Teach me about Pisces
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I’ve been dating one for two months. Slow moving, but it’s good. He’s not one with the rose colored glasses that I’ve read a lot of Pisces are like. What’s important to know about dating these men? Share your knowledge 🙂
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Posted by chris19Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?click to expand
You mean ghosting? No Pisces will ever ghost when in love or infatuated! If you text him and he replies, he has not disappeared, he will probably spend hours thinking of you afterwards (if he hasn't been doing it throughout the day already). You have to initiate a lot with Pisces men.
Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.click to expand
You mean...are you the glass overflowing or something
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"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
You mean...are you the glass overflowing or something
lol
Sometimes. Sometimes I'm negative as fuck too. But I'm definitely the cheer-er-upper in the relationship.click to expand
OK, cheerleader
Posted by PhangusNot entirely convinced that Gems are more optimistic than Pisces, though!Posted by UndinePosted by PhangusPosted by UndinePosted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
You mean...are you the glass overflowing or something
lol
Sometimes. Sometimes I'm negative as fuck too. But I'm definitely the cheer-er-upper in the relationship.
OK, cheerleader
lol! I fight you!click to expand
My Gem ex was a grumpy mess when I met him. Too many women kicked his ass on that dating site! He even had a nervous tic, which reminded me of Hannibal Lecter, lol! I hugely contributed to his tuning over to the bright side over the months and years....There!
Posted by PhangusPosted by UndinePosted by PhangusPosted by UndinePosted by PhangusPosted by UndinePosted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
You mean...are you the glass overflowing or something
lol
Sometimes. Sometimes I'm negative as fuck too. But I'm definitely the cheer-er-upper in the relationship.
OK, cheerleader
lol! I fight you!
Not entirely convinced that Gems are more optimistic than Pisces, though!
My Gem ex was a grumpy mess when I met him. Too many women kicked his ass on that dating site! He even had a nervous tic, which reminded me of Hannibal Lecter, lol! I hugely contributed to his tuning over to the bright side over the months and years....There!
Oh my! Maybe all we've shown thus far is that women do more to cheer up men than vice versa.
Most of my chart is geared toward the positive. Venus-ruled. Taurus rising. Leo Mars. I think that's why it's so difficult for me when I do go into depressions. It's not how I'm supposed to be.click to expand
I think you are right that "women do more to cheer up men than vice versa". Especially Pisces women. the only sign that could recreate the cake out of the crumbs, unfortunately!
Sorry to hear you get depressed sometimes.
Hugs (((
))). (LOL at the little bat escaping the hug!)Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.click to expand
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
Posted by PhangusCancer moon. Definitely see a little depression when things were tough. We had a few difficult moments and he pulled away by not making any effort to see me, but never stopped talking via text every day. But now that’s all fixed. No more drama. Very peaceful. Everything seems good. I’m happy with him and I haven’t felt this way in awhile about a guy.
What's his moon and do you know any of his other placements, #pinkbird03? That should make a big difference. Johnny Cash had Scorpio moon, and Cobain had Cancer moon, so they showed more of the depressed (and deep and poignant and make me sigh, so beautiful) side of Pisces.
Posted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
i think he does like me more than I realize, but everyone is talking about love. I don’t think he loves me yet. He doesn’t seem to have his heads in the clouds. He’s dated some but hasn’t had a serious gf in 8+ years. He hasn’t asked me to be his gf, but we are exclusive sexually. Trust is really hard for me, but I do trust him.
Posted by PhangusLol I love this advice. Ty!! The good thing is they do get over it and they are back to normal. And mine even knows this. He will tell me he will be ok he just needs a little time. But I love having an emotional man over a cold emotionless guy.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?click to expand
I mean we don't stay with a love interest Atleast after a month and until then he likes you. Pisces are sceptical or rather insecure they need to know for sure if you love them then they will commit and a month is enough for that.
Mostly it is work that makes us dissapear and I would say that counts as well. The dissapearing act is a defense mechanism for love. Mostly during the first days or months the fish does not trust you. So when they see you showing love they begin to question the generosity received so they dissapear to prove if it's true. After a lot of thinking they return with more love than before because they are fully assured.
