Pisces women: the other woman

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sw33tarts on Sunday, July 12, 2015 and has 60 replies.
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I've read that pisces women particularly enjoy married (or taken) men. And I have known a couple of them to have zero hangups with inserting themselves between couples, like man stealers. I wonder if any pisces females could shed light on this for me.
What exactly is there to shed light on?

You think pisces women are home wreckers.

Join the club.


Most people assume pisces are either disloyal or cheaters in some way.

*Pisces shrug*


If you're looking for some astrological explanation as to why Pisces cheat or get in the way of other peoples relationship, there really isn't one. The decision to cheat is a deeply personal one and while some people might share the same sun sign we are not all the same. Cheating is a reflection of personal integrity and character not an inherent trait of being a Pisces.
I knew a couple too.. Probably due to their submissive nature and or that they dream and fantasize about a lot of things and like trying to make them come true.

So if they're fantasizing about a friend of theirs boyfriend/husband then they might try and make it happen with some preemptive tactics.

I had a pisces friend and she would always say every one of her married guy friends wanted her. Of course everyone thought she was fucking delusional but whatever.
I do this if i te a girl. its fun stealing her guy....bt otherwise i woul NVER d that to someone. its absolutley a terrible thing. my own pisces friend ex love like me n he wanted m to try him out but hell no. there are boundries.
Posted by SuperMissMan
I do this if i te a girl. its fun stealing her guy....bt otherwise i woul NVER d that to someone. its absolutley a terrible thing. my own pisces friend ex love like me n he wanted m to try him out but hell no. there are boundries.

if you "te" a girl. what does te mean?
Posted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."

amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?

six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.



Its not all I look at get to know before you make your judgement especially if its going to be full of insult.
Posted by 88akka
No, just no.

I would never even try to get in the middle of two people. It is sick to me.

I had this boss who liked me and when he quit the job where I worked, I messaged him for help with my resume and to add him as a contact. He then asked for pictures of myself. I never replied to that request.

I met his wife at a Thanks giving dinner we had at work two years in a row, and looked at her in the eyes. There was no way I would disrespect her like that or disrespect my own self.


For the OP........ Is that a Pisces thing? NO

any person who is trash will do that, it does not matter what sun or moon or placements they have.

You have a good point with the trash thing.
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Posted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."

amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?

six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.



Its not all I look at get to know before you make your judgement especially if its going to be full of insult.

no, but it??s the main thing you??re looking at. from all the people involved in this menage a trois, the pisces chick is least to blame. you ever wonder why she is so obsessed about "stalking" you? it??s cause your guy told her a BS story.

don??t speak of fairness and of me being judgemental when your opening statement is a stereotype par excellence.


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Please re-read the original post.
By the way, nice to meet you I'm not here for your entertainment or for you to follow me from board to board trolling and making up stories in your head about my life.

If you have an objective opinion to this thread topic, please share it.
Posted by AL4813
I knew a couple too.. Probably due to their submissive nature and or that they dream and fantasize about a lot of things and like trying to make them come true.

So if they're fantasizing about a friend of theirs boyfriend/husband then they might try and make it happen with some preemptive tactics.

I had a pisces friend and she would always say every one of her married guy friends wanted her. Of course everyone thought she was fucking delusional but whatever.

Lol I wonder if your old friend had some fire/sag placements. I've known many sag girls who things everyone is after them lol smile


I've also noticed an old coworker would swoon mostly over married men. Ironically she was married herself, which confuses me also.
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Posted by Nemilicious
"We were together 2 years long distance, and hit a rough patch, during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her. She promised she would be better than me in many ways, she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me. I eventually accepted this and tried to move on...."

amazing that you are prepared to take the leap and move to him after the shit he pulled. and all you are able to do is look for the fault in this rather unimportant side fuck who happens to be a pisces?

six months top - and you??ll be moving out. hope you have a good back-up plan.
smh.



