This Pisces guy is strange to me..

Maybe because I've forced myself to get over him.. I saw him tonight just for that purpose.. We are both too busy for anything and neither of us think we can find the time or energy to commit to a relationship with each other.. Yet he's on the sack and is bugging me to connect my phone already so we can talk.. says that he ignores texts from other people but I make mines interesting so he replies.. I mean he's just doing things that make him seem interested in "going for it" but I'm not falling for it.. I had a bad experience with a previous Pisces.. poor guy didn't even tell me he loved me til I decided to stop talking to him WTF.. I get the feeling that this new fish is heading down that road and I have NEVER been wrong about my instinct.. Actually, I have gotten into lots of trouble for ignoring it.

I would just like some thoughts on it.. I know I haven't put much detail but I tend to ramble so I won't.. I can't talk to anyone about it because we're in a close (but big) circle of friends and it would be in both of our best interests to conceal this matter until we DID decide to become official (that word just sucks the energy out of me right now)..

So what do you guys think? Being Pisces, what does that sound like to you as in, what's going through your head when you do something like that? He's a great guy, don't get me wrong. He's everything I could ask for since I'm so used to dating douche bags.. but.. ehh.. you see where this is going lol.

On my part, I do like him but not enough to become compromising since I don't know what's going through that head of his. Like I said, ANY THOUGHTS?

DON'T IGNORE YOUR INTUITION. ever. never ignore it (okay, i think we get it now
when i like talking to someone, i get over-excited and puppyish. sometimes even i can't work out if i'm crushing on 'em or not...but there would be this pull. i would say that 'pull' needs time to be defined. another thing, where's his venus? it would give more clues to his m.o, mwah ha ha!!

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Posted by nimbue
pisces like what we can't have. we will be into someone and when they start returning the feeling, we back off. which is why your pisces before this one dropped the 'i love you' bomb..

This is not true for me...when someone reciprocates the same feeling... I get even more into them...I don't like having what I can't have as it is too much for my heart to take...it means I will be in pain because I can't have them...too much work...I would try for a short time to get them but my desire would fade if I see it is a lost cause...

I am cautious with my feelings so as you have said he only said he loves you when you stopped talking to him...well my Pisces guy stopped talking to me [silent treatment] for 4 days and in those four days I told him what I was feeling...it's because the thought of losing someone that is when I profess...not all of how I feel since this is still new...but basically saying he is my one and only man...he came off that silent treatment hehe...well it was also due to the fact I got stubborn and told him he couldn't see me for an extra week...haha

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i meant for some pisces, ofc...you're probably a bit more evolved than that 😉

but i do it all the time, trying to grow out of it...lol