Think I just got blown off 😂
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sweethearts on Thursday, July 16, 2020 and has 22 replies.
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
Then this morning sent a good morning text. He responded immediately and said he was starting early today and tomorrow and was really tired. All good, couple messaged back and forth and I said have a great day/night. He responds back, Thank you have a wonderful weekend yourself.
It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
Then this morning sent a good morning text. He responded immediately and said he was starting early today and tomorrow and was really tired. All good, couple messaged back and forth and I said have a great day/night. He responds back, Thank you have a wonderful weekend yourself. It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
He ain't the one.
Let me elaborate cause I'm in a mood right now lol.
You do majority of the texting...so it sounds like he isn't that invested and telling you to have a good weekend in the middle of the week isn't a good sign imo. I'd fall back and see if he comes to you.
Let me elaborate cause I'm in a mood right now lol.
You do majority of the texting...so it sounds like he isn't that invested and telling you to have a good weekend in the middle of the week isn't a good sign imo. I'd fall back and see if he comes to you.
Both exactly where my heads at, just needed confirmation. Gosh, they go from sending family pics 5 days ago to blowing you off with no (in my mind) no reason. Perhaps, he got cold feet and decided he didn’t want to meet after all...Back to the drawing board then.
Posted by thatlibralifeNo can’t do it, if anything he’ll have to make the next move.
I don’t like the way he said have a wonderful weekend yourself. Like he’s distancing himself with no real plans to contact you. I can be paranoid though...I’d ask when can y’all meet up...
lol, thought I could fish but definitely not in the astrology pool 😂😂😂 3 strikes with these fishes, think I’m out!
I said I don’t have the patience, feels like games to me.
I said I don’t have the patience, feels like games to me.
He's a Pisces...maybe he thinks it's Saturday 😂🙃
Does his work week end on thursday?
Posted by sweetheartsContrary to popular belief, we pisces like our space. Let us breath.
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
Posted by LadyNeptuneNo he’s working tomorrow as well (Friday)
Does his work week end on thursday?
I sent back “weekend?” No answer
Balls in his court, I won’t reach out again and tbh, I feel what was said then says alot. Butthurt and feel dismissed.
Posted by sweetheartsNo need to be sad!Posted by LadyNeptune
Does his work week end on thursday?
No he’s working tomorrow as well (Friday)
I sent back “weekend?” No answer
Balls in his court, I won’t reach out again and tbh, I feel what was said then says alot. Butthurt and feel dismissed.click to expand
You've only been chatting right? Haven't hung out in person yet I take. So no need to make it out to be anything more than it is at this stage.
But definitely cool your jets and let him step up to the plate. If he wants you he can make himself available.
Posted by TinnedglassTake all the time in the world, we libra like to know we are on your mind. What it comes down to is a little respect. I wouldn’t do that to someone I was exploring a “relationship” with and I don’t expect that in return. That person needs to understand that from the get go or we’d bump heads along the journey. Not a deal breaker but something that needs to be acknowledged.Posted by sweethearts
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
Contrary to popular belief, we pisces like our space. Let us breath.click to expand
sis he's tired
Posted by besarlalluviaI get that, just don’t want it to be the excuses I’m giving myself because I’m overthinking it.
sis he's tired
It’s his weekend without the kids until Sunday night and I was hoping that he would extend the invitation to meet. If not this weekend then it won’t be for another fortnight at least.
Posted by sweetheartsContrary to popular belief, we pisces are very chill. Loosen the grip a bit. No offense intended.Posted by TinnedglassPosted by sweethearts
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
Contrary to popular belief, we pisces like our space. Let us breath.
Take all the time in the world, we libra like to know we are on your mind. What it comes down to is a little respect. I wouldn’t do that to someone I was exploring a “relationship” with and I don’t expect that in return. That person needs to understand that from the get go or we’d bump heads along the journey. Not a deal breaker but something that needs to be acknowledged.click to expand
If i answer you, is because i consider you. Mind that.
Posted by zandomenicaI can do, once a week💐.Posted by TinnedglassPosted by sweethearts
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.
We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far
It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.
Opinions please, thanks
Contrary to popular belief, we pisces like our space. Let us breath.
how long would it take that ?click to expand
Twice is pushing it. 🤔
Three im off, i have a life and many things to accomplish. 🤝
But im mostly capricorn, with just my sun in pisces so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
Can you clarify what you mean by 3 times... a week? Or 3 time you need space so that means you’re out?