Posted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.
Lol I love this advice. Ty!! The good thing is they do get over it and they are back to normal. And mine even knows this. He will tell me he will be ok he just needs a little time. But I love having an emotional man over a cold emotionless guy.
You're welcome! Some men, I take it, might think you're trying to manipulate them if you see they're down and do nice things for them. In my experience, not Pisces. They appreciate the effort, and the love and support give them confidence.click to expand
Besides sex, what other things do you do that he appreciates? I once thought about buying him a gift, but I didn’t know what to get.
Posted by chris19Hmm makes sense. I’ve seen him act insecure and question my interest in him. Guess I just need to fully commit and stop holding back so he does too.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?
I mean we don't stay with a love interest Atleast after a month and until then he likes you. Pisces are sceptical or rather insecure they need to know for sure if you love them then they will commit and a month is enough for that.
Mostly it is work that makes us dissapear and I would say that counts as well. The dissapearing act is a defense mechanism for love. Mostly during the first days or months the fish does not trust you. So when they see you showing love they begin to question the generosity received so they dissapear to prove if it's true. After a lot of thinking they return with more love than before because they are fully assured.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I was dating a pisces man for a long time..BUT my situation was very complicated.Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?click to expand
I was married. With a child or 2.
He was married but Separated AND also in a relationship with someone he wasnt happy with, while seeing me in secret.
We were seeing each other in secret.
Anyway..he began disappearing. Until eventually he was gone!
Why?
Because despite me telling him that i dont love my husband and want to leave him (to be with the pisces guy), I never left.
He waited for me for 3yrs. Coming and going over and over to see if anything had changed. Eg to see if I've left my husband yet.
Everytime he came back i was stoll with my husband.
Why?
I was scared for my child who was only 2 or 3 back then.
I hurt him BAD!
And now I'm very very heartbroken indeed
The pain is eating me up.
And my husband is divorcing me. Not for adultery etc. Thats another story. Very controlling cruel nasty piece if s**t!
Cant believe its been 5yrs since Pisces came into my life.
And now I'm alone. A single mum. And in agony.
So I'm saying to you..dont hurt the pisces guy because if you do, the pain you feel from losing them is WORSE!
.They touch you so deeply that you never ever forget it.
Posted by Black-MambaReally good. He’s a pleaser. He likes taking the lead and is aggressive which I love. Lol I’m blushing writing this. I usually don’t talk about these things on here.
Whats the sex like between a crab and pisces? Curious? The more details the better
Posted by pooface222Yes, I do remember you posted about him once before. I actually thought you did move on completely with this guy, but I can understand why he left. He gave you a lot of time and chances to divorce your husband. It’s nice they don’t give up easily on someone, but they seem to eventually reach a limit of what they will put up with. Did he go back to his wife or did he move on with someone new?Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?
I was dating a pisces man for a long time..BUT my situation was very complicated.
I was married. With a child or 2.
He was married but Separated AND also in a relationship with someone he wasnt happy with, while seeing me in secret.
We were seeing each other in secret.
Anyway..he began disappearing. Until eventually he was gone!
Why?
Because despite me telling him that i dont love my husband and want to leave him (to be with the pisces guy), I never left.
He waited for me for 3yrs. Coming and going over and over to see if anything had changed. Eg to see if I've left my husband yet.
Everytime he came back i was stoll with my husband.
Why?
I was scared for my child who was only 2 or 3 back then.
I hurt him BAD!
And now I'm very very heartbroken indeed
The pain is eating me up.
And my husband is divorcing me. Not for adultery etc. Thats another story. Very controlling cruel nasty piece if s**t!
Cant believe its been 5yrs since Pisces came into my life.
And now I'm alone. A single mum. And in agony.
So I'm saying to you..dont hurt the pisces guy because if you do, the pain you feel from losing them is WORSE!
.They touch you so deeply that you never ever forget it.click to expand
Well pisces dominant in my birth chart. that is all i got
Posted by MothToFlameWhat do you mean by mutable energy?
