Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
Posted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?click to expand
Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?click to expand
Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi think your aries placements help you.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?
I am a Pisces/Aries cusp, my birthday is March 20thclick to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI think so too. But also I have difficulty letting go sometimes, so I feel like I get stuck. Like my very first relationship it took me like almost a year to get over them, but even so, they tried to come back a year later and I got that heart rushed feeling and all my feelings came back, but I resisted.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi think your aries placements help you.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?
I am a Pisces/Aries cusp, my birthday is March 20th
my taurus venus holds me back.click to expand
Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi'm glad you didn't open up that can of wormsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI think so too. But also I have difficulty letting go sometimes, so I feel like I get stuck. Like my very first relationship it took me like almost a year to get over them, but even so, they tried to come back a year later and I got that heart rushed feeling and all my feelings came back, but I resisted.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi think your aries placements help you.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?
I am a Pisces/Aries cusp, my birthday is March 20th
my taurus venus holds me back.
My cancer moon is in the 1st house, so I feel like it clashes with my Aries placements.click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Endlessly-dreamingi'm glad you didn't open up that can of wormsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI think so too. But also I have difficulty letting go sometimes, so I feel like I get stuck. Like my very first relationship it took me like almost a year to get over them, but even so, they tried to come back a year later and I got that heart rushed feeling and all my feelings came back, but I resisted.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi think your aries placements help you.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?
I am a Pisces/Aries cusp, my birthday is March 20th
my taurus venus holds me back.
My cancer moon is in the 1st house, so I feel like it clashes with my Aries placements.
it's so annoying when your ex-comes back
mine married and i realized i still had feelings
i didn't hit on her
but explained that i needed space because i still had feelings
it took me 2 years to finally get over her
and now every time i see her she hits on me/ flirts with me
her husband even tried to have a 3 some and encouraged us to hook up
the thought of doing anything with her in that way grosses me out slightly
funny how that happensclick to expand
Posted by XCOMLol XCOM you want to be left alone but you advised me to chase what I wanted from my Pisces. Would you want your girl (the one thats currently ignoring you) to chase you and make you feel wanted even though you want to be left alone? Is it like an attention thing..?
i'm in a tough spot right now, things weren't working and i wanted a little brake (didn't really want it but was forced to it ) and now she is ignoring me which is death like to me
But slowly i'm getting over it and i have my family and best friend who constantly or at least once in a while who check up on me or talk to me but i just want to be left alone
Pisces sun with leo moon and venus in aries
Posted by natsIt's not the whole story ), it's much more complicated than that when a part of you wants something while the other doesn't because it's better that wayPosted by XCOMLol XCOM you want to be left alone but you advised me to chase what I wanted from my Pisces. Would you want your girl (the one thats currently ignoring you) to chase you and make you feel wanted even though you want to be left alone? Is it like an attention thing..?
i'm in a tough spot right now, things weren't working and i wanted a little brake (didn't really want it but was forced to it ) and now she is ignoring me which is death like to me
But slowly i'm getting over it and i have my family and best friend who constantly or at least once in a while who check up on me or talk to me but i just want to be left alone
Pisces sun with leo moon and venus in ariesclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneDo you feel that swimming helps you heal?
Swimming is the best ?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Have you healed completely from either?click to expand
Posted by pisceanlovesSomething bad as in harm yourself? Them?
I deal with break up right now. Honestly I need a company to forget everything, if I'm alone that's the worst, I might do something bad
Posted by DistilledDid something in the pass happen when you gave that person (romantic)
If I cared about the situation or person-
family and friends here and there until I'm fully recharged... I can't really say how long. Every situation is different.
Then I become stronger and gain new experiences, perspective and people.
I never swim back to you if you hurt me on purpose or left a bad taste in my mouth.
If I care- I will try but if you don't put energy back... It's done. If time passes and you can show you want me in your life and I really loved you as a friend I will consider it.
Never for a person I was with romantically.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingYou're saying that it took you two years to get over both?Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Have you healed completely from either?
completely healed from the last friend i lost and
i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.
the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.
i'm hoping this one will be shorter
though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.
i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.
i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.
with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see
it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.click to expand
Posted by Ajutwo years each so four years totalPosted by AdreamuponwakingYou're saying that it took you two years to get over both?Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Have you healed completely from either?
completely healed from the last friend i lost and
i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.
the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.
i'm hoping this one will be shorter
though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.
i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.
i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.
with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see
it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.
Yeah it can take a great deal of time...even when you think you're better.
Do you feel that the severity of your broken heart aches in waves? kind of like...
one moment you're fine and then another you just really miss them?click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Ajutwo years each so four years totalPosted by AdreamuponwakingYou're saying that it took you two years to get over both?Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Have you healed completely from either?
completely healed from the last friend i lost and
i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.
the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.
i'm hoping this one will be shorter
though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.
i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.
i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.
with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see
it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.
Yeah it can take a great deal of time...even when you think you're better.
