Should I make my virgo a birthday cake even though he doesn't want me to ?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sugarplumeow on Monday, August 14, 2017 and has 15 replies.
He says he doesn't want me to be stressed out over it. But I enjoy baking and I want to
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I say do it. That could be cute. It's what girls do ?
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Yes, surprise him. Make it with the type of food he loves the most. If he's the fitness/health type, make it a fruit cake with minimum sugar.
My Virgo made me an icecream cake......and stuck a baby tomato on top. He thought it was hilarious, because I normally don't touch tomatoes with a 10-foot pole.
My Virgo made me an icecream cake......and stuck a baby tomato on top. He thought it was hilarious, because I normally don't touch tomatoes with a 10-foot pole.
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Posted by LibraMudraWe heard you the first time, dude.
Do it.
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Posted by LibraMudraYou have sealed your fate, woman.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowFucking do it!!!!!!!!Posted by LibraMudraWe heard you the first time, dude.
Do it.click to expand
Posted by sugarplumeowBasically he's being polite and saying not to "go out of your way" for him. Deep down though he'll appreciate that you did something nice for him for his b-day (just don't make a big fuss about it).
He says he doesn't want me to be stressed out over it. But I enjoy baking and I want to
Virgos are notorious for being this passive aggressive.
Notice how he mentions it's for you .... they will do this. They will say something like,
"we don't have to do that if you don't want to" .... by phrasing it that way, he suggests that you don't want to do this (something), when in reality you never mentioned that you didn't. He doesn't want to so puts it onto you, to make it look like it was your choice.
Same thing here, he doesn't want your cake, for whatever reason ..... maybe you can't cook. You may think you do because you like it ... but, that doesn't mean you can according to his taste buds.
So, he is putting it off on you, putting the thought in your head that he is helping you by not stressing you out, eventhough as no point did you say it stresses you.
See how they do that?
So, don't fall in line with that and take the bullshit. You'll never make it with a Virgo if you come in here with a defense, or anywhere trying to sell a defense. He already knows you want to do it, or you wouldn't have said it. So, don't sit there and go wa, wa, wa, about it, if you don't plan on rectifying the problem.
What you do is: you make the damn cake, hand it to him and tell him it's for his birthday. If he says one word about it, trying to make you feel guilty, then your only response back should be.
"Are you fucking tell me what to do? I didn't ask for your opinion."
then pick up the cake knife and slice a piece off for you and him. If he still tries to pick on you about it, then gather your belongings and leave him alone, as walking out of the door turn and say, "this isn't up for discussion. If you can't be gracious and accept a gift without complaint, then I'm out. You are permitted to call me when you realize that I don't work for you, I don't operated under your rulings."
And then walk without looking back.
Trust me, the ONLY way to keep a Virgo is by having total control over your own faculties, and not budging until he realizes that he isn't going to push you and get away with it.
Notice how he mentions it's for you .... they will do this. They will say something like,
"we don't have to do that if you don't want to" .... by phrasing it that way, he suggests that you don't want to do this (something), when in reality you never mentioned that you didn't. He doesn't want to so puts it onto you, to make it look like it was your choice.
Same thing here, he doesn't want your cake, for whatever reason ..... maybe you can't cook. You may think you do because you like it ... but, that doesn't mean you can according to his taste buds.
So, he is putting it off on you, putting the thought in your head that he is helping you by not stressing you out, eventhough as no point did you say it stresses you.
See how they do that?
So, don't fall in line with that and take the bullshit. You'll never make it with a Virgo if you come in here with a defense, or anywhere trying to sell a defense. He already knows you want to do it, or you wouldn't have said it. So, don't sit there and go wa, wa, wa, about it, if you don't plan on rectifying the problem.
What you do is: you make the damn cake, hand it to him and tell him it's for his birthday. If he says one word about it, trying to make you feel guilty, then your only response back should be.
"Are you fucking tell me what to do? I didn't ask for your opinion."
then pick up the cake knife and slice a piece off for you and him. If he still tries to pick on you about it, then gather your belongings and leave him alone, as walking out of the door turn and say, "this isn't up for discussion. If you can't be gracious and accept a gift without complaint, then I'm out. You are permitted to call me when you realize that I don't work for you, I don't operated under your rulings."
And then walk without looking back.
Trust me, the ONLY way to keep a Virgo is by having total control over your own faculties, and not budging until he realizes that he isn't going to push you and get away with it.
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Posted by LibraMudraThat's actually very doable, as long as we know which flavors to go for. Jed would have a ball making it or rather shaping it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowMy bday is October 19.Posted by LibraMudraYou have sealed your fate, woman.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowFucking do it!!!!!!!!Posted by LibraMudraWe heard you the first time, dude.
Do it.
You're making me a Jerry Springer ass cake that says thatclick to expand
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?
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Posted by EtherealTravelerLOL what did Cobweb-Pussy say this time? I blocked her since day 1, like that uber-drunk uncle that hurls abuse at everything that moves.
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowVirgos are known for being passive aggressive, he's just warning you not to make a cake because it'll likely just end up with you being rejected, Virgos shouldn't be in control, if he does this and that then blah blah blah, be super aggressive about it like he killed your parents, don't let him have power.Posted by EtherealTravelerLOL what did the cobweb-pussy say this time? I blocked her since day 1, like that uber-drunk uncle that hurls abuse at everything that moves.
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?click to expand
A bunch of assumptions and inner dialogue.
Did you ask him if he wants a cake for his birthday?
I think it's rude to ask people if they want cake on their birthday, you should make it no questions asked.
Same with gifts.....you shouldn't ask someone what they want for their birthday if you know them long enough you should know what they like.
I think it's rude to ask people if they want cake on their birthday, you should make it no questions asked.
Same with gifts.....you shouldn't ask someone what they want for their birthday if you know them long enough you should know what they like.
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Posted by EtherealTravelerInner dialogue turned into a self-screaming match. That's the first sign of madness right there.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowVirgos are known for being passive aggressive, he's just warning you not to make a cake because it'll likely just end up with you being rejected, Virgos shouldn't be in control, if he does this and that then blah blah blah, be super aggressive about it like he killed your parents, don't let him have power.Posted by EtherealTravelerLOL what did Cobweb-Pussy say this time? I blocked her since day 1, like that uber-drunk uncle that hurls abuse at everything that moves.
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?
A bunch of assumptions and inner dialogue.click to expand
Wait......CC grew up?
Since when?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLike months ago, I mean I used to not be able to even hold a normal conversation with her but now I can.Posted by EtherealTravelerInner dialogue turned into a self-screaming match. That's the first sign of madness right there.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowVirgos are known for being passive aggressive, he's just warning you not to make a cake because it'll likely just end up with you being rejected, Virgos shouldn't be in control, if he does this and that then blah blah blah, be super aggressive about it like he killed your parents, don't let him have power.Posted by EtherealTravelerLOL what did Cobweb-Pussy say this time? I blocked her since day 1, like that uber-drunk uncle that hurls abuse at everything that moves.
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.
Even CC grew up. Why can't you?
A bunch of assumptions and inner dialogue.
Wait......CC grew up?
Since when?click to expand
Either she grew up slightly or I got more tolerant.
Posted by TomSawyerWho?Posted by EtherealTravelerShe's right.
P-Angel's high again on weed to turn some lighthearted question into something much worse.click to expand
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