Pisces sun people of DXP-Do you guys generally have issues with schedules/precision?

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My Pisces friend is great. Beautiful soul, humanitarian, aesthetically pleasing. But she's always had issues with being prompt and generally not realizing she's overbooked her schedule until it hits her she can't do everything that she agreed to do. I don't think she keeps it good in her head and I know she doesn't use a planner lol.

So just curious. Is this a common theme for you all?
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It's adorable reading a Capricorn making fun of someone for not using a planner like it's the biggest burn in the book haha.

I actually don't use a planner, but, I'm able to keep a complete schedule in my head, and know "oh, I can't do X and therefore can't commit to it because I've already scheduled Y and Z." One of the worst things for me is overbooking things, and I never let that happen haha.

I really like Piscean people. I think it's a great combo, Cap and Pisces. Sometimes though, even past one I know and have interest in, many of you I've come across in my personal life just seem a little scattered and overcommit to things? It's kinda adorable tbh.
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It's adorable reading a Capricorn making fun of someone for not using a planner like it's the biggest burn in the book haha.

I actually don't use a planner, but, I'm able to keep a complete schedule in my head, and know "oh, I can't do X and therefore can't commit to it because I've already scheduled Y and Z."

I really like Piscean people. Sometimes though, even past one I know and have interest in, many of you just seem scattered and overcommit to things?

I am a Cancer sorry. I am opposite of Capricorns, I just thought you making fun of her was endearing and funny.

I don't know anything about your friend but it sounds like she has enough going for her despite of that.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.
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My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.
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Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.
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Exactly lol. Remember Pisces women are usually submissive, so assertive men are a huge turn on.

My friend loves being put in her place when she’s out of line. In a respectful manner, of course.

Should work out fine.
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Exactly lol. Remember Pisces women are usually submissive, so assertive men are a huge turn on.

My friend loves being put in her place when she’s out of line. I’m a respectful manner, of course.

Should work out fine.

My Pisces girlfriend wanted me to read some book about being submissive for men, I told her I was gonna pass on that one, but thanks for thinking of me xD
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Probably a mutable sign thing. I like traditional gender roles. I’m aggressive and assertive but appreciate a dominant man.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.
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Please disregard great deal of misinformation pertaining Pisces women! Mark my words, aggressive approach/individuals is/are frowned upon, however, assertive is greatly appreciated and a seemingly a dying art!



This perpetuated misconception how we are submissive/follower types is hilarious! We are capable of letting a lot of crap slide but that hardly equates to being submissive. We are water after all and we will carve our own way... one way or another!

Setting a plan in motion as you’ve already planned is a clever strategic move, but do have a plan B in place should she bail out again. Personally, I don’t have a particularly enthusiastic feel about the situation but I am a skeptic by nature. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good luck though and report back! We need the stats....
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.

Please disregard great deal of misinformation pertaining Pisces women! Mark my words, aggressive approach/individuals is/are frowned upon, however, assertive is greatly appreciated and a seemingly a dying art!



This perpetuated misconception how we are submissive/follower types is hilarious! We are capable of letting a lot of crap slide but that hardly equates to being submissive. We are water after all and we will carve our own way... one way or another!

Setting a plan in motion as you’ve already planned is a clever strategic move, but do have a plan B in place should she bail out again. Personally, I don’t have a particularly enthusiastic feel about the situation but I am a skeptic by nature. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good luck though and report back! We need the stats....
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Update: Looks like she wants to hang out Thursday night! She's been in town for a bit before she goes back to school, but she's been hit with some bad health complications that left her kind of bedridden until now. I've got an idea on what I want to do with her but the thing I want to do isn't open for too long after work.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.

Please disregard great deal of misinformation pertaining Pisces women! Mark my words, aggressive approach/individuals is/are frowned upon, however, assertive is greatly appreciated and a seemingly a dying art!



This perpetuated misconception how we are submissive/follower types is hilarious! We are capable of letting a lot of crap slide but that hardly equates to being submissive. We are water after all and we will carve our own way... one way or another!

Setting a plan in motion as you’ve already planned is a clever strategic move, but do have a plan B in place should she bail out again. Personally, I don’t have a particularly enthusiastic feel about the situation but I am a skeptic by nature. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good luck though and report back! We need the stats....
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Well, we hung out for a few hrs tonight. We made candles and grabbed some pizza. She was ENAMORED with the candle making, was at home in such an environment as she never did it before. After pizza, I kissed her goodnight. She thanked me immensely for tonight, kept on saying during our date how I am such a good guy and said that I should come see her in NY soon...or even book a flight to Jamaica to join her when she goes out there for a weekend in late February.

She's awesome and I think she's into me (didn't stray away from the kiss and leaned in), but I also get slight friend vibes. So I don't know. Her texting a yellow heart means she feels me more as a friend, right? I'm bad with all these meanings and shit but I feel that's what it means. Whatever happens or doesn't, I'm good. Made my move and laid out the cards.

