Please Help..is this a good match?

Hi

I'm a picses girl (decan 3) with libra moon in love with pisces male (decan 2) with cancer moon..

i donnou his birthtime .. but i have a leo rising ( although i don't feel that the rising affects in my personality!!)

so is this a good Match?!

i appreciate your help 🙂

Starfish hi 🙂

what does "Idk" mean?

excuse me 4 weak language am not American not even from Eurupe 🙂

i think you're right..

and maybe beacuse of that i added this topic..

i mean ..i hoped to have optimistic opinion by moon compatibilty (4 example)..?!

we ( me and him) share Venus in Aquarius .. he have Mars in capricorn..i have mars in aquarius ..

i donnou.. is that affects too?!


(oh God i feel like acting so emotionally .. in ridiculous way 😄)

Yes, and no .. it's good in the aspect that you two will be able to understand each other. Quite often, as I'm sure you are aware .. many people just look at us oddly when we are trying to express ourselves because our thoughts come from such a deep feeling that by the time it reaches the surface, it comes out really vague. Being partnered with another Pisces, who has the ability to FEEL what you are trying to express .. I should think this would give you a sense of belonging, since being understood is what everybody needs to feel like they have a place.

I have this one poker buddy, who is a Pisces, and everybody in our social circle has no clue where this man is coming from. He can speak until the cows come home, and still people are left speechless, not knowing how to respond to him. And it's because he describes feelings, whereas everybody else thinks he is voicing an opinion. He gets very frustrated, and I've recently found out that he's a severe recluse because of it. Anyway, I KNOW what he's trying to get out when he voices a feeling that sounds like a view .. and can immediately create a line of conversation for him to be able to flush out what it is he is feeling by tapping into things that move his soul.

So, from that perspective, I should think a pairing of these two would be really beneficial to a Pisces and their sense of well-being.

However, there is a down-side, and a pretty devastating one for the Fish. We have to have direction from our partners. I don't mean control .. I mean because it is our nature to love according to our environment, to include our partner's desires, we have to have a clear definition of what our partner wants and needs in life, so we can wrap our world around them.

And that's the only way we know how to love ... whatever it is our partner needs to feel this love, is what we respond to. So, our partners have to be on command of how they feel, so that they can convey this to us, so we will know what world of love to wrap around them.

With a Pisces partner, I don't see this happening .. both would be standing there, with blanket in hand, and not knowing where to nurture.

"With a Pisces partner, I don't see this happening .. both would be standing there, with blanket in hand, and not knowing where to nurture."

you're absolutely right!

and i tried to be the active one in this aspect .. but i dono

i mean he loves me of that i'm sure.. but we had some bad problems..that forced us to ignore each other (self esteem and stuff) he says i hurted him!.. but although his behavior .. his look in the eye .. everything telling me he still in love ..(even our mutual friends in school told me about his love)
but when i try to approch.. to say.. he's acting distant.. so i back off.. and after a time (when i get deppressed and thinking of leting go of his love) he's back and approching!!!!

i don't understand why he do that!!..

Starfish.. can you explain it more? ..

i mean does he act like this because of his Aqua venus?

"In a sense it makes you standoffish, but it also makes you seek a person out to depending on their attitude..It can make a person hot and cold towards their object of affection..You can't come on to strong and you gotta show some attention too..Its crazy. "

i think we both share this stanoffish manner when it deals with feelings :\

"Also his Cancer moon is caution as well.."

you are so right.. and that's so damn frustrating 😢

Starfish..thanks 4 your help i really appreciate that ..


so i could concluse this match is not that good :\