Just go with the flow. Don’t read too much into it, you are dealing with mutable energy after all.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesTell me more
Well pisces dominant in my birth chart. that is all i got
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by WitchmitchAries
Well pisces dominant in my birth chart. that is all i got
Tell me moreclick to expand
what can i say? pisces rules over all the other signs in my chart... i have all the signs excepted leo.... not one once of Leo taints my chart.
Posted by pinkbird03
I’ve been dating one for two months. Slow moving, but it’s good. He’s not one with the rose colored glasses that I’ve read a lot of Pisces are like. What’s important to know about dating these men? Share your knowledge 🙂
every pisces is one of the "rose colored glasses" type, you might not ever see it...but it's there. the world we create with our vivid imagination is much better than anything the real world has to offer, which is why we are prone to escapism, daydreaming, the famous "pisces disappearing act", alcoholism and the like. rose colored glasses, the idiomatic phrase you are probably referring to, is just another way of describing denial, really. seeing only the positive while ignoring the negative. you don't think he's dreaming about Eva Mendes while y'all are holding hands and fantasizing about what it would be like if he had a ferrari instead of you? the important thing to remember is we don't know how we are going to feel one minute from the next any more than you do...and there is no sense in trying to figure it out either...if you do, let us know....
Posted by BathHouseCulturehow so? i've dated four pisces women in my life...one even with the same birthday as myself. one february fish, a march 5th (like me), a march 9th (triple water, like me) and a march 15th. the similarities between all of them ran parallel in a curious manner...but unfortunately, each pisces needs what the other pisces doesn't have...so ultimately the relationships fell victim to lack of direction and WAY too many emotions of the same type
The men are vastly different to the women I’ve observed.
it was literally like dealing with myself most days lol
Posted by yellow01gtHmm I wonder what he’s dreaming about. He doesn’t act as much like a dreamer as far as I can see. He’s logical with life but also emotional as he tries to figure things out. I guess what I sort of meant is that he’s not over the top in love with me or showing any grand gestures of romance and love. He shows interest and hasn’t gone anywhere even when I had a moody spell. He’s consistent and I love that. But is there ever a time where you know this is what you want and you’re all in or is this how it always will be?Posted by pinkbird03
I’ve been dating one for two months. Slow moving, but it’s good. He’s not one with the rose colored glasses that I’ve read a lot of Pisces are like. What’s important to know about dating these men? Share your knowledge 🙂
every pisces is one of the "rose colored glasses" type, you might not ever see it...but it's there. the world we create with our vivid imagination is much better than anything the real world has to offer, which is why we are prone to escapism, daydreaming, the famous "pisces disappearing act", alcoholism and the like. rose colored glasses, the idiomatic phrase you are probably referring to, is just another way of describing denial, really. seeing only the positive while ignoring the negative. you don't think he's dreaming about Eva Mendes while y'all are holding hands and fantasizing about what it would be like if he had a ferrari instead of you? the important thing to remember is we don't know how we are going to feel one minute from the next any more than you do...and there is no sense in trying to figure it out either...if you do, let us know....click to expand
Posted by chris19Just to prepare me, how should I act if he does disappear?
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Just to prepare me, how should I act if he does disappear?click to expand
Just keep cool. He will try to contact you. Don't get suspicious of whatever he tells you. He will mostly use this time to recharge. However, if he takes too long, try to see if you can reach him. Just keep yourself busy during this period. You can get a hobby or something like that. Because some Pisces disappear for like months or years. Most likely it will take probably a week or two.
Until then you just have to wait for him till comes back. If you don't have the patience you can get hold of him but don't make it look like you are stalking him or forcing him to come back. He will definitely know the right time to return intuitively.
Posted by BathHouseCulturePosted by chris19Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Just to prepare me, how should I act if he does disappear?
Just keep cool. He will try to contact you. Don't get suspicious of whatever he tells you. He will mostly use this time to recharge. However, if he takes too long, try to see if you can reach him. Just keep yourself busy during this period. You can get a hobby or something like that. Because some Pisces disappear for like months or years. Most likely it will take probably a week or two.
Until then you just have to wait for him till comes back. If you don't have the patience you can get hold of him but don't make it look like you are stalking him or forcing him to come back. He will definitely know the right time to return intuitively.