Its not all I look at get to know before you make your judgement especially if its going to be full of insult.

no, but it??s the main thing you??re looking at. from all the people involved in this menage a trois, the pisces chick is least to blame. you ever wonder why she is so obsessed about "stalking" you? it??s cause your guy told her a BS story.

don??t speak of fairness and of me being judgemental when your opening statement is a stereotype par excellence.



Please re-read the original post.
By the way, nice to meet you I'm not here for your entertainment or for you to follow me from board to board trolling and making up stories in your head about my life.

If you have an objective opinion to this thread topic, please share it.

follow you from board to board. lol. this is the only topic i responded to. my opinions have all been objective and rather illuminating - you choose however to be deflective and defensive .... i read your orginal post btw - which in itself should raise a few eyebrows.

so you??re willing to move in with this cheater bf of yours and out of sheer delusion about your partnershi
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For some reason my post isn't showing text. Anyway as I was trying to say in the last 2 posts.. Thanks for your "help" but I have no need to speak with you further. All the best!
Ive known two pisces women that were like this, pretty shameless in their pursuit of married or otherwise taken men. I never inquired about the reasoning behind it but to each their own.
Ive known two pisces women that were like this, pretty shameless in their pursuit of married or otherwise taken men. I never inquired about the reasoning behind it but to each their own.
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?

This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?

They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness
Posted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?

This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?

They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness

Dog.... what the fuck are you talking about? She does have every right to be angry. I don't think anyone here is refuting that. The issue we are having is where she is directing her anger. She wants to make this a PISCES WOMEN thing when this happened with only ONE pisces WOMAN.

And yes actually, HE SHOULD BE SOLELY responsible for this. Do you think OP is sleeping in bed with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP is in a committed relationship with the pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP invested time and energy with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. She is not in a relationship with the Pisces woman. She is in a relationship with the Pisces man.

HE CHOSE to ignore the fact that he was in a relationship. HE CHOSE to be a punk ass bitch and cheat. HE STARTED this mess and deserves the full blame. None of this wouldve happened if HE didn't let it.
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Posted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?

This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?

They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness

Dog.... what the fuck are you talking about? She does have every right to be angry. I don't think anyone here is refuting that. The issue we are having is where she is directing her anger. She wants to make this a PISCES WOMEN thing when this happened with only ONE pisces WOMAN.

And yes actually, HE SHOULD BE SOLELY responsible for this. Do you think OP is sleeping in bed with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP is in a committed relationship with the pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. Do you think OP invested time and energy with the Pisces woman he cheated on her with? No. She is not in a relationship with the Pisces woman. She is in a relationship with the Pisces man.

HE CHOSE to ignore the fact that he was in a relationship. HE CHOSE to be a punk ass bitch and cheat. HE STARTED this mess and deserves the full blame. None of this wouldve happened if HE didn't let it.
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She direct he anger wherever she likes. This woman isnt innocent and if you were in the same position as her you would be singing a different tune. Its not as if she didnt know he was in a relationship, she did. There are literally billions of people on the planet and she chose to chase after someone who is taken and is continuing to nudge her way back into their life......how fucking annoying is that. Why are defending her behavior? What do you get out of that? She is just as wrong as he is, if not more cause she cant respect the fact that they are working things out.

Not everyone chooses to walk away when there is infidelity in a relationship and they shouldnt be judged for wanting to save what they feel is valuable to them.

She created a post on an astrological site...wouldnt that be the place to connect real world behavior with astrological
Mental image for all of you...

Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.

Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?

Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?

I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.

I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.

I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.

Seriously.

Posted by Damnata
Mental image for all of you...

Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.

Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?

Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?

I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.

I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.

I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.

Seriously.



Your comparison is so far off, how can you compare a person fucking a dog and a pisces woman? Do you believe they are one in the same?

Cmon please try again
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by Fire-Water
You guys are incredible, her boyfriend cheated on her with a woman who made it a point to pursue him and she doesnt have a right to be angry?

This girl is somehow innocent and her boyfriend is solely responsible for this?

They are both at fault and that doesnt include the OP, she was cheated on; last i checked when your cheated on you dont normally get attacked for it...with the exception of this board. This is madness

Personally I think she has every right to be angry.

