she gave me the silent treatmeant again!! why

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by v s o p on Sunday, August 21, 2011 and has 13 replies.
Only headshakes for about 12 hrs is that somthing you all do or...responding with your head lol idk
she's suppressing rage...trust me, you'd be grateful she kept her mouth shut if you could hear what was going through her head.
For myself I would do the silent treatment if someone pissed me off... plus being stubborn sometimes ...I won't want to sort things out because I am right at the time and I don't want to compromise ...til I have my space lol ...I need that space to get over whatever or if they are at fault they need to learn not to fuck me over ...that's extreme cases...
If I am pissed off I won't answer anything including texts etc... in my head it is the case of *leave me the fuck alone*
So attempting to get me to talk prolongs the time it takes for me to be ready to talk again...if kept badgering for talk you will be subjected to blunt words you won't want to hear...so I will give a warning to leave me alone...I will be short and won't budge with any talk someone has to say to smooth things over...the space is what smoothes it for me...If I care about you it won't last long...if I don't really it can be forever...
exactly...let her be silent, she'll get over it quicker.
plus, she's shaking her head at you? damn, what did you do...
Nointhing I guess I asked her r u ok she shook her head yes !do u want some popcorn shook her head no r u mad at me shook her head no!do u love me shook her head yes! Wow twelve hours she was on facebook and giving me the silent treatment she wanted to go to a club I said no . But she didn't seem that mad over it idk anyway she keep doing this every three days but she do tell me she love me!
Considering our moods can fluctuate different times of the day etc she was in a mood to go out and just enjoy the night etc ...
sometimes well most times for myself I need just some peaceful time with my thoughts etc...maybe she does too or perhaps it's monthly coming up lol
If you keep asking her questions, maybe you're annoying her and she's trying to show you how to shut up.
Posted by Pisco26

For example, my bf had told me a story today about how he would have cheated on his ex while on a vacation BUT when he and some buddies were planning on meeting these chicks, they couldn't find a way to get to them. She cheated on him while he was gone so I sort of think it was him being bitter but the fact that he would cheat, but didn't just because he couldn't get to the girls bothered me... I played it off like I didn't care at the time, but later became extremely quiet and unresponsive towards him for the afternoon. I was very confused by his response, so I didn't talk much after that. I just sat there thinking.
It happens sometimes...


Me thinks he was testing you. I think the "story" may not be true. Your reaction was what he was seeking. A man...after all.. needs reassurance that his woman needs him. Oh, & don't bother doing the same to him. Capricorns can see right through you & it WILL backfire on you. Remember they're half-fish. AND they are "The Devil" Btw, looking at your profile, the 2 of you have an awesome astro combo. In fact, both your sun & moon signs are the prefect complement to each other.
To the TS, be grateful she's not an Aries. The silent treatment doesn't exist in their world. A $ $ kicks and flying crockery are the norm for them. Big Grin
Typo:
**PERFECT complement**
Find out what is upsetting her to that extent. It seems like you're focusing too much on her silent treatment and too little on the cause. Address problems not symptoms imo.
or make her laugh, it's hard to keep sulking then.
Posted by Awakened
Find out what is upsetting her to that extent. It seems like you're focusing too much on her silent treatment and too little on the cause. Address problems not symptoms imo.


this too
You refused to go to the club & she wanted to.
She wanted to have fun & be out.
She was on fb for 12 hrs?
LOL.
If she was, you must have been boring the hell out of her...
& FB had more going on than you did.
I dont like people talking to me when im reading or on the comp.
So i shurg. Or say uh huh.
If its important.
Ill ask them to repeat.
This only happens when the person around is boring or annoying.
step your game up brother....
in all love.
seriously.

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