The connection between Pisces and Cancer?

This topic was created in the Cancer and Pisces Compatibility forum by Luny7 on Sunday, January 13, 2019 and has 50 replies.
Is it that magical as described in the astrology books? Just wondering.

How's your experience ?
My worst heart breaks have been with Pisces men. They’re in my 7 house so in a lot of ways they have what I lack. However, I’ve never actually been fully successful with a Pisces. Was with one for 2 years and I always felt like I was walking on eggshells. There were moments that were incredible but those were surrounded by moments of extreme insecurities from both parties, and lack of understanding. His other placements probably had something to do w it too lol. Even in high school Pisces men drove me crazyyy (in a good way) but nah they’re not for me.
Posted by pisceswoman123

Not with cancer sun.

I lightly dated a Pisces although emotionally we weren’t entirely available because we had just ended relationships we had an intense connection. Pisces made my cancer ego dance everyday..... it was an effortless attraction. Friends first, then flirty second. Sex wasn’t on the top of the list....even after it happening, just speaking to the Pisces felt new every time......
Posted by vivi4656

I like pisces a lot but I've never experienced a relationship with them! I've always attracted scorpio men! I did try and date this one pisces, dude but he was always trying to get into my pants! Not a fan! But I do like how they're emotional, sensitive, and quiet (the men). They're very calm and fun people! My mom is a pisces and she's a little fire cracker! She's more emotional than I am and it's kind of difficult to have debates with her. My best friend is also a pisces and she's very soft spoken! We've been friends for 12 years but on and off! She's my best friend though! She's super sensitive and to herself while I'm more outgoing and I like to meet new people! It was just us two for a very very very long time! She is now dating a cancer and has been with him for two years! She loves him so much! So, I think this is definitely a successful union as far as I'm aware! : )! I like pisces but I really really like scorpios! I actually like how they take control! I dated a cancer man before but cancer men take forever to warm up to a relationship and they're a tad bit too emotional for me! But I do really really really love their family oriented view on life! They're definitely the stay at home dads of the zodiac (which I love ; ))! I just am really such a scorp girl! I think it's because I'm used to them and they're just very masculine to me. But, all water signs are great when they know what they really want! I think they all run into the problem of putting their emotions first and it can be very wish-washy!
Yes, Scorps are like magnets for me as well. Never had Pisces close one, just family members, but

I can feel Scorpio energy when I enter the room, probably my Scorpio Ascendant. ))

never really felt a connection
I've dated a cancer woman for almost 3 years.

We got along, but there's sometimes insecurity from both sides.

Because we are both water signs, there's a lot of similarities and easy understanding.

At the end, we broke up due to external factors and I felt that I did not grow as a person while I was in the relationship. There was a degree of co-dependence.


There is a connection, but I feel a more magnetic connection with my opposite: Virgo woman.


The cancer men in my life we're either two sided cheat or a shy/incredibly slow/moody one. I prefer the second type, though l remained only friends with them ( l could not manage that indecisiveness and those games).


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Not with cancer sun.

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Lol
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Not with cancer sun.

Lol
why are you even on this thread?
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Because you missed me obviously 🙄


I knew I could find you puttering around the boards on patrol! 😉😝


And my Cancer moon agrees with her statement 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Not with cancer sun.

Lol
why are you even on this thread?
Because you missed me obviously 🙄


I knew I could find you puttering around the boards on patrol! 😉😝


And my Cancer moon agrees with her statement 🤷‍♀️
Shoo
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Lol.
Honestly I haven't met lot of cancers, only few here and there and I've never been attracted to them.
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Not with cancer sun.

Lol
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Why are you laughing now? 😜
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Not with cancer sun.

Lol


Why are you laughing now? 😜
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Cause I agree. I haven't met a Cancer sun man that I have been attracted to yet.
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Not with cancer sun.

Lol


Why are you laughing now? 😜
Cause I agree. I haven't met a Cancer sun man that I have been attracted to yet.
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I see 😄


I am actually never attracted to water suns 🧐
I thought my dude was cancer when we started dating cause june 21st bday. Read all about the epic water sign connection. Then tragically come to find out he just missed the crabby mark by a few hours. So now I'm stuck with a gemini 😭😭😂😂
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Not with cancer sun.

