Think Im developing a drinking problem
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by piscespartygirl on Wednesday, August 13, 2008 and has 24 replies.
Its not nice
Hmmm...if you "think" you are developing a drinking problem then most likely you may be - trust yourself. If this is not the path you wish to take PPG - then scoot off of it and onto another path that you do like and are happy with.
After all is said and done, this is YOUR life and you are fully responsible in creating it by the choices you make - Wishing you the best.
After all is said and done, this is YOUR life and you are fully responsible in creating it by the choices you make - Wishing you the best.
People don't recognize problems beforehand ... for if we did, then it wouldn't be a problem.
Foresight = nearly blind
Hindsight = 20/20
It's doubtful that you are developing a drinking problem .... because if you were, you wouldn't recognize it.
If drunks could recognize it .. then they wouldn't be drunks.
Hindsight = 20/20
It's doubtful that you are developing a drinking problem .... because if you were, you wouldn't recognize it.
If drunks could recognize it .. then they wouldn't be drunks.
dunno all my friends have no jobs and we drink 24 from friday afternoon til usually at least monday morning and i mean constant...and then u wud think i wud b sick of lukin at drink but want one now again....
i dont usually have an addictive personallity but thats jus weird...drinking spirtis for 4 days solid tehn wanting more after one day off...cant b healthy right?
i dont usually have an addictive personallity but thats jus weird...drinking spirtis for 4 days solid tehn wanting more after one day off...cant b healthy right?
Oh shit that proves it ha ha
Looking for attention, are you?
If you know you err, and you know it's fucking you up .. then what exactly is the point of creating a conversation in which the tone is set to suggest that you are helplessly a victim to this circumstance?
This would be like me coming in here and saying ...... "Oh, I'm killing my lungs. I smoke 3 packs a day. What am I to do?"
Do you think others will view this as a plea for guidance? Or do you think it will be viewed as seeking pity?
Think I'm developing a drinking problem .. Its not nice
There is no plea in this for help ... there is, on the other hand, an affirmation of pitying thyself because the self knows it is not nice.
Sorry, I just have no tolerance for ignorance, in any form. Perhaps, my Leo rising, or my Aries venus .. who knows.
This thread is a pity stroke, and nothing more.
If you know you err, and you know it's fucking you up .. then what exactly is the point of creating a conversation in which the tone is set to suggest that you are helplessly a victim to this circumstance?
This would be like me coming in here and saying ...... "Oh, I'm killing my lungs. I smoke 3 packs a day. What am I to do?"
Do you think others will view this as a plea for guidance? Or do you think it will be viewed as seeking pity?
Think I'm developing a drinking problem .. Its not nice
There is no plea in this for help ... there is, on the other hand, an affirmation of pitying thyself because the self knows it is not nice.
Sorry, I just have no tolerance for ignorance, in any form. Perhaps, my Leo rising, or my Aries venus .. who knows.
This thread is a pity stroke, and nothing more.
Boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Analysing this is pointless
I dont want pity jus saying i think im am developing a drinking problem.
Simple as that feel however u like about it but i wudnt waste time thinking about it...cos ill be drunk somewhere.
Analysing this is pointless
I dont want pity jus saying i think im am developing a drinking problem.
Simple as that feel however u like about it but i wudnt waste time thinking about it...cos ill be drunk somewhere.
HA HA
now ligthen up why dont ya?!?! ur not my counciler dont try act it
now ligthen up why dont ya?!?! ur not my counciler dont try act it
A Pisces person, when still in shallow waters and has not yet developed the back-fins necessary to handle depth, will indeed, require the safety net of other's fortitude to keep them afloat. And because this guppy has not learned, yet, that they exist inside a bubble, they will be delusioned into believing that thier life-currents are controlled out of thier waters.
Once a Pisces grows thier back-fins however, they then do not fear how deep their waters run, and no longer require to be fooled into believing that they will drown if reality is faced.
Once a Pisces grows thier back-fins however, they then do not fear how deep their waters run, and no longer require to be fooled into believing that they will drown if reality is faced.
im not calling out for anything i am simplely stating i think the amount of drinking im doing could get me in trouble and i dont know if i can change my ways.
dont mind that p angel one anyways she is an ould grumpy wench
dont mind that p angel one anyways she is an ould grumpy wench
"Simple as that feel however u like about it but i wudnt waste time thinking about it...cos ill be drunk somewhere."
Does that really sound like a plea for help to you?
When approached within a reality of how another person interprets the words said, and IF this person was actually seeking resolution to an issue in which has caused victimization being inflicted .... would this person seeking help answer by making the implication of ..