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I do find scheduling a problem but thanks to technology I can organize my life in a perfect manner. However, calendars and I are not in good terms. I would rather a good memory especially dates. I do love to plan for events, businesses, personal treats etc but following up on those plans is what troubles me.

We are opposites of Virgo who are actually very good at this kind of stuff. I hope this explains. That's why careers in planing don't appeal to us, we would rather go with the non planing stuff like Art, Music and other creative careers. These let us use our intuition rather than historic events.
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.

Please disregard great deal of misinformation pertaining Pisces women! Mark my words, aggressive approach/individuals is/are frowned upon, however, assertive is greatly appreciated and a seemingly a dying art!



This perpetuated misconception how we are submissive/follower types is hilarious! We are capable of letting a lot of crap slide but that hardly equates to being submissive. We are water after all and we will carve our own way... one way or another!

Setting a plan in motion as you’ve already planned is a clever strategic move, but do have a plan B in place should she bail out again. Personally, I don’t have a particularly enthusiastic feel about the situation but I am a skeptic by nature. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good luck though and report back! We need the stats....

Well, we hung out for a few hrs tonight. We made candles and grabbed some pizza. She was ENAMORED with the candle making, was at home in such an environment as she never did it before. After pizza, I kissed her goodnight. She thanked me immensely for tonight, kept on saying during our date how I am such a good guy and said that I should come see her in NY soon...or even book a flight to Jamaica to join her when she goes out there for a weekend in late February.

She's awesome and I think she's into me (didn't stray away from the kiss and leaned in), but I also get slight friend vibes. So I don't know. Her texting a yellow heart means she feels me more as a friend, right? I'm bad with all these meanings and shit but I feel that's what it means. Whatever happens or doesn't, I'm good. Made my move and laid out the cards.

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Before I remark on your update, I have to say I chuckled heartily to myself as this thread completely slipped my mind given the length of time it passed since you made the thread. BUT, leave it to the cap to remember it and come back to where he/she left of like no time passed at all! 🙂

Baring my last comment in mind, I am very pleased to hear about the events unfolding as they have. I’m hesitant to speak in general, but I do find that timing is vital to us Pisces, and when “that” moment passes, there is no recapturing/reviewing it again...or very rarely at least. In other words, you’ve must have done more than just...something... right!

That said, I wouldn’t put too much stock into emojis even though it’s very tempting to dissect things/words/actions of those whom we are attracted to.

So far, judging by your description, things sound promising overall and with that, I’d suggests you do not concern yourself too much with the “friends” vibe. Personally, I find having a friend in a partner is essential to the success of a relationship. However that is not to be confused with being romantically attached to male friend(s).... although I’m sure folks traveled down that road too.

Long story short, maintain the course! Steady on! If you think you could join her on the vacation (which I think is a rather clear and concise indicator she vibes you), take her up on. Maintain the consistency even if she herself tends to be inconsistent. We lap that ishh up even if we don’t admit it!

Thank for the update. And safe travels should you decide to take her up on the invitation.

P.S. not to suggest you yourself lack spontaneity, but sometimes loosening up and just going with the flow, can go a long way with Pisces.

Best wishes! 🙂
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Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already 😄

Well we're actually in different states right now but she visited mine for a few days and wanted to hang Wed (we had hung out before this a few times). But, she ended up getting tied up with other things she overbooked, and then we tried for Friday. But, she came down with the flu and unfortunately she had to bail the afternoon of. She went back to her state Sun.

I'd normally write it off and forget about her, but she apologized profusely over text about how she's a horrible planner and was really looking forward to hanging out. She's invited me to her state in the near future to see New York and take in a few drinks and a show before the year's out---she even said "my love language is drinks and a show."I need a hardcore date though because I ain't driving from the Midwest to NYC lol. Maybe I'll suggest one and be the Capricorn-like architect and look for an interesting Broadway show or something.

So not putting a ton of weight into this but I don't think she'd text a four paragraph long apology for her inability to see me if she wasn't sorry.

My friends love language is gifts too.

You will need to make the date and be a Forward/Aggressive Man. Pisces women like men who lead. So let her know what dates you have available and stick to your plans.

My friend will friend zone indecisive guys in a heartbeat.

They are kind of indecisive which is why they need a man who lets them know what’s going on.

Yeah I don't like texting just to text tho. I rarely text her and she rarely texts me outside of happy bday or happy (insert holiday). I think what I'm gonna do over the next few weeks is look at some shows in NYC around late Nov./Dec (cause you know, Holidays lol) and see if I can buy something and get a plane ticket if she's got a date she can do. She's in grad school too, and she may need a breather around this time.

So basically, I gotta be the Cardinal Capricorn lmao and her mutable behind will follow me.

Please disregard great deal of misinformation pertaining Pisces women! Mark my words, aggressive approach/individuals is/are frowned upon, however, assertive is greatly appreciated and a seemingly a dying art!



This perpetuated misconception how we are submissive/follower types is hilarious! We are capable of letting a lot of crap slide but that hardly equates to being submissive. We are water after all and we will carve our own way... one way or another!

