Pisces Swam Back

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by justSophs on Thursday, November 10, 2011 and has 46 replies.
So if you view my previous post just below this. You would know there is a Pisces that I went on one date with, made more plans, but I cancelled so I ignored him.
He texted me today out of no where, saying sweet nothings, basically saying he is sorry.
I dont get this?
No I like him.
We talked about some stuff and it it opened me up a bit.
I am not playing with him.
I believe she cancelled... aren't you talking to someone else now?
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
It's not like you want the guy. Tell me why you are so interested in knowing this. Is this gratifying to you? Guys want what they can't have. What's to know!
Stop toying with him by making plans and breaking plans just to ignore him when he wants to find out why. Stop answering his calls and getting annoyed that he called you in the first place. These are humans that you are dealing with. Get over yourself and stop stringing people along.


Yes, I agree.
I maintain a deep sense of contempt for others who mistreat human beings for no reason.
I have to re-read the first post because I'm seeing this situation the same way you are H (intriged I don't know how you feel about me posting your real name so I'll leave it be and call you H on the boards, if your ok with that hun) and Scorpiofish. But my fish senses are picking up that she's talking to him for self preservation of her ego.
I have to re-read her post.
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
H is fine. We all know what's going on here. Ego boosting is right. I'm gonna ask here the same question I asked in the
Pisces men 101 topic because it was a game to her too. What will you do with yourself once your vagina dries up?


Okay H it is hun!
Hmm the answer to your question H is elementary my dear Watson... buy KY! =D
"But Ive never been into Pisces guys like that, they have always landed in the friend zone. I had one obsessed over me i had to stop chilling with him bc it became too weird.
And the 1 who text me randomly, I am way over him.
I think that they just have some issues that I dont care to champion. They irritate me these Pisces male. Honestly I just have control issues thats why I am upset he didnt answer my text but I am already over it, I am sooo into this Capricorn.
LOL urrrgggh, I want the upper hand back badly, thats all."
I need not to read any further. I got my answer... JustSophs all I can say is KARMA hun... it's a bitch.
pfff figures... cancers you guys are manipulative... no offense H.
lol PRAISE
deal
Posted by DeadRingerr
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Posted by DeadRingerr
They need space to mull things over....once they do, they can be quite accomodating. A worth the trouble kind of a manWinking



I hear that. I know I'm not giving up...I don't care how weak it makes me look. He'll deserve my treatment though as it will be kind and nurturing. I don't play games, I'm totally upfront about my feelings, and yes they can be intense.

Dont be to direct...let him lead...hes not intense just always testing the waters, always wanting re-assurance, they fear rejection. They will always test you though...
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What do you mean by testing... please elaborate
Well I'm not dating a pisces I am a pisces I just wanted to know in general. I see that on the time on websites... pretty much all signs like to test their partners but they never elaborate and that is frustrating to me since I have Virgo in my chart.
I just wanted to pick your brain.... especially if you can drop some knowledge about Aqua's =P freaking aquas man... lord
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Posted by tbird
Well I'm not dating a pisces I am a pisces I just wanted to know in general. I see that on the time on websites... pretty much all signs like to test their partners but they never elaborate and that is frustrating to me since I have Virgo in my chart.
I just wanted to pick your brain.... especially if you can drop some knowledge about Aqua's =P freaking aquas man... lord

I have four Virgo placements my dear....Pisces seem to do it on a daily basis....not sure why that is. Never cheated on him dont really go on FB, actually he has many female friends, so I should be the one to question, yet I don't, cus I know he would never cheat on me. Unspoken truth is how they live.
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unspoken truth yes, I do agree with this...so does the incinuate that you cheat? I have 3 placements on Virgo in my chart.
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Well I'm not dating a pisces I am a pisces I just wanted to know in general. I see that on the time on websites... pretty much all signs like to test their partners but they never elaborate and that is frustrating to me since I have Virgo in my chart.
I just wanted to pick your brain.... especially if you can drop some knowledge about Aqua's =P freaking aquas man... lord

I have four Virgo placements my dear....Pisces seem to do it on a daily basis....not sure why that is. Never cheated on him dont really go on FB, actually he has many female friends, so I should be the one to question, yet I don't, cus I know he would never cheat on me. Unspoken truth is how they live.


unspoken truth yes, I do agree with this...so does the incinuate that you cheat? I have 3 placements on Virgo in my chart.

