QueenHatshepsut
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PISCES MEN AND RESENTMENT- TAURUS WOMAN
He finally said, he could not make me happy. It took a lot of soul searching to realize, all of this time, I was seeking my PISCES man as the source of my happiness when I should have been looking for happiness within myself.
My question is, will he come back? I believe he is the man I am supposed to be with, in our story, we always end up together in the end. Our compatibility is beyond coincidence and we deeply love each other. I have put him through so much and just need to know from another male Pisces, will his resentment ever subside to the point we can try again? I understand that because of all the things I have done to him, he may have a lot of resentment and my only solution was to give him space. I have given him space as I cannot be his "FRIEND" right now. My emotions are too raw and my love is way too deep to flip on a friend "switch". I know I love him and I know he has been in love with me since the first time we met (he's always said "I am going to make you my wife.") He would always insist I would be his wife and I just assumed he said that to all of the women.
My question is, will he come back? I believe he is the man I am supposed to be with, in our story, we always end up together in the end. Our compatibility is beyond coincidence and we deeply love each other. I have put him through so much and just need to know from another male Pisces, will his resentment ever subside to the point we can try again? I understand that because of all the things I have done to him, he may have a lot of resentment and my only solution was to give him space. I have given him space as I cannot be his "FRIEND" right now. My emotions are too raw and my love is way too deep to flip on a friend "switch". I know I love him and I know he has been in love with me since the first time we met (he's always said "I am going to make you my wife.") He would always insist I would be his wife and I just assumed he said that to all of the women.
The key words "HE COULD NEVER MAKE YOU HAPPY" really means, "YOU COULD NEVER MAKE HIM HAPPY". I think he's comfortable in the role as your "jump off". Most men want a woman that he believe is true to him. Not some one that over the past 10 years have slept with numerous men including him. Do you honestly think he could ever get past that and you all could have a healthy loving relationship? I don't think so. Put yourself in his shoes. Women are very forgiving and acceptable beings, but I wouldn't take a prospective husband seriously knowing his on and off unstable background with several women. It would tell me a lot about his character. I say continue your loving friendship and move on. I can't ever see him making you his wife.
I could be wrong, but even the most hoe-ish, doggish, player of a man doesn't want a woman that has done the same thing he's done.
I could be wrong, but even the most hoe-ish, doggish, player of a man doesn't want a woman that has done the same thing he's done.
You sound really fucking selfish.
Posted by QueenHatshepsut
Sure, he would always laughingly say "watch I am going to make you mine, you're just a hard nut to crack." Secretly I would think, he was the real nut thinking I would ever be his or anyone's for that matter.
I seriously hope you're trolling because if he said that and that's what you were thinking..you're completely out of touch with emotions.
And this is how people who'd stick by their partner through thick and thin get cynical and then in the aftermath..if someone nice comes along, they won't allow themselves go "there"
You don't deserve anything. You have all what you want and need..which is the ego trip you're on. Keep up with that and you'll never have to worry about making a connection with a human being ever again.
You don't deserve anything. You have all what you want and need..which is the ego trip you're on. Keep up with that and you'll never have to worry about making a connection with a human being ever again.
Posted by QueenHatshepsut
I am a TAURUS woman and met my Pisces KING nearly a decade ago and NEVER imagined we would ever become more than casual acquaintances. Sure, he would always laughingly say "watch I am going to make you mine, you're just a hard nut to crack." Secretly I would think, he was the real nut thinking I would ever be his or anyone's for that matter.
As the years went by, we developed a caring friendship as I went in and out of bad relationships treating him as my "jump-off" in-between men. I still NEVER imagined he was serious about being in a real relationship with me. I always thought he was joking and I would always make a joke of it and laugh it off. Five years later, my life changed and of all the "friends" I thought had my back abandoned me, my PISCES was the ONLY one still there in my corner. I loved him for this, unfortunately loving and being in love are two very different things and I still wasn't there. I finally agreed to date him (like he asked 5-years earlier.)I had so much emotional baggage and put him through so much HELL but there he stood unwavering and he saw something in me, I never saw in myself. He believed in me when no one else did, not even me and he loved me at all the times I felt the most unlovable. He motivated me to go back to school after 11-years and complete my B.S.(I graduated with honors), motivated me to want to be a better mother, daughter, woman, and person. He literally shined the light in me that took me out of the pit of negativity and pessimism, where former girlfriends and bad relationships held me prisoner. I was so angry, bitter, and closed off, I assumed my PISCES man was the same as all of the others and would hurt me. It took nearly a decade for him to prove himself trustworthy. Taurus women take loyalty EXTREMELY serious, so if you want our loyalty, you need to prove yourself worthy. Finally all of these years later, I woke up and realized, I am deeply in love with this man. He always took me back before without hesitation but now, that I finally have realized how deeply I am in love with him, he is no longer in my life.
