Scorpio and Pisces Together Again?

This topic was created in the Scorpio and Pisces Compatibility forum by Scorpio702 on Friday, June 1, 2007 and has 17 replies.
Hey, I haven't posted anything in a while on here. I have actually moved on to a certain degree from being so obsessed with my ex pisces... and I've even found a possible gemini, cancer and fellow scorpio that all currently hold my love interest... don't call me a whore okay! I'm not doing anything with them... yet. Well, apparently my ex recently got dumped by the girl that he left me for in the first place... and I admit that it made my heart skip a few beats knowing that... and also knowing that he was asking about me for the first time since he dumped me. He came over to his mom's yesterday and I was there for his niece's 5th birthday. I saw him and just said hey and went out back to have a cigarette (I've only been smoking for a month!), and he actually came out back to talk to me... mostly about what he's going to be doing and where he's going to be moving to, and I didn't really say much. So I go back inside and I'm listening to my music and blowing up balloons when he comes out to where I am and says that he's sorry for everything and the way everything happened... I mean I almost died hearing those words.. but I fought so hard to have no reaction, so I said that it was okay and I gave him a hug... and everything just came rushing back to me...and I had to fight it again, so he went back out to the other room. After dinner I went out back for another cigarette and he came out and asked me for one... and I know he recently started smoking too, because we never smoked when we were together, and I got the feeling like he wanted to talk to me more, but I made sure to keep my trap shut and just let him say what he wanted, but he kind of just sat there smoking his cigarette.. then his sister came out and that was the end of it all pretty much. What is going on his little pisces head? He comes out and says sorry and is trying to talk to me but won't actually say anything.. and I'm sure as hell not going to. What does this behavior of his mean? It's probably doesn't mean anything, but maybe it does, I would appreciate your input smile.
It's quite obvious from the state of mind you were in last month (however long it's been) from the way you were talking, that you would do anything for him .. you would walk on hot coals, or swim with hungry sharks .. it was also obvious from what you said before that he didn't have to hold down a job, nor house chores, why he didn't even have to remain faithful, nor show you any loyalty .. you were willing to just be a dog for him to kick around, you were willing to do ALL the work, willing to do ALL the sacrificing of body and emotions .. and I'm sure this was quite obvious to him, also.
So, what is he doing now?
Waiting for you to do all the work again, so he doesn't have to be bothered. He'll just wait for you to yield and then you'll take complete care of him again.
Why should he say or do anything to get you, when you will do it?
That's what he's doing ..
But I don't think he wants me back though... I don't know what he wants...
But I have moved on to a certain degree, his family has told him how I've been going out with new guys and everything, he knows I'm not just waiting around for him anymore. And in the past I always would try to talk to him and communicate with him but this time I basically just listened while he talked... I'm not just pining over him anymore and I think he can see that.... but maybe he doesn't want me anymore..
You're right... he hasn't wanted me since he left me.... so what makes things different now right? Nothing's changed... he's just lonely... he doesn't care... I just got my hopes up temporarily thinking that maybe there was hope.. but there isn't..
Well, I'm A Pisces Guy. I Don't Know The Whole Deal Here, But Guessing The Reason He Left You In The First Place Was Lack Of Proper Communication. This Story Sort Of Reminds Me Of A Scorpio And I. As For Being Obessed With Him, Im Sure He Can Sense That No Matter How Hard You Try To Hide It. I'm Even Betting Below His Surface He's Got Some Obession For U. I've Found That Once These Two Signs Make A Connection It's Like Waiting For Hell To Freeze Over To Forget One-Another Or Simply Stop Thinking About Them And What Could Be. For Him To Say He's Sorry And Apologize For Everything Should'nt Be Taken Lightly Cause Pisces Are Damn Stubborn When It Comes To Those Words. I Know I Am, Have Only Said Them Once In My Life-Time And Of Course It Was To A Feamle Scoripo. "He Sat There Just Smoking HIs Cigarette" In His Head I'd Say He's Thinking Well He Knows Theres Some Feelings There In U But As U Stated You " Just Kept Your Trap Shut" Giving Him The Vibe He's Beating A Broken Brush. Sometimes I Find You Scopios Except The Guy To Read You're Mind To Much, Which We Find Fine, For The Most Part. Until We Know What U Wanna Say And U Just Won't Say Anything, Begins To Fell Like You're Pisces Is Talking To A Wall. So What Does All His Behavour Mean..I'd Say It's Obivious He's Feeling The Connection And Would Like To Try And Pursue It, But Would Settle For Friends In The Time Being. Otherwise I Hardly Bet He Woulda Even Bothered Talkin To You At All In The First Place.
U Say You've Moved On To A Certain Degree And His Family Told Him You Been Seeing Guys. Well Him Being A Pisces I Bet He's Thinkig Well That's Fine And Good For Her. Gotta Remeber Pisces Are Not Jealous People And Could Care Less How Many Guys You Got In The Works. As I'm Sure You're Thinking Maybe That's Why He's Interested In Me Now.
I Will Gurantee U He's Not Just Lonely Or looking For An Easy replacemnt, Cause Him Being A Pisece He Would Want Nothing To Do With A Meaningless Realtionship And He Would Rather Simply Be Alone Than Be With Someone He Does'nt Feel Makin His Heart Pump.
As For There Being No Hope, Him Never Wanting U Since He Left. I'd Hardly Doubt It, For He Is Surely A Hopeless Romantic And Probably Even Had Some Intense Day-Dreams, Dreams, Since U Left. The Word No Hope Doesnt Exist In The Pisces Vocabulary, There Is Always Hope. The Question Can U Change Youre Opionion Of No Hope. If Not All Will Die.
All And All Communicate, Be Self-less, Make An Effort, Could Be Worth While!
You are all right, I am just stupid and holding on to false hopes. Even though I have plenty of guys giving me attention... all I really want is his attention, and I don't think I will ever have it again. I know that he is somewhat jealous that I am going out with other guys because he made a somewhat crude comment to me about it and tried to play it off... and I even tried to make the bold move of asking him out for coffee and I got shot down... and that really crushed me but I should've seen it coming... I think that no matter what I do a part of me will always love him and care for him Sad.
Well, I'm really not going out with the guys to make him jealous, I am going out with them so that I can keep my mind off of John for a little while, and while most of them are fun and interesting enough, I just can't seem to find that connection that I had with John to any degree, I consider them all good friends, but nothing more then that, they are simply friends to keep my mind off of John for the time being. I am trying to move on, and you are right, trying to be his friend is just too hard... it's hard to hear from him when he calls... it's hard when I see him when he smiles at me and I can just feel everything come rushing back to me, it was so much easier when I didn't see or hear from him at all, and now seeing him again just makes everything rush back to me in way like never before. I don't know what to do, I just need to cut out all ties possible with him. and let go completely... but I will always love him, I know that...
Love is so confusing and stupid!! I hate my ex and love him at the same time... I want to strangle him and kiss him!! Someday!! I will have him back someway somehow...and I will rip his heart from his chest and hold it my hand and crush it!! Yes, the true scorpio has finally come out in me... I truly am evil and vindictive... never thought I was this way... but I am... and he will regret everything... I am sure of that
Scorpio702 .. don't worry, healing from this kind of pain is in stages. If you pass through them like me .. the next one will be a numbness where you won't feel anything at all - nothing, just complete emptiness, and then as feeling starts to slowing come back into you, so will your sense of sanity and your normal self.
So, this feeling of wanting to annihilate him will pass. smilesmile
lalala but it's such a fun feeling!!!! I love a gemini who will never love me back!!
I agree, what the hell drove you to that unhealthy, unsexy habit??
the both of you for that matter...tsk tsk.
quit it now!




