Sick of being insecure

Its a constant battle for me. One day I am confident & independent & the next I am a looser scared my man is off cheating on me & I am usless at my job. What the hell??!!!?
Prolly should seak therapy 😢

Like allot of fishy I have been screwed over ALLOT and this has left me scared & suspicious of all people. I just cant fully trust anymore & I WANT TO BE ABLE TO!

Anyone got any books maybe I can read to help or any advice on how to be independent & happy with yourself. Alot of times I am fine but some days I just need to have some back up.

This place is good to talk shit & get whatever is on my mind off 😄

I'm rather suspicious myself, and if you're really that worried, I've got another ball and chain set I'm willing to part with.....🙂

LOL @ Garfield...why would you want to swap being a lion for o a fish?..doesn't make sense...I love my Leo sister and I really couldn't have her any other way other than a Leo....she's too a bit confused with a pisces..but she's marrying a Ram...go figure...The RAM is better for her in the long run..loves her unconditionally....the fish is also nice..but she don't fully trust him...

In answer to your original post..I don't know how you will overcome the fishy emotions..but when you feel as though you are losing control of your wellbeing...take a good look inside yourself..and remember the person you once were..remember the happy times...heres something to cheer you up:

A woman has strengths that amaze men. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when she feels like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she's happy and laughs when she's afraid. Her love is unconditional! There's only one thing wrong with her, she sometimes forgets what she's worth!

Yes...I know fishies don't like logic too often..but it saves the day at times..practicality...get your damn head out of the clouds...when have clouds been good for anything...everyone dreams..but they dont' get carried away with it all....

lol i know..i wasn't having a go...I was just stating that dreaming isn't that great...its nice for a short time..i.e when you sleep. Form of escapism....but one should always return to earth with a thud....

Pisces....I have never really been a believer in a book helping you feel better about yourself....you can read all the books in the world but at the end of the day...you will still be you....Take up Yoga..meditate and breathe....when the going gets tough...take a few deep breaths and be thankful for what you have....Acceptance...thats where true happiness lies...

Outcast...you figured out how to focus? whats the secret....please do enlighten me cos I have the attention span of erm..0...I try to do too many things at once and get nothing done, become frustrated and self critical, then push myself harder and eventually become stressed....i wish I could focus on one thing....always want to reach the stars in more ways than one...

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Yep but then the interest lasts about 2 seconds..then I am bored

I have been away for Australia Day & reading this today is soo helpful!!!

Thanks for the book suggestions starfish!! Ill try them out!
Missmorals cheers for the advice - I think reading inspirational books along with meditation & yoga will be the key to regaining my spirituality & hopefully will ground me.

As for the comments about the dreamy Pisces - yeah I do dream allot but I have all sorts of Virgo in my sign which is very conflicting - the Virgo almost punishes the Pisces for dreaming & not doing enough.

I know exactly what you are talking about ...

Does that happen with u P -Angel?

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I don't wanna be suit and tie.....garfield, wanna switch? I don't know why, but I've always SEEM to be practical on the surface, but underneath.....COMPLETELY different story; almost like I've got two different personalities.....a dreamer who hold TOO tightly to his dreams, too secretive, and suspicious.....I really don't want anyone to know about them.....my dreams ARE the sources of my ambitions believe it or not.....