Serious question:
The actual fuck?click to expand
Welcome to the Pisces World. Nothing is ever certain. It is like going through a rabbit hole. If you have the strength stay focused because it is going to be fun. We are a mystery and if you love mystery, you are going to love us.
Its said that if Pisces can help others and help himself at same time is capable of anything, support him on that and you see the difference.
Posted by chris19Ty. Good to know. Want to keep are relationship peaceful.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Just to prepare me, how should I act if he does disappear?
Just keep cool. He will try to contact you. Don't get suspicious of whatever he tells you. He will mostly use this time to recharge. However, if he takes too long, try to see if you can reach him. Just keep yourself busy during this period. You can get a hobby or something like that. Because some Pisces disappear for like months or years. Most likely it will take probably a week or two.
Until then you just have to wait for him till comes back. If you don't have the patience you can get hold of him but don't make it look like you are stalking him or forcing him to come back. He will definitely know the right time to return intuitively.click to expand
Posted by LostPiscesSounds like his career/business. He’s an electrician. Helps others while making money.
Its said that if Pisces can help others and help himself at same time is capable of anything, support him on that and you see the difference.
Not so literal. Helping with feelings and such.
Pisces can be a rock with so many sponge action.
Pisces can be a rock with so many sponge action.
Posted by LostPiscesHe is sweet. Just saw this helping with feelings side show because my dad is in the hospital
Not so literal. Helping with feelings and such.
Pisces can be a rock with so many sponge action.
Do you know his ascendant?
Posted by LostPiscesNo because I don’t know what time he was born.
Do you know his ascendant?
So Pisces told me he’s not feeling himself lately. He has been sick a lot and work is stressful, but he doesn’t know why he’s feeling this way lately. I’m trying to be supportive, giving him a few suggestions, but what is it gonna take for this guy to be okay and get out of this funk??? I asked him if it was about me and he said no absolutely not. But then what is it??
Posted by BathHouseCultureHe’s the most emotional man I’ve ever dated. Very sweet and caring towards me. He hasn’t hasnt pulled away and I appreciate him opening up to me about this. Has nothing to do with our relationship.Posted by pinkbird03
So Pisces told me he’s not feeling himself lately. He has been sick a lot and work is stressful, but he doesn’t know why he’s feeling this way lately. I’m trying to be supportive, giving him a few suggestions, but what is it gonna take for this guy to be okay and get out of this funk??? I asked him if it was about me and he said no absolutely not. But then what is it??
Could be anything.
Are you feeling it? Are you normally attracted to emotionally unavailable men?
Not shading you btw just curious why you care about these weird men.click to expand
Posted by AquarellePosted by pinkbird03
So Pisces told me he’s not feeling himself lately. He has been sick a lot and work is stressful....
There is your answer.
Maybe he can't handle the relationship, his work and his health right now.click to expand
So what can or should I do? If I give him space, he just texts me anyways so I don’t think it’s space he wants or needs.
Posted by chris192 months means he loves you?lol
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
are you sure?
Posted by Phanguswhat's his Venus and mars?Posted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.click to expand
Posted by pooface222damn....Posted by pinkbird03Posted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Loves me?? I haven’t seen him disappear yet, but we didn’t hang out for weeks. He was busy with work mostly. A few times I was busy. Does this count as disappearing? If not, why do you think he will disappear completely?
I was dating a pisces man for a long time..BUT my situation was very complicated.
I was married. With a child or 2.
He was married but Separated AND also in a relationship with someone he wasnt happy with, while seeing me in secret.
We were seeing each other in secret.
Anyway..he began disappearing. Until eventually he was gone!
Why?
Because despite me telling him that i dont love my husband and want to leave him (to be with the pisces guy), I never left.
He waited for me for 3yrs. Coming and going over and over to see if anything had changed. Eg to see if I've left my husband yet.
Everytime he came back i was stoll with my husband.
Why?
I was scared for my child who was only 2 or 3 back then.
I hurt him BAD!
And now I'm very very heartbroken indeed
The pain is eating me up.
And my husband is divorcing me. Not for adultery etc. Thats another story. Very controlling cruel nasty piece if s**t!