[this PSA moment has been brought to you by Lady_M...saving one life at time with her charming Aqua wayssmile]
"{.. I truly am evil and vindictive... never thought I was this way... but I am... and he will regret everything... I am sure of that"

SEE!...straight from the scorpions mouth....told you so.
"lalala but it's such a fun feeling!!!! I love a gemini who will never love me back!!"
poor thing...
The Taurus guy is far too complicated for even me, I mean I never know if he's interested or not (not that gemini is any better about that though!), and the gemini is just more fun, at least I actually get to hang out and see the gemini and always have a really fun time with him and then come home and can't stop smiling because I can't stop thinking about him... sigh... but at least the gem and me are on good terms all the time.. I can always call him up and ask him for advice... even though I'm really calling just because I want to hear his voice... eww I sound so pathetic :/...
"U Say You've Moved On To A Certain Degree And His Family Told Him You Been Seeing Guys. Well Him Being A Pisces I Bet He's Thinkig Well That's Fine And Good For Her. Gotta Remeber Pisces Are Not Jealous People And Could Care Less How Many Guys You Got In The Works. As I'm Sure You're Thinking Maybe That's Why He's Interested In Me Now."
I don't understand this "Pisces are not jealous people." I have always been an intensely jealous and possessive person. I think this is normal for Cancer women. Why aren't Pisces men jealous? That seems weird to me. If they like or love you, but you're dating other people, don't they care?
They care, but they wont fight for you...in such a dramatic manner, so if thats what your looking for you can just stop now.They usually sulk and accept defeat; well thats what I've seen from the men.
I dont think NOT being jealous is a bad thing at all...maybe b/c im an aqua.