Pisces Men Will Ruin Your Life

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by newtothis on Wednesday, August 18, 2021 and has 32 replies.
I read your title and than I read “I went back and forth”

What else is there to know?!

He didn’t waste your time.

You keep wasting your time
Sounds like he is teaching you a valuable lesson. Once he's done with you, you won't suffer fools anymore.
Posted by Gobbie

Oh, shut the hell up and pass me the Tartar sauce.
Oh the drama!!

*spins and faints
Posted by ScorpioDreams

They are forever coming and going. Had one just recently pop back up after months of no contact. He just wanted to tell me he was moving out of state. I’m sitting there thinking thanks for the heads up, but you’ve been out of touch for months so you may as well live in another country. Love Pisces to death, but I’ve learned I could never be with one long term. My heart can’t take all the swimming away and swimming back. 💔
😆 that was actually a “this is your last chance to taste this man meat” text.
OP here.

I have had problems with a Pisces girl (same birthday as this guy funnily enough). They want to be super flirty with you and then when you develop feelings they are like "oh well, we can still be friends." Then it gets super emotional and dramatic.

Also my placements are pretty evenly distributed between Aries, Libra, and Virgo. I have like no other signs in my birth chart LOL
Lol first husband gets in touch after 25 years 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ finding me on Facebook. He actually will show up once every few years when he wants some sort of support lol He does not have my phone number or address & I’d like to keep it that way.

The good thing about this contact is it helped me work through some anger. So I’m taking the positives from it. I have no interest in seeing him. But, I feel grateful he showed up at a time I was working through things.
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He is being clear though. He said he only wants to be friends.

You aren’t being clear. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.


Yeah that’s why she needs to have firm boundaries. Pisces men will talk that “let’s be friends” bullshit but then turn around and act possessive or flirtatious which is what confuses women. Lots of mixed signals with Pisces men.. it’s like they want to keep you within arms reach. If a woman doesn’t have firm boundaries with a Pisces, she’s screwed.


They DONT like to be pursued, or pushed into anything. I know they look like they do… because of that lost look and all. But they DONT. They definitely make all the moves in their own sweet time.
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THIS. 👆🏻
I talked to a few Pisces men and my impression of them is they're fluffy, cuddly, puppy dogs that bore the hell out of me.

Then again Justin Bieber screwed Selena Gomez so bad she wrote a really bad song with an even worse music video and still single to this day.

A local actor here, Gerald Anderson, ghosted his gf of 3 years and just started dating someone else.

A Pisces dude ghosted my Sag Bff after stringing her along for months.

So maybe yes, there's some truth to this. Idk.

It's like they are selfish and only think of their feelings then call you selfish and get defensive when you call them out.
Posted by Gobbie

Oh, shut the hell up and pass me the Tartar sauce.
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🐟
Posted by PlowSeason

Sounds like he likes you, just not like that. Do you have pisces placements? Aries men with pisces placements make great therapists, honestly. Really easy people to talk to. You're also both next to each other on the zodiac wheel so friendship is easy. You have to decide for yourself if you can handle being just friends with him.
Hmm never met an Aries with Pisces placements
idk but pisces men like to play a lot of games. and I mean like literal games like checkers, jenga, truth or dare. I've played hours with them. I don't see them as flakes coz they've been pretty forward with me. but you gotta understand that I'm a total flake myself lmao. I'm in the middle of a game rn which started with what is your fave food to underwear colors 😂😂 ahh not sure if I miss dating.
Posted by DMV

I read your title and than I read “I went back and forth”

What else is there to know?!

He didn’t waste your time.

