Pisces Men and feelings

I've been seeing this Pisces and me being the opinionated, not scared to ask questions self that I am, I asked him about his past dating and relationships...why they ended, what happened, etc. Mostly, it was because the girl got too close to him too fast and was clingy and possessive. Well, ok, I understand that, because i don't like clinginess either.

Lately though, he's been asking me out EVERY night or want to see me everyday. Out of the last 5 days, I've seen him twice....it's been my decision to not to see him because 1) I'm busy at work and tired at the end of the day and 2) because of his comment about his past girls wanting to spend so much time with him. If it had been up to him, he'd have seen me every day for the past week.

Here's my question...

Why the contradictory statement vs. actions? He tells me he didn't like getting close too fast or the girl wanting to see him so much but he's the one doing it with me.

What gives?

It doesn't sound contridictory to me.


To want to see a person everyday doesn't equal clingyness, nor possessiveness.


Perhaps, instead of automatically attaching your definition of those two to his words for measurement of actions .. it would be prudent to find out what he defines as clingy.



I see my husband everyday ... he's not a clingy person. I'm not sure how you are equating those two things to mean the same.



Without knowing how he is determining what makes a person clingy ..... how can this be contridictory?


I'll tell you one thing about Pisces and it irritates the living piss out of us, so try not to do this, or you will drive him nuts ... don't mold/change your life based off of trying to anticipate what you think we mean, if you've never found out what we mean, and are just making a decision of what you think we mean. He will be pissed off to high heaven .. trust me.

Meaning .... if he finds out that the reason that you aren't seeing him is because you have a made a decision as to what you think he meant by clingy ... he will be furious.

Anytime my husband or anybody does this to me .... all kinds of gaskets start blowing. That's not what I fucking said ... don't make your own determination as to what YOU think I meant .. I meant what I fucking said. If you want to know what that means, ask me .. don't make your own decision as to what you think it means.


See ^^^^^^ ... hopefully that made sense. Just ask him ..... define clingy.

I agree with Starfish. My male Pisces friend always has relationships by "default" meaning he falls into them because the female initiates it. The only kind of male fish to catch is the one who catches you.

Peach .... here's something to think about. It's something I witness with two customers, just random people, so I don't know their signs.


He's standing at my register, just paying for stuff .... two girls walk in the door and one deliberately comes right up to him and puts herself very close in his personal space .. he forces a smile, and then leans down to kiss her.

Her: Why haven't you called me back.
Him: What? I thought we were going to hook up at Jesse's house at 10
Her: Don't pretend like you didn't get my messeges
Him: You can't make it?
Her: *** pushes her phone into his face ***
Him: *** grimaces ***
Her: Look, Look .. don't pretend you didn't know I needed to talk to you. Why didn't you call back?
Him: What's the matter? **now thinking something is wrong, so taking a more sensitive to her feelings tone***
Her: Wrong? Wrong? **her bitch definitely on** Wrong is that you are ignoring me.
Him: No, I mean ... why you were texting me all those times, is something wrong?
Her: ** she calms down, I guess because his tone has changed ** I just missed you, I love you
Him: **tongue clicks** We just talked an hour before **** his tone now indignant ***
Her: *** wraps herself around him ***
Him: *** looks at me watching, looks around the store, a look of utter repulsiveness on his face ***


Of course, that is not verbatim .. I have a good memory, but, not that good ..... point is, women are actually that clingy. Well, insecure women who are desperate to be loved are that clingy ... and men run into insecure women all the time who have to be emotionally pampered at all times.

This is something to think about ... when he says that she always wanted to see him, to be in contact with him .. you need to know to what extent.

I'll tell you when I saw that girl do that to that man in my store .... it was stomach turning to be honest. Apparantly, they had made plans to meet up, and inbetween those times of contact, she blew his phone up .... pure suffocation, because she has issues in which she is attempting to make him liable for, and if he doesn't adhere, then she hunts him down.

Appalling ....

I got all of ya....

You're right, I will ask him to define clingy because in my head, he is contradicting himself.

For instance, I will get random texts from him that say he misses me.

This morning, I got a message that said he thought about me last night and can't wait to see me tonight. I messaged him back and asked him if we're moving too fast and his response "I feel our relationship is really good. And when I say I like you, I feel even more than that"....this is what sparked this who thread about feelings.

who=whole

are they working well? Are they? lol.

confusing if you ask me.


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