Do you feel that the severity of your broken heart aches in waves? kind of like...
one moment you're fine and then another you just really miss them?
aka most of my twenties.
i met pisces #3 at 28..
i'll probably be in my 30s when i get over her.
but like i said i'm hoping to get over her sooner.
and yes....one day i feel really happy that we met and that i at least had some time to spend with such a wonderful person
the next day i think to myself that she wasn't that great and i was actually selling my self-short
and had low standards
the day after that i miss her like crazy...
today was a moderate day in terms of missing her...i'm happy though as it seems i am finally having days in
which i miss her without the heartache....
i'm taking that as a sign that i'm starting to actually heal.
i'm also coming to terms that i very well may never hear or speak from her ever again.
for me that was the worst thing about things going south.....the possibility of no longer having her in my life at all...not even as friends.click to expand
Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Ajutwo years each so four years totalPosted by AdreamuponwakingYou're saying that it took you two years to get over both?Posted by AjuPosted by AdreamuponwakingThank You for Posting (:
so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago
thanks aju for posting!
if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time
i'm averaging a little over 2 years
if it's a friend.....
a few months.
Have you healed completely from either?
completely healed from the last friend i lost and
i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.
the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.
i'm hoping this one will be shorter
though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.
i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.
i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.
with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see
it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.
Yeah it can take a great deal of time...even when you think you're better.
Do you feel that the severity of your broken heart aches in waves? kind of like...
one moment you're fine and then another you just really miss them?
aka most of my twenties.
i met pisces #3 at 28..
i'll probably be in my 30s when i get over her.
but like i said i'm hoping to get over her sooner.
and yes....one day i feel really happy that we met and that i at least had some time to spend with such a wonderful person
the next day i think to myself that she wasn't that great and i was actually selling my self-short
and had low standards
the day after that i miss her like crazy...
today was a moderate day in terms of missing her...i'm happy though as it seems i am finally having days in
which i miss her without the heartache....
i'm taking that as a sign that i'm starting to actually heal.
i'm also coming to terms that i very well may never hear or speak from her ever again.
for me that was the worst thing about things going south.....the possibility of no longer having her in my life at all...not even as friends.
What drives you to keep going ? why start new relationships?
Have you ever felt like giving up at times? forming new relationships?
Have you ever felt so hurt and just jaded from all of it to just not do it again?click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingIt was honestly one of the hardest things because he was what I would consider my "first love" but I also knew that things would not change.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi'm glad you didn't open up that can of wormsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI think so too. But also I have difficulty letting go sometimes, so I feel like I get stuck. Like my very first relationship it took me like almost a year to get over them, but even so, they tried to come back a year later and I got that heart rushed feeling and all my feelings came back, but I resisted.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingi think your aries placements help you.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI am a Cancer Moon/Aries Venus.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingPosted by AjuThey wouldn't help me, but they would be there as an ear. I used to be with a Cancer for 4 years and when we ended things, I was devastated and my friends were all busy so I hardly got to see them. What helped me was that I was extremely busy, so I didn't have time to grief because my mind was always occupied. This relationship took me about 4 months to be over.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingthank you, endless
I'm currently in this position at the moment.
I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.
so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?
would it take you longer to come back with out their help?
Depending on the situation, it would for sure take weeks. If my friends were consistently there, I think I would be able to get over the situation in about 1-2 weeks. It all depends. But definitely it would take longer if I had no one to talk to.
wow
what's your moon and venus?
and you're a pisces/aries cusp?
I am a Pisces/Aries cusp, my birthday is March 20th
my taurus venus holds me back.
My cancer moon is in the 1st house, so I feel like it clashes with my Aries placements.
it's so annoying when your ex-comes back
mine married and i realized i still had feelings
i didn't hit on her
but explained that i needed space because i still had feelings
it took me 2 years to finally get over her
and now every time i see her she hits on me/ flirts with me
her husband even tried to have a 3 some and encouraged us to hook up
the thought of doing anything with her in that way grosses me out slightly
funny how that happensclick to expand
Posted by Godzillagood for you
I broke up today, it's not what i wanted , hell no but it was the only solution that would hurt me less in the long run
I tried talking about it, tried making things right because i love her but in the end it was just one sided love, i always loved her and i didn't have to think about it but she was always changing
Can't say it's a fucking nice feeling but i was being ignored which i couldn't take it
Posted by AjulolPosted by LadyNeptuneDo you feel that swimming helps you heal?
Swimming is the best ?click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingYea haha um..Posted by AjulolPosted by LadyNeptuneDo you feel that swimming helps you heal?
Swimming is the best ?
she's not going to talk about her feels
she just likes swimming.click to expand
Posted by Ajumermaids are elusive.....Posted by AdreamuponwakingYea haha um..Posted by AjulolPosted by LadyNeptuneDo you feel that swimming helps you heal?
Swimming is the best ?
she's not going to talk about her feels
she just likes swimming.
best not bother further I guess *shrugs*
She's peaceful swimming
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