You keep wasting your time

*like*

This exactly.
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Posted by ScorpioDreams

They are forever coming and going. Had one just recently pop back up after months of no contact. He just wanted to tell me he was moving out of state. I’m sitting there thinking thanks for the heads up, but you’ve been out of touch for months so you may as well live in another country. Love Pisces to death, but I’ve learned I could never be with one long term. My heart can’t take all the swimming away and swimming back. 💔


😆 that was actually a “this is your last chance to taste this man meat” text.
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Lol. Yup.
I was in a relationship with a Pisces man couple years ago. At some point I had problems at work and it was consuming all of my time and thoughts so I couldn't see him as often, he kept complaining and I told him I needed some time and space to sort everything out and to put my life back on track, he started crying, saying he didn't want us to break up, I assured him I just needed a little space to work on my problems and I wasn't breaking up with him. About a month passed and I initiated meeting up, we had a good time, at some point I had my phone on charger and needed to check time because I had to make a few phone calls, so just grabbed his phone that was laying next to me, in a blink of an eye he snatched the phone and told me not to do it. ????? Later he admitted he thought I was breaking up with him and had been on dating apps. Needles to say I did break up with him after that.
I used to put too much weight on astrology when dealing with men, but not anymore. Listen people are simple alright, everyone knows what is right and wrong, if someone isn't meeting your standards just get yourself someone else, problem solved
Posted by pisceanloves

I used to put too much weight on astrology when dealing with men, but not anymore. Listen people are simple alright, everyone knows what is right and wrong, if someone isn't meeting your standards just get yourself someone else, problem solved
Exactly

People treat you based on how they perceive your worth
Posted by Mutya

I talked to a few Pisces men and my impression of them is they're fluffy, cuddly, puppy dogs that bore the hell out of me.

Then again Justin Bieber screwed Selena Gomez so bad she wrote a really bad song with an even worse music video and still single to this day.

A local actor here, Gerald Anderson, ghosted his gf of 3 years and just started dating someone else.

A Pisces dude ghosted my Sag Bff after stringing her along for months.

So maybe yes, there's some truth to this. Idk.
I fell for a few pisces and I have some friends (male friends ) who are also pisces.

I agree with you about them being so nice, cuddly, sweet, etc. They can really sweep you off your feet being overly romantic but to me it seems like they have a short attention span. Once they see something better, they move on to the next victim.



My friend who's a pisces (scorpio moon) is incredibly immature. He does what ever he wants and has gotten in to so much trouble even though we have warned him to be careful. In the love department he's a complete mess - he's very immature and mind you, he's in his mid 30s, with 3 kids from 2 different women. We have given up on him and hope that he will learn with his mistakes (doubt it. we expect more kids from different women later on). He's very generous, kind but he can be manipulative with a lot of people (not me! I know his game and he knows it so he doesn't come to me when he makes a mistake. He goes to other friends who are weak to help with money, etc).

I have experienced this behavior with many pisces men but I am sure there are good pisces men out there...who knows?
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Posted by PlowSeason

Sounds like he likes you, just not like that. Do you have pisces placements? Aries men with pisces placements make great therapists, honestly. Really easy people to talk to. You're also both next to each other on the zodiac wheel so friendship is easy. You have to decide for yourself if you can handle being just friends with him.


Hmm never met an Aries with Pisces placements
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Heath Ledger is the perfect example.
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Posted by MareInfame

He is being clear though. He said he only wants to be friends.

You aren’t being clear. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.


Yeah that’s why she needs to have firm boundaries. Pisces men will talk that “let’s be friends” bullshit but then turn around and act possessive or flirtatious which is what confuses women. Lots of mixed signals with Pisces men.. it’s like they want to keep you within arms reach. If a woman doesn’t have firm boundaries with a Pisces, she’s screwed.


They DONT like to be pursued, or pushed into anything. I know they look like they do… because of that lost look and all. But they DONT. They definitely make all the moves in their own sweet time.


Yup. Don't rush me. I drink my coffee 2 hours after I wake up so I don't make my body get into a hurry of hurrying up.
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My mother is the same. She's a pisces. She can spend 2 hours making breakfast. 🤦‍♀️
Posted by newtothis

For years I have gone back and forth with this wishy-washy Pisces with a Taurus Moon (I'm an Aries with a Libra Moon)

We first met each other in the library of our college years ago. We were both super attracted to each other (we remember vividly exactly what we were wearing and the exchange). We talked hot and heavy for a few months, then he decided he didn't swing my way. I kept asking him why he kept flirting and leading me on. He said we were just friends. ???

A year or so went by and he randomly texted me. I told him I didn't want to go through this again. I'm a sucker and fell into his trap. It ended worse than before.

