seeing my pisces again!!! woo hoo!!!

This is one of those things that I'm soooooo excited about that I just have to share with the world (because if I started screaming from my rooftop the neighbors would complain).

After almost six months apart, I'm going to see my pisces again later today.

We met in February, had a great three days together, and have since been conducting a long distance I-don't-know-what (calling it a relationship would be overkill) via the internet.

It's absolutely amazing. I'm thrilled and nervous and excited and all of those things all at once.

As for advice... does anyone have any insight as to what pisces tend to go for appearance wise? I want to pretty myself up for our reunion this afternoon and have no idea what to wear.

My pisces's style is actually a bit intimidating. He's Italian and has their incredible fashion sense - very elegant, very classic, looks amazing even in something as simple as a jeans and a sweater.

I just don't have the body and the clothes to carry off anything more than a shirt and jeans. I'm counting on accessories and make-up to help save the day.

v-lady .. that's great !!!!!! I know this is exciting as hell, to finally hook up with him again. You actually stopped talking about him, so I kind of thought that the two of you lost touch. So happy to hear that this is still making you feel like you want to yell from roof tops 🙂

Pisces like people to be themselves .. that is important to keep in mind. We really don't care about colors, style , or anything that is done for the purpose of making an impression. Meaning, because we are intuitive to how people feel, he will know if you're wearing something out of your comfort zone.

Pisces people would actually NOT want you to dress mirroring his style .. for that is his own and not yours. He would recognize that you were doing this and we like people to be in charge of themselves, not mimick us .. for that shows weakness to us. Maybe not weakness, that's the wrong word .. we like people to be themselves.

He would rather you wear what makes you feel .. like you. Impressions mean nothing to us, if you aren't being yourself and he will be able to pick up on that vibe.

Keep us posted and have a marvelous time. 🙂🙂

Be confident .. that is what he will notice.


Even if you are wearing sweat pants, because that is what makes you feel comfortable, if you carry yourself as though you know who you are and that you are sure of yourself, and you feel perfectly beautiful and on top of the world, wearing your sweat pants .. that is what he will notice.

We notice feelings, v-lady .. not the material. How it makes you feel glorious to wear it .. Pisces are empaths, don't forget that. If you wear something that doesn't make you feel that way .. he will notice that you aren't being yourself and that will look ugly to him.

"I just don't have the body and the clothes to carry off anything more than a shirt and jeans. I'm counting on accessories and make-up to help save the day."

Poppycock v-lady.....you DO have THE body...the one and only body.....OK, so you may not be Cindy Crawfordish body perhaps...but then again do you really want to be...you are you...your body is perfect, all you got to do like P-Angel says....is act like you look and feel a million dollars....head up, shoulders back, chest out:-), looking straight ahead, hair and make-up just dolly:-), nails a nice pinky or red:-) - your nervous...but you can bet your bottom dollar so is he.........look him straight in the eye, wear your fav. sexy scent, tell him he looks good.....expect him to say the same to you:-).....and you will get what you deserve:-)

Having said all the above, I know those dam Italians from my Roman days:-)....those studs of fashion!!! and finesse!! but hey, remember the "file" you've had in the intervening time.....been so busy, so involved, so everything!!!....you've got to make him feel ain't he a lucky guy you managed to fit him into your schedule to meet today:-)

Get my drift.....................float on:-) and come back to us with a story:-)

!!

Alana x

moro .. you're a Gemini.

Speaking only for myself, I value any and all advice regardless of the source. I'll always consider everything and then do whatever I want to anyway (isn't that how advice works?).

And an update... Jeans and a t-shirt it is. Nails and makeup are done. Catching up over a beer is only a few hours away. Hurrah!!

Nobody said you weren't allowed to post, lol

"It happened to me and my pisces guy and it was a drama for my nice dress... me feeling uncofortable when everyone could see my legs from the top and him feeling uncofortable too!"

My point was .. you are saying what is best, according to how a Gemini feels is to make an impression, even if it means making him feel uncomfortable, as well as yourself .. interpreting the above copy.

Which is in complete opposition of how the Pisces feels .. we want people to be their own person, individuality .. and confident in their own self and sense of style . The reason why your Pisces was uncomfortable when you wore that dress was likely because he sensed that you weren't being yourself, rather, trying to make an impression upon him.

