Question for Fellow Fish

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by urbane101 on Thursday, October 26, 2017 and has 1 replies.
Hey you all, question for you (yes this happened and yes I have taken action, I want to know how you would respond):

An ex-lover of yours left you because of long distance (and what you think would be foul play involved too) comes back into your life and literally fights to keep you there "as a friend", however you know they are dating the same person they left you for. Over the course of months they confide in you, but send you mixed signals and you have told them once before that you want them and they say they don't know, but finally asks for advice for their relationship with the other individual (wanting help with the same problems they caused you because it's happening to them now. What goes around comes around) KNOWING full well that you love them, how would you take that? Would you cut them out? Would you help them? would you tell them to make a choice?

Been debating on this and whether or not I made a good decision and telling them to make a choice then cutting contact after they cuss you out for being upfront, because for some reason I always question myself even when I shouldn't. I would have rather kept that person in my life but I feel like a line was crossed that should not have been.