Lol


Why are you laughing now? 😜
Cause I agree. I haven't met a Cancer sun man that I have been attracted to yet.
Believe me


They're the lucky ones
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lol You know you love me. Be quiet crabby pants!
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Posted by LadyNeptune

I thought my dude was cancer when we started dating cause june 21st bday. Read all about the epic water sign connection. Then tragically come to find out he just missed the crabby mark by a few hours. So now I'm stuck with a gemini 😭😭😂😂
I think your energy works better with a Gemini


Especially with your Aries moon
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Yeah my aries moon loves his goofy antics.
I'd smash.. but idk if they can handle a crab for long tho
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Posted by LadyNeptune

I thought my dude was cancer when we started dating cause june 21st bday. Read all about the epic water sign connection. Then tragically come to find out he just missed the crabby mark by a few hours. So now I'm stuck with a gemini 😭😭😂😂
I swear this was me with my Gemini girl in high school. Same bday 21st June. I was happy 'Oh I got a Cancer chick.' and then BOOM the cloud burst xD
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You win some you lose some.



I'm jk-ing. Sun sign astrology is bs.
cancer dudes young and old are drawn to me.


but i always just want a friendship.


no sexual spark


of course i'm on the asexual spectrum though
My dad is a Pisces with Leo moon, his partner of close to 30 years is a Cancer with Libra moon.


They're both very strong willed people -- thick skin required to partner with either of them successfully -- and they do well together.
Was in a relationship with a cancer. It was great until it suddenly ended and I was pretty head over in heels and became quite numb after the break up. It was a great relationship looking back, one that I learned a lot from.


I don’t think I do well with fellow water signs. The relationship becomes too unbalanced imo. Earth signs suit me better.
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I'd smash.. but idk if they can handle a crab for long tho

Handle ? Yes tolerate? NO
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If you're not willing to tolerate us then you can't handle us. 😌


But what I really ment was that our temperament are similar and even though the connection is there.. the constant mood swings between both of them will have the fish swimming away before the crab.



PS. I've never dated a pisces so ignore me 😅 it's all speculation
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I'd smash.. but idk if they can handle a crab for long tho

Handle ? Yes tolerate? NO


If you're not willing to tolerate us then you can't handle us. 😌


But what I really ment was that our temperament are similar and even though the connection is there.. the constant mood swings between both of them will have the fish swimming away before the crab.



PS. I've never dated a pisces so ignore me 😅 it's all speculation

I never dealt with a crab woman before but y'all mood swings would lead y'all to remaining single. Crabs love to smother and we don't like to be smothered. We like to move around which is why I said we like 🔥 woman.
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Lol i get it.. I like fire too. I can't do emotional men.
Cancer are so old fashioned. Some times I mistake them for Virgo but with Cancer it goes beyond. With Virgo there is a IDGAF attitude. They both love work though for Cancer its mostly chores. I have much respect for them due to the fact they simply treat Pisces with some kind of special care. It is more like a mother's love to a Pisces.


That's just it but in terms of having a deep connection, I would say Scorpio as a water sign are likely to have it. Even Virgo has a high chance of developing a connection with Pisces than Cancer. Aries and Leo also come close to having a connection. With Cancer I believe there is nothing much. Maybe by including some others aspects of the chart otherwise there is nothing much for me. I don't know about other Pisces. I am Pisces-Aries so I might have some mars influence hence disregarding a connection with Cancer.


I would put them in the same category as as as Aqua, Sag and Libra except for Gemini. Gemini also have some kind of magic against us Pisces. Never the less I think Cancer are great people and can make a perfect partner whether wife or husband. They usually know how to carter for the fish.


Like Bill Cosby and Camille Olivia Cosby.
if by "magical" you mean completely delusional, then by all means, yes.
My experiences with Cancer women have varied quite extensively over the years.


I am undecided if I want to start a relationship with anyone at any point in the near future, however.


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Was in a relationship with a cancer. It was great until it suddenly ended and I was pretty head over in heels and became quite numb after the break up. It was a great relationship looking back, one that I learned a lot from.


I don’t think I do well with fellow water signs. The relationship becomes too unbalanced imo. Earth signs suit me better.
Eh, you clearly need more experience with earth signs.