Fuck you, I don't care because I'll just get drunk instead.
When a person is in denial .. they don't know the issue is present because denial doesn't come in the form of denying to others that it exists .. it comes in the form of denying to the SELF that it exists.
There's no denying to the self that it exists .. which means it doesn't exist. What there is, however, is a topic created in which the author KNEW would cause reactions .. so she could feed.
Does that really sound like a plea for help to you?
When approached within a reality of how another person interprets the words said, and IF this person was actually seeking resolution to an issue in which has caused victimization being inflicted .... would this person seeking help answer by making the implication of ..
Fuck you, I don't care because I'll just get drunk instead.
When a person is in denial .. they don't know the issue is present because denial doesn't come in the form of denying to others that it exists .. it comes in the form of denying to the SELF that it exists.
There's no denying to the self that it exists .. which means it doesn't exist. What there is, however, is a topic created in which the author KNEW would cause reactions .. so she could feed.
and i dont understand any of her advice which sucks cos it mite actually b helpful since i cant talk to my own mother..also a grumpy wench
emmm....yep if that whats makes ya feel right then fine dats exactly what happened...u are such a bitter old woman its actually scary to think free spirted pisces could b so judgemental and plain bitter oh well wont happen me cos no chips on my shoulder and last time i checked nothing shoved up my ass either.
u shud calm downs tress at your age could cause serious injure.
peace out
u shud calm downs tress at your age could cause serious injure.
peace out
"dont mind that p angel one anyways she is an ould grumpy wench"
Such as this ^^^ for example ... this is in place because a reaction from me is expected .. a goading. We see this happen often with people in here, such as Moro, Flychi, pisces8r, Imit, AM .... these people don't really have issues in which they need clarification .. what they have is a need for attention.
Anytime, a person responds with actual regard to the specific topic, and the author retorts on a personal level with such implications, these people aren't in denial ... because this is a calculated response to create the very opposition in which they defy.
Such as this ^^^ for example ... this is in place because a reaction from me is expected .. a goading. We see this happen often with people in here, such as Moro, Flychi, pisces8r, Imit, AM .... these people don't really have issues in which they need clarification .. what they have is a need for attention.
Anytime, a person responds with actual regard to the specific topic, and the author retorts on a personal level with such implications, these people aren't in denial ... because this is a calculated response to create the very opposition in which they defy.
A wise man speaks about only what he knows,but an unwise man will speak about everything he knows nothing about...
PPG, in a sense, it does sound like you might be headed for rough water. I can say for my self that I have enjoyed more then my share of the drink. And yes I also recognized this could be in issue if I didn't get a grip on it. I can also tell you that most pisces since we like the imagination to run wild. Will find its quite soothing to have the feeling of being high, from something.
PPG, in a sense, it does sound like you might be headed for rough water. I can say for my self that I have enjoyed more then my share of the drink. And yes I also recognized this could be in issue if I didn't get a grip on it. I can also tell you that most pisces since we like the imagination to run wild. Will find its quite soothing to have the feeling of being high, from something.
PPG, perhaps you can channel all that energy somewhere else? I also think your jobless friends could be influencing you. As a fish, you might be absorbing some of their negativity. Also as a fish, you can be easily influenced by those around you.
Try and spend less & less time with them and more time signing up for a course or something. It seems your drinking problem hits the peak on weekends.
So sign up for some weekend course somewhere. You could also volunteer at an animal shelter. Being with those adorable puppies & kittens will make you less likely to take to the bottle.
hmmm eya i agree with that statement that pisces liek tog et out of their head....cos my pisces male friend has a serious drug problem...well not herion or anythign but you know...and in fact allt eh pisces i no are abit like that...in fact they make up quiet a lot of the group....also scorps and aquas...
I know I could try signing up for stuff but this drinking in teh only social thing that we all do and i wud feel isolated...at first i did it as a socialm thing but now i find mysef being the one asking my friends willw e get a few drinks even if they had not intended...its not serious yet i was just wondering does anybody have an experience of a heavy drinker turning into something more?!?!
I know I could try signing up for stuff but this drinking in teh only social thing that we all do and i wud feel isolated...at first i did it as a socialm thing but now i find mysef being the one asking my friends willw e get a few drinks even if they had not intended...its not serious yet i was just wondering does anybody have an experience of a heavy drinker turning into something more?!?!
and honestly just to clear it up im not actually looking fro any kind of attention..im just curious about this as I cant see it going in a good direction for me
"dunno all my friends have no jobs and we drink 24 from friday afternoon til usually at least monday morning and i mean constant...and then u wud think i wud b sick of lukin at drink but want one now again....i dont usually have an addictive personallity but thats jus weird...drinking spirtis for 4 days solid tehn wanting more after one day off...cant b healthy right?"
