere in your brain did it ever occur to you that a guy doesn't love you within two weeks ....
jesus fucking christ .... people are dumb as fuck, seriously
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by woundedangel25Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
prettypiscean was pretty much on point. I love you cancer moons, but my goodness no one can be there all the time. You gotta give people some breathing room. I don't think you should quit your job unless you already found something else. It's gonna be hard seeing him all the time, but it will get easier.
I know. I've been a real bad girlfriend.. And I regret being that kind of person to him now. If only I could turn back those moments, I would totally change myself for him..
Well what's done is done. No sense in beating yourself up about it. You learned a lesson. Now it's time to move on. Don't be so demanding with the next guy. Give him a chance to get to know you before you get that attached. In the long haul you two may have been emotionally incompatible anyway.
I wonder if you would be better with someone who has strong Leo placements...Either way learn from this experience. And it was infatuation not love, sometimes the two feel the same.click to expand
Thank you.
Posted by P-Angel
It was two fucking weeks ... shit, I've had periods last longer than that.
So, nowhere in your brain did it ever occur to you that a guy doesn't love you within two weeks ....
jesus fucking christ .... people are dumb as fuck, seriously
Stupid me, I know.
Thank you for all your comments. Positive or negative.. You're giving me a reason to see life in a different way. Learned a lot and will continue to learn more.
I was this kind of girl who is really loud.. I laugh a lot, make joke with my friends, and just laugh all day. That's how he knew me.. When we got into a relationship, though I knew that he had a huge crush on me, it was me who made the first move.. I was always the one deciding when and where to go, and what to do. I was this confident girl, and she was the shy type. And so here it goes.. After the break up, I decided to be friends with him.. I tried to greet him 'Hi' but I just felt that he's not really comfortable. He tried to avoid me, and at one point, I felt that he suddenly got mad at me.
So yeah, I decided to ignore him too. I played the shy type kinda girl this time. Everytime I had to walk across him, I just look down. Everytime we accidentally look at each other, I always look down.. Doing that for about a week now.. Last Tuesday, I woke up having a missed call on my Viber.. Not sure who it was because I already deleted his no. I tried to callback twice, but it was being dropped. So I texted, 'I'm sorry I missed your call. Who's this?'
Then I got a reply. 'It's me, ****. ' So I said, 'Oh, why?'
And here comes the confusing part.. He started askin who I am too.. Few exchanges of texts, but I never said who I was. I ended up the conversation by saying 'Oh okay. It's better left unsaid then.'
Then that night, we went to work. He was early, and found out his and my team had to swap stations for the night because of the client visit. I stationed somewhere in his team's bay.. And it was wierd, coz he sat on my station. Idk what that means really.. But of course, it got me thinkin, 'Why sit on my station?'
And then this past few days, I always catch him lookin at me.. The longest was this Saturday morning before I went home.. He was really starin at me, and I kept pretending that I wasnt aware.. I was trying to check on him, then look down..
This is so confusing now.. Idk what to think..
So yeah, I decided to ignore him too. I played the shy type kinda girl this time. Everytime I had to walk across him, I just look down. Everytime we accidentally look at each other, I always look down.. Doing that for about a week now.. Last Tuesday, I woke up having a missed call on my Viber.. Not sure who it was because I already deleted his no. I tried to callback twice, but it was being dropped. So I texted, 'I'm sorry I missed your call. Who's this?'
Then I got a reply. 'It's me, ****. ' So I said, 'Oh, why?'
And here comes the confusing part.. He started askin who I am too.. Few exchanges of texts, but I never said who I was. I ended up the conversation by saying 'Oh okay. It's better left unsaid then.'
Then that night, we went to work. He was early, and found out his and my team had to swap stations for the night because of the client visit. I stationed somewhere in his team's bay.. And it was wierd, coz he sat on my station. Idk what that means really.. But of course, it got me thinkin, 'Why sit on my station?'
And then this past few days, I always catch him lookin at me.. The longest was this Saturday morning before I went home.. He was really starin at me, and I kept pretending that I wasnt aware.. I was trying to check on him, then look down..
This is so confusing now.. Idk what to think..
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