Taurus women tend to irritate me because they are very one-dimensional people and they don't discriminate between right and wrong when it comes to the types of people they socialize with. Virgos tend to be super shady, and I really do not trust them at all. They are difficult to expose, but the lying/cheating they are part of is really terrible to witness.


In terms of Capricorns, they are truly the prostitutes of the zodiac. No BS, I recently matched with one on Tinder, and after talking for a bit, the bitch inferred that she was looking for a man to pay her college bills. She was literally willing to have sex with men if it meant she got tuition money in exchange for it. Really disgusting people.


Anyway, there isn't much to get excited about with these folks.


Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.
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Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.
Pisces isn't water! They're more like air matched with insufferable manipulative water tactics


Their soul is cold


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Eh, disagree.


We are very warm with the right people.


We aren't cold with the people we love, that is certain.
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Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.


The only water sign I have ever get along with long term is other pisces, and I would never date another pisces because I need someone different to complement my personality. I haven't had a chance to read the previous post, but my experience with earth signs have been mixed. I agree with your assessment about fire and air. I'm prepared to die alone.
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I have discovered that wonderful people are rare, so it takes a lot of patience and perseverance before actually getting to meet one.


There are so many miserable and self-hating wackos out there, that it's difficult to keep a positive attitude.


I wouldn't date Fire or Air for obvious reasons, and Earth is not much better.


Since I am on a break from relationships, I prefer to keep a positive attitude until I meet someone worth my time and attention.


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Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.
Pisces isn't water! They're more like air matched with insufferable manipulative water tactics


Their soul is cold


Steve jobs

Eh, disagree.


We are very warm with the right people.


We aren't cold with the people we love, that is certain.
Gosh i hope i don't have to deal with y'all again in the workplace I'd that's the case


I cant stand that sheet
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Not all Pisceans are great, and not all Cancers are great either.


One has to be patient and understand that decent people are actually a rare species.


It takes a lot of patience.
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Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.


The only water sign I have ever get along with long term is other pisces, and I would never date another pisces because I need someone different to complement my personality. I haven't had a chance to read the previous post, but my experience with earth signs have been mixed. I agree with your assessment about fire and air. I'm prepared to die alone.
I have discovered that wonderful people are rare, so it takes a lot of patience and perseverance before actually getting to meet one.


There are so many miserable and self-hating wackos out there, that it's difficult to keep a positive attitude.


I wouldn't date Fire or Air for obvious reasons, and Earth is not much better.


Since I am on a break from relationships, I prefer to keep a positive attitude until I meet someone worth my time and attention.


Pisces work extremely well with Capricorn, aqua, sags, Virgos, and Scorpio


You shouldn't limit yourself
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I despise Crapicorns. They are truly the most selfish and shallow sign of the Zodiac.


I respect and admire Aquas for their optimism and positive attitudes, but their hair-trigger anger is a force to be reckoned with.


Sags are very flighty and unpredictable, like a butterfly in flight. Cannot stand Virgos, as there is just something about them that says they are lying or cheating at things.
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Posted by PurplePassion38

Gawd will this thread die. Water signs hate each other. The water sign connection is a lie. I cringe every time this pops up.
Who would you suggest dating then?


Earth signs are a no-go for the aforementioned reasons.


Fire does not mix well with Water, so they are a no-go.


Air is all over the damn place, so no-go.


That leaves Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio as potential matches.
Pisces isn't water! They're more like air matched with insufferable manipulative water tactics


Their soul is cold


Steve jobs

Eh, disagree.


We are very warm with the right people.


We aren't cold with the people we love, that is certain.
Gosh i hope i don't have to deal with y'all again in the workplace I'd that's the case


I cant stand that sheet
Not all Pisceans are great, and not all Cancers are great either.


One has to be patient and understand that decent people are actually a rare species.


It takes a lot of patience.
Cancer women need protectors


Not fuccbois
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Piscean men need real women.


Not arrogant cunts.
In the words of my Aquarius best friend, “Somebody’s gotta do it.” Cancer is taking a gamble.


Cancer must choose Pisces though. Pisces do not get to choose.
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Posted by iamlanaxxx

Was in a relationship with a cancer. It was great until it suddenly ended and I was pretty head over in heels and became quite numb after the break up. It was a great relationship looking back, one that I learned a lot from.