I do think both the Pisces woman and man are to blame. However personally I think she's focussing her anger solely on the lady when at the end of the day her man CHOSE to stray. He's the one that unfaithful.

A lot of times when women get cheated on they aim their anger only towards the other woman.. When it's the man that did not respect the relationship he was in. Hence my comment that it takes two to tango.

I just hope the op can be objective enough to realise that. I've been cheated on myself so I do sympathise.
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She is angry with the girl because she is still trying to contact her and her boyfriend, which is understandable. I dont believe he got off scott free either, if i were him i would have let go of this relationship not because he was right but because the payback for what he did is coming and it will be when he least expects it.
Posted by Binota
She created a hate post towards pisces so that everyone jumps into the bandwagon of their troublesome altough she's dealing 1 person.

They are together for 2 freaking years until that pisces buthurted in. But it's the bf responsible if he wants to stay loyalty or not. He's also responsible for protecting her. He's responsible to tell her fuck off.. He didn't.

Especially if that pisces girl is still there in that world that he should tell her to fuck off.

And you are definetily wrong, cheating is a choice and not from personal planets. Everyone can do to overbreak the rules because of their choice.


Either way your defense are quite useless.

Your being melodramatic, hate post? Did she call for the extermination of pisces women? No she merely pointed her experience with pisces women, which she has a right to do. You cant determine who she should be mad at, im sure she is angry at both of them but only loves her man. If two people do someting awful to you, the person with more history, the person who has been there for you in tough times would be worthy of forgiveness. This happens every day, men cheat women cheat and couples who have been together for a significant amount of time normally attempt to work it out. Why is that so hard to understand, this isnt a new concept....

That goes for family as well, you tend to give people you care about second chances....sounds pretty normal to me
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Mental image for all of you...

Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.

Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?

Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?

I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.

I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.

I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.

Seriously.



Your comparison is so far off, how can you compare a person fucking a dog and a pisces woman? Do you believe they are one in the same?

Cmon please try again
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Yeah, I believe dogs and pisces women are the same thing obviously.

The point is someone who would see the scene unfolding with the dog would not blame the animal, yet they see it unfolding with a human and suddenly that human takes the blame for the act happening.

The act happening..2 participants. One of them is in a relationship with the OP so it's cheating the OP's trust..the other has no ties with the OP.

Why is the OP's focus on the second one? Because it's easier to pretend it's the third person's fault.

Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...i
*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.

Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.
Just to be clear, I don't think OP is an idiot for taking the man back or anything. It's her call. People work through tough situations all the time.

But to place so much focus and blame on the third party is missing the point.

Posted by Damnata
*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.

Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.

It does when she wont go away and i get your point..intially your gonna be more hurt by the betrayal of a loved one.....but you get past it and forgive them generally

But this girl is still attempting to contact the both of them...fake accounts and her friends requesting friendship on facebook, that doesnt creep you out? Wheres the line? at what point should she be mad at this girl?
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Mental image for all of you...

Say you come home and your catch your partner fucking the family dog.

Is the dog the culprit? Should it be put down? Are you going to yell at the dog for having enticed your partner? Did the dog seduce your partner?

Or are you going to see your partner as a huge fucking creep who gave in to an impulse?

I was cheated on. I didn't go yell at the chick he cheated on me with. She did pursue him while knowing he was in a relationship, however he was the one that broke my trust because the agreement of loyalty was between me and him and not me and her.

I mean, the OP is grasping at straws here. Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back. But you don't make it work by making the third person the absolute villain while he just..was coerced. Did she tie him up? Roofied him? Does the OP truly believe that her boyfriend was incapacitated by this heinous pisces woman, to the point he never had a chance to say no? How does the OP know it wasn't him coming onto the Pisces chick? Why presume that this chick preyed on him, that this chick pursued him? Because every disloyal person won't obviously go "Oh yeah I wanted that pussy/dick", they will all approach it from an angle of the other person chasing them.

I mean..poor Pisces man had no choice, big bad Pisces woman jumped on him.