Cant believe its been 5yrs since Pisces came into my life.
And now I'm alone. A single mum. And in agony.
So I'm saying to you..dont hurt the pisces guy because if you do, the pain you feel from losing them is WORSE!
.They touch you so deeply that you never ever forget it.click to expand
this was juicer than a telenovela
Posted by Phangusoh that's a little different than me.Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.
what's his Venus and mars?
Pisces Venus and Aries Marsclick to expand
I have two friends w/ similar placements. both only have different mars signs
Posted by pinkbird03start a new hobbyPosted by chris19
Just be yourself and don't try to pretend. Two months is good, it means he loves you. However, expect the unexpected from him. Nevert the less he still likes you. He will he dissapear for a while. Don't disappoint him because it will bring the worst of him.
Just to prepare me, how should I act if he does disappear?click to expand
or go on vacation
read a couple of books
aka live your life
Oooooh
At beginning its a delicate dance. We don't want to be pressured or overwhelmed but we need some attention and love. Contradictory af
Just be yourself and if its meant to be, its meant to be.
At beginning its a delicate dance. We don't want to be pressured or overwhelmed but we need some attention and love. Contradictory af
Just be yourself and if its meant to be, its meant to be.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingAries venus cancer MarsPosted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.
what's his Venus and mars?click to expand
Posted by Phangusyeah are moods change a lot and we mirror the people we are around/ are seeing.Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.
what's his Venus and mars?
Pisces Venus and Aries Mars
oh that's a little different than me.
I have two friends w/ similar placements. both only have different mars signs
Are they like that? Easily discouraged but also easily encouraged?click to expand
it is a good plan to try and stay positive/keep things light.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, this totally sounds like him! We had one rough patch during mercury retrograde because I had insecurities, but he never disappeared and remained consistently here. Just didn’t see me for a few weeks. I fixed the problem and things have been great. No issues at all between us. Maybe the holidays make him feel pressured. My ex was like that.
Oooooh
At beginning its a delicate dance. We don't want to be pressured or overwhelmed but we need some attention and love. Contradictory af
Just be yourself and if its meant to be, its meant to be.
Posted by Phanguswait...you're a gemini?Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PhangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PhangusPosted by Undine
"He’s not one with the rose colored glasses"
If he can take them off when he wants to impress you with his realistic view of the world...it doesn't mean that he's not wearing them....hehe!
What is important to know?
That he doesn't see his feeling separated from yours. Love is an exchange, a flow between two people. Love is also coming and going constantly. If he wakes up and he doesn't feel it, he will have a conversation with you--in his head-- trying to establish who blocked the flow and why. You'll be the main suspect, I'm afraid, since he will not find any logical explanation of why he feels this way...love and logic don't mix well.
You can help to dissipate his clouds by sending him a random text now and then....a little thing goes a long way with Pisces.
My Pisces has permanent blue-colored glasses. The glass has always been half full. I'm the sunny, positive side of the equation.
Interesting. I see this trait too. He’s seems stressed by a lot of things. Mostly work and things not going the right way like his pipe was leaking in his house. I’ve realized he mirrors me too. So if I’m having a bad day, his day isn’t great and if im extra happy, he is too. So I just try to stay positive to keep both our moods up.
My Pisces has Libra moon and is still heavily impacted by everyday things like that. He can get very down, very fast. Some advice I can give is do not joke around and poke at them when they're like that. It doesn't cheer them up. It only makes them angry.
If he's been moping for a few days and you don't know why, make sure to fuck him and feed him something he loves. Does wonders.
what's his Venus and mars?
Pisces Venus and Aries Mars
oh that's a little different than me.
I have two friends w/ similar placements. both only have different mars signs
Are they like that? Easily discouraged but also easily encouraged?
yeah are moods change a lot and we mirror the people we are around/ are seeing.
it is a good plan to try and stay positive/keep things light.
He's not good at dealing with it when I'm angry. It really fucks with his sense of equilibrium. Learning to contain that better and to not tease him when he's mad have been some of the biggest adjustments for me to make. Gemini is naturally more of...well, a little asshole.click to expand
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