Piscies a new thing to me
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by butterkup on Tuesday, January 17, 2012 and has 15 replies.
I have never dated a piscies before and this one is the most complicated one I have met to date. We met a couple of weeks ago and instantly when I entered the room he approached me and we hit it off instantly. After that we spent a lot of time together and dated constantly for about two weeks. every time we went out everyone asked what we were how long we been seeing each other and he always answered we are dating. The next weekend we went away to meet his freinds from many years ago. After I met them he said that i was incredible how well i could fit into any social setting with ease. when we got home I asked for clarification about what we were and he said well " we are freinds with benefits" I said though my interpretation of freinds with benefits is a sexual thing more than a public thing. He said know not at all we are very close and we are everything a girl and boyfreind should be. He said he didnt want to date anyone else but because he worked night shift and that he didnt want to date anyone else but felt if someone could offer me more he wouldnt want to stop that and then said i was awesome we would meet up in a few days since then ive had anything up to 8 hour text conversations with him every day.
It seems to full of contradictions...
Its this the way piscian men are...
Btw im a sagittarian.
It seems to full of contradictions...
Its this the way piscian men are...
Btw im a sagittarian.
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It's clear to me that he is quite into you and knows he wants to see only you. He feels a connection and closeness to you and the fact that he admitted it so soon is good and surprising. Seems as soon as they are asked what they are as far as relationships go, they get spooked and don't want to label it as such. I guess this way when and if things go sour, it's easier for him in the sense that "well, we weren't dating anyway" if he sees someone else that stirs his emotions more than you and sadly, that is what can so easily happen. Right now he is still learning about you and if there is anything that turns him off, especially this early on, he will loose interest....and fast. But what do I know, I'm just a Cancer.
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As far as him making the statement about someone else offering you more...he was probably waiting to see what your reaction was to it....do you want to keep your options open or do you want to tell him you are only interested in him. He may have been testing you, however, he will not put up a fight if you find someone else.
I'm a Pisces.
I generally know when I meet someone whether I would want a relationship with them or not. It doesn't take me long to feel out the vibes and simply.. Know.
If I know I can see myself with someone, I will make any time, and any effort to be close to that person.
Your Pisces may be making excuses in the commitment department because he truly isnt sure if you're his right match.
On the other hand, since it's only been a few weeks, maybe the relationship is moving to fast and he needs time to settle into it. To feel it. If he's spending that time with you, and making effort to converse with you whenever he can, the feelings may really be there. I do know that I don't waste time talking to people I don't really care for. But I take that kinda stuff seriously.. And I don't have any air placements either.
Who fuckin' knows.
I generally know when I meet someone whether I would want a relationship with them or not. It doesn't take me long to feel out the vibes and simply.. Know.
If I know I can see myself with someone, I will make any time, and any effort to be close to that person.
Your Pisces may be making excuses in the commitment department because he truly isnt sure if you're his right match.
On the other hand, since it's only been a few weeks, maybe the relationship is moving to fast and he needs time to settle into it. To feel it. If he's spending that time with you, and making effort to converse with you whenever he can, the feelings may really be there. I do know that I don't waste time talking to people I don't really care for. But I take that kinda stuff seriously.. And I don't have any air placements either.
Who fuckin' knows.
Posted by butterkup
he said well " we are freinds with benefits" I said though my interpretation of freinds with benefits is a sexual thing more than a public thing. He said know not at all we are very close and we are everything a girl and boyfreind should be. He said he didnt want to date anyone else but because he worked night shift and that he didnt want to date anyone else but felt if someone could offer me more he wouldnt want to stop that
note the bold...Pisces men aren't cutting it to allow someone ...they are interested in ...to go to another man...If he is smitten with you... he would never say that to you cause he would *not* want that...
He is clearly wanting fwb...the gf/bf statement is a smooth over for you...
shhhhhshshhh Hmmmm yeah. I would have to align myself with pir... not good.
fwb def means what it means...he's putting it nicely. He's pretty much saying yeah I'll talk to you but we're still fwb. It may develop into more but I wouldn't put any stock into it. He said that he doesn't want to date anyone. Take his word on that. Like I said it could develop into more but don't put any stock into that one.
So if you're fine with that let it be but don't expect for him to invest himself into you or a relationship. He's being pretty blunt about what he wants. *shrugs shoulders* balls in your court. But PLEASE don't fall into the trap that a lot of women fall into with thinking of if he spends time with me or sleeps with me for a long period of time I can change his mind. Merfolk know what they want and what they don't want VERY quickly. Keep that in mind. Good luck.
fwb def means what it means...he's putting it nicely. He's pretty much saying yeah I'll talk to you but we're still fwb. It may develop into more but I wouldn't put any stock into it. He said that he doesn't want to date anyone. Take his word on that. Like I said it could develop into more but don't put any stock into that one.