I don’t think I do well with fellow water signs. The relationship becomes too unbalanced imo. Earth signs suit me better.
Eh, you clearly need more experience with earth signs.


Taurus women tend to irritate me because they are very one-dimensional people and they don't discriminate between right and wrong when it comes to the types of people they socialize with. Virgos tend to be super shady, and I really do not trust them at all. They are difficult to expose, but the lying/cheating they are part of is really terrible to witness.


In terms of Capricorns, they are truly the prostitutes of the zodiac. No BS, I recently matched with one on Tinder, and after talking for a bit, the bitch inferred that she was looking for a man to pay her college bills. She was literally willing to have sex with men if it meant she got tuition money in exchange for it. Really disgusting people.


Anyway, there isn't much to get excited about with these folks.



Male earth signs are the same way as you describe females.


With Taurus males and females I don't know if it's because they are one dimensional or what, but I agree they aren't particularly discerning and that's frustrating as hell for a Pisces, because we are very particular of the company that we keep. I seems like Taureans don't care so much about character, they care about how people treat them. The person can be a sociopath or a killer, but as long as they treat the Taurus good they have no qualms with their glaring character deficits. I wasted a lot of energy trying to warn Taureans in my life about bad people, I don't bother any more, unless their choices in company effect me directly. They are great friends though, very loyal to the people they care about even when the person is undeserving. But they aren't right relationship wise for Pisces.


For a hypercritical sign, Virgo male and females are surprisingly undiscerning with people as well. Maybe they keep their friendships surface and only care for their friends to be amusing.Virgos don't tend share my values on most things, and we end up neither being friendship or relationship compatible. We tend to stay in the close acquaintance zone.


Caps are definitely whorish lol. They are sex driven like scorps, which is why I feel like these two are more compatible with each other than pisces. Were caps capable of fidelity, I would say they would be one of my best matches. They make me feel safe, and have none of the passivity that frustrates me with Virgo and Taurus. They are discerning in the way Pisces are, and protective. But they can't keep their dick in their pants. Oh well.
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I understand your points about Taurus people, and you are right. One of my ex-Taurus-girlfriends was friends with total psychopaths. I kept witnessing all the mayhem and destruction these people were doing, and I told my ex that if she didn't get rid of those awful friends, then I am leaving. Well, she never got rid of them, and I walked out of the relationship. It really hurt her when I did that, but I had to protect myself from the Jerry Springer Show drama that her friends were notorious for. I just wanted NOTHING to do with that crap, and I was later vindicated when her psycho BFF Crapicorn friend got a second DUI after I walked out of the damn relationship. I kept telling my ex that her friend was a psycho who would probably end up killing someone before it's all over, and evidently that second DUI proved me right.


Yes, that Crapicorn literally was in the early staged of propositioning me for a sexual relationship in exchange for her tuition bill payments. I was like, could you possibly be any more vapid, soulless, and disgusting? Total prostitute. Total fucking prostitute, and it was disgusting to see.
To clarify, the Crapicorn referenced in the second paragraph was the one that I matched with on Tinder. Bitch wanted cash for sex. Uh, hell no.
Hmm, I know this thread is old, but i've never heard of a "mystical, wonderful, water connection" between picses and cancer. Honestly, cancer is always left out of the "deep emotional water bonding" stuff 😆
most intense love ive ever had. most ethereal connection, like as if in a movie or something, supppppper engaged in one another, intense stairing.best sex ive ever had.
Cancer woman and Pisces man connection is nothing short of a fairy tale. Cancer women love romance and Pisces men being the charmers, love to provide it.


The problem lies when the Pisces man becomes disenchanted with his Cancer woman when he sees what a cold hearted bitch she really is when he brings home a prostitute he rescued and she finds her sitting on their sofa.


"The kids don't need money for college until next year" he'll argue. "She needs an apartment and a cell phone right now" he'll say.


He will be completely baffled and hurt when his Cancer woman throws him out. "What an an evil bitch" he'll then say.


^ True story.


Mom Cancer

Dad Pisces
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Posted by black773

In the words of my Aquarius best friend, “Somebody’s gotta do it.” Cancer is taking a gamble.


