Second round, same Pisces
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Rwalston on Thursday, October 29, 2020 and has 25 replies.
I met my Pisces back about 10 years ago. It was immediate connection and the sex was OMG. Anyway, he wasn't over his newly divorced ex, so meanwhile I got married to an Aquarius. BTW, I'm a Virgo. Now I am the one that is divorcing. I reached out to him and we have been talking for months. We have only gone on one date, which ended up a sleep over, which was still OMG! Anyway, we pretty much text every day. I'm not sure why he just won't call me sometimes, but we were planning on having lunch this week. He said yeah, Wednesday would be good for him. I said, great let me know what time and let me know the day before if possible. Well, we had a couple of texts on Tuesday and then he didn't read my last message for hours and has ghosted me ever since. WTH?
OMG, he just messaged me as soon as I put this up, but I don't want to check it too soon!
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
Posted by RwalstonHe's probably on DXP.
OMG, he just messaged me as soon as I put this up, but I don't want to check it too soon!
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
Posted by RwalstonBut you were..
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
Posted by ELIGABWell I don't think either of us want to get remarried.
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
Posted by _DazedWell. yeah lol.Posted by Rwalston
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..click to expand
If he doesn't want to go on dates or call me, but only text me everyday, does that mean he wants to take it slow or he is stringing me along?
Posted by RwalstonDefinitely sounds like it on his behalfPosted by ELIGAB
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
Well I don't think either of us want to get remarried.click to expand
Posted by RwalstonWhat do you think that means?Posted by _DazedPosted by Rwalston
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
Well. yeah lol.click to expand
Posted by _DazedWhat What means?Posted by RwalstonPosted by _DazedPosted by Rwalston
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
Well. yeah lol.
What do you think that means?click to expand
Omg notification!
Posted by ArinoaquaWe had lots of texts. What do you mean?Posted by Rwalston
If he doesn't want to go on dates or call me, but only text me everyday, does that mean he wants to take it slow or he is stringing me along?
What did the text say?click to expand
He didn't give a reason. He just didn't confirm the date and didn't text since Tuesday. He just message now saying he will fill me in later. The last time we were supposed to see each other he did the same thing and then made up an excuse and said that his messages didn't go through. Yet, he keeps saying he wants to do all this stuff.
Take your time pull back, you are overthinking everything. They need to know you aren’t planning your whole world around them because if they think you are they’ll swim away. You do you first and learn patience.
Only the strong, patient and persistent will survive a Pisces!
Only the strong, patient and persistent will survive a Pisces!
Posted by ArinoaquaWe have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
Posted by sweetheartsYou're right. It's so freakin hard! I guess I won't ask him out any more. I'll leave it to him.
Take your time pull back, you are overthinking everything. They need to know you aren’t planning your whole world around them because if they think you are they’ll swim away. You do you first and learn patience.
Only the strong, patient and persistent will survive a Pisces!
So this is his text to me today...hey you I’m sorry.everything is fine.I’ll touch base tonight and bring you up to speed.but I’m good thanks for checking. So far he hasn’t read my response and hasn’t messaged.
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Posted by sweethearts
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
Posted by RwalstonI read his text.Posted by sweethearts
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.click to expand
You’re overthinking again... but do as you will
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by RwalstonPosted by sweethearts
Well if you don’t know the history you can’t give advice
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
I read his text.
You’re overthinking again... but do as you willclick to expand
Posted by Rwalstonwell good luck but also try to date other people is all i'm sayingPosted by Arinoaqua
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPI don’t want to date. I’d he doesn’t work out I’m ok being alone.Posted by RwalstonPosted by Arinoaqua
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
well good luck but also try to date other people is all i'm sayingclick to expand
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