Pisces please help!

I'm a scorpio deeply love with a pisces woman.

Everything was going quite well between us but things really started to change when she moved to a new place. She got quite busy and almost forgot about me. I can't believe that can pisces get so much absorbed in work that they forget their loved ones?

I felt so much ignored and neglected as she didn't pick up my calls and hardly ever called me i had to call her all the time and message her. And as a scorpio i couldn't take it easily. So, we ended up arguing all the time. It went on and on for months. Now it has become so worse that one day she said she don't love me anymore. It broke my heart. The thing is even if i argued with her and said really hurtful things to her its because i felt so neglected by her. I love her alot and care about her so much. I did so much for her when she was going through a very very bad phase of her life. How can she forget it so easily? Do pisces forget things that people do for them and moments so easily? Because as a scorpio i will never forget if a person helped me even for a bit.

I think she swam away from me. But i want her back. I will be really cool in dealing with her this time. But i don't know how to deal with her. Earlier she was so sweet, calm and caring but now She acts really cranky, rude and different now all the time.I love her very much and don't want to loose her. Please help!

Posted by brynne29
The thing is even if i argued with her and said really hurtful things to her its because i felt so neglected by her.

This is what stands out for me.

I was with a Scorpio up until earlier this year. Not long after we started dating I went through a ton of shit including one of my best friends passing away.

The scorp just didn't get it. Made it all about him. How I was neglecting HIM and making HIM feel. He showed very little consideration for what I was going through.

Not saying this is you however if you've lashed out because YOU felt neglected without considering her own feelings she's not going to forget that.

I don't know the whole story and I'm not having a go at you I can only speak from my own experience.

I don't know what you said but I DO know how evil Scorps can be in the heat of the moment.

I was made to feel like a piece of shit while already going through a tough time.

A pisces NEVER ever forgets that.

I think she swam away from me. But i want her back. I will be really cool in dealing with her this time. But i don't know
how to deal with her. Earlier she was so sweet, calm and caring but now She acts really cranky, rude and different now all the time.I love her very much and don't want to loose her. Please help!


Like Miss pirate said I don't know the whole story but usually if a pisces flip that sweet to pissy switch you did or said something to piss her as $ off. So if you guys argue a lot and you let it go maybe you hurt her and once we are hurt we can become nasty. So honestly I don't know what to say or even if us fishes can help without more info. If you don't feel comfortable with that I get it, but for me I need to know what kind of hell you unleash when your pissed.

Because us fishes have excellent memories and that shi* builds up and we all have our breaking points like a jenga tower...you can only build up hurtful words so much then that tower comes tumbling down and that's when we have at you.

It will probably be better if you just let the relationship go and just concentrate on being her friend, so that she will trust you again. And in the meantime work on yourself, because everybody knows that Scorps get crazy when they are upset. Not pointing a finger, but I have a Scorp moon so I know from personal experience.

Thank you so much so your kind replies. Really appreciate it. 🙂

But i'm an easy going scorp. I'm quite intense but i keep all my intensity within me as much i can. But i have break point too. She ignored me so much to an extent that i couldn't take it anymore and finally i broke loose.

We only had "heated arguments" - "normal couple arguments" no physical or verbal abuse. I love her alot no matter what.
I never used any foul language on her or call her names. But i might have spoke rudely to her sometimes - "Why the hell didn't you call or reply?". And sometimes invaded in her privacy too i guess which she took it negatively. But its only because as a scorp i'm very protective of her. I can easily sense any thing wrong around her and keep her away from that. But she took it otherwise i guess. Anyway i need to cool it down.

But just like Pisces are very sensitive. Scorps are very sensitive too and as the most hurtful thing you can do to me is ignore me specially by someone who matters to me alot. It will piss the hell outta me.


But now how do i get her back? I mean i have read once the love feeling for a person inside a pisces is gone its gone forever, it ain't coming back. Is it true?

one more input, hope it helps -

All of our argument is on phone. We hardly see each other. We live very very far apart. Its like been 7 months now since i saw her. But once we meet we are all smiling and laughing at each other, we forget about all the arguments we had.
Once we had a bad argument, the very next day i flew down to meet her. When we saw each other, we just hugged and kissed like nothing ever happened between us.

Is it because of the long distance, its getting messed up? As most of my friends say so.
Do Pisces loose attraction if they don't see a person for a long time?


Thanks again for your kind inputs 🙂

The max i can get from all your inputs is - "Let her be on her own".

Earlier I was totally chilled and very easy going in the beginning of the relationship even if i was very much attracted to her and unbelievably that moment she was all over me. Infact, at that moment i didn't wanted any thing serious with her and used to push her off little bit.

But as time passed, man i started getting serious and fell hard. And all of a sudden, all my scorp traits started to show up. But i kept it cool until she ignored to me that extent that i couldn't take it anymore.

But now i have to go back to start i guess.

But just tell me how to get those love feelings back in her like before? She sounds totally off and cold now.
Please give me some nice effective tips.

I'm just too determined to get her back and i won't give up. 🙂

It will take time. Just focus on yourself for now. Love on yourself. Spend time with people who aren't ignoring you. Be friendly towards her if you see her. Don't try to contact her but if she calls don't try to talk about what happened, just treat her like a friend. There is so much out there to do in this world, so go pick up a hobby, go workout, go volunteer. You may feel bad, but there is somebody in the world that needs your encouragement.

I'm a Virgo, but having a Scorp moon I feel Scorpy most days. I can identify with feeling intensely, I know that Pisces like being protected and possessed to a point. Otherwise they think you don't care. But when they need space you have to give it because they will go anyways. It is not totally you so don't go beating yourself up, because she has a part in this too. If someone ignores you, you don't intensify your hold on them. You let them go. There should not be reward for that kind of behavior. Even if it's your fault, you should still walk away and give them space to think and it also gives you space to think also. Don't use it on how you are going to get them back, use it on bettering yourself.

Love is a two way street and when someone acts like they don't love you anymore you need to pull back a bit and just observe what is going on. Not answering phone calls or not calling is a sign that you need to let people go. You deserve the love you give and when someone decides your love is not for them you have to let them go. It hurts but you have to have respect for yourself because if you don't no one else will either.

You have to have some standards for yourself and other people.