Seriously.



Your comparison is so far off, how can you compare a person fucking a dog and a pisces woman? Do you believe they are one in the same?

Cmon please try again

Yeah, I believe dogs and pisces women are the same thing obviously.

The point is someone who would see the scene unfolding with the dog would not blame the animal, yet they see it unfolding with a human and suddenly that human takes the blame for the act happening.

The act happening..2 participants. One of them is in a relationship with the OP so it's cheating the OP's trust..the other has no ties with the OP.

Why is the OP's focus on the second one? Because it's easier to pretend it's th
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*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.

Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.

It does when she wont go away and i get your point..intially your gonna be more hurt by the betrayal of a loved one.....but you get past it and forgive them generally

But this girl is still attempting to contact the both of them...fake accounts and her friends requesting friendship on facebook, that doesnt creep you out? Wheres the line? at what point should she be mad at this girl?
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I wouldn't be mad at the girl at all. But I'd notice what my Pisces bf would do. If he wanted to work things out with OP, he would put an end to it and that chick would not dare to contact the OP.

If she keeps on contacting them.. why might that be? Maybe because, obviously, the Pisces dude left the door just slightly ajar on her.

If anything I would be even more mad at the Pisces guy because he got himself involved with a lunatic.

OP's testimony on this chick is very biased......and probably fueled by the cheater "look baby, how insane this chick is acting...i went back to you and she won't let go". In one swift move he puts all the blame on the Pisces chick.

I'd understand the OP if her rage and hurt were directed at both of them but she goes overboard to put the blame on only one party.




Posted by sw33tarts

We were together 2 years long distance ....

during this time lady (pisces) got between us and basically convinced him to leave me for her.

She promised she would be better than me in many ways

she made it really ugly by confronting me herself and basically tore me down with everything he had vented about me.

she did not keep her promises to be better than me

she cheated on him 3 times

swung at him numerous times

and she was lazy never worked

very depressed all the time.



In considering that this is long distance ... the only way this girl knows about you, knows how to contact you - is because he told her.

The only way you know about her not being a good girlfriend to him - is because he told you.

It's obvious that this guy is playing you two against each other. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he is making insinuations to you, to confront her.

He wants to be fought for by the two of you.

this is obvious ... so what's the matter with you in that you are incapable of putting two and two together?

this other chic might not even be someone he slept with .... this might all be orchestrated by the two of them to fuck with you to see just how stupid you really are.
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*Let me try another angle...unless this is an open relationship or has terms in place that allow cheating...it's pretty much an unwritten contract that people owe each other loyalty, right? The 2 people engaging in that asociation, the OP and the Pisces Man.

Third party never "signed" any contract so the aftermath doesn't apply to her at all.

It does when she wont go away and i get your point..intially your gonna be more hurt by the betrayal of a loved one.....but you get past it and forgive them generally

But this girl is still attempting to contact the both of them...fake accounts and her friends requesting friendship on facebook, that doesnt creep you out? Wheres the line? at what point should she be mad at this girl?

I wouldn't be mad at the girl at all. But I'd notice what my Pisces bf would do. If he wanted to work things out with OP, he would put an end to it and that chick would not dare to contact the OP.

If she keeps on contacting them.. why might that be? Maybe because, obviously, the Pisces dude left the door just slightly ajar on her.

If anything I would be even more mad at the Pisces guy because he got himself involved with a lunatic.

OP's testimony on this chick is very biased......and probably fueled by the cheater "look baby, how insane this chick is acting...i went back to you and she won't let go". In one swift move he puts all the blame on the Pisces chick.

I'd understand the OP if her rage and hurt were directed at both of them but she goes overboard to put the blame on only one party.





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Wow...the lengths that you will go to, defies rational

You assume the girl is around because the pisces dude left the door open....not because she is crazy...oh no thats not possible....because she was born somewhere between feb-mar and has a vagina? Now your making up scenarios to purge the pisces woman of accountability

Your stance is ridiculous, this girl is absolutely positively bat shit crazy....her recent actions are overboard

You can only go on what the OP has stated...no one

A person cannot be stolen.