Then yesterday he texted me "Are you driving home, I think I passed you." Of course I replied back and we caught up.

What is his angle? He knows how I feel about him He says he just wants to be my friend. I get that, but I tell him I want more and think it is best not to get involved and develop feelings again.
Omg!

You are so right about 4hem running your life!

I lost my goddamn MARRIAGE over a Pisces man!

7 Fkn YEARS!

Be careful!.

Read my post just now.

Its title is "Grrr Handsome Devil Pisces.. "
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Posted by PlowSeason

Sounds like he likes you, just not like that. Do you have pisces placements? Aries men with pisces placements make great therapists, honestly. Really easy people to talk to. You're also both next to each other on the zodiac wheel so friendship is easy. You have to decide for yourself if you can handle being just friends with him.


Hmm never met an Aries with Pisces placements
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I have!

My ex-husband is Aries with Pisces MARS!!

Work that one out!

A wishy-washy MARS person!
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Posted by newtothis

For years I have gone back and forth with this wishy-washy Pisces with a Taurus Moon (I'm an Aries with a Libra Moon)

We first met each other in the library of our college years ago. We were both super attracted to each other (we remember vividly exactly what we were wearing and the exchange). We talked hot and heavy for a few months, then he decided he didn't swing my way. I kept asking him why he kept flirting and leading me on. He said we were just friends. ???

A year or so went by and he randomly texted me. I told him I didn't want to go through this again. I'm a sucker and fell into his trap. It ended worse than before.

Then yesterday he texted me "Are you driving home, I think I passed you." Of course I replied back and we caught up.

What is his angle? He knows how I feel about him He says he just wants to be my friend. I get that, but I tell him I want more and think it is best not to get involved and develop feelings again.


Omg!

You are so right about 4hem running your life!

I lost my goddamn MARRIAGE over a Pisces man!

7 Fkn YEARS!

Be careful!.

Read my post just now.

Its title is "Grrr Handsome Devil Pisces.. "
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What was wrong with your husband that caused you to cheat on him with a Pisces that isn't any better of a person?
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He is being clear though. He said he only wants to be friends.

You aren’t being clear. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.


Yeah that’s why she needs to have firm boundaries. Pisces men will talk that “let’s be friends” bullshit but then turn around and act possessive or flirtatious which is what confuses women. Lots of mixed signals with Pisces men.. it’s like they want to keep you within arms reach. If a woman doesn’t have firm boundaries with a Pisces, she’s screwed.


They DONT like to be pursued, or pushed into anything. I know they look like they do… because of that lost look and all. But they DONT. They definitely make all the moves in their own sweet time.


Yup. Don't rush me. I drink my coffee 2 hours after I wake up so I don't make my body get into a hurry of hurrying up.


My mother is the same. She's a pisces. She can spend 2 hours making breakfast. 🤦‍♀️


Lol that's funny because I'm the same way when it comes to cooking. I love cooking, but I use more time than required to cook because I find it relaxing. A lot of my time is wasted on organizing the cooking process and getting things ready.

Fortunately, I'm only cooking for my wife and I. One person telling me "hurry up I'm hungry!" Is more than enough
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You just described my mother.
You guys sure are patience.

That made me lose interest quickly and just cut it off.
Posted by DMV

I read your title and than I read “I went back and forth”

What else is there to know?!

He didn’t waste your time.

You keep wasting your time


Yup. Some ppl don't understand that they themselves carry a toxicity that allows others to mistreat them. What's needed for this to go on is two ppl with fucked up attachment patterns . If only one takes themselves out of the equation it can't go on. So OP, check yourself and how/why you are wired this way
I only know one other Pisces guy who is like this.

He was stationed in Afghanistan, a model in NYC (he looks perfect), and got involved with sugar daddies. He had at least five at one point. They dumbed him. He is working at a Starbucks in San Antonio last time I heard.
They are all drama ^
Posted by newtothis

I only know one other Pisces guy who is like this.

He was stationed in Afghanistan, a model in NYC (he looks perfect), and got involved with sugar daddies. He had at least five at one point. They dumbed him. He is working at a Starbucks in San Antonio last time I heard.