I dunno PPG depends on how old you are, I know when I was younger my friends and I would party from Friday through till Monday and get completely sozzled. That's just what we did though, we had fun and enjoyed ourselves. That didn't mean any of us had a drink problem though, we were just young and full of it.
Isn't having a drink problem when you can't actually function without alcohol? As in you drink because you feel you need to, not because you want to. I can still go on a 2 day bender if I want, like a month ago when I was at a music festival, I was pissed all weekend lol. I don't drink every day though, nor do I feel that I "need" it, if I want a drink I'll have one, and if not then I don't.
Sounds to me like you're drinking out of boredom, not because you have a problem.
I dunno PPG depends on how old you are, I know when I was younger my friends and I would party from Friday through till Monday and get completely sozzled. That's just what we did though, we had fun and enjoyed ourselves. That didn't mean any of us had a drink problem though, we were just young and full of it.
Isn't having a drink problem when you can't actually function without alcohol? As in you drink because you feel you need to, not because you want to. I can still go on a 2 day bender if I want, like a month ago when I was at a music festival, I was pissed all weekend lol. I don't drink every day though, nor do I feel that I "need" it, if I want a drink I'll have one, and if not then I don't.
Sounds to me like you're drinking out of boredom, not because you have a problem.
Damn ppg...
Face it you're gonna have to find some new sober-er friends. We all outgrow people. Its a part of life. Easier said than done I know. You're gonna have 2 ease your hand out of the lion's mouth so to speak.
Gradually slow down your drinking. If u usually have 4 shots... have 2 or 3. If you usually party from fri to mon ....try from fri to sun...then to sat...then just fri.
Find new friends and other things to do on the days you're not with the drunks (no offense). I used to drink a lot when I was in college. I thought I was developing a habit as well. Are u drinking alone or is it just with the friends?
Face it you're gonna have to find some new sober-er friends. We all outgrow people. Its a part of life. Easier said than done I know. You're gonna have 2 ease your hand out of the lion's mouth so to speak.
Gradually slow down your drinking. If u usually have 4 shots... have 2 or 3. If you usually party from fri to mon ....try from fri to sun...then to sat...then just fri.
Find new friends and other things to do on the days you're not with the drunks (no offense). I used to drink a lot when I was in college. I thought I was developing a habit as well. Are u drinking alone or is it just with the friends?
Lol@ pangel.
It amazes me how u can be so analytical with someone else yet remain in deep denial and confusion about ur own issues.
U named a few of us....but I'm sure everyone on this board sees how lost you are. You've somehow convinced urself that you are deep and you see things in a way that no one else does unless they are pisces & highly evolved (lol). & that those who don't agree with you are not ready to see the truth about themselves.
In reality, you are a person with deep seeded self esteem issues. You also like getting a rise out of people. The people u named do not go along with your shenanigans. Correct me if I'm wrong but u did state that dxp members are "pawns in your game". U are the main attention seeker.
Somehow somewhere someone abused you and told u it was ur fault. I'm guessing it was your hubby because the only time u show compassion around here is when someone says that a virgo man is being mean to them.
It amazes me how u can be so analytical with someone else yet remain in deep denial and confusion about ur own issues.
U named a few of us....but I'm sure everyone on this board sees how lost you are. You've somehow convinced urself that you are deep and you see things in a way that no one else does unless they are pisces & highly evolved (lol). & that those who don't agree with you are not ready to see the truth about themselves.
In reality, you are a person with deep seeded self esteem issues. You also like getting a rise out of people. The people u named do not go along with your shenanigans. Correct me if I'm wrong but u did state that dxp members are "pawns in your game". U are the main attention seeker.
Somehow somewhere someone abused you and told u it was ur fault. I'm guessing it was your hubby because the only time u show compassion around here is when someone says that a virgo man is being mean to them.
If you analyze everyone like this in your offline life I can understand why u come across as lonely. U do act as if u are grumpy and old. U really should lighten up.
You should change your name to v-angel because you act more like a Virgo than a pisces. Nitpicky, overly concerned, bitter, serious, condescending, grumpy, close minded & insensitive. Just a basic prickly, by the books, anal virgo know it all.
(No disrespect intended to the decent virgos out there)
You should change your name to v-angel because you act more like a Virgo than a pisces. Nitpicky, overly concerned, bitter, serious, condescending, grumpy, close minded & insensitive. Just a basic prickly, by the books, anal virgo know it all.
(No disrespect intended to the decent virgos out there)
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i will buy
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