CAN I ASK YOU WHERE DID U GET CHEATING OUT OF THIS WHOLE CONVERSATION? FEMALE FRIENDS MAYBE? THATS HIS CHOICE I DONT DISTRUST HIM ON ANY LEVEL,THATS JUST WHO HE WAS WHEN I MET HIM, I TEND TO NOT HAVE MALE FRIENDS.
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WOW!!! just a question based on this... Pisces seem to do it on a daily basis....not sure why that is. Never cheated on him dont really go on FB, actually he has many female friends, so I should be the one to question, yet I don't, cus I know he would never cheat on me.
You brought up infidelity I did not... hence my question of does he question if your faithful or not. I NEVER once stated oh you cheated or he did. So you yelling at me for asking a question is a bit on the ridiculous side. If such a topic is so delicate to your senses that you should feel the need to yell then maybe you should not be the one to put out such a topic to begin with so questions would not be asked regarding such delicate topics. As you may noticed I only asked after you had presented it. So... yeah.
If one asks a question of how a pisces tests their mates and you bring up I never cheated and he has many g/f's and I don't question his faithfulness one will question if a pisces tests their mates by inquiring if their partner is faithful.
That is a natural question, I don't understand how your panties got in a twist when you presented this information while we discussing a certain subject.
For instance if I a subject involves lets say drug use and you throw out there about a situation between you and your mate a natural question for one to ask is... who uses drugs. You cannot get upset at this natural questions since you were the person who inputted this information into that topic as if it was not related. If you do not want to draw conclusions that what you are stating is referring to the topic at hand you may want to put as a sidebar or I digressed or this is off topic into the sentence and if you do not the only person you should be upset with is yourself for throwing that information into the conversation without clarification.
If I deserve to get yelled at fine go ahead I have it coming, but for you to yell at me at this point for asking a simple question is just...well simple. Sorry I can't find another word that isn't offensive at this time.
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
Yeah. I believe they are faithful but the minute you let your guard down, they can become bored...it's always important to be award and keep steering him in your direction so he's not to become distracted.


oh gawd if you have to do this...you're wasting your time with the wrong man...If a Pisces [read MAN/WOMAN] cheats it's because they have low morals and are slugs...
It's a full moon
well as a pisces female I have loads of male friends more so than female. I would never go there with them... maybe it's because of my friendliness that I attract men as friends and not so much than women... they find me threatening. They hold on closer to their men when I'm around... funny thing is I'm not even looking at their man. I'm doing me... plus messing with a man who is already attached it a huge no, no.
I was just wondering from other signs perspective how do pisces test mates, due to being a pisces it's second nature or I wouldn't consider it to be testing I would consider it being my normal inquisitive self.
As such I read the pisces in love thread (not too sure about the post name)I didn't notice that I'm falling for the Aqua (by their definition, which does ring true) because I try to be ambivalent to the situation... but atlas I am not. Which is starting to bother me and I want to withdraw and become more aloof, to guard myself.
On a side note deadringerr you don't have to leave the post. Minor miscommunication... no harm, no foul, I'm good.
Posted by tbird
well as a pisces female I have loads of male friends more so than female. I would never go there with them... maybe it's because of my friendliness that I attract men as friends and not so much than women... they find me threatening. They hold on closer to their men when I'm around... funny thing is I'm not even looking at their man. I'm doing me... plus messing with a man who is already attached it a huge no, no.
On a side note deadringerr you don't have to leave the post. Minor miscommunication... no harm, no foul, I'm good.



