Pisces men and loyalty

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by wednesdayschild on Friday, February 1, 2019 and has 15 replies.

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So, I have a long distance relationship going on with a lovely Pisces man. We started talking in March 2018 and first met August 2018. We started as friends but things soon escalated into more, by which the Pisces told me that at that point he couldn't offer me more than FWB. I decided that was ok as we lived in different countries and it would be unrealistic at that point to regularly date and move things along. The only thing I asked him to be was honest, which we both agreed to as we had both been very hurt and betrayed in the past and didnt want that repeated. Plus our friendship was more like a soulmate connection so lying would have been destructive.

I visited again in October 2018 and he visited me for 14 days over the Christmas period. We had the best time and I could feel that he was starting to see me as more than a FWB but I decided to let him tell me, not ask him again. During all this time we have been talking every day, texting every day, calling for hours in an evening...literally as soon as we can talk we do.

So, a week ago we were talking and he actually told me he loved me. I asked, as a friend or more, by which he said much more. I was over the moon. That weekend was amazing, I was so happy as I had booked a flight to go there in February, so this was perfect.

But then THAT WEEKEND I received a message from a woman claiming that she was my Pisces man's FWB! She said she had been sleeping with him since October and that he spent weekends at her house. She was hurt that he hadnt told me about her, as she asked him to. I went crazy inside, called the Pisces and we had a fight...he admitted he had slept with her twice and done some video sex, but that he had told her it was nothing more. He said, how could he spend weekends at someone's house when we were always on the phone? That was true...I guess she was exaggerating. She sent me screenshots of convos and from what she showed there was nothing there except occasional sex. I spoke to his sister who told me he loved me a lot and would never hurt me. I sent her the screenshot as they were in a language I dont know well enough yet, and she said...he has said nothing except been nice to her as a friend, and lightly flirted.

Him and I talked calmly and he said that me and him werent a couple at that point and he had been truthful with both of us, but my issue was that he had promised to tell me everything. He realised he should have but was scared of losing me.

He told me he wants a commitment now. He has wanted to go forward as a couple since before Christmas and was going to tell me this and everything about the woman when I visited in Feb.

So now I feel conflicted. He tells me he loves me twice or more per day. He is so attentive, loving....everything he has always been and more, but they are only words! Until one of us relocates, its going to be reliant on words and trust.

My question is. Are Pisces men known to be loyal once they commit? He is such a sweet guy and is always 'rescuing' people, which has been an issue in the past with him as girls take it as more interest than just being 'nice' which he claims he is only doing.

I'd love another Pisces guy to help me here. I am so conflicted. I want to trust him so much but I dont want this hurt again in my life.

Pisces men and loyalty

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