If he wanted to spend time with you, he’d ask or plan something. He could have other plans or simply isn’t interested in you. I don’t know. Do you have anymore background info?
Even I’d say yes to that!
After chatting to another Pisces from here I messaged him last night asking how he was. He replies immediately, I like that but then says he’s been busy and asks how I am. Next text saying, he’s just heading off to bed as he’s exhausted 😩<<< that’s my face.
Thought about it, then said. “I’ve been busy too but not as busy as you. If you prefer I didn’t message, let me know. Have a good night.”
He sends back “more than happy for you to message me” “my kids week on, so it’s always a bit crazy”
Told him I understood and to message when he has time. And said our goodnights. He ended with “X”
I know I’m going to need strength for this one! My Leo Moon and Mars are going to flip me out but there’s a bit of calm at least knowing at least today.. lol
My gut is telling me, this guy could be “my one” The difference I see, is that 5 days in my world was painful, 2 weeks is like death but for you guys its like a moment??
but then says he’s been busy and asks how I am. Next text saying, he’s just heading off to bed as he’s exhausted 😩<<< that’s my face. Thought about it, then said. “I’ve been busy too but not as busy as you. If you prefer I didn’t message, let me know. Have a good night.”
He sends back “more than happy for you to message me” “my kids week on, so it’s always a bit crazy”
Told him I understood and to message when he has time. And said our goodnights. He ended with “X”
I know I’m going to need strength for this one! My Leo Moon and Mars are going to flip me out but there’s a bit of calm at least knowing at least today.. lol
My gut is telling me, this guy could be “my one” The difference I see, is that 5 days in my world was painful, 2 weeks is like death but for you guys its like a moment??
I gave him an easy out last night, he didn’t want it so I don’t think he’s swimming away... not yet!
Pisces guys seem to always want you in times you don't want them, and don't want you when you want them.
With all pisces it's best to view them as a companion, appreciating them without having any expectations. That's how they feel the most comfortable with you and are less likely to swim away.
If they sense that you are unfulfilled or any negative energy, they tend to leave.
They don't want you to 'need' them. -> Unless you have to do with an even more unfulfilled guy.
So makes sense that you received a nice reply when you asked him about his well-being, seemingly without any expectations of him.
It can be unsatisfying sometimes (for me at least), but that's the way they work. You have to decide for yourself if you want to be on the side of such a stubborn-free-spirit, who can often times be too busy with his values to care for your feelings.
Good luck
With all pisces it's best to view them as a companion, appreciating them without having any expectations. That's how they feel the most comfortable with you and are less likely to swim away.
If they sense that you are unfulfilled or any negative energy, they tend to leave.
They don't want you to 'need' them. -> Unless you have to do with an even more unfulfilled guy.
So makes sense that you received a nice reply when you asked him about his well-being, seemingly without any expectations of him.
It can be unsatisfying sometimes (for me at least), but that's the way they work. You have to decide for yourself if you want to be on the side of such a stubborn-free-spirit, who can often times be too busy with his values to care for your feelings.
Good luck
Posted by hbbrnaquaFunnily enough, when I got to the point of oh well... next... he came swimming back and has been blowing up my phone all weekend. I’m more relaxed now and intend staying that way.
Pisces guys seem to always want you in times you don't want them, and don't want you when you want them.
With all pisces it's best to view them as a companion, appreciating them without having any expectations. That's how they feel the most comfortable with you and are less likely to swim away.
If they sense that you are unfulfilled or any negative energy, they tend to leave.
They don't want you to 'need' them. -> Unless you have to do with an even more unfulfilled guy.
So makes sense that you received a nice reply when you asked him about his well-being, seemingly without any expectations of him.
It can be unsatisfying sometimes (for me at least), but that's the way they work. You have to decide for yourself if you want to be on the side of such a stubborn-free-spirit, who can often times be too busy with his values to care for your feelings.
Good luck
As people here said, he was busy and needs to get his ducks in a row before he does anything. He still hasn’t asked to meet up yet, we live 30 minutes apart and I don’t expect he’ll ask that for another 3 weeks at least. I’m happy to keep talking in the meantime
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