A devoted Fish would die for their partner.

If you aren't experiencing a devoted Fish ... then you never had him.

Since you never had him, and still don't have him ..... he's open to the market.

Try being a grown up and addressing the issues, instead of backpedalling so you can find blame for your own ignorance.
Being relationship stupid is something I've noticed a lot in Aqua females ..... and it's surprising, considering how much time you all spend in your head.

Maybe it's just random chatter ... come to think of it, Geminis are full of constant chatter in their heads .. so maybe it's an air-thing

thank god for Virgos ... if I had to partner with someone like you, I'd kill myself.
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Being relationship stupid is something I've noticed a lot in Aqua females ..... and it's surprising, considering how much time you all spend in your head.

Maybe it's just random chatter ... come to think of it, Geminis are full of constant chatter in their heads .. so maybe it's an air-thing

thank god for Virgos ... if I had to partner with someone like you, I'd kill myself.

well, i wouldn't even partner with her if i were a man myself.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
@fire-water

The op version is obviously not the complete story though, and I am inclined to agree with Damnata and P angel that it does seem like both parties might have been fed different stories, crazy Pisces female or not.

Tbh you seem to go over greater lengths in this thread than most people, including Damnata.

They are defending this girl as if they know her and filling in the unknown parts with their biased opinion....which conveniently places all of the blame on the couple, did she deserve to be cheated on? Is he some kind of master manipulator? If so where is the proof? All we have to go on is that this girl pursued him and is still pursuing him...any other conclusion is being filled based on fantasy cause it isnt indicated anywhere in the posts.

My conclusions from what is included from the OP: Her man cheated: He is wrong period, Pisces Woman: She slept with someones elses BF Wrong

My problem with her is that she wont let go, forget what he is telling her.....she has to know they are together now if not before....she should take a seat, whats so hard to understand about that. How can you defend either of them.

How is she wrong for being cheated on?
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Posted by P-Angel
Being relationship stupid is something I've noticed a lot in Aqua females ..... and it's surprising, considering how much time you all spend in your head.

LOL! There is an element of truth in that...


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har har.

i love being in my head, sometimes.

and i have no problems with having a relationship either, getting one or keeping one.


I thought you were a Libra, Lisa.
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I thought you were a Libra, Lisa.

liar. Tongue

especially since i dont have 7th house,. anyway i'm just teasing.

but some libra suns are really nice people.

Posted by P-Angel
A person cannot be stolen.

A devoted Fish would die for their partner.

If you aren't experiencing a devoted Fish ... then you never had him.

I agree with this. My theory on the issue of extra marital affairs is that affairs are only a symptom of the marriage problem. There is a bigger issue than the woman who came into this three wheel spoke. A) The guy / gal is a sex addict B) The marriage is falling apart before the third person comes into the picture.

I have dated an attached man for a year and a half however I never new he was attached. His mom lived with him and she knew about both of us. The other GF of 3 1/2 years found my number in his phone and that is how we discovered each other. He was an Aries. My heart was broken I really loved him. Sad

I was on a dating site and met this professional cyclist from Columbia. Handsome as can be. After my experience with Aries man I do my homework. Find the cyclist on FB and he has a GF and I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site. She is in love with him and considers him her soul mate and says he is a sex addict and she looks past his transgressions. I of course wished her well and never talked to him again. She was a sweet girl BTW he is an Aries imagine that.

Honestly it is a different world we live in. I cannot even begin to tell you how many "open" relationship situations I have been approached by.

This girl has a Capricorn moon I am as old fashioned as they come.
Posted by bella_fish

I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.





That was out of line on your part ... your only intention was to get him in trouble. Meanwhile, you were completely thoughtless to how you could have hurt her in the process.

I've a feeling you're one of the Bad Fish
I want to thank Fire-Water for seeing the other side of the coin. I could not have made these points better myself. You really understand where I'm coming from with this.