same here I have male friends and only one female friend ...get along better with males...no gossip crap and drama...
Anyway...I have never cheated and never will...If I don't think it is working the last thing on my mind is cheating it is not even in my vocabulary...If I don't feel it's working I will end it...
There are plenty of my male friends that have been too friendly and I make sure they know I am taken...I even show this on fb I want the world to know I'm taken...doesn't stop guys from coming out of the woodwork...but they could be stark naked and I wouldn't blink an eye...why ? cause It would disgust me...my loyalty is with my man...I want the bond of one man not the thrill of many...
Too many people think Pisces cheat...when in reality it's slugs that cheat...it pisses me off that we get painted by the infidelity brush...just because someone happened to pick a shit partner LOL
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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
Tbird...you've got mail.

THANK YOU T-BIRD YOU WERE AMAZINGWinking
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Your welcome hun and you were too... I appreciate the info and letting me pick your brain smile
maybe the short answers are apart of your Aqua placements... straight and to the point.
Just the facts ma' am
Posted by Nights22
Posted by tbird
maybe the short answers are apart of your Aqua placements... straight and to the point.
Just the facts ma' am


Yeah probably. Tho my short answers here were just to agree and disagree and also to be to lazy to write a counterpoint. lolz.
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lol nights... always so calm are you sure your a fish?!!
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maybe the short answers are apart of your Aqua placements... straight and to the point.
Just the facts ma' am


Yeah probably. Tho my short answers here were just to agree and disagree and also to be to lazy to write a counterpoint. lolz.


lol nights... always so calm are you sure your a fish?!!


well i was not so calm arguing on the misc. board yesterday. haha. But Yeah I am mostly earth so perhaps it grounds me a bit.
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what was the topic that got you upset? Or was it the comment?
well from what I understand your moon sign is what others perceive you by... especially when they first meet you that is your mask... if you will
but at your core your the sun sign...the other placements like love and stuff like that are effected by your venus and so forth.

correct me if I'm wrong... I'm not an expert, nor do I claim to be
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
"I blamed the moon! lol". As is tbird tonight.


Amen! Full moons effect the oceans tide... us pisces are driven by neptune and neptune has waters... so yeah full moons will effect a pisces tide of water.
Freaking moon! I used to watch ER when I was younger and when sexy George Clooney was on it anyways I digressed but their full moon episodes were crazy and I thought they were over dramatizing it...they are not. I worked in a hospital... not the clinical side but I was fully aware that full moons bring out the crazy in people. So best not to go out to clubs this weekend I'm sure beer bottles will be forcefully applied to someone's head tonight.
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"I blamed the moon! lol". As is tbird tonight.


Amen! Full moons effect the oceans tide... us pisces are driven by neptune and neptune has waters... so yeah full moons will effect a pisces tide of water.
Freaking moon! I used to watch ER when I was younger and when sexy George Clooney was on it anyways I digressed but their full moon episodes were crazy and I thought they were over dramatizing it...they are not. I worked in a hospital... not the clinical side but I was fully aware that full moons bring out the crazy in people. So best not to go out to clubs this weekend I'm sure beer bottles will be forcefully applied to someone's head tonight.


too bad I work in one! bahaha. Off tonight tho.
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da dun dummmmm
wear a helmet and a kavlar vest my dear... going to be some drama
That's just a synopsis of all of the websites I'd read from, which is loads.
moon represents your emotions...rising sign is the mask or how you first come across to others...
I have a Cap moon I am not a fricken Cap hahaha...hell no !!
anyway here is the example to moon signs
http://www.moonconnection.com/astrological_moon_signs.phtml

So my cap moon says "Those under the moon sign of Capricorn tend to control emotions. They tend to keep their feelings to themselves, making this the most complicated sign of all."
yes I keep my feelings to myself sometimes otherwise the rising sag comes out and tells it like it is...blunt...
But I reckon having a water Sun Sign washes over all of the other signs in our chart...the emotions from being a water sign is so much stronger...the Cap moon hardly grounds me...should have seen my emotions after I had a breakup haha...grounded pfft lmao
Posted by piranhaparadiise
moon represents your emotions...rising sign is the mask or how you first come across to others...
I have a Cap moon I am not a fricken Cap hahaha...hell no !!
anyway here is the example to moon signs
http://www.moonconnection.com/astrological_moon_signs.phtml