Cancer must choose Pisces though. Pisces do not get to choose.
This makes absolutely no sense
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Posted by black773

In the words of my Aquarius best friend, “Somebody’s gotta do it.” Cancer is taking a gamble.


Cancer must choose Pisces though. Pisces do not get to choose.
This makes absolutely no sense
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Somebody’s gotta be with Pisces and that somebody is you. 😂 Now get out there and pick your Pisces.
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In the words of my Aquarius best friend, “Somebody’s gotta do it.” Cancer is taking a gamble.


Cancer must choose Pisces though. Pisces do not get to choose.
This makes absolutely no sense


Somebody’s gotta be with Pisces and that somebody is you. 😂 Now get out there and pick your Pisces.
So Pisces has no choice? Pisces are the who're of the zodiac cause they got options


I agree with cancer taking a gamble tho! That's a huge gamble
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Nope. They don’t. Tough luck. Don’t go feeling sorry for them.
FEW EXAMPLES:

Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love

Johnny Cash and June Carter.


There is a need for cancer to be the hero and pisces the victem. And when the placements are right it can probably be the most tear jerking connection of the zodiac. But also unhealthy and damaging... UNLESSSSS you have evolved versions of both signs. I.E. a cancer who keeps themselves in check and doesnt burden their loved one's and drown them in feelings, as well as a pisces who is more communicative and independent. I know a married couple who is pisces m and cancer f and they have a beautiful, healhty and balanced relationship with lots of space. I think younger pisces and cancers dont work. But the older couples always seem to work. Maybe its because the older we get the more we get to know our character defects, the more the best parts of us come out. The more we desire something very good for us. Im sick of the cancer stereotype though. NOTHING WRONG WITH EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS PEOPLE! It's what we do with them. I think if I had met the last two pisces in a later time, we would have worked out. Or maybe one day if there is spiritual and emotional growth on both sides. But I think if people experience us cancers at a young age we might just have shifted their view points and they wont ever see us the same.


Than again, Im a queer woman who dates women, and in that case women are more inclined to appreciate emotion and vulnerability than a man. Also, heterosexualnormative relationships as well... just different.
FEW EXAMPLES:

Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love

Johnny Cash and June Carter.


There is a need for cancer to be the hero and pisces the victem. And when the placements are right it can probably be the most tear jerking connection of the zodiac. But also unhealthy and damaging... UNLESSSSS you have evolved versions of both signs. I.E. a cancer who keeps themselves in check and doesnt burden their loved one's and drown them in feelings, as well as a pisces who is more communicative and independent. I know a married couple who is pisces m and cancer f and they have a beautiful, healhty and balanced relationship with lots of space. I think younger pisces and cancers dont work. But the older couples always seem to work. Maybe its because the older we get the more we get to know our character defects, the more the best parts of us come out. The more we desire something very good for us. Im sick of the cancer stereotype though. NOTHING WRONG WITH EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS PEOPLE! It's what we do with them. I think if I had met the last two pisces in a later time, we would have worked out. Or maybe one day if there is spiritual and emotional growth on both sides. But I think if people experience us cancers at a young age we might just have shifted their view points and they wont ever see us the same.


Than again, Im a queer woman who dates women, and in that case women are more inclined to appreciate emotion and vulnerability than a man. Also, heterosexualnormative relationships as well... just different.
Posted by Luny7

Is it that magical as described in the astrology books? Just wondering.

How's your experience ?
my ex-wife is a Cancer...i call her "Diabla" (devil woman)...


hope this answers your question. cheers!
Oh man, I'm a Cancer woman and all my relationships have been with Pisces men. First one was a bad break-up because he was a coward with no backbone, and couldn't even think for himself! I cut him off. (Plus he owed me 400 $ , which his mother ended up paying back instead...)


My 2nd Pisces ex however, was the opposite. But it felt more like a sexual relationship than anything. We got into a fight and he broke it off. Now he's coming back trying to convince to me that we still love each other and wants me back.


Part of the issues with both men above involved them being "best friends" with their ex. So for future reference, I ain't dating any guys like that.


Now I am dating a 3rd Pisces who I do not have that issue with, and we've been doing very well together. We were friends since 2016 (before I dated my 1st ex) and have been together for a little over 2 months now.

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