Setting a plan in motion as you’ve already planned is a clever strategic move, but do have a plan B in place should she bail out again. Personally, I don’t have a particularly enthusiastic feel about the situation but I am a skeptic by nature. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good luck though and report back! We need the stats....

Well, we hung out for a few hrs tonight. We made candles and grabbed some pizza. She was ENAMORED with the candle making, was at home in such an environment as she never did it before. After pizza, I kissed her goodnight. She thanked me immensely for tonight, kept on saying during our date how I am such a good guy and said that I should come see her in NY soon...or even book a flight to Jamaica to join her when she goes out there for a weekend in late February.

She's awesome and I think she's into me (didn't stray away from the kiss and leaned in), but I also get slight friend vibes. So I don't know. Her texting a yellow heart means she feels me more as a friend, right? I'm bad with all these meanings and shit but I feel that's what it means. Whatever happens or doesn't, I'm good. Made my move and laid out the cards.

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Before I remark on your update, I have to say I chuckled heartily to myself as this thread completely slipped my mind given the length of time it passed since you made the thread. BUT, leave it to the cap to remember it and come back to where he/she left of like no time passed at all! 🙂

Baring my last comment in mind, I am very pleased to hear about the events unfolding as they have. I’m hesitant to speak in general, but I do find that timing is vital to us Pisces, and when “that” moment passes, there is no recapturing/reviewing it again...or very rarely at least. In other words, you’ve must have done more than just...something... right!

That said, I wouldn’t put too much stock into emojis even though it’s very tempting to dissect things/words/actions of those whom we are attracted to.

So far, judging by your description, things sound promising overall and with that, I’d suggests you do not concern yourself too much with the “friends” vibe. Personally, I find having a friend in a partner is essential to the success of a relationship. However that is not to be confused with being romantically attached to male friend(s).... although I’m sure folks traveled down that road too.

Long story short, maintain the course! Steady on! If you think you could join her on the vacation (which I think is a rather clear and concise indicator she vibes you), take her up on. Maintain the consistency even if she herself tends to be inconsistent. We lap that ishh up even if we don’t admit it!

Thank for the update. And safe travels should you decide to take her up on the invitation.

P.S. not to suggest you yourself lack spontaneity, but sometimes loosening up and just going with the flow, can go a long way with Pisces.

Best wishes! 🙂
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Thanks. Ultimately, I want a friend, too. Venus in Aquarius here, retrograde. Not sure if I'll have my passport in time to join her, but I definitely will see her in NY if she'll have me. I let her know that I'm always there for her as she embarks on new journeys too upon graduation soon. And I mean that, I just want her to be happy whether with me or others. I don't think she's in a position to commit, and really, neither am I. But in a way, I do feel she's a soulmate of mine. God, I find her energy sexy and appealing.
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And I mean that, I just want her to be happy whether with me or others. I don't think she's in a position to commit, and really, neither am I. But in a way, I do feel she's a soulmate of mine. God, I find her energy sexy and appealing.
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I feel the same about a Cap. Nothing comes close to Cap energy to this Pisces....add an Aqua Venus and It's pure bliss 🙂

Good luck to you!
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And I mean that, I just want her to be happy whether with me or others. I don't think she's in a position to commit, and really, neither am I. But in a way, I do feel she's a soulmate of mine. God, I find her energy sexy and appealing.

I feel the same about a Cap. Nothing comes close to Cap energy to this Pisces....add an Aqua Venus and It's pure bliss 🙂

Good luck to you!
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Much appreciated. Really feel the sextile between Cap and Pisces is so amazing. Most of you all are so empathetic, warm, and ethereal, us so stable and resolute.
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Probably my last update in this thread, but she did wish me a very detailed and personalized Happy Birthday message on Tuesday. Keeps on calling me a great guy, said she's thinking of me while cheersing in my honor.

Neither of us like to text, and we broached this subject when we were hanging out. She said that was one of her resolutions to get better at, but I personally only like to text her when I'm solidifying plans. The next time I text her, it'll be to make sure she's around before I buy a plane ticket to see her. Most everyone ITT has seemed to suggest that Pisces people and women like a man who can take charge. She even said something to the effect of "sometimes I just need someone who says I'm here." She's very go with the flow. I'll continue to presume she's interested until she's not.
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It's adorable reading a Capricorn making fun of someone for not using a planner like it's the biggest burn in the book haha.

I actually don't use a planner, but, I'm able to keep a complete schedule in my head, and know "oh, I can't do X and therefore can't commit to it because I've already scheduled Y and Z." One of the worst things for me is overbooking things, and I never let that happen haha.

I really like Piscean people. I think it's a great combo, Cap and Pisces. Sometimes though, even past one I know and have interest in, many of you I've come across in my personal life just seem a little scattered and overcommit to things? It's kinda adorable tbh.
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I have a bad habit in overcommitting

You’re not wrong!

My best friend and sister who are both Capricorn’s can attest to this haha