Posted by SuperMissMan
I do this if i te a girl. its fun stealing her guy....bt otherwise i woul NVER d that to someone. its absolutley a terrible thing. my own pisces friend ex love like me n he wanted m to try him out but hell no. there are boundries.
Posted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."
amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?
six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.
Posted by 88akka
No, just no.
I would never even try to get in the middle of two people. It is sick to me.
I had this boss who liked me and when he quit the job where I worked, I messaged him for help with my resume and to add him as a contact. He then asked for pictures of myself. I never replied to that request.
I met his wife at a Thanks giving dinner we had at work two years in a row, and looked at her in the eyes. There was no way I would disrespect her like that or disrespect my own self.
For the OP........ Is that a Pisces thing? NO
any person who is trash will do that, it does not matter what sun or moon or placements they have.
Posted by NemiliciousPosted by sw33tartsPosted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."
amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?
six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.
Its not all I look at get to know before you make your judgement especially if its going to be full of insult.
no, but it??s the main thing you??re looking at. from all the people involved in this menage a trois, the pisces chick is least to blame. you ever wonder why she is so obsessed about "stalking" you? it??s cause your guy told her a BS story.
don??t speak of fairness and of me being judgemental when your opening statement is a stereotype par excellence.
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Posted by AL4813
I knew a couple too.. Probably due to their submissive nature and or that they dream and fantasize about a lot of things and like trying to make them come true.
So if they're fantasizing about a friend of theirs boyfriend/husband then they might try and make it happen with some preemptive tactics.
I had a pisces friend and she would always say every one of her married guy friends wanted her. Of course everyone thought she was fucking delusional but whatever.
Posted by NemiliciousPosted by sw33tartsPosted by NemiliciousPosted by sw33tartsPosted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."
amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?
six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.
Its not all I look at get to know before you make your judgement especially if its going to be full of insult.
no, but it??s the main thing you??re looking at. from all the people involved in this menage a trois, the pisces chick is least to blame. you ever wonder why she is so obsessed about "stalking" you? it??s cause your guy told her a BS story.
don??t speak of fairness and of me being judgemental when your opening statement is a stereotype par excellence.
Please re-read the original post.
By the way, nice to meet you I'm not here for your entertainment or for you to follow me from board to board trolling and making up stories in your head about my life.
If you have an objective opinion to this thread topic, please share it.
follow you from board to board. lol. this is the only topic i responded to. my opinions have all been objective and rather illuminating - you choose however to be deflective and defensive .... i read your orginal post btw - which in itself should raise a few eyebrows.
so you??re willing to move in with this cheater bf of yours and out of sheer delusion about your partnershiclick to expand
Posted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?
This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?
They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness
Posted by Magenta_AzurePosted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?
This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?
They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness
Dog.... what the fuck are you talking about? She does have every right to be angry. I don't think anyone here is refuting that. The issue we are having is where she is directing her anger. She wants to make this a PISCES WOMEN thing when this happened with only ONE pisces WOMAN.
And yes actually, HE SHOULD BE SOLELY responsible for this. Do you think OP is sleeping in bed with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP is in a committed relationship with the pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP invested time and energy with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. She is not in a relationship with the Pisces woman. She is in a relationship with the Pisces man.
HE CHOSE to ignore the fact that he was in a relationship. HE CHOSE to be a punk ass bitch and cheat. HE STARTED this mess and deserves the full blame. None of this wouldve happened if HE didn't let it.click to expand
Posted by Damnata
Mental image for all of you...
Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.
Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?
Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?
I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.
I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.
I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.
Seriously.
Posted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?
This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?
They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness
Personally I think she has every right to be angry.
I do think both the Pisces woman and man are to blame. However personally I think she's focussing her anger solely on the lady when at the end of the day her man CHOSE to stray. He's the one that unfaithful.
A lot of times when women get cheated on they aim their anger only towards the other woman.. When it's the man that did not respect the relationship he was in. Hence my comment that it takes two to tango.
I just hope the op can be objective enough to realise that. I've been cheated on myself so I do sympathise.click to expand
Posted by Binota
She created a hate post towards pisces so that everyone jumps into the bandwagon of their troublesome altough she's dealing 1 person.
They are together for 2 freaking years until that pisces buthurted in. But it's the bf responsible if he wants to stay loyalty or not. He's also responsible for protecting her. He's responsible to tell her fuck off.. He didn't.
Especially if that pisces girl is still there in that world that he should tell her to fuck off.
And you are definetily wrong, cheating is a choice and not from personal planets. Everyone can do to overbreak the rules because of their choice.
Either way your defense are quite useless.
Posted by Fire-WaterPosted by Damnata
Mental image for all of you...
Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.
Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?
Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?
I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.
I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.
I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.
Seriously.
Your comparison is so far off, how can you compare a person fucking a dog and a pisces woman? Do you believe they are one in the same?
Cmon please try againclick to expand
Posted by Damnata
*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.
Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.
Posted by DamnataPosted by Fire-WaterPosted by Damnata
Mental image for all of you...
Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.
Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?
Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?
I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.
I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.
I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.
Seriously.
Your comparison is so far off, how can you compare a person fucking a dog and a pisces woman? Do you believe they are one in the same?
Cmon please try again
Yeah, I believe dogs and pisces women are the same thing obviously.
The point is someone who would see the scene unfolding with the dog would not blame the animal, yet they see it unfolding with a human and suddenly that human takes the blame for the act happening.
The act happening..2 participants. One of them is in a relationship with the OP so it's cheating the OP's trust..the other has no ties with the OP.
Why is the OP's focus on the second one? Because it's easier to pretend it's thclick to expand
Posted by Fire-WaterPosted by Damnata
*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.
Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.
It does when she wont go away and i get your point..intially your gonna be more hurt by the betrayal of a loved one.....but you get past it and forgive them generally
But this girl is still attempting to contact the both of them...fake accounts and her friends requesting friendship on facebook, that doesnt creep you out? Wheres the line? at what point should she be mad at this girl?click to expand
Posted by sw33tarts
We were together 2 years long distance ....
during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her.
She promised she would be better than me in many ways
she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me.
she did not keep her promises to be better than me
she cheated on him 3 times
swung at him numerous times
and she was lazy never worked
very depressed all the time.
Posted by DamnataPosted by Fire-WaterPosted by Damnata
*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.
Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.
It does when she wont go away and i get your point..intially your gonna be more hurt by the betrayal of a loved one.....but you get past it and forgive them generally
But this girl is still attempting to contact the both of them...fake accounts and her friends requesting friendship on facebook, that doesnt creep you out? Wheres the line? at what point should she be mad at this girl?
I wouldn't be mad at the girl at all. But I'd notice what my Pisces bf would do. If he wanted to work things out with OP, he would put an end to it and that chick would not dare to contact the OP.
If she keeps on contacting them.. why might that be? Maybe because, obviously, the Pisces dude left the door just slightly ajar on her.
If anything I would be even more mad at the Pisces guy because he got himself involved with a lunatic.
OP's testimony on this chick is very biased......and probably fueled by the cheater "look baby, how insane this chick is acting...i went back to you and she won't let go". In one swift move he puts all the blame on the Pisces chick.
I'd understand the OP if her rage and hurt were directed at both of them but she goes overboard to put the blame on only one party.
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Posted by P-Angel
Being relationship stupid is something I've noticed a lot in Aqua females ..... and it's surprising, considering how much time you all spend in your head.
Maybe it's just random chatter ... come to think of it, Geminis are full of constant chatter in their heads .. so maybe it's an air-thing
thank god for Virgos ... if I had to partner with someone like you, I'd kill myself.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
@fire-water
The op version is obviously not the complete story though, and I am inclined to agree with Damnata and P angel that it does seem like both parties might have been fed different stories, crazy Pisces female or not.
Tbh you seem to go over greater lengths in this thread than most people, including Damnata.
Posted by GobshitePosted by P-Angel
Being relationship stupid is something I've noticed a lot in Aqua females ..... and it's surprising, considering how much time you all spend in your head.
LOL! There is an element of truth in that...
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Posted by P-Angel
I thought you were a Libra, Lisa.
Posted by P-Angel
A person cannot be stolen.
A devoted Fish would die for their partner.
If you aren't experiencing a devoted Fish ... then you never had him.
Posted by bella_fish
I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by bella_fish
I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.
That was out of line on your part ... your only intention was to get him in trouble. Meanwhile, you were completely thoughtless to how you could have hurt her in the process.
I've a feeling you're one of the Bad Fish
Posted by Damnata
Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back.click to expand
Posted by P-AngelPosted by bella_fish
I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.
That was out of line on your part ... your only intention was to get him in trouble. Meanwhile, you were completely thoughtless to how you could have hurt her in the process.
I've a feeling you're one of the Bad Fishclick to expand
Posted by Undine
Bella_Fish....most people would not do that.
You were in the same position before...dating a taken man. Maybe is time to change your dating site to something more serious? The sites that don't charge fees for women are usually hook up sites.
Posted by sw33tarts
I've read that pisces women particularly enjoy married (or taken) men. And I have known a couple of them to have zero hangups with inserting themselves between couples, like man stealers. I wonder if any pisces females could shed light on this for me.