Although he wouldn't take me back, because he did not believe I could change (very understandable, I don't have the best track record.) He wanted me to remain in his life and wanted us to have a friendship again. I agreed, he called me everyday, text messaged me, e-mailed me, did everythin
Normally I would put a box of Kleenex picture up for people like you. You don't even deserve the one-ply, sandpaper type...
Posted by QueenHatshepsut
He wanted me to remain in his life and wanted us to have a friendship again. I agreed, he called me everyday, text messaged me, e-mailed me, did everything CORRECT but in my eyes he was still wrong. Like I told him, even when he is right, to me he is wrong.
There's no doubt in my mind that you aren't finished yet with tormenting him .... considering the depth of your self absorption, I'd be willing to wager that you are still forcing him to suffer you.
I feel sorry for this man. Pity isn't something I hand out easily to people ...
You're fucking bitch. I hope like hell, you're a troll, and didn't really inflict what is quoted above on a man who loved you.
I gotta be honest here. This sounds like codepedency, not love. For one thing, you've turned him into a savior and he's merely a man. For another thing, you had all these years to develop something good and when it finally kicked off, a decade later, it didn't work out. I can't say that I'm surprised because little of what you shared seems real to me. He sounds like some kind of fuck buddy for the down times and I don't know how you turn that into a bonafide relationship. I think you need time to yourself to realize you can make yourself happy. You're putting too much pressure on the man and don't realize it. He can't be your "everything," your "king" your savior. That's a load of romantic malarkey and it never withstands the light of day.
His behavior does sound like Pisces behavior - never giving up on a lost cause. I won't say you're selfish because that's evident and I can respect that you rejected the notion of an intimate relationship for a length of time. However, your supposed entitlement to him is invalid. You couldn't care less about his affection and now he is the same way. It's fair to not expect anything from him. You may assume by his Pisces behavior that he would still make some sacrifices but Pisces mature with age. They grow tired of being hurt and don't willingly volunteer themselves anymore.
You've probably realized you're getting old and don't have many options. Should have realized sooner, hun. Don't make excuses for yourself anymore and give the next guy a decent chance.
You've probably realized you're getting old and don't have many options. Should have realized sooner, hun. Don't make excuses for yourself anymore and give the next guy a decent chance.
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As the years went by, we developed a caring friendship as I went in and out of bad relationships treating him as my "jump-off" in-between men. I still NEVER imagined he was serious about being in a real relationship with me. I always thought he was joking and I would always make a joke of it and laugh it off. Five years later, my life changed and of all the "friends" I thought had my back abandoned me, my PISCES was the ONLY one still there in my corner. I loved him for this, unfortunately loving and being in love are two very different things and I still wasn't there. I finally agreed to date him (like he asked 5-years earlier.)I had so much emotional baggage and put him through so much HELL but there he stood unwavering and he saw something in me, I never saw in myself. He believed in me when no one else did, not even me and he loved me at all the times I felt the most unlovable. He motivated me to go back to school after 11-years and complete my B.S.(I graduated with honors), motivated me to want to be a better mother, daughter, woman, and person. He literally shined the light in me that took me out of the pit of negativity and pessimism, where former girlfriends and bad relationships held me prisoner. I was so angry, bitter, and closed off, I assumed my PISCES man was the same as all of the others and would hurt me. It took nearly a decade for him to prove himself trustworthy. Taurus women take loyalty EXTREMELY serious, so if you want our loyalty, you need to prove yourself worthy. Finally all of these years later, I woke up and realized, I am deeply in love with this man. He always took me back before without hesitation but now, that I finally have realized how deeply I am in love with him, he is no longer in my life.
Although he wouldn't take me back, because he did not believe I could change (very understandable, I don't have the best track record.) He wanted me to remain in his life and wanted us to have a friendship again. I agreed, he called me everyday, text messaged me, e-mailed me, did everything CORRECT but in my eyes he was still wrong. Like I told him, even when he is right, to me he is wrong.