I guess, I can give an update to the situation. I've since blocked her on social media. My boyfriend's family did so as well, by his suggestion, so that I can interact more freely without her interference or prying eyes. I'm letting the whole thing go now, I can't control the actions of others, and I don't want to stay chained to regrettable events forever. For the post, I should have given more background concerning the situation and parties involved but its too sensitive a topic for me to get into and I don't feel it will help me in any way right now to revisit a painful situation that I've decided to move on from. I know that someday, when I'm stronger and more able, I absolutely will reconcile my feelings but right now I'm just not able to. It's a process and I'm just taking it one day at a time trying to do it the best I can.
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by bella_fish

I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.





That was out of line on your part ... your only intention was to get him in trouble. Meanwhile, you were completely thoughtless to how you could have hurt her in the process.

I've a feeling you're one of the Bad Fish

No, it was not out of line... to stay silent is to support the Delusion.



Posted by Damnata
Okay, she wants to make it work with the dude and took him back.
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To be reminded is part of the territory of the decision you* made.

You cannot expect the whole world to comply with keeping your delusion in tact.

Please.



*That's for p-gel... not the op.
"So this brings me to today, I have been receiving unwanted fb requests from her friends recently as she as finally learned that we are back together. I've received a slough of fake profiles trying to add me as well. My intuition says it is her. Supposing I am correct, why is she doing this? And is there anything I can do about this? I've been ignoring the requests and trying to keep our relationship private to shelter it from her. "

^^^^
Are you claiming that she is "the other woman" based on THAT? That you received some friendship requests on FB, from people you don't know?

An Aqua feeling threatened by a friendship request, lol. You do have the imagination of a paranoid, I have to say.

Forget the Pisces, YOU have serious issues.

Going to have a look at the FB profile of my bf's ex, just for fun. She's an Aqua too, lol. If only she knew.......bwahahaha Devil!!!
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by bella_fish

I contact her to let her know her BF was on this ddating site.





That was out of line on your part ... your only intention was to get him in trouble. Meanwhile, you were completely thoughtless to how you could have hurt her in the process.

I've a feeling you're one of the Bad Fish
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My only intention was to not support the behavior. I guess I was thinking of her and put myself in her shoes. I would want to know. As for getting him in trouble I could careless about this selfish person. I was going to block him either way if I contacted her or him.

P-Angel - I guess I believe in karma ....just wanting to make sure my side is balanced.
What is clear is that YOU were the other woman for him, the guy who moved away for several years and started a new relationship over there.

Bella_Fish....most people would not do that.

You were in the same position before...dating a taken man. Maybe is time to change your dating site to something more serious? The sites that don't charge fees for women are usually hook up sites.
Posted by Undine
Bella_Fish....most people would not do that.

You were in the same position before...dating a taken man. Maybe is time to change your dating site to something more serious? The sites that don't charge fees for women are usually hook up sites.


I have not been on a dating site for over a year for that reason. The first experience with Aries #1 left me pretty jaded.

I actually am not even looking. I have really lost faith that their are good men out there. I have enough with my own personal goals and wonderful circle of friends. My career is really on a great track. I am going by old-fashioned chance meeting. I am totally comfortable being single. Of course I would love to meet someone who rocks my world but I am not very optimistic sad to say. Sad I stay plenty busy with my family and career. My kids are my world.

Whether it was wrong or right to contact the other lady I met was a super sweet and awesome girl. Her BF is an idiot!! I am glad I found out before investing time with some selfish jerk.
Bella_Fish....your contact with the "other lady" offers the most plausible explanation of why the Pisces attempted to contact the OP. She probably wanted to tell her the truth....which is most likely quite different from the guy's story.

But Aqua panicked. Some women just don't want to know...want to keep their bubble intact for as long as possible.
Posted by sw33tarts
I've read that pisces women particularly enjoy married (or taken) men. And I have known a couple of them to have zero hangups with inserting themselves between couples, like man stealers. I wonder if any pisces females could shed light on this for me.


They allway drift my way even the married ones...love the fishies!
But I agree eith that licious girl, Im the blame also...
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