So my cap moon says "Those under the moon sign of Capricorn tend to control emotions. They tend to keep their feelings to themselves, making this the most complicated sign of all."
yes I keep my feelings to myself sometimes otherwise the rising sag comes out and tells it like it is...blunt...
But I reckon having a water Sun Sign washes over all of the other signs in our chart...the emotions from being a water sign is so much stronger...the Cap moon hardly grounds me...should have seen my emotions after I had a breakup haha...grounded pfft lmao



ahh thank you *bows* goddess of wisdom
Umm I have noticed that we have completely taken over and changed the topic of this thread from the original post, but I think we are all in agreement with that one.
H... I sent you a message... I need your help luv
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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
Yeah. I believe they are faithful but the minute you let your guard down, they can become bored...it's always important to be award and keep steering him in your direction so he's not to become distracted.


oh gawd if you have to do this...you're wasting your time with the wrong man...If a Pisces [read MAN/WOMAN] cheats it's because they have low morals and are slugs...

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I heart you PP!
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
moon represents your emotions...rising sign is the mask or how you first come across to others...
I have a Cap moon I am not a fricken Cap hahaha...hell no !!
anyway here is the example to moon signs
http://www.moonconnection.com/astrological_moon_signs.phtml

So my cap moon says "Those under the moon sign of Capricorn tend to control emotions. They tend to keep their feelings to themselves, making this the most complicated sign of all."
yes I keep my feelings to myself sometimes otherwise the rising sag comes out and tells it like it is...blunt...
But I reckon having a water Sun Sign washes over all of the other signs in our chart...the emotions from being a water sign is so much stronger...the Cap moon hardly grounds me...should have seen my emotions after I had a breakup haha...grounded pfft lmao



ahh thank you *bows* goddess of wisdom
Umm I have noticed that we have completely taken over and changed the topic of this thread from the original post, but I think we are all in agreement with that one.



Because the original post isn't worth a lick.
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bahahaha... H your awesome!
OK calm down people, I am not planning to rob or kill this guy.
When he stop responding to me I realized that I am interested in him but feared rejection. Yes I am talking to another guy who is an Aqua but i havent committed to anyone, they both know they arent the only ones.
I cancelled, like is aid before, because I was sick and got laid of the day before, pretty depression and embarrassing for me.
Anyways, I am going on a date with him tonight, only the second date, and I shall see how it goes.
I havent read this whole post, but I am guessing it has nothing to do with me now. LOL. I am not a bad person and I wont string this guy along or treat him like crap. so please relax.
like I said *
Just- yeah after the first page I think he got off a topic and have stayed off topic.
I will align myself with intrigued whom I will call H not because she is my friend but she has a valid point. Pisces don't want to come in 3rd, 4th or 2nd we want first. If he's into you and your still like but the Aqua forget about it and not only that you will hurt him which in a way is killing him since fishes are pretty much ball of emotions. By your older posts you presented that you just want the upper hand and fishes aren't what you personally want. It just seems like now he is giving you attention you want to soak it all up, inflate your ego, know that he wants you and then your golden. Which is a game.
Cancers can manipulate... that's just how you guys are... use it for good or bad... your using it for bad. If your a monkey too jeez your manipulation powers increase seven fold.
This is a man who has amazing and awe inspiring feelings... please don't use him as a air pump that is connected to your ego. The reason why a lot of fishes/cancers are saying leave him alone is because there is a reason you WILL hurt this man if you carry on. Leave him be. You even said yourself that you have no patience for fishes... so don't even do there, because in the end he is a fish.
Dammm intriguedbypiscesman.....you are really going in,, youre really passionate about MY life.
I mean it doesnt matter what you think i know my intentions and your opinion doesnt really matter.
I really like him, end of story, i am going on my date, I am probably gonna suck face with him, and enjoy it! And I do home I get a little bit of my slime on him too.
hope*
@Nights22 its not a matter of games, its more out of being scared of getting hurt.
I have been there, were I've jumped all in, head first with tunnel vision, not seeing whats else out there and have gotten hurt, badly.
I am concentrating on ME and my needs and not fulfilling them for others, I have to go at my pace. I have been on 1 date with each guy, no hugging no kissing, just a few drinks and conversation. I am not walking down the altar, they both know I am dating other men.
I am not sprung or committed after 1 date. I been there and got hurt tremendously before, I am not gonna be no ones fool again.
intriguedpiscesman ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ.