Post as much as you wish .. this is an open forum. However, I was only pointing out for v-lady, that you are Gemini, so that indicates that you are giving insight into how a Gem feels, not the Pisces.

Thanks for the insight into how the Gem feels, btw 🙂

lol .. dramatic

"And an update... Jeans and a t-shirt it is. Nails and makeup are done. Catching up over a beer is only a few hours away. Hurrah!!"


Perfect, v-lady .. this is you. How long is he going to be in town this time? I know it must be hard to do a LTR .. that must really suck. Hopefully we won't hear from you for a couple days, because you'll be holed up in his hotel room 😛

"I value any and all advice regardless of the source. I'll always consider everything and then do whatever I want to anyway (isn't that how advice works?)."


Yay .. how can he resist you? You certainly have the confidence 🙂

v-lady, you're in Chicago, too, aren't you?

A lot of people in here from that area.

lol, moro .. I'm simply not responsible for your emotions being out of control right now .. that's on you.

fyi: For one to say they are confident always, then have their actions proceed to prove the contrary is actually insecurity.

"A 48 YEARS OLD WOMAN WITH NO LIFE!!!" in your opinion!!! - what's age got to do with it....if you've seen her picture, how god dam attractive she is.......

If you know this lady truly, you'll know there's a lot of life and lovin' and insight and wisdom, and sometimes (craziness!!!:-) - like us all on this board......I find your tone and postings over-bearing, rude, condescending and immature to say the least....just take a look at your last post ....eh I think just one LOL! is more than enough from you Moro. God, some mothers do 'ave 'em!!!!

Alana x

Come on now Moro...I think you are getting a little worked up over someone elses perceived "attack" on you.....no-one should have the power to control those negative reactions and responses from you and for your continuing negativity towards a certain lady...you seemed well versed on the psychology side of things so why not use it to your advantage now to detach and step back from the land of snipe-dom!:-) - better to post with a happy face than a bad form face....think of all those furrows and wrinkles forming on angry face...anyway I won't say anymore as I feel we are "high-jacking" v-girl's thread - it's really all about her and not about us today:-)

A x

I gotta admit that Pieceans have that addictive personality - I spend alot of time with mine and when I'm not with her I miss her alot - so to go that long without seeing her and then see her again after all that time would probably make me just as ecstatic =) The funny thing is also that she misses me just as much (if not more) and if I seem distant she seems to have the tendancy to think that something might be wrong between us - which I assure her otherwise that there isn't - I mean we get along so wonderfully though sometimes I feel like I'm not giving her enough space - but in turn she can't seem to get enough of me so that's always reassuring cause the feeling is quite mutual 🙂

Thanks, DC. It's really nice of you to ask.

Long story short... Mr. Pisces is a flight attendant. And while I was waiting for Mr. Pisces to arrive in Chicago, Mr. Pisces was in fact en route to Hong Kong. Of course that was a last minute change that he had no control over, but I was still hugely, hugely disappointed. Naturally, I didn't actually find out that he wasn't coming to my part of the world until he had a chance to land and get back to his hotel and fire off a message.

So that sort of shit happens.

Since then, Mr. Pisces and I have continued to chat online about 6 hours a week. Sometime in October we had our "I care about you" conversation. I told him that I really cared about him. He replied that he felt the same way and that it hadn't occurred to him to say it because, after all, he kept on coming back to me (that is so like what I've read elsewhere on this board).

We've arranged to meet in December (he's scheduled to be about 4 hours from where I live). Apparently, he had been holding off on asking me to travel to see him because he thought it would be too much of an inconvenience to ask (again... that is so like what I've read elsewhere on this board).

He's now on vacation, but I did find out before he left that he has two serious girlfriends. When we first met, he told me that there were two women in his city that he sees regularly. I thought that meant a fuck buddy situation. Lo and behold, it actually means that he started a new relationship while still being in the first. His first girlfriend didn't want to break up, so it continued it into his relationship with the second. The second is supposed to be serious (in her eyes, at least), but he can't commit.

Whatever. I absolutely adore Mr. Pisces, but I refuse to stress out over him. At least when we see each other the sex will be phenomenal.

I'm actually quasi-dating a Virgo single-father widower at the moment and was going to post a long question on the Virgo board about it. Any sort of insight there would be really, really, REALLY helpful.