So if you're fine with that let it be but don't expect for him to invest himself into you or a relationship. He's being pretty blunt about what he wants. *shrugs shoulders* balls in your court. But PLEASE don't fall into the trap that a lot of women fall into with thinking of if he spends time with me or sleeps with me for a long period of time I can change his mind. Merfolk know what they want and what they don't want VERY quickly. Keep that in mind. Good luck.
run...run fast
me smiles at ian the piscies and says whats wrong with us sags lol
Agreed. Outlook not good.
Since I started this thread a few changes have happened we have been meeting up on his lunch hours which is 2 am in the mornng lol. I spoke to him about the friends with benefits remark and told him that i wasn't into that idea and he came back to me with a laugh and said you didn't believe that did you I was joking. Then I said what about this idea that you weren't going to date others but i could. He said nope I didn't say that I said if you met the man of your dreams I wouldn't stand in your say not that you could date others there's a big difference. That night we were out and he told my friends that he had been in town for two years and hadn't met anyone else like me and that I was special and awesome. Now something I have noticed about this man and I wonder about whether this is a piscean trait is he seems to have had a lot of woman that have "s-h-i-t" on him in the past and seems very suspicious of woman. Like I offered to give him a cellfone for his birthday one he needed and he said I wouldn't not let a woman buy something that that as woman tend to go through your phone if you leave it around so I want to buy one of my own? I'm like wooo and said i would never do anything like that don't you know that he said its not you im just very suspicious of woman at times. He keep reassuring me that he believes im different. The other thing I noticed different is he never lets my pay for anything and I know he doesn't have a high paying job and I want to pay my way and he wont allow it... The piscean man is definitely a different beast to any other man I have been with ans seems to also be into the old fashioned art of dating which i have not experienced every before and I am usually experiencing men that just want to go full on immediately I have told my friends that i think this is weird and slow and they said you dont know how lucky you are....
Dang Ol'aww. Boomhauer. lol. but really i actually read that butterkup and i was moved, maybe its the weed, hmmm old fashioned daters we are. just be careful of addictive personality 
Actually I have seen the addictive personality traits already coming out is that a piscean thing.....
by the way he is pisces sun cancer moon sagittarian ascendant venus in aeries
where as I am sun sagittarius capricorn ascendant moon aeries and venus in scorpio
where as I am sun sagittarius capricorn ascendant moon aeries and venus in scorpio
some guys are okay with going dutch but some guys are old fashion...they would never hear of you paying for anything. Like I went out on one date with a Leeb and I pulled out my money to pay and he looked at me and said don't you even think of it. I said it's okay I don't mind paying. He said seriously put it away or it will end up in an arguement. Put your money away I got this. He didn't have a high paying job it's just whom they are. Some guys don't give 2 flippy flops and would appericate it. But be leery of the guy who always have you pay usally it goes you pay I'll pay next time or each pay for their own meals.
Pisces can be addictive...some to drugs or alcohol some on different thigs like music, people and vices.
Him being leery of people isn't always a bad thing he prob did encounter that I've known friends who done that. Pisces like our privacy not that we are doing anything but that's a major assult to our freedom and our privacy for those who snoop. Also that's a big gift a cell phone. I wouldn't accept that either...it's like a way of claiming a person. I dunno that's me. I would appericate the offer but would never accept such a gift. If you want to give him something that is sweet but keep it small and meaningful don't go out and buy huge gifts. Esp at the beginning...I dunno I would be suspecious. lol Fishes are skittish... have you seen finding nemo lol oh yeah. It's funny cause when I watch that movie all the different personalities in that movie are small pieces of the pisces personality. The dory (the funny, absent minded person, who jumps from different topics, skittish, friendly), the father (the caring personailty and who would do anything for his loved ones and serious, timid, apperhensive), the son(the brave and defiant person who did need saving). Those are the main fish characters all of them are facets of a merfolk personality. The main cohesive thing is love...when the chips are down all of them made sacrifices to do what the thought was right. Tis merfolk.
Pisces can be addictive...some to drugs or alcohol some on different thigs like music, people and vices.
Him being leery of people isn't always a bad thing he prob did encounter that I've known friends who done that. Pisces like our privacy not that we are doing anything but that's a major assult to our freedom and our privacy for those who snoop. Also that's a big gift a cell phone. I wouldn't accept that either...it's like a way of claiming a person. I dunno that's me. I would appericate the offer but would never accept such a gift. If you want to give him something that is sweet but keep it small and meaningful don't go out and buy huge gifts. Esp at the beginning...I dunno I would be suspecious. lol Fishes are skittish... have you seen finding nemo lol oh yeah. It's funny cause when I watch that movie all the different personalities in that movie are small pieces of the pisces personality. The dory (the funny, absent minded person, who jumps from different topics, skittish, friendly), the father (the caring personailty and who would do anything for his loved ones and serious, timid, apperhensive), the son(the brave and defiant person who did need saving). Those are the main fish characters all of them are facets of a merfolk personality. The main cohesive thing is love...when the chips are down all of them made sacrifices to do what the thought was right. Tis merfolk.
I can defiantely see the finding nemo thing ive seen all of those personality traits at one time or another.
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