Why even comment? lol youre ridic.
LOL again caring about my life way too much, why comment?
Shouldn't you be taking that stick out your anus or is that your face? cant tell the 2 apart?
@ Nights I liked him before that but , he just texted me Hey Sexy ready for our date?.....I am sure that got Intrigued all rattled up....lol.
Ok I am scum, human garbage, the devil, a sack of shit, and all that good shit, got it Intrigued, and please comment as much as you want, par for the course my dear.

Oh thank goodness, I am soooooo relived.
Didnt want you to get your panties in a bunch over little ole me.
Alright... so Just you think your intentions are pure as the white driven snow when you clearly stated you don't care and ONLY want the upper hand. Now that your being called on that comment you don't take that too kindly. Okay duly noted.
Alright with on-line postings your going to get people who understand and agree with you or there will be others whom don't see the situation as you. Hence this post... you have more nay sayers than people saying go for it.
Take it or leave it as you will. Apparently you saying to hell with all of you I'm going to do me... which we all knew to begin with so that is why we moved off to another topic. So yeah no one is making you or forcing you to do anything. It's your own life go live it... just don't be surprised when things don't end how you would prefer them too.
Honestly I think your full of it. Not to start anything but I do...my fishes instincts are saying so and those babies are always right. You can question them all you want but they kept me alive on more than one occasion so I really don't care what you or others think of such matters.
So do you... use a condom and break the poor guys heart just don't be surprised when you meet the man of your dreams and karma steps in and squashes all your hopes, dreams and aspirations in the process. Karma is a very powerful thing my dear. Be prepared to deal with your actions! You maybe able to pull the wool over others eyes, but not in Karma's eyes... it sees you... just like some of us are seeing you now.
Take it or leave it. Honestly I don't think anyone will loose sleep by either choice you make. Cheers.
Look I like the guy and I am going on a date with him....My 2nd date, maybe I will like him more then......my 2nd date, my 2nd date, my 2nd date, i repeat my 2nd date, not down the alter.
We are still getting to know each other. And use a condom, really lol? I haven't even hug the guy...
Your babies? LOL
You guys are really more passionate about this than I am and full of wild fantasies I see.....we are going to dinner and a movie not a motel. I don't fall in love backwards.....I actually exercise prudence and not give guys what they want off the bat. Some of y'all need to try that maybe you wouldn't be so bitter.
We talked a lot about what happened, he apologized for ignoring me, he was just confused and I apologized for confusing him, I was sick and and not sure.
Tbird, you actually seemed like the more rational one till you made that condom comment, jumping the gun I see...and thank you, I happen to think Karma will be favorable on me so no problem there.
I will probably stick to the Cap board, they seem more rational over there.....lol you guys are really emotional and passionate I see.
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Just... you are on the pisces board we are emotional driven.
Actually I'm as prudish than majority of the women out there. I don't spread like peanut butter. I don't know who you are hence the use a condom statement. You could have slept with 50 men before noon you could be a virgin I don't know.
If you can't stand talking to pisces thru an internet site my GOD how can you handle one irl? lol seriously! intrigued is a cancer your sign so... yeah maybe water signs aren't your thing.? Meh
the road paved with the best intentions...

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