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I only know one other Pisces guy who is like this.

He was stationed in Afghanistan, a model in NYC (he looks perfect), and got involved with sugar daddies. He had at least five at one point. They dumbed him. He is working at a Starbucks in San Antonio last time I heard.


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Elaborate on how that is just lol
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Posted by MareInfame

He is being clear though. He said he only wants to be friends.

You aren’t being clear. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.


Yeah that’s why she needs to have firm boundaries. Pisces men will talk that “let’s be friends” bullshit but then turn around and act possessive or flirtatious which is what confuses women. Lots of mixed signals with Pisces men.. it’s like they want to keep you within arms reach. If a woman doesn’t have firm boundaries with a Pisces, she’s screwed.


They DONT like to be pursued, or pushed into anything. I know they look like they do… because of that lost look and all. But they DONT. They definitely make all the moves in their own sweet time.


I think this is probably why I lose patience with them. My sag mars squares their sun… I’m sure I can come across as being just a tad bit bossy/pushy when I want what I want 😅😅😂😂


Lol… I’m a bit bossy too. Especially with my guy friends. It’s funny because most that do really well with my bossiness and actually invite it or get entertained by it are Sag, Virgo, Gems… ALMOST all the mutables 🤪

Pisces are too sensitive or reactive to it.

Taurus love it too… but it’s hard to stay strictly as friends.

Have you ever tried being with a Sag?!?! Sag guys LOVE bossy women!!
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I read the last statement and had to laugh 😂 .

Made me think 💭 of my sag guy friend, who always talks about how his sag sister’s 👯‍♀️ , husbands are weak and let his sister’s walk all over them. He tells the husbands they should stop ✋🏽 being pu $ $ y’s and stop letting his sister’s run them. He says he would never be with a woman that was controlling/ dominant😂.

I disagreed, or maybe it’s just that I think he would do better with someone more responsible, bc he isn’t.

I do always see sag men with caps women.

Off topic, sorry 😬
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Posted by MareInfame

He is being clear though. He said he only wants to be friends.

You aren’t being clear. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.


Yeah that’s why she needs to have firm boundaries. Pisces men will talk that “let’s be friends” bullshit but then turn around and act possessive or flirtatious which is what confuses women. Lots of mixed signals with Pisces men.. it’s like they want to keep you within arms reach. If a woman doesn’t have firm boundaries with a Pisces, she’s screwed.


They DONT like to be pursued, or pushed into anything. I know they look like they do… because of that lost look and all. But they DONT. They definitely make all the moves in their own sweet time.


I think this is probably why I lose patience with them. My sag mars squares their sun… I’m sure I can come across as being just a tad bit bossy/pushy when I want what I want 😅😅😂😂


Lol… I’m a bit bossy too. Especially with my guy friends. It’s funny because most that do really well with my bossiness and actually invite it or get entertained by it are Sag, Virgo, Gems… ALMOST all the mutables 🤪

Pisces are too sensitive or reactive to it.

Taurus love it too… but it’s hard to stay strictly as friends.

Have you ever tried being with a Sag?!?! Sag guys LOVE bossy women!!


I read the last statement and had to laugh 😂 .

Made me think 💭 of my sag guy friend, who always talks about how his sag sister’s 👯‍♀️ , husbands are weak and let his sister’s walk all over them. He tells the husbands they should stop ✋🏽 being pu $ $ y’s and stop letting his sister’s run them. He says he would never be with a woman that was controlling/ dominant😂.

I disagreed, or maybe it’s just that I think he would do better with someone more responsible, bc he isn’t.

I do always see sag men with caps women.

Off topic, sorry 😬


Lol no worries!

That would be hilarious if he ends up marrying a marrying Aries, Leo or Aqua… bosssssssssyyyyyyyy. 🤣😂🤣😂
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Im aqua Lol, and I don’t think I’m bossy 🤭😂. I couldn’t see him with an aqua like myself though. Too many cons, and too much a like in the worse ways. 😐He also doesn’t seem like he’s a good leader, which is what I need in a guy, if they expected me to follow. 😂