Before I joined this forum or thread I would read alot on what the likes and dislikes of a Pisces woman. Well with the woman I am seeing I have come to question everything I have read about Pisces. Maybe she is an exception to everything I read. Maybe its my fault for being too loving. Not sure but I have a lot of doubts. I read that Scorpio Pisces relationships were the best and most compatible was Scorpio for Pisces. Based on my experience it has not been this way. Maybe she swam away like so many like to say. All I know is reality has been different from what I read.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
The real issue here is that you are expecting her to be a certain way, according to what you read.
And I promise you, if you even hint to her about all these expectations you have ... then she'll be contrary just for sake of principal, regardless of how she feels about you.
You've made thread after thread talking about how you believe she is suppose to be because of being a Pisces ..... a Fish won't be controlled, they won't fit it on purpose if you are expecting them to.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Also, as you keep making thread after thread about this ... I also notice that you never take any advice from anyone, and continue to whine about the same shit.
If you have no intentions of helping yourself, and just want pity .... the Fish Tank is the wrong place to go because we aren't your huckleberries
I have taken advice from people here. Some of it has worked and some of it hasn't. Its trial n error.
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Apr 07, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 1325 · Topics: 0
there's the insensitive side and the sensitive side to a Pisces and when you're with one...you can sometimes view that mixture all wrapped up in one day...pretty much what you see on the boards of the tell it like it is ...is infact a true Pisces...so people come on here and see it and think where's the Pisces I read about all over the net the sensitive loving fish ...well ya met them in the raw...welcome to the sea of dual fish...there's the sensitive and then there's the blunt...and even then the loved one gets a full dose of tell it like it is...because in every thing in life there is always the sweet and then the sour...
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May 17, 2011Comments: 12 · Posts: 710 · Topics: 39
As a Pisces woman going through this exact same thing with a Scorpio man... let me give you some additional advice. . Just because you tell us what you want and feel doesn't mean we didn't hear you. You think if we didn't do what you want then we didn't hear you. . We heard you. ..just don't want to do it. There's no law saying we have to do it. We aren't all passive.
Secondly.did your temper get out of hand? Even if you raise your voice more than once. We are out. . We don't yell and if we do. . It's too late. We are already gone and will find someone we don't have to yell with. To us yelling =disharmony. Disharmony= no relationship.
Did you control your emotions when you spoke. ..if not see above comment.
As with any sign not all are exactly as depicted in books/websites. Just as I am sure that you are not a by the book Scorpio. Go by what you know of a person vs what you read.
Good luck
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
Freddy, yes she is a Pisces and has some of the traits a Scorpio is looking for (otherwise you won't be that obsessed with her!) However, what you could have learned from an astrology forum, is that some other aspects from her natal chart also matter. For example, she's got Venus conjunct Saturn. Look what they say about it:
SATURN - VENUS NATAL CONTACTS
When Saturn is conjunct Venus, it suggests a challenging situation that often hits where it hurts the most. Saturn represents a control factor. Venus suggests our relational needs. They are not great bedfellows.
There are several possible suggested reflections in real life of the pairing between the two. In no particular order:
A) A difficulty with relationships because of constraints on emotional expression.
B) An attraction to and from those of a significantly different age group.
C) Relational fulfillment later in life than usual due to relational lessons that first need to be learned.
D) A fear of commitment
E) Being too controlled or too controlling
The bottom line here is that this relationship between Venus and Saturn means that the control factor has taken over the relational needs, resulting in challenged relationships. It isn??t a bad thing. It is the horoscope telling you that you have some learning and maturing to do before relationships will be fulfilling.
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
And Freddy, there is a new thread here (Relationships and Astrology) called "Marriages/Real That Last by Sun Sign: Research" you may want to have a look at.
According to statistics, the least attractive sign for a Pisces female is Scorpio male!!!
Oohhh, just thinking about my old relationship with my ex, Scorpio bf, brings back a lot of pain. That relationship was REALLY intense. We loved each other very much but he was very possessive and jealous. I'm a Pisces and at first, that's kinda cute, not gonna lie...but let a couple years go by and yeah, it's not fun anymore. I'm the typical Pisces who swims away when things aren't going right and I absolutely hate when people say we are weak-willed because we walk away so easily from something that's not going our way. Really, it's a waste of time to stay and try and work things out with someone who is making you feel miserable inside or making you think that they're not really serious about you as you thought. I will stay and work things out with someone I truly know, loves me and hates to see me hurting. I'm really good at spotting a good one but if the chemistry isn't there, I won't be with him just because they're a "good guy". I really don't think my perfect man exists in the real world. But that's ok I guess lol. I've for some reason always been very attracted to Scorpios and Libras but boyyyyy, we just can't seem to get along. lol
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
A rumble in the pond between two adorable Pisces, a trouble-searching Cancer and a grumpy Scorpio?
Hehe. Couldn't think for a better ending for Freddy's thread "Scorpio and Pisces, what happened?".
Nothing happened, really. We are all different people with different moods and different outlooks on life.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
wow, your moods are so extreme that they are manic from outrage to euphoria
You need to be treated for bipolar disorder, most likely
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
The thread isn't nearly as bad as the expectations of it's creator ..... when all of his saga is read, the lasting feeling is that - his only motivation for being with her stems from what he's read.
That's not taking a person for who they are .... and he doesn't seem to grasp that ... neither does that Cancer who just found out he was a sperm donor. Maybe it's being a water-male .... they seem to be emotionally not present, and living in their own world
as a pisces this was quite a joy to read, I think we handled ourselves well ladies.